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Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by kongolo(m): 10:54am On Jul 21, 2020
The church is the original dating/hook up site women used to dupe men into marriage

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Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Freestainworld(m): 11:00am On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


Glad it worked for you, but truth be told you took an unnecessary risk.

This is someone you're spending your life with fgs, the mother of your children.

I advise men to not only learn their supposed wife, but if possible, hire a private detective or even babalawo grin

What you'll find out can save your life.
Gone are those days when people get married based on looks.
my brother, haven't you seen two opposite sex who lives together in the of dating for 10yrs but after settling down as couple they still will not be compatible and even divorce, how about that?
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by ojuu4u(m): 11:03am On Jul 21, 2020
I tink you guys should start looking for wife in the shrine, you guys quickly blame girls based past, who spoiled them? No be guys!

97% of guys involved in wayward life in the past too, even after marriages higher percentages of men still involving in immortality. What good for geese I think also good for gender.


So many single guys will be having multiple gfs even to the notice of such girls yet you guys want faithful gf, some go ahead to date his close friend gf, even 2 blood sisters yet u want faithful gf.

Hypocritical opinion ,pls reverse ur opinion its too hypothetical.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 11:57am On Jul 21, 2020
Freestainworld:
my brother, haven't you seen two opposite sex who lives together in the of dating for 10yrs but after settling down as couple they still will not be compatible and even divorce, how about that?

True. Such happens. But you took an unwarranted risk.
What if she had a history of madness in her family or she had a child elsewhere?
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 12:14pm On Jul 21, 2020
kongolo:

The church is the original dating/hook up site women used to dupe men into marriage
grin you sabi

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Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 12:25pm On Jul 21, 2020
ojuu4u:
I tink you guys should start looking for wife in the shrine, you guys quickly blame girls based past, who spoiled them? No be guys!

97% of guys involved in wayward life in the past too, even after marriages higher percentages of men still involving in immortality. What good for geese I think also good for gender.


So many single guys will be having multiple gfs even to the notice of such girls yet you guys want faithful gf, some go ahead to date his close friend gf, even 2 blood sisters yet u want faithful gf.

Hypocritical opinion ,pls reverse ur opinion its too hypothetical.

I believe you saw the topic and rushed in to reply.

Read the post again, and thank me later.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:

I believe you saw the topic and rushed in to reply.
Read the post again, and thank me later.
Please change your topic.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 12:36pm On Jul 21, 2020
VLTA:


Please change your topic.

Why should I?
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2020
cheesy op most times i have seen guys who have had a very rugged past getting married to ladies with rugged past as well
i see ex cult guys many times getting married to ladies who did runz in their past life cheesy
and also getting a girl from the church is no gurantee that she will be a good girl
there lots of pretenders in the church
in short the spirit koko girls are even the most troublesome girls u can come across
many of them have sexual affairs with their pastors
some are strongheaded and disrespectful and what have u
as a guy u even have a better chance of getting a good girl who is not spirit koko than searching for a spirit koko good girl
but like i said before if u are a man with a rugged past chances are u might meet and marry a lady who had a rugged past as well
u cant escape from this.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Freestainworld(m): 1:49pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


True. Such happens. But you took an unwarranted risk.
What if she had a history of madness in her family or she had a child elsewhere?
that I didn't study her didn't mean I didn't make the necessary inquiries about her, what I was trying to say is that the time frame within which we met and got married was short.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jul 21, 2020
Satan has since ages use human beings to create subtle means, chaotic opinions and divisive exploration to mock the church.. Op, you are not left out in his old antics.

Note: church is not a building, but humans like you.

Tell us where there arn't fake people? Its everywhere. So, don't be used as object of mockery to mock the sacred things of God, because "na church things una wan attack las las. Na satan go taya!"
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:16pm On Jul 21, 2020
Freestainworld:
that I didn't study her didn't mean I didn't make the necessary inquiries about her, what I was trying to say is that the time frame within which we met and got married was short.

