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8 Important Signs That He Is Not The Right Man For You. by lightfak007: 12:26am On Jun 22, 2020
1. He is always prioritizing his friends over your relationship.

Granted, he doesn’t necessarily have to make his entire life just about your relationship. That would be foolish. That would place too much pressure on your relationship. That’s the kind of codependency that creates toxic relationship environments. But that doesn’t mean that he should be completely disfavoring your relationship all the time. He should still be able to make you feel like a priority in spite of everything else going on in his life.

2. He refuses to make compromises for you and the relationship.
Compromises are absolutely essential in any relationship. And if you have a guy who just refuses to make compromises for you and your romance, then he’s not a guy who is worth fighting for in any capacity. The reason why compromises are important is that relationships aren’t always going to offer couples perfect conditions.

The both of you are going to be tested. You are both going to be forced to adapt and change a few times. You are both going to have to make a few adjustments. And if he just refuses to do what it takes to make your relationship work, then he’s really not a guy worth being with.

3. He always finds a way to make the relationship all about him.

A relationship is composed of two people. And so he has no right to always be making the relationship all about himself. He also has to be mindful of your own needs and expectations. He can’t be selfish. He can’t just always be thinking about what he can get from you. He can’t just always be thinking about how he can benefit from your relationship. He should also be willing to give just as much as he gets.

4. He doesn’t make an effort to spend time with you.
Time is the single most valuable thing that you could ever give to another person. And so that’s why it’s a really big deal if you have a partner who is willing to give you a huge bulk of his time. It just goes to show that he’s willing to give you something that he will never be able to take back – something that he can’t regain for himself.

He is giving you his time because you are important to him in that moment. And if he doesn’t give you a lot of his time, then it’s probably because you don’t really matter as much to him as you initially thought.
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Re: 8 Important Signs That He Is Not The Right Man For You. by Emvico34: 12:31am On Jun 22, 2020
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Re: 8 Important Signs That He Is Not The Right Man For You. by dawnomike(m): 8:54pm On Jun 23, 2020
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