ferdiii:

most women are dullards, that's why they stress on intelligence. Imagine, u knows me, u bring laugh to me, I want intelligence, humorous and laugh from my guy. It is ok, you want what u don't have or can't achieve.

. . . . . and judging by wat u wrote, u feel ur not qualified to be termed "a dullard" ?

Creamish:

. . . . . and judging by wat u wrote, u feel your not qualified to be termed "a dullard" ?

olu77:

u are so intelligent

Creamish:

. . . . . and judging by wat u wrote, u feel your not qualified to be termed "a dullard" ?

@ na-so. My point is that women don't rily send the non-physical thing things in a man but are rily interested in the 'pepper', thats all that makes the difference in on the long run. Like they say, ''na fyn boi we go chop''?
@ iice. I read the topic before commenting mind u. Just hitng the nail to on the head. My sisters & mom ain't money chasers but definitly need it from their men. An intelligent man without money is dumb to me.
@ guyz. Don't be decieved. If una no get money una go get enuf headache. ''there's no romance without finance''. Be warned!

Naijagal12:

Intelligence, his swag, confidence, his ego and a sexy masculine voice--such a turn on e[b]specially when he whispers in my ears asking me if I like it _ooooh Yes Daddy! [/b]

Orton1_0:

lol, em like what??

andyprez:

repeating things over & over again ain't my style. Since its obvious that u're a lady, date or marry a guy who isn't rich or better still, that has the potential of becoming one then tell me how many times u'll enjoy his ''non-physical turn-ons''.
I've seen, heard & read things about this issue. My advice, even if money shouldn't be your no. 1 piority, it should be the 2nd or 3rd.
9ce humor about me being a woman though.

pro01:

Unfortunately we do live in a real world (and 'real world' doesn't get 'realer' than naija), and anybody that is honest with himself or herself knows that a fine but struggling man with all the charisma, humour and bla bla bla in the world is always a feeble match for a well-to-do ogre when it comes to winning the girls' hearts and bodies. The slightest 'non-physical things' in the man are crystallized and magnified by the women in his life if he is well-to-do. But how does a man's charisma and good graces shine forth (in the eyes of beautiful young naija maidens) if he earns just N50,000 a month, trudges all day in the sun, has seen the insides of every danfo bus in lagos, and is known to possess only two (worn-out) shoes? But if he is a top-dog in Chevron that earns N1.5m per month, lives in a 'cream' apartment in Lekki, drives an '09 Camry and a Range Rover Sport - then even his obnoxious habit of farting into his girl's food would be interpreted by many naija babes as having a 'unique' sense of humour.

true yans, lets be honest with our self. a guy is more desireable if he can show he is a provider.thats basically what most women want,

cskin:

Self Control

kpozite:

Ladies all these qualities you want of the guy do you have it? Even an ounce of it? Because I can't imagine e.g. an intelligent guy with a dull lady it just dosen't fit.

We. . .well me, can only hope i meet his criteria too

yinka85:

What are are all these things about ¨intelligence/brain¨,¨makes me laugh/sense of humor¨ and all what not.
What happens to  honesty and humility(2 non physical qualities every single woman should pray to have in her man to guarantee a lasting relationship).
Intelligent enough to play tricks on your asses and humorous enough to make you laugh and hence forget about their weaknesses.Lol
Wake up young ladies and look for what you need and not what you want.
Peace and good luck in your search.

Benstino:

Nairaland ladies are crazy.All these talks about intelligence is boring.An intelligence guy can still be a criminal,he can be harsh on his lady,he can be a sex maniac.Now concerning sense of humour,a guy with a high sense of humour can be a pauper,he can be a gay et cetra.Now ask urself,do u want an intelligent guy who will be eager to use his lady 4 a money ritual?Do u want a guy with a high sense of humour who will only be interested in the constant ripping apart of your lingeries,defiling you only to abandon you when you conceives.I'm a guy but I think that one of the major thing which matters is being God-fearing.Remember that the fear of God is the beginning of all wisdom.Make your choice wisely.