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Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

I won't bore you with long sermon.


She's having a parasitic relationship with you.

RUN!

If you've fūcked her, dump her

The kind of shits I see daily on Nairaland will never cease to amaze me.

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

What does this mean?

A Fool at 20 is a Fool forever

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

Bros, help a brother by mentoring him on the job u did that gave u a million within 3months. FYI I have 70k in my account too and hoping to get around 2million in dec

Bros abeg, iam interested In the business you are doing ooh.
800k in three months.
Even if na 500k I go earn in three months
Am interested as a student who need backup money�

If you were my younger brother... i swear i would have beaten the hell out of you... you just dey make me dey vex!!

1StopRudeness:
hey y'all Nairalanders..come and look at this guy..... should we tell him....??

Please help me tell this simp that he is mad, his girlfriend is madder! See nonsense this one bring come elders front

its not even about her not having skills or a job , it is about her behvour. i have a girlfriend, she assist me when i am broke and i spend a lot on her now that i am ok. there are times i fake as if i have lost all my cash and pretend to be begging for like a month just to see if she will leave, to my suprise, she saved most of the cash i have been giving her and gave it all to me to start up. we are talking of close to 7m here. i collected it and saved in my account and behaved as if i was scammed and no more hope. i kept up wth this pretense for 2 month, we begged to feed and do sht. i expected her to leave or cheat on me, to my suprise she didnt.
now we are happily married and i make sure her, her siblings, he mom and all the relatives that help send us cash never lack a dime. put yor girl through a test before u call her your girl friend.
this one na gold digger. e sure me say she dey Bleep outside

You are her cash cow, she is with you for the money.. Rid yourself of the leech.

If you were my younger brother... i swear i would have beaten the hell out of you... you just dey make me dey vex!!

Na that toto wey you dey chop dey shake you abi... oh Jesus.. How do I even warn you sef..

If i had a GLOC, amma put two hot sleeks on your fingers for typing this. I don't know when y'all gon wake up, in the grave? Some nigggas reek of stupidity, am sorry.

Can we know the kind of business you are doing to advice you properly....

If it's yahoo... What ever she's doing to you is legit

Check my profile

If ur story is true, she will kill u wen she realise u make millions, wen bury, she will bring man she truly love, they will be marching on ur grave to and fro, spitting on ur soul.

SPOLO:
How i wish i was the one that made such money i would have set up a business for my mum by now instead of wasting it on a hoe called gf

I think op is a developer/website designer or a yahoo guy cos I don't know how I will make over 2million and spend on a girl

@Op, you no get O.T at all....the Mumu love still dey shark your brain.....u dey waste that kind of money on top expired pussy. You better don't let mumu love destroy your destiny at your young age... Look sharp.

forget abt the girl she is using u. You are simple her meal ticket. mark my words she will dump you and marry someone else when the time comes for her to marry.

#spits
From your post, you are already wallowing in premium tears
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Please with all due respect, you are very stupid and easily manipulated. You are afraid to loss a gold digger. I pity for you. If you do not retrace your steps, you will never achieve anything tangible.
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Carry woman Mata like gala, you hear. I guess you love the way she's sucking your DICKnity right?. Pick up your DICKnity and run bro
#re-spits

Simp!
No wonder women keep riding on dudes in this generation. See how a lady is playing you like a kiddo that you are. Pvssies! I just dey shame for you. You are already in tears and you don't even know it

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

That you still needed to come here and ask this is something worth shaking the head for three hours for.


Check my most recent post and see what I went through with a girl like your girl..... Only difference was... When I saw the sign.. I gave her the red card instantly




Get the feck out of that goddamn good for nothing knot you have with that loafing Instagram beech if you want to make progress

I wish I make insulting comments on public forums, lemme just waka pass

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.
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Bro I will just advice you to leave the girl. Someone better will surely come your way.


If you don't mind bro, please can you put me through the business you are into. I beg you in the name of God. Thanks.

I feel like giving you a thunder slap. Are you sure something is not wrong with you or your brain. Opportunity presents itself for you to flee from someone who is bent on draining you financially, you still deh use strong head. Is it her beauty that is deceiving you? I pity you oo. If you eventually marry that babe, when things turn upside down which I never pray for, that girl go make life worse for you oo. Think, think and think straight bro.

You are a foolish human

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

From ur story i remember u mention dat ur arents are poor. But
Before i can offer my own advice to you, plz tell us how much u squandered on ur mum when u made ur first 800k, second 1million and third 800k.

It is obvious that your babe is just after the money. She doesn't want broke ass nigger around, she just wants her man to always be rich and to be providing for her needs.

The ball is in your court.. You have known the kind of person she is, what are you still doing with her? What kind of love is that? Does she even love you? Abi na only you dey do the loving??

Bros, park well.. Many decent pretty ladies are out there.. Look for a girl that will invest in you, invest your money properly, not a lazy slay queen that will squander your money, and run away when it finishes or when you need her help.

Olamila, You still calling her your girlfriend?? Dump her already na. You guys are the cause of your own heartbreaks. Obviously this girl is there for the money, you only have fun time when there is money, lol, really? She can't invest in you if she has, she doesn't work, only snap and post, set awon lazy ass slay queens. It is evident that you are just her ATM Machine. Please wake up

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

U are just wasting ur time if u take the gal serious, other guys want to be with her cos they dont know the type of person she is, when they know they will have their fun and dump her ass. She will be the one begging.

2ndly u caused most of all this by tolerating her excesses at The onset. U probably spoilt her in ur desperate aim to keep her for urself at all cost bt that’s really not how to keep a good gal bt rather a spoilt runs gal and now after ur woefully tactics u want her to be a good gal by ur side?? That’s not how it works bro.

She’s spoilt now and it won’t be easy to change her character at least not a weak ass way u handled her and she’s Controlling u and calling almost all the shots. HABA! BE A MAN!

She has more sense than u and keeping her money tight or atleast to herself while Ure all about hers she all about hers not u. U flopping seriously bro. I must tell u now.

Gues what with all Ure doing she can cheat on u so what’s the point of all ur headache? Unless she’s a good gal which We’re not sure she is going by her every actions. Lol

Lolz! See how he keeps using the word SQUANDERING! A good lady that sees a future with you, should help you manage your resources and multiply them. Not squander them!

So because other people want her you are insecure. Are you using money to compensate your fears. Just as women don't get it right, some of you men don't also get it right. Anyways the good thing is the poster knows the answer to his questions.