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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by millionboi(m): 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Iamdboss:e go hungry u again na |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
4ckz:. Are you saying the man is an Ashawo?? What is 'Ashawo lifestyle' The man is just a failed husband who will give her wife herpes in the Future!! He is a Hypocrite!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Asadujames202(m): 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
kurlz: For some of us, that craves for it every day One month is like one year 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by biggy26: 11:12pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
misreal:What do you expect her to say? |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
lefulefu: Well I dont mean the practical aspect. Just discuss it verbally as Christians since you're not allowed to practicalize it. I dont see anything wrong in that. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Ogbuu101: 11:13pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
J111333:I guess you aren't married so,you won't understand. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by henryudgrt(m): 11:15pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Why will ur wife not want to have sex with her husband, why did they get married in d first place. It could be the man is not good on bad, 99% of men out there chit, the wife hv just room for the man to chit |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Eulalia:can u even discuss the issue of sex in marriage with a pastor in the first place? he will tag u a sinner i agree with ur statement though that ppl who get married should try and know if they sexually compactable.There many ladies who get married to men they find highly unattactrative..many hook up with such men cos of money or they feel their biological clock is ticking away.wen they get married to such men its natural to refuse the man sex 4 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by 4ckz: 11:15pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
eni4real: I was also bordered about the health implications, but the man in his words have been like that for more than 10 years. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Ogbuu101: Understand what? Lack of self control? Abegi! |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Aliu4weezy(m): 11:16pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Read the post very well..the man in qtn cheated cos he was deprived of sex 4rm the wife.. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by sheyitokz(m): 11:16pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Asadujames202:naso e suppose be narr |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Rhymeyjohn: 11:17pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
You guys were obviously in a relationship and you've both heard past sexual experience. It appears odd for a Christian Eulalia: |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Philadelphia: 11:19pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: How did you know this? |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
4ckz:He needs to put his family together! Bedding prostitutes is lame! 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by emmanuelpopson(m): 11:19pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
im here to read comments. i will comment later |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
It's really not an easy thing especially if you're a public figure who sees people or customers all the time. Today Abuja tomorrow owerri and another day New York or Ontario. This is only possible with one thing...self discipline. I've never seen pretty babes like those in America and Nigeria is next. As a married man, it's not been easy taking eyes off them but if you can discipline yourself, you could overcome this. If you're feeling Hot and home seems far away, open your tab or phone and read a few words of God and pray. At times, I do vigil in my hotel room while I'd be hearing some echoes from other rooms in the dead hours of the night with serious screaming. When you read the word of God and pray, you'd not know when such evil thoughts would disappear. This is a serious issue nowadays. While at home, your wife would provoke you, she'd nag and you'd feel like looking outside. Without discipline, you can't overcome the temptation. Any married man who says it's not an issue is lying. This method has helped me a lot...my opinion 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by leaculpa: 11:22pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
The 2 reasons for sex deprivation in marriage for women is 1) No emotional connection. Many women are not so expressive about hurts or offense with their husbands & keep a lot inside without resolving them. It kills any sexual attraction to their husband. Sex is emotional for women. Unlike men dt are turned on easily. 2) No sexual pleasure A lot of women do not get any pleasure from sex as their husbands do not give them an orgasm. Thrrefore frequent marital sex becomes another chore they want to get out of & just sleep (especially if they have little children). These are the 2 reasons for Sex deprivation in marriages all over the world. black, white, brown, yellow. 12 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
[quote author=lefulefu post=91180710] can u even discuss the issue of sex in marriage with a pastor in the first place?lol.. Thats not true. Most pastors are romantic than even regular men. I once courted a pastor so I know. Very romantic guys. Deeper life men too are romantic o. I have one pestering me now and he talks about everything but we know where to draw the line. Only comma is that they are not fire fire bothers like RCCG. i agree with ur statement though that ppl who get married should try and know if they sexually compactable. There many ladies who get married to men they find highly unattactrative..many hook up with such men cos of money or they feel their biological clock is ticking away.wen they get married to such men its natural to refuse the man sexlol thats bad though. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by KimVenom(m): 11:23pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
In a marriage, sex is one of those things couples should sort out as a man or woman depriving the other from it send a message which the other might misinterprete. The truth is men has to be the one pushing for sex mostly but as a woman depriving him of it for a good reason is acceptable and you need to make him understand. Although some women purposely deprive their husbands to reasons best known to them, I would tell you the truth it's totally wrong, if you are trying to avoid pregnancy it's not a crime to use contraceptive or contraceptive drugs (see a doctor for the drugs) and also if you don't get the fun in it try do some research on how to make it fun for you and your partner. Another thing is this, I have seen some women who even treat their husbands to it not because of money or anything but just for fun and to increase the bond they shared. I don't know about others but for me it's totally wrong to deprive your partner sex for months or weeks, Atleast 2-3 days is okay but you should be truthful and let your partner understands you. Thanks this is my own opinion 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by 4ckz: 11:24pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
jaxxy: This is a phase that I believe that I would pass through with time. I don't really have the time or the zeal for a relationship now, there are things I have to accomplish and I can't add relationship drama to my very tight schedule. Meanwhile, man must nak, and since I have the money, na to dey nak dey go. When it's time to build a life with a woman, I will try my best to stop this. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
[quote author=Eulalia post=91180864][/quote] deeper life..romantic abeg i no wan laugh |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by NevetsIbot(m): 11:24pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
4ckz: Baba wan dey lah him wife three times a week. lmao i just pray never to experience sexual depravation from my wife if I even get married... 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by content208: 11:25pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
J111333: Your opinion is myopic. Do you know some women will not allow their husbands to have sex with them until he bribes them with money? Stop making conclusive statements as if you have seen it all. 5 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by OsuIgboIpob: 11:26pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Emmanuelcann:This is stupîd... |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Rhymeyjohn: What appears odd? So if the bro has a baby size P, you'll not ask and go and end up with baby penis? Or if the sister has fallen boobs you'll not use style to find out by asking her how perky they are. I'm sorry if I'm sounding too raw tonight buh.. Hmm. Ok. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by OriOko88(m): 11:27pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Where's Shibaraba sef. Com chuk mouth for this matter |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Vulcan24(m): 11:29pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
to be honest with you, my wife don't deprive and I don't it's madness to be married and you ll be acting that shit to each other sometimes I sleep in another room just to av more space but if she needs me she comes if I do I go meet her ..... me I nor understand a these deprivation and bargaining.... unless u marry a slut, who has had wild premarital sex experience besides sex in marriage becomes boring once in a while and u both focus on some higher needs, like getting more money changing ur wardropes diet and even living condition all of which requires energy and concentration that man may av married all these classic women from upper class upbringing cos most of them are like tele novellas. u av to watch them season after season But I doubt all these middle class and lower sex starved madoo crazy bobos go discharge sex them go even mix chemical to bang that man may have picked apple from d wrong tree 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ariklawani(f): 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
If you are wise as a woman, you should never use sex as a weapon to pusnish your man 8 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by spinna: 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
How can yr wife deny you sex for so long..you too share the blame..it means youre not romantic. If yu slap her yansh every time u see her in the house..play bite her pelvic bone..suck her earlobes..shes already laughing and getting turned on 6 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
lefulefu: Lol.. What do you understand by romantic? they are o. Its not about talking dirty but they are good with calling sweet pet names and treating you like a queen. Buh what I dont fancy is their jelenke prayer life. They make good husbands. I lived in their midst growing up and the married ones made me start yearning for marriage quite early in life. They are good. Lefulefu stop laughing jor |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by drezy1: 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
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