Alwaysachick:
Have intention Boy go ask your mama


Asides that, check if she truly loves you and is not stereotyped as your fellow Anambarians.

Once a woman loves you, she will do any thing for you including following you to your village which has always been the fear of Igbo parents.

They don't want a girl that will take their son away from home(Igbo land) forever because she hates his people.

That's very true. In fact, that's the reason my father swore that his children will never marry from those tribes in warri . This is because once they get married, it will be difficult for them to visit igbo land. We have seen and are still seeing so many of them in warri. The situation gets worse when the man dies. The children will never identify with their paternal home. My father calls those men "a minus one from nndigbo " because he believes that his lineage is lost.