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Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by djon78(m): 11:37am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Ohamzee: That's why someone should see a great danger and run into it. Overbearing men are terrible. I have a relation married to an overbearing man. If she was not the cool type, the marriage would have broken apart since. For the lady to be already complaining She is the type that will not overlook or forbear. Then it's better she goes for an easy going, cool man. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by djon78(m): 11:39am On Jun 27, 2020 |
deavicky: For her to be asking about it. She is the type that will not overlook or forbear. So she better find her square root now. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by djon78(m): 11:41am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Macon1212: Op this is a matured man that has seen things in life. Listen to his advice. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by djon78(m): 11:48am On Jun 27, 2020 |
supereagle: Hmmm.... This is very deep. You Don enter no be small. You must really be a person of great tolerance and patience. E no easy. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Nobody: 11:48am On Jun 27, 2020 |
ethicallyright:I know it might feel satisfying as a man to believe this is right but it isn't. A true man regards the opinions of his woman and discerns if its appropriate before negating it. Remember, she isn't a slave but a helper. No one is an island of knowledge and no one is all wise. We need each other's counsel. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by xendra: 11:50am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:Hahahahaha ... RUN! he is one of those jerks who will rather be nothing if everything they need to excel is in the hands of a woman. unless you are or want to be a woman with no identity. most Times such men don't even have their shit together yet wouldn't take Jack, and long term they'll end up ruining your life along with theirs. girl Run!! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by engrMikemd(m): 11:51am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Munzy14:God bless you richly for saying what others are too scared to say. op should pls heed this advice, the best so far |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by xendra: 11:52am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Macon1212:OP if you refuse to listen to this because of desperation then OYO is ya case. "Admin hide my identity " will not be far from you. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by EdmundDantes(m): 12:25pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Zoie: Who is gaslighting? |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by MrCaesar: 12:38pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
You have to first talk with him about it. After that, build this very strong attitude of stubbornness. it should be your own way of trying to bend him. Pick quarrel with him whenever he becomes unnecessarily overbearing. If he doesn't bend after like three months, then he's a gunner. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by dontro(m): 12:40pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Make him understand how you feel. If he does not change genuinely after that, simply call it a quit. Happiness is more important than a relationship; how much more a toxic relationship |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Brightgem(f): 12:41pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:You know the answer stop asking. You will end up frustrated if someone cannot consider what you want and always it has to be what they want. And you used a word he behaves as if you are disobedient. Are you dating your father, boss or a partner that shd see you as equal. Why forcing you to do what is not comfortable. Better talk to yourself, this is a red flag for you, your mind doesn't want it. There are times to feed a man's ego, but if it has to be all the time, you go tire. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Brightgem(f): 12:45pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
ethicallyright:SUBMIT to him, women are now differentiating between that word and slavery as well as suffering. I must have wronged you terribly for me to go on my knees and beg you. If you meant what you said, you are a big time joker. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by petitejolie(f): 12:45pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
truthhurts2:I don’t understand wat you’re saying o |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by abbiboy: 12:48pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
I can categorically tell u that when u get married u will loose my liberty. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Neddyogu(m): 1:01pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
You have been feeding his ego and now out of the blues u wanna starve the ego u've bn feeding all this while? Well done madam ego feeder. U dey see toxic relationship u wan still chuk ur head put. Use ur tongue count ur teeth. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by fadoz(m): 1:06pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
[color=#770077][/color]i smell 8red,but complicated issues are always driven to the Almighty God. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by truthhurts2: 1:34pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
petitejolie:I mean in this kind of situation, when series of people with different opinions surfaces, it is in best of the @OP Interest to choose wisely because, none of us are in her shoes (she's the only one that knows what damage this whole stuff is causing her) and none of us will be part of the consequences of her decision. So, she should choose wisely. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by victorian(f): 2:18pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