Good luck in your marriage, sir.
Truly, your case is an exception to the rule.
A lucky find.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:24pm On Jul 21, 2020
lefulefu:
cheesy op most times i have seen guys who have had a very rugged past getting married to ladies with rugged past as well
i see ex cult guys many times getting married to ladies who did runz in their past life cheesy
and also getting a girl from the church is no gurantee that she will be a good girl
there lots of pretenders in the church
in short the spirit koko girls are even the most troublesome girls u can come across
many of them have sexual affairs with their pastors
some are strongheaded and disrespectful and what have u

as a guy u even have a better chance of getting a good girl who is not spirit koko than searching for a spirit koko good girl
but like i said before if u are a man with a rugged past chances are u might meet and marry a lady who had a rugged past as well
u cant escape from this
.

@bolded, very true. Especially about the strongheaded part. Even sleeping with their pastors
Lmao, thats why if i see a girl that is so 'righteous' and 'spiritual', i immediately smell a rat.

@italicezed , it is also true. That was what i was trying to buttress in my post.
It goes both ways. You really can't escape your past. One day, it will rear its ugly head cheesy
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:26pm On Jul 21, 2020
Wolgrace:
Satan has since ages use human beings to create subtle means, chaotic opinions and divisive exploration to mock the church.. Op, you are not left out in his old antics.

Note: church is not a building, but humans like you.

Tell us where there arn't fake people? Its everywhere. So, don't be used as object of mockery to mock the sacred things of God, because "na church things una wan attack las las. Na satan go taya!"
Note, i am a christian, not a perfect human either.
I didn't attack any church, i attacked the women that use church to disguise their true nature and tie down a husband.
Well, from my post, it is clear that people like you will come.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


@bolded, very true. Especially about the strongheaded part. Even sleeping with their pastors
Lmao, thats why if i see a girl that is so 'righteous' and 'spiritual', i immediately smell a rat.

@italicezed , it is also true. That was what i was trying to buttress in my post.
It goes both ways. You really can't escape your past. One day, it will rear its ugly head cheesy
especially if u want to do anything with her she will tell u she wants to contact her daddy in the lord cheesy.their life is always centered around their pastors cheesy.wen u come across a lady like that chances are the pastor is doing something with her sexually.the era of saying churchgirls make better wives is long over.their many ladies who are not that religious yet they are faithful and respectful to their spouse.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:44pm On Jul 21, 2020
lefulefu:
especially if u want to do anything with her she will tell u she wants to contact her daddy in the lord cheesy.their life is always centered around their pastors cheesy.wen u come across a lady like that chances are the pastor is doing something with her sexually.the era of saying churchgirls make better wives is long over.their many ladies who are not that religious yet they are faithful and respectful to their spouse.
Remember this story?
https://authenticng.com/busted-popular-evangelist-ositadinma-muolokwu-sleeping-with-married-women-in-his-church/

One of the ladies that was exposed on his facebook is supposedly an evangelist, see how raw she was with him in their chats grin grin

In church, she will speak in tongues, pray for people.

Tueh. Women are never to be trusted.
Imagine if his whatsapp was hacked grin
For their husband mind now, he get wife for house angry
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:

Remember this story?
https://authenticng.com/busted-popular-evangelist-ositadinma-muolokwu-sleeping-with-married-women-in-his-church/

One of the ladies that was exposed on his facebook is supposedly an evangelist, see how raw she was with him in their chats grin grin

In church, she will speak in tongues, pray for people.

Tueh. Women are never to be trusted.
For their husband mind now, he get wife for house angry
yes i saw the story and the chats of those married women and especially the one wo"s an evangelist grin.U see all these spirit koko ladies..they will refuse having erotic sex with their husbands and having raw chats with their husbands cos they will give the excuse of it being immoral but when it comes to their any sexual position they give it to him..doggy,woman on top,scissors position,spoon position and wat have u..but when it comes to their husbands its the same boring missionary position and the sex is even once in a while cheesy.many men married to spirit koko ladies are really sexually suffering.all the goodies na their pastor dey cheesy enjoy am cheesy.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by tunize(m): 2:48pm On Jul 21, 2020
O.p u sabi write ooh u try but wait..
whats your own definition of a good woman/good girl?

