Deepocean:


So has discussion taken you guys to a point where the whole stuff has to be talked about?

Or do you want to keep it to yourself till death do part you?

pansophist:
Women hardly toast. Initiating is not your typical feminine trait, but responding. They will rather give you all the evidence needed like a desperate criminal that wants to be arrested by force, hoping that you pick up the tab and do the needful, but one-on-one toasting initiated by a woman? hardly happen.

I have never experienced direct toasting from a woman, I would love to. It would be funny though. Men de try as I swear, with their direct toasting that many times, leads to soul-crushing rejection, and that is women's biggest fear.

maak400:

I once received a love letter from a young pretty babe during my nysc long time ago in the north central and we dated for a while.

Biodun1929:
Let me share another story. This is also not like direct approach.

Anyway, so in year 1, I had a girl I liked. I was a juvy then, and didn't really understand how relationships work or how to approach a girl. All I wanted was for the girl to be my friend.

So, what did I do? Every night as as I was about to sleep, I would imagine the girl talking to me. That's all I did for about a week or so. One day, I was standing by the corridor of my department reading a Sydney Sheldon novel when I sensed someone walk past me and stop. I looked up when the person walked back to my front, and who did I see? My crush, standing there, smiling at me.

She asked if she could see the book I was reading. I gave her, and after reading the back, she asked if she could read it after I was done. I said yes, and she left. She hadn't taken two steps when she stopped and walked back to ask when I will be done. I said in a few days. She said okay, that she will look for me in a few days. Then she walked off, and then stopped again. By this time, I was already smiling like a fool. Lol.

She asked if I can finish it in a day that she really wants to read the book. So, anyway, I agreed to give her that day, and she would return it in a few days. I never got the book back, but we became really good friends. I really enjoyed her company and was always happy when ever I was going to school. Till one day, the girl's friend came to meet me and asked what I was waiting for and why I had not asked her friend out. She said i should ask her out after classes. That's how my heart started beating and I started sweating. And then after classes, I was just quiet around the girl, and she asked me what was wrong. Then I opened my mouth and said, Bimpe said I should ask you out. Damn! I ruined the whole thing. The girl started avoiding me afterwards and always acted awkward when I was around her.

pansophist:


Confirm. How did it went ?

Frankicent:



Chai you killed her

Starride:
I remembered this few experiences I had with girls shooting there shots back in the days

1. The first I can remember occurred when I came back from school, I followed my elder sister to a friend's house.. When I was there I noticed her friend's younger sis following me every where I go to...she will hide behind the curtain and spy on me... My sister noticed it and dragged her to my front...she asked do you like my brother, she said yes and I want him to be my boyfriend...thats how my sister and her friend handed her over to me with threats not to break her heart...

2. A lady got my number through a female friend of mine and called to profess her love to me... I didn't recognize the number but I knew her voice so I played along.. She was always spending hours with me on the phone cos she said she likes hearing my voice.. Only God knows if she was working with mtn then cos I can't phantom how she gets those call credits. Funniest part.. I was going through a baby mama's issue then which she knows about coupled with the fact that she knows the girl..

3. I once engaged a pretty female masters student in a discussion when I was in my finals... During the discussion she kept saying 'I love that' to any word that comes out of my mouth until it turn to' I love u for that' interjected with touchings and hugs, as I was about to leave after the discussion she asked for my number which I declined because I was phoneless then, she later gave me hers with ₦1000 to buy Recharge card so she can see me again.. Unfortunately I lost the number but spent the money judiciously ����

2cul2care:
Mine was in higher institution, there was this girl that always complemented me, but I didn't take it as anything, cause lots of girls complement me, being that have always being a fine boy, but this particular lady we were in the same faculty together, so we saw each other on a regular basis and whenever we met she would complement me on my looks, dressing etc..

We were actually good friends and I enjoyed her company a lot cause she was a very jovial and open minded person, fast forward, one day after a lecture, she just walked up to me in the presence of everyone and told me she wants to be my girlfriend (did I mention she's very bold and can talk to anybody, she was also one of the biggest girls on campus back then), anyway I didn't take her seriously, I just teased her and waved it off.

It was later I heard from her roomies that she was actually very serious, and she talks about me all the time, even tho she had various guys wooing her.

