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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by edunaking: 10:16pm On May 22, 2020 |
[quote author=edunaking post=89853771][/quote] you sound like your dad didn't provide for you and siblings. Take it easy. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 22, 2020 |
Someone7: This your story no just gel again. We are talking about wife not girlfriend experience. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:22pm On May 22, 2020 |
Nooil: Is it that hard to read and understand? I lost my job and was jobless for 15months before getting married. After getting married I was still without a job for 3 more months before getting one. 18months in total. Abi make I spell A-B-C-D for you? |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Donwoosky: 10:30pm On May 22, 2020 |
festacman: You're wise bro. 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 22, 2020 |
Someone7: I don't want to insult you, so I'll let the rubbish about reading and understanding slide. Did op talk about his girlfriend or wife? The first comment you made which I quoted, did you talk about before marriage. Then boom, you were typing about 15 months. Who is interested in what you went through before getting married? We are only discussing marriage here, and that's why I said you're inexperienced because it was only for three months. I'd advise you to go and read the guy who wrote about how his wife treated him when he was broke, even to the point of sleeping around. They had a similar beginning like yours. So don't be too confident and started saving for rainy days. Because unless you're a rugged alpha male, those days of joblessness and lack will surely come again. And then, it's only your savings that can save you from your wife's wrath. Enough said! 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 22, 2020 |
Nooil: Right..
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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ybaby: Excuse me madam you seem to be missing the whole point here and keep persisting. The story line is that the man was well to do initially to the point that he paid good money to bring you into his house and even threw a grand reception to bring you in as this entitled Receiver of his provision and the object of his protection. As the story goes, fortune later smiled at you while it frowned at him for one reason or another. You now being the headstrong, wicked person and that you seem decided to 'change it' for the man because you where told it is the man's job to "provide and protect" and so you lived to ignore all decorum to the point of turning him to your house help, son or whatever by the look of things you Ybaby in reality would turn your husband to. If this version of the OP's guideline l rendered above didn't work, all he was is men should be careful living with women like you especially if things later got messy for them financially so as to avoid words that touch and attitudes that kill. So my sister, we are not saying the woman sought the man's hand in marriage, paid his groom price and brought him to her house okay? |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 10:40pm On May 22, 2020 |
Someone7: |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ybaby: 11:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
jaxxy: been married for 19 years - i have no idea about celibacy or feeding a man in exchange for no sex |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ybaby: 11:42pm On May 22, 2020 |
edunaking: My Dad passed on and kept on providing from his grave. Houses, Lands, trust fund etc You sound like your mum feeds your dad - ngwanu take it easy. 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ybaby: 11:43pm On May 22, 2020 |
NLPsychologist: Epistle and Infidels Man and his shadow Ngwanu provide for your family ke ye ko oyinbo oshi kiri |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 12:25am On May 23, 2020 |
crackland:She go see nah. Mr man go show from time to time. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Liposure: 12:33am On May 23, 2020 |
Nooil:its the economy |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 12:48am On May 23, 2020 |
Ryan03: Don't be deceived bro. The first criteria God gave women to pick their man from the lots of men surrounding them is his ability to provide. She will scrutinize you wella to see if you can provide for her and your unborn kids. Who go provide for your pikin? Only a foolish woman will marry a man without potentials or money. She go suffer carry pikin, born all of them, still come slave to provide for them when you dey alive? Wetin come be your job? Na only for nairaland women no dey marry men for what he can provide 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 12:56am On May 23, 2020 |
Uckroot: I don't think you are married. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:03am On May 23, 2020 |
efosky1246: This is for men who understand their roles as men and want to provide for their families. A lot of comments you read here are from mentalities that have vowed to live off women rather than work hard to provide for their unborn children. 4 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:05am On May 23, 2020 |
mandate12:Because a man providing for, and feeding his family is the right order of things. She wasn't created to be a provider but a nurturer. This is what she brings to the table. She will support you when you are down. But being down for too long and not making any serious effort to support her while she is supporting you in your down-time is what the OP is trying to address. 4 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 1:07am On May 23, 2020 |
Ybaby: You don’t sound like someone who’s truly married. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:09am On May 23, 2020 |
bootstrap: Hahahaha 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:17am On May 23, 2020 |
Psoul: It is as simple as ABC! They weren't wired to provide. Although a lot of them dey do agidi now to provide, just leave them for one year to be the sole provider, you go see story. Exceptions dey always dey Sha. Like 2 in every 1000 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:21am On May 23, 2020 |
jaxxy:It actually means so. It insults the leadership position of the man. Except you no value submission. Na wetin the OP dey try talk nah, To avoid that insult, e dey give you tips. If you not fit do the tips wey im share, insult don dey knock for door be that. 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:28am On May 23, 2020 |
Kenplay: There's no way you're married 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:33am On May 23, 2020 |
tonapuck: You get ego but you no get money, hm, be ready. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:34am On May 23, 2020 |
Karleb: But the funny thing be say no wife dey jobless. ABI una no get pikin? 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:35am On May 23, 2020 |
executive12:Key phrase 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by boyjo: 1:43am On May 23, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:mrblessed thomassegun flokii NLPsychologist Snaagg lanreHeda lanreHeda jaxxy BrownLondon 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by blackslayer: 2:03am On May 23, 2020 |
this is crazy.....when you think about it. A union is supposed to be a partnership based on love. meaning when one is down the other is there to be the helper and vice versa. This is what a union should be all about...love, companionship based on compassion, kindness and mutual respect! |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by abbiboy: 2:38am On May 23, 2020 |
Hilarious u re the gee nigga!reskirt reskirt! |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by abbiboy: 2:54am On May 23, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:Pls remain single if u re one n still being spoon fed by one,when u re more matured come n write again. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by abbiboy: 2:57am On May 23, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:U go take style frustrate persin pikin bcus he no get wrk. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by tonapuck: 3:18am On May 23, 2020 |
boyjo: Are you making a general statement or you're actually talking to me, for your information I'm not a broke man and I refuse to be broke cos I got STANDARD, I will feed you and your generation, your comment shows you're a broke man or a female. Hypocrite, what's love when you can't have the back of your husband without disrespecting him Shm Very useless thread. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by jaxxy(m): 3:30am On May 23, 2020 |
boyjo: It doesn’t to me, the problem is the mindset. I have never said, the man doesn’t do stuffs in a relationship or marriage. And weather he does or don’t do he is the leader of the family. This is my point. A ship can’t sail without a captain. I dont know why ladies marry or respect men these days it seems it’s strictly for money. Bt that is a stupid thing to do if u ask me. When u can make ur own money. The leaderships of the home is not a conditional one once u agree to marriage. |
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