How do you identify a good woman/girl and where?

what causes a woman/girl to change from good to bad and would you rather say she was never good or it was based on where u met her based on ur topic?
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:

Note, i am a christian, not a perfect human either.
I didn't attack any church, i attacked the women that use church to disguise their true nature and tie down a husband.
Well, from my post, it is clear that people like you will come.

Bro, I like the fact that you dished out factual truths in exposing their tactics and antics. But its not only in they church do they disquise their ugly nature. What about in the office, work place, even comfort home and street, etc...? They are everywhere bro.

May we not encounter them..
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 2:59pm On Jul 21, 2020
lefulefu:
yes i saw the story and the chats of those married women and especially the one wo"s an evangelist grin.U see all these spirit koko ladies..they will refuse having erotic sex with their husbands and having raw chats with their husbands cos they will give the excuse of it being immoral but when it comes to their any sexual position they give it to him..doggy,woman on top,scissors position,spoon position and wat have u..but when it comes to their husbands its the same boring missionary position and the sex is even once in a while cheesy.many men married to spirit koko ladies are really sexually suffering.all the goodies na their pastor dey cheesy enjoy am cheesy.

grin grin grin Which one is spirit koko again na
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 3:01pm On Jul 21, 2020
Wolgrace:


Bro, I like the fact that you dished out factual truths in exposing their tactics and antics. But its not only in they church do they disquise their ugly nature. What about in the office, work place, even comfort home and street, etc...? They are everywhere bro.

May we not encounter them..

Na only abour 2% of good women remain o grin grin grin grin
Marry your own poison and manage it.

tunize:
O.p u sabi write ooh u try but wait..
whats your own definition of a good woman/good girl?

How do you identify a good woman/girl and where?

what causes a woman/girl to change from good to bad and would you rather say she was never good or it was based on where u met her based on ur topic?

A definition of a good woman is a loyal woman. Someone that has your back. Not someone that will Bleep you over when your back is turned. And while a 'good' woman is not black and white, try and avoid someone with a questionable past.
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


grin grin grin Which one is spirit koko again na
spirit koko as in the very religious babes nau.they are always in the spirit grin grin
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by ojuu4u(m): 3:07pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


I believe you saw the topic and rushed in to reply.

Read the post again, and thank me later.


I biliv u were the one who posted the post under the caption......."the wrong place to look for a wife is church

I looked into your mind and I understand ur inner mind, its not only females who indulged in wayward life , so it will be prejudiced for blaming one gender alone for immortality. It took two to
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 3:13pm On Jul 21, 2020
lefulefu:
spirit koko as in the very religious babes nau.they are always in the spirit grin grin
grin grin grin grin grin grin I understand now. Now meet them outside the church and see her fighting with her neighbor over petty things cheesy
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


Na only abour 2% of good women remain o grin grin grin grin
Marry your own poison and manage it.



A definition of a good woman is a loyal woman. Someone that has your back. Not someone that will Bleep you over when your back is turned. And while a 'good' woman is not black and white, try and avoid someone with a questionable past.


Me, manage poison? No way!
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by HeavenlyCherub(f): 3:28pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:
Before you jump to conclusions, hear me out let me give my opinion along with truths, half-truths and supposedly outright lies.

As the case is usually with women, they have a phase some people aptly call the "hoe stage"
and this is the period they want to explore everything: drugs, lesbianism, countless diicks,
clubbing, abortions, prostitution, juju and all other things.
This period is between 14 and 26 years of age and when they have "tasted" all these, they
would aim to "settle down" with a 'God-fearing' man. Inadvertently, they want to put their
past behind them but unfortunately, a leopard doesn't change its spots.

During their 23 years and above, you find some of them becoming 'serious' in church,
cleaning the church, heading the children department, being efficient ushers, so courteous
and amiable. Some mothers actually use them to give examples to their errant children,
"Don't you see Sister Ann,see how well behaved she is and how much she loves God, try
and be like her".
From age 25 and above, they become more desperate when they are yet to "tie down" a man
and have a marriage and family like some of her peers. She doubles her efforts; she starts
coming earlier for mid-week service,wear long skirts, join the prayer warriors, etc etc.

