It depends on d type of failure u r talking about

It is well.


Nobody as the right to blame anybody, when the father and mother get to heaven, God will decide who to blame. Sefini.

What is a failure?

All of the above

ENVIRONMENT. Sometimes, the parents tries their best but the child still fails.

I solemnly vote for ENVIRONMENT.

EdEdEddy:

And religion gets a zero

religion does not help train anybody

When it comes to blame

For any reason

Let's blame Buhari

U....amean you

pyyxxaro:



After blaming Buhari, I would blame you tooo

Which one is my own there now

If a child is failing as a child, 100% blame goes to the parents. I believe parents aggregately and not as separate entities are responsible for the wellbeing and proper development of their child.

No blame game, no shifting of blames or responsibility.

Parent, but most especially their mother.

Because I know the impact of mothers to children in terms of moral upbringing. Take for instance dad is always busy except sunday, but even when mother is busy she still has the observation of what is happening to his children than their father.

Some mothers influence their child in bad upbringing while some mother brought up their children in a moral and respectful way in the society.

Father has little to do compare to mother in upbringing.

1 - 24 years - Blame the parents
25 years and above - Blame the child

EdEdEddy:

And religion gets a zero

An amen to that brother

gRESEARCHER:

20% Father
50% Mother
30% Society

what of some of use that are brough up in a none female compound. we were all male and cook for ourselves, right from 5 till 20.

Joshmodest:


I'd like is to have this argument !
You just highlighted here that the mother should take 50% I don't know your reasons , but i want to glance at your thoughts , and I expect your reply to be .
Cos the mom is always around them , I don't understand how two people would have a child and one takes the larger share of the child's upbringing....now most moms work just same hours as the dads , if not more but society still tends to blame the mom for poor upbringing of the child .....
Fathers make the mistake as a result of what the society has constructed ,to always think thier wives should train the children why they portray themselves as head of the home with biblical references.
..
Saying moms should take 50% while fathers take 20 ks like saying lalastic.lala should take the blame for nairaland's failure instead of se.un

Ok please I'm not a child psychologist or whatever but here's my take. It is often claimed that most of a child's intelligence is determined majorly by the mother's intelligence. Since most children spent time with their mothers because of culture, father's working and simple necessity of living they are going to subconsciously influenced by the mother's actions.

Family
Religion
Environment
Teachers
everybody have a part to play in bringing up a child but the bulk and total responsibility lies on parent and their DNA, By DNA i mean when you marry someone or make baby with be sure to understudy the person and family and know their history. so you do not produce a failed child

family. ..they are the first and closest to the child

Instagram... social media... bad friends

What is the definition of the failure. We have different types of failure in life. Please be specific.

Joshmodest:


I'd like is to have this argument !
You just highlighted here that the mother should take 50% I don't know your reasons , but i want to glance at your thoughts , and I expect your reply to be .
Cos the mom is always around them , I don't understand how two people would have a child and one takes the larger share of the child's upbringing....now most moms work just same hours as the dads , if not more but society still tends to blame the mom for poor upbringing of the child .....
Fathers make the mistake as a result of what the society has constructed ,to always think thier wives should train the children why they portray themselves as head of the home with biblical references.
..
Saying moms should take 50% while fathers take 20 ks like saying lalastic.lala should take the blame for nairaland's failure instead of se.un

Oga, na mama dey always enjoy pikin pass. Especially during old age. Is either dad is dead or sideline. Simi case, na only her mama we dey always see for social media.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tC5zv3dAHkY please check out this music video

EdEdEddy:
Who really is responsible for the failure of a child in the society?

Just here to learn, the child itself is not an option here.

While growing up these are the common factors, that can make or destroy a child.

But really who do we blame, for the childs failure?

Family
Religion
Environment
Teachers

Parents

The woman,Yes the woman, definitely is the woman and don't ask me why

Ok

I guess both parent are to be blamed

Parents

Family 65%
Religion 5%
Environment 20%
Teacher 10%

All of the aforementioned.
Family - Primary and constant contact.
Teacher - Secondary, knowledge base and constant.
Religion - Secondary, spiritual base and constant.
Environment - Secondary, societal, peer base and constant

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