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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Beetwaise(m): 5:09am On Mar 27, 2020
lowkeybahdguy:


I used to be the good guy. the kind to hold the door for ladies. my brother the same ladies you hold the door for will look down on you for it. Chivalry is dead.

Now I'm so careless in my attitude and dealings with females and they can't seem to get enough of me. I swear, even good girls sef like bad boys. Na the way nature wire female sense.

So ignore that girl that you think is the center of your universe and chase money pants down. A thousand girls will beg to be baby mamas for you.

Gbam! Absolutely right.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by chewwie(m): 5:25am On Mar 27, 2020
Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the
proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.
Bad guys give rough sex, girls love rough sex. Simple

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by omoyankee3(m): 6:14am On Mar 27, 2020
It's okay to be a nice guy....the most important thing is to never compromise on your identity and life purpose.

Btw I'm a nice guy, but I always finish first.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by t00dugged(f): 6:49am On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



She no know you from Adam. She been dey shoot her shot with style but you no code

I wasn't shooting any shot, he has actually sent me a pm before which is why I will not be responding to his new pm . Have a nice day.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by t00dugged(f): 6:54am On Mar 27, 2020
COdeGenesis:


What if t00dugged wasnt shooting her shot n she was just trying to push the conversation n enjoy the moment. I no even dey interested in anything called woman like this. That is why I cared less
this is not our first encounter, my instincts never lie,I have you in my mailbox. Which is why this conversation wont be going further than this. And don't expect a reply to your pm this time.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 7:00am On Mar 27, 2020
t00dugged:

I wasn't shooting any shot, he has actually sent me a pm before which is why I will not be responding to his new pm . Have a nice day.



He been cast for the former PM? Gist me na
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 7:04am On Mar 27, 2020
t00dugged:
this is not our first encounter, my instincts never lie,I have you in my mailbox. Which is why this conversation wont be going further than this. And don't expect a reply to your pm this time.


Gimme gist abeg. This should be interesting
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by t00dugged(f): 7:05am On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



He been cast for the former PM? Gist me na
Aproko undecided

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by t00dugged(f): 7:06am On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



Gimme gist abeg. This should be interesting
tatafo , ratio without battery undecided

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 7:10am On Mar 27, 2020
t00dugged:
tatafo , ratio without battery undecided


Lmao. With coro coro, gist na d way na cry
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by t00dugged(f): 7:22am On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



Lmao. With coro coro, gist na d way na cry
I have been on this frivolous thread for too long , please don't mention me again. Cos I won't be replying to anyone here .

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 7:36am On Mar 27, 2020
t00dugged:
I have been on this frivolous thread for too long , please don't mention me again. Cos I won't be replying to anyone here .
You are one very rude person. Get out of the thread and don't mention me again either

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by oazeez1991(m): 11:49am On Mar 27, 2020
alert01:
OMG. I've always been a doormat for girls with nothing to show for it. they friendzone me and eat my money anyhow. There was this neighbor of mine then. she was a student and she was very beautiful. She manipulated me , always caressing me with breast qnd the mumu me will start acting her biddings. I bought phone for her early last year. Renovated her room and she always eat from my foodstuffs. She barely suffer anything. what pained be is another guy was chopping her. feeding him with my food. Anytime I talk about it, she'll vex and the mumu me will still be begging her. she won't listen until I sent her money and she get the alert. The only perk I gained was touching her breast once. I can't cry

Na wetin Lil Kesh see wey mk am shout, 'NKAN NBE' be dis.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 11:51am On Mar 27, 2020
MrMacinterchi1:


Lol. this where the problem usually start. You all believe that u can change the rough /bad guys. The reality is that it always end in tears for many. the quest is nothing but a wild goose chase.

I'm not Giving uP on my ElOChukwU. BeCauSe I used to Be ROuGh, BUt CHRiST, MaSteR JeSUs never gave up On me.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by MrMacinterchi1(m): 12:28pm On Mar 27, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:


I'm not Giving uP on my ElOChukwU. BeCauSe I used to Be ROuGh, BUt CHRiST, MaSteR JeSUs never gave up On me.

lol... OK.
it's still the reason why most ladies suffer till death in their not so stable relationships .
Just don't get hurt in the process.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:00pm On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:

You are one very rude person. Get out of the thread and don't mention me again either
I saw you asking for gist from a total stranger on a forum filled with mad people.

So you didn't think it was rude to ask her to put her personal dealings with another person out there on a forum filled with demented people for your entertainment ? You well so? My friend before you call people rude ,go look in the mirror.


Let's not even talk about you insinuating she was throwing her self at the guy. You are an assh0le.

