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Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by OmoAlakija: 3:02pm On Jul 20, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Best advice is. ,, fck her very very very well , turn her to a sex object , start to move on slowly without letting her noticing, make her big financial promise that will keep her excited so shell have something to look forward too while sticking with you , that will be the main distraction while ure using her as a sex object, coz its a matter of time she leaves u for a guy who can take care of her and she will start disrespecting you . wake up
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 20, 2020
Mumu....na man be dis or boy?
From this writeup I'm sure you've not benefit anything from the relationship aside bleeping.

Any relationship and my bby is not giving me cash sorry I no de do
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Olamila(op): 3:37pm On Jul 20, 2020
This is totally out of it because i never ask her anything i told they are richer doesn't mean they're wealthy be mindful of the words u use after all over 5 yrs i have never taken 5k from her im not poor i tried to be contented
Kobicove:
You're a gold digger and the only reason why you're still hanging around is cos the lady is from a wealthy home undecided
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by ElasmoBranchii(m): 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2020
Please who knows how to transfer slap through the internet?
Guy you deserve wetin dey get since you no won get sense.
Anyway here is a pill for you https://therationalmale.com/2017/03/22/teaching-slaves-to-read/
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by VicM6: 6:55pm On Jul 20, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
you need spiritual help asap
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by theophilusj31(m): 7:16pm On Jul 20, 2020
yomi007k:
Is it not already ending in tears for you?


Stop living in denial.
bros help me tell her oooooo grin
yomi007k:
Is it not already ending in tears for you?


Stop living in denial.
bros help me tell her oooooo
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jul 20, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Keep being stupid.

You re still seeing money and being stupid.

You don't need to spend on any woman until you become wealthy enough to marry.

One guy like you, nah QUIT Notice his landlord nak am immediately his girlfriend finish his money and he couldn't afford rent again.

You want to go back to village empty handed.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Jack005(m): 8:12pm On Jul 20, 2020
Foolish Simp of an OP
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by roybanjo100(m): 8:41pm On Jul 20, 2020
you are mad, you must be mad, i stop reading from " i later sent her some money" you dey craz
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by silverbirdng(f): 9:04pm On Jul 20, 2020
grin
Lalasticlala mynd44 come carry your op brother here the local man is tired of spending. Make front page give am since small
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 20, 2020
u should count urself lucky
many guys are looking for girls who will depend on them cos such girls are more submissve grin
unlike the dependent girls who are desrespectful and feminist cheesy cheesy
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by luminouz(m): 9:12pm On Jul 20, 2020
Another crying Freeman... undecided
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by luminouz(m): 9:14pm On Jul 20, 2020
yomi007k:
Is it not already ending in tears for you?


Stop living in denial.
You believe that shaméless liarhuh

He is looking to generate traffic...
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by luminouz(m): 9:15pm On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u should count urself lucky
many guys are looking for girls who will depend on them cos such girls are more submissve grin
unlike the dependent girls who are desrespectful and feminist cheesy cheesy
Na conc.liar be that guy...
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jul 20, 2020
luminouz:
Na conc.liar be that guy...
i know cheesy
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by luminouz(m): 9:16pm On Jul 20, 2020
Olamila:
This is totally out of it because i never ask her anything i told they are richer doesn't mean they're wealthy be mindful of the words u use after all over 5 yrs i have never taken 5k from her im not poor i tried to be contented
Lmaoooo...continue lying
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by khia: 9:17pm On Jul 20, 2020
SMH undecided I was done after the first paragraph. You deserve every bad thing she does to you because YOU ALLOW her to treat you badly.

The solution to your dilemma, DUMP HER.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by ModestGal(f): 9:17pm On Jul 20, 2020
Lol,fake stories full this place abeg
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by KAM3KAZI: 9:59pm On Jul 20, 2020
Yo bro,
Engineer better lies

Peace
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SweetCunt97(f): 10:06pm On Jul 20, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
I'm sorry but if you eventually end up with such lady you'll end up depressed, mentally ill and broke down the line plus she will abandon you when you drained
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SweetCunt97(f): 10:08pm On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u should count urself lucky
many guys are looking for girls who will depend on them cos such girls are more submissve grin
unlike the dependent girls who are desrespectful and feminist cheesy cheesy
Lol. This one na better leech na, contributing nothing to d Op but simply chopping
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jul 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Lol. This one na better leech na, contributing nothing to d Op but simply chopping
yea some guys love their women to be like that cheesy.at least as she dey chop all the money she will always be submissve grin
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jul 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
I'm sorry but if you eventually end up with such lady you'll end up depressed, mentally ill and broke down the line plus she will abandon you when you drained
why u telling him sef.some guys need to learn their lesson the hard way
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SweetCunt97(f): 10:15pm On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
yea some guys love their women to be like that cheesy.at least as she dey chop all the money she will always be submissve grin
But money finish she turn dragon. Truth is, men need supportive women by their side. Not d one that will disrespect when money finis
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
But money finish she turn dragon. Truth is, men need supportive women by their side. Not d one that will disrespect when money finis
nope guys like this when u tell them the truth they will be insulting u cheesy.sometimes its good when such women dey are sponsoring deal with them.when the woman deals with them their eyes becomes opened and it gives them sense cheesy.its part of experience cheesy.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by stanliwise(m): 10:22pm On Jul 20, 2020
@Olamila
For the fact you are afraid to loose her then you will eventually loose her.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SweetCunt97(f): 10:30pm On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
nope guys like this when u tell them the truth they will be insulting u cheesy.sometimes its good when such women dey are sponsoring deal with them.when the woman deals with them their eyes becomes opened and it gives them sense cheesy.its part of experience cheesy.
experience is d best teacher
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 20, 2020
This is just so sad sad
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Michelle55: 11:55pm On Jul 20, 2020
Is this story even real? See as girl dey carry you play ludo..

Dude! Its time to wake up.. She doesn't mean well for you and your future.

What kinda gf remembers her bf only when he's loaded?

What happens to saving for rainy days?

Dump her before she completely ruins you!
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Telvin7(m): 11:25am On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
please I am interested in your business
Things is not going well for me .
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Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by philip0906(m): 11:40am On Jul 21, 2020
You have an over depending girlfriend. It's demoralising you but you need nairalanders to tell you to flee, reason you created a thread?

Crazeman!
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