So, you as a male,you have also lived your own rough life, fuucked countless women, smoked,
done drugs, done yahoo, even was a hitman for a cult group and now you're 38 you want to go
to a church and find a 'well behaved' woman to marry, lmao grin.
You'll now meet Sister Ann that is well behaved and speaks in tongues and cries whenever
there is a worship session and you think to yourself, 'yes, this is the one'.
She probably has a nice a.ss and boobs with shape that she has been 'religiously'opaquing
with her 'holy' clothes and attire.

Woe betide anybody that is reading this that is having this thought, just know that God is
not to be mocked, whatsoever you sow, that you shall reap.
I'm no psychologist, but i'm 100% sure someone would comment, "But Ms.F lived a rough life
and now she lives happily with her family".Yes, you are right, there are cases like that but
believe me they are in the minority and there is a good chance Ms. F genuinely repented and
left her old ways for good.

Sister Ann 'changed' because she knows her biological clock is ticking and wants to secure
her future that is why you see cases of men coming to make lamentations in threads,
"After i married her, she changed and was no longer the nice God fearing girl i knew",
chances are that you met her in a church when she was speaking in tongues, you made
discreet inquiries and was told that she was a faithful church worker.


My closing statement, "A 28 year old party girl does not suddenly 'change' and become a
wife material."
"Always judge her by her past, you won't ever go wrong"
"Women are very predictable, ignore everything she says and focus on what she does"


cc lefulefu
lalasticlala
pdudd
chris525

Don’t go to church to look for a partner. What matters is the persons heart. There’s a big difference between someone that allows Christ to work through them and someone that says they’re a Christian.

On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you evildoers'" (Matthew 7:21-23).


Ladies I can never warn you enough. The advise I give normally is based off my personal experience. Just because someone tells you they’re a Christian doesn’t mean they are. When you meet a man don’t talk about your beliefs and what you look for in a man. Allow him to show you with his actions. Does he say he loves God but tends to forget that in how he lives his life? When you reveal too much about what you’re looking for people tend to act so they get what they want from you.

Don’t sleep with a man until marriage. You might have made that mistake but ask God for forgiveness and repent. You can’t expect God to bless a Union you did not invite him in from the beginning. Normally we make someone our spouse without asking God if that’s the right person. We get involved with them. Then you start asking God to change them. Did you ask God if this was the right person to begin with? Don’t create your own problems. My 2 cents take it or leave it. So many people cry in relationships and marriage as they’re not with the right person.

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Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by tunize(m): 4:25pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:


Na only abour 2% of good women remain o grin grin grin grin
Marry your own poison and manage it.



A definition of a good woman is a loyal woman. Someone that has your back. Not someone that will Bleep you over when your back is turned. And while a 'good' woman is not black and white, try and avoid someone with a questionable past.
Still remaining two unanswered question bro
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Freestainworld(m): 6:08pm On Jul 21, 2020
Ent3rpreneur:

Good luck in your marriage, sir. Truly, your case is an exception to the rule. A lucky find.
thank you
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Whispereye: 6:24pm On Jul 21, 2020
It is your opinion and there is nothing wrong with someone expressing what they think. Most peole have realised these days that the church is just a cover up so that they can get married. It is however not all of them but just some. You have to watch out.

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Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Etinosa1234: 6:27pm On Jul 21, 2020
Seerade029:

Cool cool cool
I found my current GF on a queue in GTB bank. And I can currently say she is the best out of those girls I've dated.
I met mine in my dream...I woke up.and I'm still wonderfully single
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Ent3rpreneur(m): 6:55pm On Jul 21, 2020
tunize:

Still remaining two unanswered question bro

Which ones?
Re: OPINION: The Wrong Place To Look For A Wife Is In The Church. by Jonasbadoo(m): 10:23pm On Jul 21, 2020
You're on point

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