All this yeye boys on this forum acting all high and mighty with no manners ,nonsense and Corona virus angry

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 1:33pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
I saw you asking for gist from a total stranger on a forum filled with mad people.

So you didn't think it was rude to ask her to put her personal dealings with another person out there on a forum filled with demented people for your entertainment ? You well so? My friend before you call people rude ,go look in the mirror.


Let's not even talk about you insinuating she was throwing her self at the guy. You are an assh0le.

All this yeye boys on this forum acting all high and mighty with no manners ,nonsense and Corona virus angry


You are a big fool yourself. I clearly showed I was joking from my comments. Even when she called me aproko and tatafo, I still used smiling emoji to show I wasn't taking it serious. You didnt see me telling her it's compulsory for her to tell me what happened, but because you are a foolish, rude and insane nairalander with a stupid brain, you omitted all these. You clearly have a problem in life, but the truth is, I'm not one of them. Bleep off you slowpoke
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by COdeGenesis: 1:40pm On Mar 27, 2020
t00dugged:
this is not our first encounter, my instincts never lie,I have you in my mailbox. Which is why this conversation wont be going further than this. And don't expect a reply to your pm this time.

Even if we havent met you would still say same. But like I said I just flowed with the conversation n I really don't care about you replying my pms or not. Life goes on, there are about 2.4 million nairalanders, there are lots of people to meet out there. I care less

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:47pm On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



You are a big fool yourself. I clearly showed I was joking from my comments. Even when she called me aproko and tatafo, I still used smiling emoji to show I wasn't taking it serious. You didnt see me telling her it's compulsory for her to tell me what happened, but because you are a foolish, rude and insane nairalander with a stupid brain, you omitted all these. You clearly have a problem in life, but the truth is, I'm not one of them. Bleep off you slowpoke
see furstration ,ode ni yen ,na hungry go kill you before corona grin grin. Uselessness thing ,why not go and joke with your useless sisters like that by insinuating they are public toilets throwing themselves at men ,na other people body una for dey joke sad. Corona virus kill you there tongue
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:50pm On Mar 27, 2020
COdeGenesis:


Even if we havent met you would still say same. But like I said I just flowed with the conversation n I really don't care about you replying my pms or not. Life goes on, there are about 2.4 million nairalanders, there are lots of people to meet out there. I care less
e pain am , pm sender ,una eye nor dey take eye see female moniker grin grin
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 2:03pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
see furstration ,ode ni yen ,na hungry go kill you before corona grin grin. Uselessness thing ,why not go and joke with your useless sisters like that by insinuating they are public toilets throwing themselves at men ,na other people body una for dey joke sad. Corona virus kill you there tongue


You're a typical average foolish Nigerian lady. When did shooting shot as lady turn her to being a public toilet For your info, my only sis is married to a wonderful, sweet guy. Plot twist: she shot first. She's a real lady. You're just a ret*rded, evening newspaper that is so frustrated about life and is low key waiting for someone to throw her frustration on. Get a life babe. This life too short. This corona wey you dey use play, when e kill you and your family members now, you go go dey beef Jesus for heaven. OLOSHI!!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by COdeGenesis: 2:21pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
e pain am , pm sender ,una eye nor dey take eye see female moniker grin grin

Like I said I care less.I only sent her a dm cos I wanted to know if we knew each other somewhere. I still careless, there is nothing to b pained about. I might even have her on my whatsapp contact or fb and severed ties with her long ago.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:15pm On Mar 27, 2020
COdeGenesis:


Like I said I care less.I only sent her a dm cos I wanted to know if we knew each other somewhere. I still careless, there is nothing to b pained about. I might even have her on my whatsapp contact or fb and severed ties with her long ago.
lol ,still pained tongue pm sender.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:18pm On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



You're a typical average foolish Nigerian lady. When did shooting shot as lady turn her to being a public toilet For your info, my only sis is married to a wonderful, sweet guy. Plot twist: she shot first. She's a real lady. You're just a ret*rded, evening newspaper that is so frustrated about life and is low key waiting for someone to throw her frustration on. Get a life babe. This life too short. This corona wey you dey use play, when e kill you and your family members now, you go go dey beef Jesus for heaven. OLOSHI!!
lol , another psuedo intellectual boy thinking every woman on nairaland is an evening news paper, oh am I supposed to be crying? grin grin grin.

Corona not only kill your family members ,it will kill your extended family members and even re-kill your ancestors in the grave both on your father and on your mother's side grin grin grin.

