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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by emmaodet: 9:19pm On May 20, 2020 |
stormborn28: uwc bro |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:20pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:You should worry yourself with who she is seeing. There is a bad friend on the other side of the fence 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Gbengarzola555(m): 9:20pm On May 20, 2020 |
this is very serious o,you just need more patient from her,or maybe she's following some friend who are influencing her to be thinking and behaving this way. BETTER STILL PRAYER MATTER A LOT SIR |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Lovelypet28: 9:20pm On May 20, 2020 |
Aunty doesn't know the efficacy of prayers for a husband. I would advise her to draw closer to God he can do all things. She should fast for 3 days and have just 1 prayer request, and see what God will do, just one. I deleted instagram a long time cause its unrealistic, I and my husband fight because of finances sometimes but then I give myself brain and think. Tough times dont last, tough people do. PRAYER WORKS. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ejimatic: 9:20pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:. I see your wife as a person who is being controlled by her friends.Who are her friends? When a woman is influenced by her friends she behaves insatiably to her husband. Ask her what she wants and tell her what you can do within your power and the need for her to cooperate with you.Never ever give her money to travel abroad as she will abandon you for life...Additionally job is hard to find now.So maintain your good job and supporting undertakings too .Do not be stampeded into taking any wrong decision by a woman who appears to be disgruntled and inappreciative of what she has under the influence of bad association. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by nedekid: 9:22pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:Oga you did nothing wrong. But don't let it continue. In every early marriage such could happen to set boundaries but it should not happen again. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ct2: 9:22pm On May 20, 2020 |
HarunaWest:best advice so far, if you steal and you get caught you land in jail. Another man will Bleep her, they are all like that. Any man that thinks his wife loves him his a fool. Test her by not providing for 2months and see the real Devil you married. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by nedekid: 9:22pm On May 20, 2020 |
ejimatic:Seconded! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Tecord1(m): 9:23pm On May 20, 2020 |
It so funny how people who are not yet married contributes to issues like this when they have not experienced a fraction of what OP is talking about. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Roon9(m): 9:23pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: No b everybody sabi talk o. I understand u OP 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 20, 2020 |
xavier047:Why don't you wrap your deek on this one, loser? |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Shinny1: 9:24pm On May 20, 2020 |
Naija246:Mr man stop seeking attention by trying to be savage you would have made your point without calling someone names Mr man try and think twice next time before you talk |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by obataokenwa(m): 9:25pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:Your wife is abt to derail and if she does and sleep someone, your life is finished...right now is better you stay Abit quiet and watch her more and don't talk much or engage matters with her. She's giving place to the devil and it's matter of time before she fall final. If she finally start cheating, make sure u obey Jesus and put her away or else you're finished as a man. Her unclothedness is your glory so if she share it, you're gone except you put her away immediately...do more of private prayer now 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:25pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid:Why don't you do some background check on her esp if she has new friends taking her to party and all that recently. Perhaps someone is promising her heaven and earth. Be careful sha. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by chinchonglee(m): 9:26pm On May 20, 2020 |
wany:Not because am stronger but because she deserves thr beating for being so stupid... Oh!!! I forgot to add she also deserves divorce! 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by HarunaWest(m): 9:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
ct2:Abi oo the way i see some dudes messing up all in the name of marriage ehn its annoying. They will go and Marry a woman that they brings nothing to the table but na she go dey dictate affairs for the house. What nonsens So na me my mama born as slave. Its high time women learnt this is Africa and not Europe. If the man provides the basic food, shelter and clothings, you must respect him, there's no two ways, no compromise. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by BlackFlamefromP: 9:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
Oga if you beat your wife because she provoked you beyond endurance it's okay. You don't have to feel sorry for it. It has not degraded you in any way. We overpamper women too much in this generation and it only end up corrupting them. Anyway, she has to feel sorry for her nasty and provocative behavior first and apologize to you. Once she do that you can then apologize to her for beating her. That's how it should be. Moreover, if she is not happy and contented with your current financial condition and she doesn't want to go and work she can quit the marriage before she force you to commit crime. Men of this generation give too power to women due to sentiment and ignorance. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by OlawaleBammie: 9:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
travelland: Seems some are moving around with a goat brain, insensitive set of humans, very disgusting and irritating with irrational thoughts an so on. Am not referring to u oo. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by OlawaleBammie: 9:30pm On May 20, 2020 |
howmarket2: Lol, funny |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by tunize(m): 9:31pm On May 20, 2020 |
Negative effect of social media to be precise instagram. chai if u don't have sense run from I.g cos that tin go make u believe sey everybody na billionaire |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by lereinter(m): 9:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
You married an Aristo If she's not comfortable with what you are giving, let her leave you or you leave her Let her go marry otedola son 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by victorazyvictor(m): 9:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: She is fvckin another man. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
travelland: You simply can't give enough to a materialistic woman. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
Poorboy:what exactly does 100+k mean, below 150k or almost 200k?? The op seems like a mediocre man to me. He doesn't want to advance further. If his wife doesn't push him to hustle, who else will. Please what is wrong with a flamboyant lifestyle? Does her husband have two heads. Let him go and make money so that she can be proud of him 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by humilitypays(m): 9:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by lereinter(m): 9:35pm On May 20, 2020 |
Poorboy: Double tuale for you 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by dotedote: 9:35pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: No wonder you're being flogged emotionally by your unreasonable babymama. So you think you can sit such a person down to talk to. WehDoneZa. We're here sha. She go soon tell you she wan go see her sick mama. We know where exactly. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Tinyemeka(m): 9:37pm On May 20, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: All fingers are not equal. All cerebrum do not fire equally. |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by lereinter(m): 9:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: It seems the op na woman wrapper Gerrout jare 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by INCREDIBLE007(m): 9:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid: chai Oga may divine wisdom rest upon you in Jesus name
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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by grandstar(m): 9:43pm On May 20, 2020 |
ademidedavid You have to be firm and she must know you're a no-nonsense man and you'll never soil your hands. Once that message sinks in, her brain will reset and she will accept things. Do you think Buhari never faced pressure from his wife to be corrupt when he was under PTF? Most upright men face pressure from their wives or children yet they stand their ground. It is simply not in their character. Do you want the better things in life for yourself and your children? Do you think the federal job can achieve it? If not, start putting in place a plan B Can you engage in private practice? If yes, then do. If not, you can make plans to retire and enter the private sector either as an employee or as a self-employed person. Use your present position for networking so as to position you well when you're into business. Make friends and connections now by doing a great job and leaving a good name. Even if you start PP now, you may have to keep it from your wife lest she starts living a flamboyant life. You may eventually have to retire so you can live well. 1 Like |
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