MelaninSkinGirl:


Lets see how MGTOW plays out when you are retired and 85 and your kids from your different baby mamas hate you for abandoning their mothers. What next? A young girl of 25 to use your viagra on?

MelaninSkinGirl:
The divorce rate in Nigeria is apparently 50% shocking. I wouldn't a divorce, it is damaging. I am an advocate for intensive marriage counselling.

Smile4mee01:
That is where you wrong. .. this is another example of why men should walk away from toxic women. They use your own children against you, ask for child support while claiming they are independent. How many 85 yrs olds are interested in sex as much as you think. Men should watch out for themselves, too many men are busy catering for family, friends and leaving themselves... your own wife , children, family might forsake you in old age.

This is the summary of the whole thing, As a Man try and e the best you can, do the best you can for your family, however, if you are not appreciated, dont be afraid to walk away.

@MelaninSkinGirl: I don't hate women, I just experience so kinda peace without them.

Annonymox:
This story is somehow same with mine, but I'm better off.

My wife had an ex before she gain her admission back then. She told me the guy deflowrred her. He was studying medicine while I studied agric acience.

Cut story short, we became closer as the guys never available. 7 months after wedding, I noticed my wife ws smiling one night over chat. I decided to peep into her conversation. The guy is made now bro. Like really made.

The only diff is my wife kept congratulating him, asking when he'll marry even though the guy ws trying to make her feel bad that she choose wrong. They fantasized about moments they had a bit too.

On the other hand, I am comfortable, we have a daughter, self employed now, I after that scenerio decided to set her up and started developing my site at ifo- ogun state.

It's a year later, I didn't confront her till date, but I'm working on proving to her that she made the best choice ever. Especially knowing that she gve me a beautiful daughter

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

luminouz:


Will you stop all these and say the truth?

She left her ex because OP WON her over based on the sex, it happens. The other guy might be weak in bed and all that. You lots always think women are fools and all that but most are not,they are wise and yes YOU CAN WIN OVER A WOMAN, where dafuq did you get the trophy point from?

If that dude has no money issues,you think the wife will complain? Na finances dey make her regret her decision na?

Bottom line, people are naturally selfish, love is just another term to make someone give you what you want!!

bigiyaro:
OP, you made your choice, live with whatever comes with it. Also you enticed and "snatched" her from her guy cos he was not stable then, what makes you think if someone comes with a juicy enticement, she won't leave you?
Again you are just a victim of circumstances, karma is just paying back your wife for dumping someone that shared with her his little resources.
lastly let her regret her regret its not your regret, its your ego that was just bruised.

Annonymox:
This story is somehow same with mine, but I'm better off.

My wife had an ex before she gain her admission back then. She told me the guy deflowrred her. He was studying medicine while I studied agric acience.

Cut story short, we became closer as the guys never available. 7 months after wedding, I noticed my wife ws smiling one night over chat. I decided to peep into her conversation. The guy is made now bro. Like really made.

The only diff is my wife kept congratulating him, asking when he'll marry even though the guy ws trying to make her feel bad that she choose wrong. They fantasized about moments they had a bit too.

On the other hand, I am comfortable, we have a daughter, self employed now, I after that scenerio decided to set her up and started developing my site at ifo- ogun state.

It's a year later, I didn't confront her till date, but I'm working on proving to her that she made the best choice ever. Especially knowing that she gve me a beautiful daughter

Emperor4tune:
if she has not given u any child my guy move on & forget about her.wetin be woman where u dey worry anyhow

luminouz:


Na today women dey use reverse psychology and words to manipulate men? Its normal na but throwing it in his face was the issue.

N.B: they were not perpetually broke, just going through some trying times and besides, she didn't marry OP for his money, na the sex game,so it makes no sense to me that her ex sudden wealth would trigger her vampire nature IF NOT THE DREADFUL FINANCIAL SITUATION at home.
Things must be really tight for her to say such and besides he never told us the fully gist on her, if she is contributing to the family purse or not.


So many unexplained variables here

apokan200:
What of if she is the bad luck holding your blessing,sometimes these women are the reason some men ain’t progressing

funmisticqueen2:
and you will say that you are educated.

Martinez39s:
If you think the ex-boyfriend could not be hustling legitimately, then you know nothing. Remember that he was on the same financial level with the op so he didn't start out as flat broke. Remember that he got many contracts, and he is single. He MAY be legitimate.