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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by PhilipReigns(m): 12:30am On Jun 29, 2020 |
nickishire:Yes, because he doesn't see the concubine all the time, he doesn't see the concubine's panties hanging at the wall rope leading to the restroom all the time, he doesn't see the concubine tying wrapper to cook in the kitchen or leaves her hair undone for weeks stretching to months without caring to plant it, he doesn't get nagged or have sex flagged off as a reward for an impresive act or a weapon for striking his shortcomings every now and then, he doesn't get to see the concubine wearing pads right in his front without caring if it's pleasant to the man's eyes or not, he doesn't get a particular sex position (missionary) and a little or no urge to suck his dick as practiced way back during courtship anymore....all the time. All these and many more, most Nigerian wives have the habit of putting into practice which consequently reduces the man's sexual fantasy and makes men lust after another Lady outside. Goodnight! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:33am On Jun 29, 2020 |
I don't think I can even bear 1 month without, like, I must be lashing my wife like thrice a week to say the least. I am much more scared that since my life is like this now, maybe cheating would be inevitable for m [/quote] So the reason you came to this world is just to have sex |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 12:35am On Jun 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:it seems i concur with u. For a woman to deprives her husband sex upto 3months without having medical issues, that woman has alternative sexual pleasure. 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by luminouz(m): 12:36am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Danniedpastor: You are a bad counselor and you will end up not only breaking up marriages with your lopsided advice but you might die early yourself practising your own counsel 4 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Judybash93(m): 12:36am On Jun 29, 2020 |
thesicilian: I don buy seat for here. Start talking |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Temhellen(f): 12:36am On Jun 29, 2020 |
prekumohtim:No be their fault joooo. Let them have it |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Temhellen(f): 12:37am On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma:Not all women |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Temhellen(f): 12:40am On Jun 29, 2020 |
luminouz:Haaaaaa Why did you say that? |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by bigfish3k: 12:41am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Ningen:From the passage I can deduce that they had great sex relationship during courtship but his wife actually started sexual deprivation after their first child |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:43am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Temhellen: I just tire about them sometimes. Almost every post on nairaland is targeted against women. If marriage didn't work, the society will blame the women 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:44am On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma:some are diagreeing with me..someone even said when a woman marries and start bearing kids her sexual drive goes down ...yet time and time again we keep hearing stories of married women with kids who get caught in hotels having sex with their ex 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 12:44am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Emmanuelcann:Sex mutual pleasure not a bargaining table 4 business or money transactions. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by luminouz(m): 12:47am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Temhellen: Dude is not being real.biko |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by bigfish3k: 12:47am On Jun 29, 2020 |
misreal:What if she does after your first child. What will you do Remember that you love your child and you don't want a broken home for him 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:47am On Jun 29, 2020 |
ModestGal:so what if the ugly man is very wealthy..will u refuse if he signifies interest in u? 1 Like
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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:48am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Na u dey pained, boomerang, back to sender Tadeknkeepcalm: |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by bigfish3k: 12:48am On Jun 29, 2020 |
misreal:What if she does after your first child. What will you do. Remember that you love your child and you don't want a broken home for him |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:50am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Dunsin2020:Ok sir |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 12:51am On Jun 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:If so, why do we still have sugar Mummy everywhere, if during&after birth her sex drive reduces? When it comes to sex deprivation for me is wrong. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:52am On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma:You are right. When I said that, I had this particular narrative in mind. At least before he started patronizing prostitutes that is. I hope you understand sir. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:52am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Nairaboi:I see. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 12:56am On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma:abi ..many young guys in Abuja make a living by sleeping with older women and these women pay them money for sex .they say women sex drive reduces yet there are guys who sleep with married older women and get payed and these guys are living well on such proceeds.if many women who are married tend to have low sex drive after having kids how come the sugar mummy industry in nigeria is booming .thats a question those guys who argue that married women with kids tend to have low sex drive cant answer .the truth of the matter is when u wife starts refusing u sex withouth any medical issue then it means she detests you,she is not attracted to you or one of her ex has resumed having sex with her.it h :Ds nothing to do with her sex drive reducing.Sex drive reducing and yet the sugar mummy industry is booing well in nigeria 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 1:00am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Temhellen:Then why deprivation? There's no woman without sexual feeling. Excessive denial or deprivation is a sign of alternative methods. So stop twisting it bcoz u know what am talking about. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 1:09am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm:Sex is a driving force in a marriage and u can't keep ur marriage without it. However, i don't buy the idea of married man patronizing ashawo for the sake of his family health. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by stanliwise(m): 1:12am On Jun 29, 2020 |
dodelight:polygamy led to a lot of broken home and children who need to travel just to see their father. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 1:16am On Jun 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:the woman should give her husband sex and stop being silly. Without sex she can't keeps her home safe 5 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 1:18am On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma:You're very correct. That's why I said polygamy is the only responsible alternative. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by 0rion: 1:31am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Nairaboi: Chineke mei 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by 0rion: 1:34am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Eulalia: But sometimes women do use sex as weapon to fight the husband |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by steveekeoma(m): 1:39am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Geminita1:Guy u need to see ur doctor or u take that black pills in the cupboard. Stop deceiving urself. Thanks |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by AreaFada2: 1:40am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Ningen: At times it's not about compatibility. People can be compatible when dating and make effort to satisfy bf/gf. But that change when they become "shairman/shairwoman" after wedding. Childbirth can also change the dynamics. Lots of women shift attention to the baby or kids. Even men do it. All the spontaneous "things" of before disappear. People's libido might just reduce over time. Let's also face it, people do fall out of love. Marriage is no panacea to being in love perpetually. In many cases, love was never really there but marriage was done to tick one of the "must do" boxes of life. The initial excitement might initially keeps sex going but later wears off. The biggest obstacle is a partner not knowing or accepting that something is wrong. That way seeking professional therapy becomes difficult. We are Africans trying to live as Europeans. No polygamy, no elders stepping in to advise, etc. Your pastor is now more trusted to intervene because he says God anointed him. Often without the expertise or understanding of social or cultural background of the couple. It's a time of flux for Africans. Challenging days are ahead in virtually all facets of life. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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