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Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:00am On May 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles:So i hear. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 10:01am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Your family tree is not important or worth existing? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:04am On May 25, 2020 |
crackland:My family tree is made up of people who contribute to society in different parts of the world. On the other hand, A family tree of ne'er do wells is not worth fussing over. Which is what most people that take this thing seriously are. Why obsess over a family tree when you have no legacy to leave behind? Why would a poor man want to continue his lineage and transmit poverty to his children. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 10:07am On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB:Maternity fraud... Thinking about it now, there's no such thing. Men dey suffer sha 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Hathor5(f): 10:08am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic: I could say so much but then I would have to talk about me and the women in your family/life and I don't feel like it. Let's not make it personal. All I will say is this, any of my children will be perfectly taken care of by me whether the father contributes or not. Have a good day. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Mariangeles(f): 10:09am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Here you said your family tree is not important funmisticqueen2: Then here, you saying something else... Are you speaking from both sides of your mouth? Why don't you own your stance? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:10am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:In reality, a love child of a man will most likely be raised by the babymama sef, so the wife is not in any way being blackmailed into being a stepmother by force. How many single ladies will have a child for a married man and go dump the baby with the wife of the man? 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 10:11am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Do you know them and their family members personally? I honestly thought when you claimed a family tree is NOT important, you were talking about yours. Otherwise, I don't see the point of that statement. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:12am On May 25, 2020 |
crackland:Real good o. Men should forget about trust and have DNA test done on their kids. See women here normalising paternity fraud. How many women will come out true about a love child when she can go for the easy route which is paternity fraud. Love child of a man and woman can never bring the same consequences. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:19am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Yes o! Love child of men will happily be raised by the mother of the child outside of the man's marriage, now can a love child of a woman be raised outside of her marriage? Going by what you said. If your husband doesn't want the child in his home too will it be easy for you as a woman to go dump your baby with the baby daddy because your husband doesnt want the child near his home. Same action different consequences. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 10:27am On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB: It is OK or normal until they find out that the three cute buttons they have been doting on are not their grandchildren because their son's wife sees paternity fraud as normal. Oh! It wouldn't happen to them because their husbands are different. At least every one is certain of the maternity of their grandkids. They might not just approve of the father. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 10:30am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Are you from a family Funmi? Can you trace your roots? When you claim you are from a town, did you just pick a town you fancied or did you pick it because that's where your dad is from and by extension his dad, his dad's dad etc etc? If it is the latter, that's your family tree whether they are rich or not. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 10:30am On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB:Who no go nor know... I have always been an ardent advocate of compulsory DNA tests, especially in this fast world we are presently living in. Personally, I can't have that kind of blind trust to not have DNA tests done... certainly not after it has saved me from paternity fraud. China, a country with over 1billion people that made it a compulsory requirement for birth registration, certainly had the right idea. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by bukatyne(f): 10:34am On May 25, 2020 |
Funny thread It is either we agree that child bearing has different impact on men & women hence the privileges and rights accorded to women for bearing the pains of childbirth stands OR We agree it is same impact so either party can have live children with same consequences. We cannot have our cake and eat it. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 10:47am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:I just read your comment again and noted this. While I found it odd, it's more funny that it's coming from a person who claims to be egalitarian - fairness and justice for all innit? In an attempt at making a flawed point, you inadvertently exposed your absence of humanity - the real you, no? Tell us though, what's the difference between you and Adolf Hitler who believed that black people (yourself included) are a sub-species more animal than human, and the world would be better off not having black people continue their lineage and transmitting their animal nature to unborn children? Kindly explain how your poverty theory is so different from Adolf Hitlers' 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 10:50am On May 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Abi now. As maternity fraud no con dey. A woman that is raising another woman's child will sure know the child isn't hers, that cannot be said of men and its sad 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Acidosis(m): 11:09am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: So what happens when you cheat on your husband? Will you bring the love child to his home? Or leave the one day old toddler with his/her father? 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Acidosis(m): 11:12am On May 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: That one is confused na. It's very obvious. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 12:59pm On May 25, 2020 |
Acidosis:I would not be that stupid to get pregnant for him in the first place, what happened to an abortion? I can't bring a lovechild to my home Not having a child for a man that cannot find me worthy to marry, I'll rather be an old maid. I have issues with poverty yes because like death, it will always be around. But what disgusts me to no end is genetically transmitting poverty to the next generation. You are poor, but choose to drink away your life becoming a deadbeat dad, or you choose to give birth to 6 children for a man. How can a 30year old woman be a G15P2+¹³(3À) Make it make sense. She will most likely not make it till 45. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 1:03pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland:i never said i was egalitarian. That must have been someone else. Where did you all get that assumption, comparing me to Hitler is nothing new. You're definitely not the first. That man had the guts to get what he wanted done, regardless of his flaws or who went against him. I respect that. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 1:05pm On May 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:i know who my family is. Family is what i make of it. Not some silly imaginary tree. I may pay homage to my ancestors every August, but that's it. They are dead, i should not be disturbing them in their graves and focus of my living family members. That's why I don't give a shit about family tree. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB:Me personally, i will dump the child for the father, i said that way 3 years ago and still do so today. I have vowed never to raise the child of a man who doesn't love me. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Acidosis(m): 2:00pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Why? It doesn't make sense to you, right? But it makes sense to a lot of men. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Acidosis(m): 2:01pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Na so.. Why don't you just dump the pregnancy with him since your hubby will most likely kick you out? 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by ibkayee(f): 2:54pm On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:'aLoT oF pEoPlE' i.e. mainly the people you agreed with lool. I'm not having a pissing contest over which one impacts which gender more or talking about what society does accept (lots of societies 'accept' things that are questionable, it doesn't automatically make any of it 'right'). To me, no matter how much more palatable you find one over the other, they're both sh*tty things to do to another person, and if you're going to take the child in (who is innocent in all of this), the decision should not be based solely on whether the man or woman was the perpatrator. That's a crazy double standard 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 25, 2020 |
cococandy: I honestly don't know why it's that way. Well, there maybe pros and cons there. It's even nairaland that exposed me more on baby daddy baby mama ish. I thought its like that everywhere. The sad thing is that u will see your child but he is so far away from you. He can't officially recognise you as dad. But I heard that as the child grow up, he may help the man's children, he may be of help to the man too. Who knows. Sighs |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 3:42pm On May 25, 2020 |
Acidosis:like i said,abort first. I can't be that silly to have a child outside wedlock in the first place. Thrn what was the point of med school? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Mariangeles(f): 3:59pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Dey there dey blow grammar to cover your confusion and contradictions Also, keep exposing your inhumanity. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by crackland: 4:00pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:If you had nothing reasonable as a response, it may have been better to just shut it, take your L and move on. Now you respect Adolf Hitler. Are you okay? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Mariangeles(f): 4:06pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: funmisticqueen2: funmisticqueen2: I pity the patients who're unfortunate to have you as their doctor. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Acidosis(m): 4:16pm On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Hmnn.... Funmi, you're avoiding an important question. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Hathor5(f): 4:17pm On May 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Doctor? Are you sure? |
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