Get Married, since you like the girl, and you see your financial worries will fade away.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

OP
Before you take any decision
Picture yourself as the girl who has done series of abortion for his BF and think of what you deserve in return from that bf then make your decision...



If you have conscience, you will make the right decision.

Op, This reply said it all.

cocolacec:


Let your girl keep the pregnancy and let her find a job or biz to argument your salary.Rise up to the challenge of a family man since you already engage in what married couple do.Convince your dad to allow you get married and double your hustle as well.
She is ready to start a Life with your meagre salary.Two heads are better than one.
nb: stop running to your father for monetary help,you have to be your own man.

Zoie:
Ladies on this forum, pay close attention to the advice most of the guys commenting gave the op.
Tomorrow you'll open leg for one guy to pour akamu, skin to skin.
Men will always look out for themselves. If you like, don't have sense.

OP, you're a wicked man. You're broke yet doing sex raw. After aborting again and again, you say you're not ready for marriage. By the time she destroy her womb permanently, you'll look for a virgin to marry.
I don't blame you completely, your foolish gf is to blame too.
Young women should know never to compromise with their wombs. So unfortunate she fell for a selfish niggaa like you. I hope she doesn't end up ruining her life for you. But then, she might, seeing she's eager to make you happy.


Young ladies on this forum, LEARN.

They won't learn. They want to learn from their own experiences. Then they Will start blaming the guy who might be enjoying his life somewhere else with another woman.

Tell her to go oooo

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They won't learn. They want to learn from their own experiences. Then they Will start blaming the guy who might be enjoying his life somewhere else with another woman.

Tomorrow when the effects of multiple abortions kick in, they'll be going from church to prayer house to shrine, begging God for a child.

Zoie:

Tomorrow when the effects of multiple abortions kick in, they'll be going from church to prayer house to shrine, begging God for a child.

They will look for one woman or man in their village and accuse of witchcraft.

Both of you are very stupid how can just kill innocent babies which you cannot create in life, what of both of you get married now and no baby again who to blame for the atrocity you have committed before God and man, you're there asking of advice Ogun kill you there

Baleeson:
ops you are wicked soul...this thing that you did to this girl may they do likewise to ur daughter amen...karma is real....

let me tell you...this ur narrations made me she'd tears.. please pity this gurl,if you don't want to marry her after several abortion for you...who do you want her to marry...you cheated this gurl...she had the right to pressure you for marriage...22yrs ! haba!

wats this please..why are guys this wicked..I feel like giving u some punches to reset ur brain...fool u must marry that girl bro ...u Bleep up big time..

Don't make it look like it's only the guy's fault. The girl who was opening her legs for the irresponsible boy all the time without thinking about her life and future to the extent of having many abortions for him is grossly stupid and irresponsible too. They both deserve each other. I'm not in support of fornication but why should you get pregnant in this time and age when pregnancy can be prevented with little money as low as N50- N200 condom or very cheap and affordable pills. They are both stupid!

For abortion my hands no dey.
Explain to your father, the sorry situation you re into. He will definitely listen to u and profer a solution. No father will want his grandchild to be born outside his house.

If all your entreaties to your father fails, let her born him out of wedlock. When u re ready u can come to marry her.

You can delay your marriage till eternity, that doesn't guarantee you financial freedom unless you take the bull by the horns. You have to challenge yourself, stop running to your dad for money. Even after settling down, he can support you in whatever you decide to go into. Some people married when still making less than 40k monthly, they just didn't remain stagnant, they challenged themselves, they worked hard and smart.
You were not ready for marriage but refused to use protector. Why?

Copy mrfranky

dingbang:
my pastor says it is not good to laugh at other's misfortune but learn from their mistakes.


Walahi, never again will I dive in raw. Celibate till marriage.

yeye dy smell,you better go and marry or abstinence.

Rozz:
watch as your fellow men will come out to support him all in the name of not letting any girl to tie him down with pregnancy

Men are not that low morally now. He deserves the blame but he still has decisions to make.

Rozz:
yeye dy smell,you better go and marry or abstinence.

are you single?

Baleeson:
ops you are wicked soul...this thing that you did to this girl may they do likewise to ur daughter
amen...karma is real....

Plz and plz modify the bolded part above please.... True karma exist but don't wish bad for his unborn children please. If there's anybody that should be punished, it should be the wrongdoer and not his generation unborn.

Those children are innocent and we shouldn't wish the kind of fortune for the coming generations. You don't wanna to be punished for your father's misdeeds, do you?

Let's be guided plz

Tatashi:
Only a lady who signals you are wasting her time will tell u such. And mind u she has other suitors who are desperate to marry her but its u she wants to be with thus the threat.

lol,
Can you marry a lady , who is pregnant for another man?

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

What an irresponsible guy,so you are telling us that you have slaughtered a lot of lives because of your reckless attitude.Don't worry,you shall meet them in here after

mrfranky:
I know av been irresponsible but the deed as been done, how do i solve this

Simple! Go on and marry her! Manage ur resources and aim for greater height. Stop committing abortion! It is an abomination in the eyes of God..

I totally agree.

I would add though that a good number of women reject condoms for different reasons such as:
- discomfort
- allergic reaction
- closeness of skin to skin
- feelings of being disposable
- ability to 'trap' someone (I think rare).

Zoie:

Honestly.
Though I believe the blame is to be shared.
Young women should place a high premium on their wombs, such that no bastard's sperm gets any right to evolve into a foetus there. No compromise.
Those advising postinor2 are ignorant. It is not a morning-after pill.

If condom itches his skin. Then let him get a vasectomy. Foolish females everywhere.

maasoap:


Men are not that low morally now. He deserves the blame but he still have decisions to make.

yes he has decisions to make and marrying her plus a final stop in endangering her life through the series of abortion they are doing should top whatever decisions he has to make or he should end things with her permanently.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Mr Frank, bring your head let me knock it .When you were spreading her legs you want to tell us you didn't know the outcome and you didnt look at your financial status. You better man up and take up your responsibility. Don't worry,finance will definitely come after the marriage

Please marry this gal and don't abort the pregnant u don't even know the gravity of the sin u are committing, aborting anyhow..Kai..40k is enough to stand a family of one when u apply a lots of packages and don't do more than u can...

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

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Repent you baby killer!

You have been doing the duty of married couple, even when you weren't ready to accept responsibility.

See your head like kernel.

You better go and do the needful. All those babies you are aborting are holding koboko for you in the future.

, why you dey curse like this bros? Is it that someone with around 100USD a month as an income can not bleep raw to raw again.

Imagine his father still dey give am money to feed, I only pity the girl. So he want to tell the girl to do another abortion again.

DukeJenrus:
Both of you are very stupid how can just kill innocent babies which you cannot create in life, what of both of you get married now and no baby again who to blame for the atrocity you have committed before God and man, you're there asking of advice Ogun kill you there

You're very stupid for having unprotected sex and going through several abortions despite your financial status.
I would tell my brother this.

Marriage doesn't have to involve threats, It's meant to be something beautiful, and both parties are on-board. The question is;

Do you love her? If no, then be honest and let her know Asap.
If Yes, what is the hold-up? You don't have to have Aso' Ebi before you marry the love of your life now!
You both need to sit down, discuss your future together amicably. Best of luck!

You are stupid and wicked. FYI, this is not an insult.