Ishilove:

Artificial insemination since it is strictly business.

Shelumiel:
There is a serious difference baba...infact there is legal backing when you employ a surrogate mother. i.e she can sign-off parental rights to the child such as custody, visitation etc.

zexy2030:

what are the differences, she bears the baby and I take the baby from her once he is 5, so its a long term investment.

frozen70:


And you think a woman will bear a child for you and give the child to you after 5/6 years



You better have a girl friend, pregnant her and make baby with her, then move on to get another one and same and on and on since you like children but don't want to keep their mothers

When you get old you will tell me how you will manage your life alone

zexy2030:

I love you for this...but women can be so worrisome, anyways thanks for ur advice, I'm considering wifing but I'm just worried she may not get so much attention and thereby could lead to misunderstanding.

frozen70:


No dear

It doesn't work that way in most cases

Women loves attention and it doesn't stop you for doing what you want to do outside

As a matter of fact, if you are smart, you could do both and still be save from her

Besides, the essence of courtship is for a proper understanding

If you give a woman what she wants from you not money in this case, most times attention, her wahala will be less

Just like infants and new born they don't talk but wants you to give them what they wants and they will be quite you will be free from their wahala

You can't say women gives worries that's why you can't keep, no, your ability to tolerate her makes you the man

zexy2030:

OK, read.

zexy2030:

hmmm, i know its hard, I will show up as the father, from time to time.

Millenniumlady:
I'll love to have you carry me