That was how I mistakenly came across one on a good day. I have been high since morning and restless I went to ocabique in ph but wasnt feeling any vibe with the girls I just drank more drinks, bought half barbequed chicken ate it and I received a call from my weed supplier.

I came back to the neighborhood, we got sm Arizona and were smoking up, when I told him I was coming from ocabique, he said he has a nice babe for me that will fvck me well.

He got this babe we went to a restaurant I bought food for everyone, I tipped the guy off, took this girl home. Just by the way she was speaking u could tell she was a beautiful miscreant.

We did our thing, the girl was scared of asking me for money, she said she wants to make her hair I carry 5k give am, since then this girl has been disturbing me, I had to stop using that line cause of her, I no see wetin Me and miscreant want talk.

Iceyjayz:
Stay away from broke girls, run as fast as you can if possible, if you are earning good income monthly stick to high class ladies that are earning good income too, so that you can both complement each other.

I've learnt the hard way and I can never repeat such stupid mistake again.

Modify your thread and tell us your experience with your broke ex girlfriend so that we can learn.

As for me I don't joke with my peace of mind that is why i am single.at the appropriate time I will settle down.no time for nonsense.

Iceyjayz:
Fool! are you my account manager? what I have in my account can buy all of you in your family.

And you're here ranting about just one girl. Shame on you!

Goodnigga:
True, it gives us an aphrodisiac ego boost, but being dependent is not the same as being a BURDEN & PARASITIC.

Tbh, there's no difference between the two in men's dictionary. She can ask for airtime money but fixing of nails money is 'being a burden'. She can ask for rent money but buying her a new car is 'being parasitic'

Where do you draw the line between being dependent and being parasitic?

Iceyjayz:
Stay away from broke girls, run as fast as you can if possible, if you are earning good income monthly stick to high class ladies that are earning good income too, so that you can both complement each other.

I've learnt the hard way and I can never repeat such stupid mistake again.

Broke girls are dream killers, you can never satisfy them, they are like poor Oliver twist asking for more, they will stress you, frustrate the hell out of ur life with their endless demands, if you send them recharge card they will use it to call other toasters they are insatiable, always awaiting to be given all the time.

alexola20:
I don't like anyone to be under me
I want a partner but not a slave/servant.

Can she earn more than you do? Will it still be a partnership in that instance?

Neroiam:


Thank God bro

ah my master thanks for making my day god bless you abundantly, indeed Nigeria will be great in my generation oo wow!!!

FashionCookie:
Una too talk. It's not as if I'm supporting a woman doing nothing or anything. But the way some people talk here sometimes, one will think at a point in their lives they've never been broke or had nothing doing. And I'm very sure then, they had girlfriends that they wanted to "stick with them through thick and thin." Judging from comments and all, some people here are not fair. Who see una go think say na one kind girl una dey date. I know some of you still mumu for your girlfriends. But then, it's nairaland...everyone can brag!... Lol...I know they'll come for me but I no go too reason am. ��E no touch ANYWHERE. Lol....

My dear not that everybody started rich . The problem with most broke ladies is that they pass there responsibility to their boyfriend . That is the point. Nobody says you shouldn't be broke but try to maintain independency not leaching on your partner.

What about a broke guy just asking

Turata101:
Thank you bro. You are very right. A broke girl has nothing to offer, only sticking pussy. You don’t have to force anyone to accept your advise . Time will tell

A broke girl will not always remain a broke girl. Take jaruma for example... Short sighted myopic ignoramus wey use am play then go dey gnash their teeth now seeing what she's accomplished.

There's a difference between a hard working broke lady and a downright lazy materialistic one. Just saying

Munzy14:
It is safe to call this thread "The confessions"...

Guys don't use money mentality to enter a relationship.

Don't enter a relationship out of pity.


Date a smart intelligent lady....

Before you enter that relationship, ask yourself what am I bringing to the table, what is she bringing to the table that money cannot buy so easily. Don't tell me sex, because u can always have sex with money at hand.

Don't tell me she cooks well, because you can hire a cook.

Guys there are ladies out there, with good ideas, general knowledge about everything... Smart, beautiful etc.

Avoid entitled people.

lastly, date someone who gives you peace of mind.

Love this lines

Neroiam:


Drop ur aza

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Thanks boss.

