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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by nemynely(m): 5:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave: Girl, I don't need to see you physically to conclude that you are a mature lady. Thumbs up. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Barile001(m): 5:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I feel your pains, I have experienced similar thing in the past. Just endure a bit save more money and move out of that house. Your brother is a weak man. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Chigold101(m): 5:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Championxxx:how old are you? Don't you have parents? How many years are you supposed to serve your brother? These are important questions but If you have parents, talk to your parents. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by olaks4real(m): 5:13pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Xmen149(m): 5:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Prenonjebose: Thanks my brother. that Guy has lost walahi. His brother married a woman he loves not the other way round. That place is no longer home for him,if a woman have authority over a man,then knows and control his source of income/power the man has lost bcs what the devil can do a woman can do even better. His days of comfot are over,.it's time to take risks,suffer and become a man else he might not stand the next possible outbreak from that house (rape accusations go follow soon and his brother will abandon him too) |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
mikezuruki:Don't mind her.. Some men are even calling her 'wise' with all those sexist advice she was dishing!! May God help 21st century men from Mumuism.. How men can approve her comments baffles me 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by HandsomeBlack: 5:14pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
1. At 23, you shouldn't be staying with your brother after he got married. Couples need privacy especially newly weds. 2. Those two grown up ladies are not supposed to be there too. 3. What kind of a brother would give his own brother such conditions to endure hell in the name of serving him before he would settle you? 4. First, Save up money and rent yourself a small apartment. Even if it's one room apartment and move in there. 5. Respectfully let your brother know why you need to move and still report at your duty in his shop. 6. If your brother carries out his threat of disowning you (whatever that means), either not settling you or asking you to stop working with him in his shop, be a man and start your own. Either the same business or something similar. 7. One day your bros brain go reset and he'll realize you did the right thing. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by SimeonOTC(m): 5:16pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
TheArchangel: baby please give me huggggg...baby please give me hugg naaahhh...chaaiii...u dey make my head they scatter...chaaiii...i wish i can be the o.p... na all this kind matter them for they see me |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by vickydevoka(m): 5:16pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
friendl:How can an outsider from Igbo marry mbaise. Is very rare. Even imo people from mbano, okigwe n olu hate mbaise. De only Thing dat will make me marry Dem is if de gal is over submissive, in dis life no body create himself |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by budusky05(m): 5:16pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Am sure u guys are the east? One rubish u guys do that I hate so much. Why will a grown man like you be sleeping in ur married brothers sitting room? Why should her wife bring to devil along when only ur brother paid for her bride price, or did ur brother pay excess? Then was given two extra? My guy just pack and leave that house now. Go look for one room |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Your brother may have used your destiny and his wife knows and taking advantage,cos he cnt scold her. She mite be the one supporting his business,paying the rent or providing. It wont get any better...sleeping from room,to parlor..b4 u start sleepin outside |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Emary(f): 5:17pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I would suggest you try to catch some of their behaviors on video. That way, even if you go back home to your parents, they will support you. Your brother and his wife might poison their minds making life even more difficult for you. In the meantime, you'll have to ignore and stomach a lot of their bad behaviors. Do your best to come back home just to sleep and be out first thing in the morning. Concentrate on your brother's business as much as you can because 1. it will make you invaluable to him and 2. the skills you will learn here will help you with your own in future. Be very prayerful too so God will both direct you and help you fight your battles. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by iliyande(m): 5:18pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I remember when I used to be peaceful with my brother managing his business, until he got married the wife puts much pressure on me and my bro later got a house for me from there not up to a year I got a job and left and the business died immediately..... Inside life. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Brightgem(f): 5:18pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:oh lord! What kind of comment and advice is this? We women are troublesome by nature? Any body who is troublesome by nature is close to madness. All these advice now, how do they solve the problem? Can you endure this nonsense? Some people don't understand what peace of mind means. Wife and sister are bad people, period. No excuses for bad behavior. If that girl was equally violent towards him, you'll still say it's not good to slap a woman Yada Yada Yada, not verbally or physically abuse anyone. It's that simple. OP at your age, hustle and get the hell out of that house. Join with friends and rent a place or find a really cheap apartment. Your brother doesn't own your life. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Sonfethopia: 5:18pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave: You have wisdom and overstanding. Its ur kind that should seat with men to judge issues. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Amumaigwe: 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
heendrix: It is not really hard to spot on teenager on this forum. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by collum(m): 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
any woman In Form of a wife that want to bring problem between me and my lovely brother, may the struggle we went through kill that woman and her family. It is better I don't marry nor have children than to have unresolved issues with my brother because of a woman. I felt pain reading this article. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
responsibleguy:The special one She is talking in Rubbish!!! |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by BabaIbo: 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I think your presence is giving your brother a form of security but he doesn't want to open up to you. What about your parents? I think they are in the best position to settle this. If I'm the one, I will tell the 3 of you to leave my house(I will get an apartment for you outside closer to the shop). The reason I will send you away alongside is because I don't want it to look biased. But in the real sense, I did what you want i.e I'm helping you. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Karlifate: 5:19pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