Well I go dey heaven while you go dey hell grin grin grin after dying of corona virus while I die at 99 years old grin


Anyway glad you confirmed your sister to us for being cheap and desperate,only lawd knows how old she must have been to have been throwing herself at men like that just to bear Mrs grin grin
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by COdeGenesis: 4:37pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
lol ,still pained tongue pm sender.

Gosh, you think you are annoying? You just wasting your time if you think I am even moved by your baseless post
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 4:55pm On Mar 27, 2020
COdeGenesis:


Gosh, you think you are annoying? You just wasting your time if you think I am even moved by your baseless post
tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue, anyway good to know you are in good spirits ,after coming across your thread where you were thinking of commiting suicide because of 6k I felt scared for you,or you were being dramatic so people will dash you money grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by COdeGenesis: 5:07pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue, anyway good to know you are in good spirits ,after coming across your thread where you were thinking of commiting suicide because of 6k I felt scared for you,or you were being dramatic so people will dash you money grin grin grin

Even if i was being dramatic, it wasnt for stingy rats like you na? Besides why do you like twisting people's words around. As a self made millionaire, 6k is nothing. But it does not mean someone would just debit my account without justification cos I am rich. I know you jealous cos your said bf isnt half a man I am. Hence, the hate. But like I said, I care less white witch
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by beejay501: 5:09pm On Mar 27, 2020
Slimranky:
Fvvk love undecided

The problem be say my client wey suppose pay me this week don get corona virus

,OLUWA WETIN DEY CORONATE

cry
embarassed
Relax na no be death sentence.
She go collect her $1200 soon
Yuh goo follo ha chair am

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 5:13pm On Mar 27, 2020
COdeGenesis:


Even if i was being dramatic, it wasnt for stingy rats like you na? Besides why do you like twisting people's words around. As a self made millionaire, 6k is nothing. But it does not mean someone would just debit my account without justification cos I am rich. I know you jealous cos your said bf isnt half a man I am. Hence, the hate. But like I said, I care less white witch
lol , online millionaire that wants to kill himself over 6k grin grin grin, na so undecided.


They didn't Debit your account,it was a transaction that wasn't reversed on time grin grin.

White witch? grin grin. Nor worry you go soon hang yourself from furstration ,corona virus saga is going to bring you more depression than you can handle ,that suicide you have been looking for ,you will find it grin
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ityP(m): 6:26pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
lol , another psuedo intellectual boy thinking every woman on nairaland is an evening news paper, oh am I supposed to be crying? grin grin grin.

Corona not only kill your family members ,it will kill your extended family members and even re-kill your ancestors in the grave both on your father and on your mother's side grin grin grin.

Well I go dey heaven while you go dey hell grin grin grin after dying of corona virus while I die at 99 years old grin


Anyway glad you confirmed your sister to us for being cheap and desperate,only lawd knows how old she must have been to have been throwing herself at men like that just to bear Mrs grin grin


Lol. My sis is not evening newspaper, I can assure you. But it's clear you are. For your info, sensible Nigerian ladies know what they want and go for it. You that is still opening your dirty pussy for their foolish boy You sure say you still get destiny so If coro no kill you, just know say something else will this year. Next year, you won't be alive to mention me madam.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by COdeGenesis: 6:49pm On Mar 27, 2020
Ladycewhy:
lol , online millionaire that wants to kill himself over 6k grin grin grin, na so undecided.


They didn't Debit your account,it was a transaction that wasn't reversed on time grin grin.

White witch? grin grin. Nor worry you go soon hang yourself from furstration ,corona virus saga is going to bring you more depression than you can handle ,that suicide you have been looking for ,you will find it grin

Oh, you wish. I can't be part of your league. I know you depressed, frustrated anf feel suicidal at times. I am aware you also a psychopath that is why you derive joy tormenting nairalanders. But like I said, I care less about whatsoever you say. You can wish me bad, I have got a thousand people wishinh me good. So your bad wishes are negligible. The least I could do is to continue fervently to remember you in prayer.
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Ladycewhy(f): 6:53pm On Mar 27, 2020
ityP:



Lol. My sis is not evening newspaper, I can assure you. But it's clear you are. For your info, sensible Nigerian ladies know what they want and go for it. You that is still opening your dirty pussy for their foolish boy You sure say you still get destiny so If coro no kill you, just know say something else will this year. Next year, you won't be alive to mention me madam.
lol, age detector ,I know you wish I was tongue ,still doesn't change the fact that your sister is a cheap and desperate hoe with low self esteem willing to throw herself at a man just to wear a ring grin grin cheesy cheesy..


Na you go die first ,let me know when you start coughing next week cheesy

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