You have to take care of your lady but when demands gets out of hand ,it is rubbish

frugal:

Women generally stay away from broke guys. You don't need to tell them. They can sniff your broke ass a hundred miles away

But most men agitating on this nairaland are mostly "broke" guys who wanna be accepted and loved despite their lack of sufficient monetary ability and get bitter when everything goes south.

There's nothing wrong in being with an hardworking broke guy, he could b a student or something but has focus on achieving something for himself.

OP I really appreciate this post, it means a lot of advice to me, I have been there severally and the worst is they feel entitled and won't let you have peace of mind.

plsdisvirginme:
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Thanks boss.
3088821125.
First bank

Ozana

Happyguy201:

People wedding everyday they tell you what they are facing and going through now you will be amazed I have a friend who just got married 3 months ago now he's complaining and regretting why he married the girl she completely changed from who she used to be so save me that bull crap you don't know what you're talking about

Baba I'm just stating fact o. I don't care about what they go through. I'm a realist so na so e be. Couples b wedding every weekend and that's fact.

plsdisvirginme:
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Thanks boss.

Thank God

you right!! and just hit the nail on the head

na broke girl sure pass for some quickies

Mayng01:
If you are financially ok, & you need cheap bleeping, broke girls are easy take down. Yeah! Believe me

very right! the working class ones, them billings too dey high! but the broke ones can still be lured with small change haha

paulolee:
lolz..to me the broke girls are jus for sex, even the working ones are still stressing and still billing us, and the worst part is dt thoses broke ones know how to disturb, nag and form rubbish...dts Y i jus keep dm around for jus sex..

Neroiam:


Ozana

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Chai see how I take miss blessing.
Oga I hope I no come late.
Your boy dey loyal I swear.

Toks2008:


Broke ladies are different from leeches.

What the OP ought to write is "stay away from ladies who leech on men"

I have met broke ladies in the past who will never demand money from me even when they are veery broke...

I have seen ladies that turned a little stipend to gold.

There is no big deal in being broke but leeching on men to live your life is crazy.

Thank you.

Sirvingeo:

My dear not that everybody started rich . The problem with most broke ladies is that they pass there responsibility to their boyfriend . That is the point. Nobody says you shouldn't be broke but try to maintain independency not leaching on your partner.

Exactly Bros. It's just that some people were making it look as if they've never been broke at a point. I don't blame them though(because some women don swear say them no go hustle for this life wey them come)Some men actually support it. Yes I've seen cases and in truth, I just pity those women. But I agree with you completely. Self reliance is a must.

pocohantas:
The problem with Naija ladies is, they always want to cash out. The major problem is, they always want to cash out as soon as possible.

Looks like they have a target for each guy they meet. 2wks and they start telling you their problems...

Most men do not have a problem with caring for their own, most sensible men I must add. The problem is always the entitlement mentality. This is what Naija ladies should fix.

so u don dey get sense like dis


I no sure say we go fight again o ..abi na person use your phone to post this?




Kai! Poco of all people indeed change is constant

Iceyjayz:
Stay away from broke girls, run as fast as you can if possible, if you are earning good income monthly stick to high class ladies that are earning good income too, so that you can both complement each other.

I've learnt the hard way and I can never repeat such stupid mistake again.

Thank goodness you've received sense. I haven't achieved this state of mind for a long time too.

Usually, when the rich marry the rich, we think it as segregation but our parents failed to tell us why they segregate. Do it and teach your children why they should avoid the poor.

Neroiam:


Ozana

Of all I have read so far in this thread. Your kind gesture is the only thing I wish to comment on.

God bless you immensely for helping your fellow guys.

and whatever you yourself may think you have in your account too someone else will just use it to buy fuel or pay tithe on a sunday service!

someones oceans is another persons droplets

Iceyjayz:
Fool! are you my account manager? what I have in my account can buy all of you in your family.

seanwilliam:
yeah, same reason we dey hear break up on weekly basis

You dey load Chime?

Mrdealer4all:
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Chai see how I take miss blessing.
Oga I hope I no come late.
Your boy dey loyal I swear.

oya prove your loyalty

At least be working.once i realise u r jobless.i place u on 3k tip anytime we see and fuc k real hard.max 2days.