jornwhite: Well thank God I'm not yet married. Cos my whole existence is not screaming I want to marry any morafucka! If marrying anyhow man is cool, why are people divorcing? Why are married couples killing and stabbing themselves? U think marriage is just wedding day? I laughed at your foolishness Mind u, I have taste, very good taste in men. I don't date anyhow. I take my time on relationships. So don't let my not been married give u headaches. I believe in enjoyingy my man and our relationship.. Not just putting up with an overbearing asshole. God knows such kind of men. I won't give near how much more date. relationships and marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured and die in silence like some women do. I wish una luck but count me out! |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by angelfallz(m): 2:26pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: Have you tried talking to your parents, about the issues you are having with the man, that you are in a serious relationship with? |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by victorian(f): 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
whytediamond: It took me 7years to get over the horrors of dating over bearing men, all in the name of I want to marry. God forbid I go down such lane again. Heavens forbid such men cross my path again. And yes I'm 35! I don't see anything wrong in it. But Marrying a mismatch cos of age? That's a red flag to me. If I have my way I won't every marry sef ,or stick with any man. You think I care so much about being in a suffocating relationship cos of what people will say? Lol then u don't really know me. Getting married is the least of my problems.. It's not even a problem cos I'm the one placing a halt on it on several occasions when I couldn't cope with smiling and suffering kind of relationship. Cos majority of men out there are like grenades ready to blow off. I don't need such man stress! What I look for in relationship is peace of mind. Which I now have with my Boo. He's the only man, I'm comfortable with. He's not perfect but at least he's not overbearing. He doesn't control, very easy going guy with a heart of gold. He's a breathe of fresh air. And such guys like him are rare. One can't help but love him. He was even the one who seek me out sef, cos i don't even have time for men and their wahala. And so far it's been peaceful all the way For me o! I can't live with an overbearing man oreslse we will both break our heads one day. I hate stress of any kind. I have had my fair share of it in the past. But never again at this level of my life. Never again! But an easy going guy who loves peace does it for me. Or else lemme remain single for life! Who overbearing man help? Smhhhhh. It's not about how far but how well. At this stage of my life, after all the upheavals and trauma have passed through dating controlling and overbearing men? Abeg I don't need such men anymore. Let them go and marry other women and stress up their lives. I no come this life because of man. I can only settle and be with an easygoing man. No two ways about it. My peace of mind is topmost. I don't joke with it 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by petitejolie(f): 2:58pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
truthhurts2:well she should expect series of opinions. She wants d series of opinions to help her make a decision thats why she brought her story to a public space. And there cant be only one person going through a particular challenge in d world. There are people that have been there. Over bearing partners is not perculiar. There are a lot of them 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Ezlynn: 3:42pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
I don't believe in coping either in a relationship or a marriage, it's better to let go and walk away, before it gets so physical and leads to something else. When it comes to matters of the heart, judgements can be clouded. Meanwhile do you know you can take your bank with you everywhere you go ? With GTBank Mobile Wallet, you can; manage your account, and also make swift transactions, all at your convenience. Simply dial , the USSD *737# to get started, it's safe and fast. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Ohamzee: 3:57pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
djon78:true sha. Well i tell people to ask God for direction before going into marriage. A forebearing man may not even show those traits untill after wedding oh my friend. Its not written on the face. Alot of pretenders these days. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by djon78(m): 4:11pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Ohamzee: True there are pretenders, but once someone begins to show some character before marriage. It's a red alert. People rearly hide there true nature. I have seen what overbearing men can do to a woman in marriage. And how the women later revenge back, when the children are grown up. I have also seen easy going men that built unique and wonderful family. See bad thing no good at all. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by truthhurts2: 4:57pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
[/quote] petitejolie:of course, you are damn right, there is a saying that "nothing ever gets healed if you keep it covered up", but you know sometimes, when most responses you are getting are not align with what you really wants to hear you get confused. [b][/b] Overbearing person? For me is hell no. And I have found in my experience people rarely change. And when they do, they're not to be trusted 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by petitejolie(f): 5:08pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
truthhurts2:it’s better to be practical about it. Now she knows this is who he is can she cope with it or not. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Lamanii22(f): 5:16pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Alwaysachick: Just break up with him... You'd get tired in the end... I have been there before.... I told him once and for all that I couldn't continue this relationship... He started threatening me oo... I was like is it by force to be in a relationship ni... I promised my future children a very simple father not this one... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by rosalieene(f): 5:21pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
ethicallyright:submit to who? is he her husband? she has a choice to walk away 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Cope With An Overbearing Man??? by Jsabigi: 5:59pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Just come meet me, I am a very good man, many girls have testified. Infact, they said I was too good to have them. |
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