We never dated tho but we remained good friends, until we passed out of school, we later had lots of intimate moments after that day, she always wanted to take me out, and always showered me with gifts.

She was the first lady that spent on me, I still miss her till this day, although we still communicate every once in a while.

Ladies like her a really hard to come by.

Agp19:
There's nothing sweet as been toasted by a lady is one of the best feeling in the world. They make everything easier for you.

All my life from secondary school till now wey we dey hustle dey work all the gals have dated ask me out even down to my present girlfriend. But the once wey i ask out hummmm long story, na them go drain your energy las las den no go gree.

So guys no matter how ugly u think you are. Which I know no man is ugly. There is girl out there crushing on you just take your time she will come way. That's why it hurt me when I see guys dey mumu for woman oo

Silasloaded:
Bro Agp 19 you have given me a word although i know that am handsome but this thing you said is all i need to hear all this while thanks Gee thanks brother you are a genius

Darrkfire:
I've had a couple of ladies like dat. The most recent one happened last year. It was during my uncle's wedding. There was dis girl who was the bride's sister's friend. I was just abt my business and duties throughout that week, as I was the groom's best man, and I didn't know this girl has been sizing me up right from Thursday of dat week when we went to the court. We went to the bride's house a couple of times that week before the wedding, and the girl was always around.
To cut it short, when I got back to my hotel room at night after the wedding, I was just so tired that I slept off early. I was awoken by the sound of my ringtone the following morning. There have been series of messages from a particular number and about 6 missed calls from that number. She later called back and was telling me how she's been wanting to approach me bla bla bla, dat she likes me.
Last last girl come my house after abt two weeks and spend three days. I leave what happened during that visit to your imagination
I stopped everything with her when on one of her visit, I heard her telling her boyfriend on phone dat she was in her crush' house, whereas she's been telling me she had no bf. I imagined how the guy would be feeling when she told him, so I had to end it.

Biodun1929:


But the girl is bold o. She actually told her boyfriend she was in her crush's house.

Deepocean:


It is practically impossible for a guy not to tell his friend what you told him to to tell his friend, you knew this and that was the reason you took your wise and mature approach of which I admire your boldness and sincerity.

Males can't keep some secrets to themselves without revealing it to friends unlike the the opposite gender, a friend of mine was discussing some things that are highly confidential with me yesterday about his relationship and his side chick, the cheating on her babe is on another level, I was like can a lady discuss this thing with her closest friend.

Wierdceo:

Ehh ? Ladies discuss too o.

Deepocean:


Like what weird things do you think they discuss ?

Wierdceo:

They discuss about romance and sex all the time man. Everytime. A door seperates me and my neighbor in my house and I don't know if she realizes that I can hear her talk. One of her girl friend comes often and what they discuss about is how on guy toasted them and that he just wants to Bleep them. I heard one telling her friend the other day that e Don teh wey she do.

But I must admit guys are worse sha when it comes to sharing sexcapades with friends.

drLammy:
Lol
Make I share my experience
When I was in 200lvl a girl my senior tho in 300lvl asked me out... How it happened
I remembered I was in school that day and my close pal was telling me how a girl had been staring at me I no even notice her till later but na her friend I like they move together also...
How she got my number to chat me up later in the evening of the day I no knw... She asked me via chat if I knw who she is of which I saw her pics on her Dp and responded yes after a while she told me she Loves me...it's felt really weird I just responded Lol.. she stopped talking to me and she always avoid me ever since
But I still dey on that her friend package sha

drLammy:
Lol
Make I share my experience
When I was in 200lvl a girl my senior tho in 300lvl asked me out... How it happened
I remembered I was in school that day and my close pal was telling me how a girl had been staring at me I no even notice her till later but na her friend I like they move together also...
How she got my number to chat me up later in the evening of the day I no knw... She asked me via chat if I knw who she is of which I saw her pics on her Dp and responded yes after a while she told me she Loves me...it's felt really weird I just responded Lol.. she stopped talking to me and she always avoid me ever since
But I still dey on that her friend package sha

SmellySperm:
it ended in tears

MajesticKris:
Indirect Toasting .. she actually told a friend to tell me.. I like when girls toast Guys.. that way the relationship last longer....