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My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:08am On Jul 01, 2020
Before we started dating, we did less chatting cos we see each other more..

But during this whole lockdown of a thing, I realized she doesn't even know how to flow well in chats

That's not even my problem, my problem is that she keeps complaining I don't chat with her well, I don't communicate with her.. Bla bla..

But what would i say to someone that replies with monosyllabic words.. Even when I try to crack a joke, she just sends laughing emojis, if I try to start up a reasonable conversation.. All she replies is with "hmmm.. Yeah", "well", "true" etc

And she keeps chatting me up

NB: I've talked to her about this
Since I talked to her about it, she has been saying.. Ehn, I prefer to chat with "those I think are in my level"

I don't even know what to do to her

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by supercase1(m): 9:09am On Jul 01, 2020
You are worst than this girlfriend of yours.how can a full grown man be gossiping shamelessly on nairaland without remorse

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 01, 2020
That your last statement though.. "prefer to chat with those on my level" as how . I no get hoo

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by donbachi(m): 9:17am On Jul 01, 2020
Start using lackadaisical words...e.g,"u mean am,eyah and u chat me I chat u"
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Nobody: 9:18am On Jul 01, 2020
Your GF after reading this
One pointed at u, the other to the people who dnt support her cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by lindywane(m): 9:21am On Jul 01, 2020
it is in her. you can't do anything to change that. it is either u go with the flow or you quit.

pls check my signature for your flight bookings
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by meobizy(f): 9:21am On Jul 01, 2020
Since you’re on the Internet, find other more interesting females to fill the gap. Chat with your girl from time to time. You’re already doing something right if not she would have blocked you a long time ago. All these “hmm”, “right“ and “k” females used to bother me a lot as a young man. Now I leave them in their lane. Anytime they want to chat, na them know — I will entertain them well, but they are not my number one options for intellectual yarns. I have guys and other more exposed females in my chat list for that.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by MoneyMindset(m): 9:23am On Jul 01, 2020
Some people problem na money and some people problem na woman

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by posty56: 9:25am On Jul 01, 2020
girl or boy the moment u start to be writing boring stuff like:" yeah ,kk,fine",I just stop immediately cause I no fit stress myself on top matter wey no they feed me

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:44am On Jul 01, 2020
Anuoluwa1234:
That your last statement though.. "prefer to chat with those on my level" as how . I no get hoo

She said I think she's not in my level, that I prefer flowing well with the Ladies I think are in my level
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:45am On Jul 01, 2020
donbachi:
Start using lackadaisical words...e.g,"u mean am,eyah and u chat me I chat u"

Exactly, I started doing that..
But na complain wan kee me
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:47am On Jul 01, 2020
lindywane:
it is in her. you can't do anything to change that. it is either u go with the flow or you quit.

pls check my signature for your flight bookings

Alright thanks..
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by donbachi(m): 9:47am On Jul 01, 2020
haydeey:

Exactly, I started doing that.. But na complain wan kee me
she aint serious.
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:52am On Jul 01, 2020
meobizy:
Since you’re on the Internet, find other more interesting females to fill the gap. Chat with your girl from time to time. You’re already doing something right if not she would have blocked you a long time ago. All these “hmm”, “right“ and “k” females used to bother me a lot as a young man. Now I leave them in their lane. Anytime they want to chat, na them know — I will entertain them well, but they are not my number one options for intellectual yarns. I have guys and other more exposed females in my chat list for that.

Thank you o
There are more than enough people on the internet to chat with..
Her replies doesn't bother..
My issue is her coming to complain to me that I don't chat well, meanwhile. Tis her fault
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 9:55am On Jul 01, 2020
cruxgemmata:
Your GF after reading this
One pointed at u, the other to the people who dnt support her cheesy
grin grin
Nahh.. She won't see this
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by nickvanilla(m): 9:57am On Jul 01, 2020
haydeey:


Thank you o
There are more than enough people on the internet to chat with..
Her replies doesn't bother..
My issue is her coming to complain to me that I don't chat well, meanwhile. Tis her fault

One of the cons of dating a Naija babe.
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by haydeey(m): 10:11am On Jul 01, 2020
nickvanilla:


One of the cons of dating a Naija babe.
grin
You get babe for us? Make I switch cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by paulolee(m): 10:26am On Jul 01, 2020
its simple...wen online, jus find the sets of people that chats and flows well and try to delay her replies or start chatting d same way she's doing and if she complains jus tell her you are busy or its network problems.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by nickvanilla(m): 11:34am On Jul 01, 2020
haydeey:

grin
You get babe for us? Make I switch cheesy

Lol. Do I come across as a love-vendor? Face your wahala bro grin
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Tolex4real9: 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2020
There are babes like that that doesn't honestly know how to keep conversation even with a guy they are genuinely interested in. Yh, it happens

If you are sure you ain't doing it intentionally, make you sef no dey too chat her for greeting except you've got a vital message to pass across to her. Try calling her instead if you fares better in talking. Anything to sha build the bond of your relationship if you indeed love.

And ignore her complaints too, overtime, she will adjust

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Shittuwasiu101(m): 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2020
Every Naija babe things... They don't knw how to keep a conversation

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:59pm On Jul 01, 2020
I prefer verbal communication over text to some people, I guess she might be in that category.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Stephenmoka4(m): 1:00pm On Jul 01, 2020
Some guys will blame it on Nigeria girls, well.
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by eazzzy1(m): 1:31pm On Jul 01, 2020
Start calling then. She’s not a chatty type. Another way is to ask open ended questions. Not questions she can say yes or no to. E.g how was your day should be replaced with tell me how your day went.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Wickedinlaw: 1:57pm On Jul 01, 2020
supercase1:
You are worst than this girlfriend of yours.how can a full grown man be gossiping shamelessly on nairaland without remorse

grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by YngDenzel1: 3:35pm On Jul 01, 2020
I don't gist on phone, i only use it to know whatsupp. If i miss u, i visit u. SIMPLE!

I can maybe manage video call. But I will always prefer physical conversation.

This generation problems sef too much

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by merieam16(f): 4:38pm On Jul 01, 2020
haydeey:

Exactly, I started doing that.. But na complain wan kee me
cant u call, must it b chattin

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Ugaboy: 5:09pm On Jul 01, 2020
merieam16:
cant u call, must it b chattin
lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc

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Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Ugaboy: 5:11pm On Jul 01, 2020
merieam16:
cant u call, must it b chattin
lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, unintelligent, wreck, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by merieam16(f): 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2020
Ugaboy:
lolz, u want her to waste his airtime...for me i may nt beable to tolerate her.
i cant even hope to try an hour call with dis kain person..
baba ur babe is dull, unintelligent, wreck, dunce, person, dumbass, forlore, forlese, forlorn, olodo, i-ti, etc
lolz, calm down naw
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by Ugaboy: 5:29pm On Jul 01, 2020
merieam16:
lolz, calm down naw
lolz, he came to look for names for his babe
Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Keep A Conversation by okikiosibodu(m): 5:53pm On Jul 01, 2020
Op... Let me share what helps me
Google "conversation starters", and try to copy some of the examples there, and paste after fine tuning it in yours words. If you try like 20 of them and e no work, Google "funny conversation starter". If it still doesn't work, you two might just not be syncing together. It's best you both call it off before it's too late

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