[quote author=Georgekyrian post=91808077]OP your wife Brother doesn't want you, is generally with women against in-laws, but bet me your brother is weak and you seems stronger. Stand on your feet and protect your brother, he needs you to get delivered from that evil woman, stop eating her food and be careful not to fight the 3 sisters again, only fight with your mind not hands and I don't advice a man to exchange words with women. Be your brother's secret weapon even without him knowing someday he will understand himself. if you leave that house, that woman will show her true colors which may bring your brother down. It seems you guys are only 2 brothers, if yes don't allow that woman to separate you and you brother, it's possible he wants to be managing your brother's business herself as soon as you are drop off. If they fight you many times and noticed you don't fight back (making them not able to penetrate you) she will get one of her sister to work you love and becareful for this tactics and defeat all. H 1 Like
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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by ecowas: 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave: please where are you @adviser, I need your contact one love 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by jubrilELsudan: 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
YOUR BROTHER'S WIFE IS A WINTCH. HER SISTERS ARE WINTCHES. THEIR WHOLE FAMILY ARE WINTCHES. YOUR BROTHERS WIFE WILL END UP KILLING HIM. SHE IS CONTROLLING YOUR BROTHER SPIRITUALLY THATS WHY HE CANT BE A MAN AND HANDLE HIS WIFE AND SISTERS AND PUT HIS HOUSE IN ORDER. 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Funpeter: 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave:let me give you an additional advice bro.. I once stay with my uncle close to 5 years after service. The wife she is nice but also hot temper do you know how I cope I was loyal I behave like an house boy until the chance came and I left. See help the wife out evn in kitchen help her out.. Wash your bro cloth iron it was plate sweep you go see she go like you die na she go dey fight for you self. But when you are saying this na my brother house you will have problem. Your bro still want you cos he is benefiting from you nothing more. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
lagosrd:Don't beg to disagree She is talking in Rubbish!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by nemynely(m): 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Georgekyrian: And if the lady collapses and dies in the process, what happens then........ 1 Like |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Xmen149(m): 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
akpota: I strongly advise he never go that direction,.you capture a woman s heart by treating her kids nice including gifts,her sometimes but never the sisters .many things will come out of it,..He will rope him self more in the web |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by ofoka: 5:21pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Bros, what you are experiencing is not unusual. Anytime a man gets married, the wife wants her family members around the house and the mans side at a distance to claim full ownership. You can't stop this since your mother and your sister may be doing same. Even your daughter will also do same. You have two options; Tolerate all the shit and not even complain to anyone. Make friends with people of same type of business and spend more of your time there and only spend minimal time in your brother's house What you need now is to become your own man very early so that you can move on. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Chris4sur: 5:21pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
veave: Championxxx, If you get to read this you are a lucky man. Veave has already given the best plan of action for you to take. I would only add to her advice to you. Everything she has told you would make you succeed and be a boss of your own. Just like your elder brother, anything other than that could bring serious regrets to you later in future. Veave has your best interest at heart. What I just have to tell you is that your elder brother married a wicked woman, she would reap her own share of what she and her sisters are doing to you keep that in mind. You should pity your brother that has married such a Jezebel. Protect him as much as you can till you become a boss of your own and leave that house. Just follow what Veave has told you to the end and you will be fine. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by klufs(m): 5:22pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
pcguru1:To what extent does he have to endure. Must the man favour his wife to the extent of aiding her evil? I feel bitter cos I once lived with a step-mother, I know how this feels, his station in life is not a ground to humiliate him. My step-mother would have killed my sister but not for the fact that I decided to raise hell and face the consequences. My father was weak and favoured her over us, I expected no justice from him whether I was the complainant or not. So, i chose the injustice I was willing to suffer. I refused to be the complainant but the defendant when matters where reported to him. I fought her like a man when she laid hands on my sister, I took the food she refused to give us, I embarrassed her visitors after she embarrasses mine and trained my younger brother to defend himself too until she left us alone and asked my father to give us money for our own food because she knows what will happen if he didn't. My advice is to retaliate with equal measure. Dont be fatal, mind what you use to fight them but fight them. Dont allow anyone to blackmail you with not fighting with a woman thing. Let your brother chase you out on their account if he chooses but match up with them for your self and on behalf of any other person they will meet. You may behave weak and your brother may still not settle you after. If his wife can torment you like this and to his knowledge, she may as well convince him to use your settlement money for something or someone else. After 8 to 10 years you are due for assessment and possible settlement. Get it as soon as possible or move on. Remember, be aggressive but don't be fatal, meet them with commensurate force. |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Brightgem(f): 5:23pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
chii8:Gifts with which money. Basically you mean he should be enduring nonsense with a smile on his face and pretending |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by hardon1(m): 5:23pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
your brother probably married from a bad family. if you really love your brother as you said, dont leave that house , if you do, your brother is doomed. dont go to the village as well - life isnt easy there. you need super patience and tolerance here. find a way to ignore them... and complete your apprenticeship period so you can be settled and be master of your own in time to come your, your brother will apologies and thank you when his eyes are open |
Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Mypeople2(m): 5:23pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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