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Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by AFONAMARO: 12:18pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
bestmutiu2019: I am wondering why you asked your elder brother to question a man concerning the whereabout of his own biological children. Especially, after trying to give his children funny tribal mark without his approval. Like you mentioned above, the man is financially capable, so what's your fuse? I doubt you are married with kids of your own, reason why you are here asking for ways to struggle another man's kids with him 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by ZincOxide: 12:27pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Story |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by sigiyaya(m): 12:29pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Amb1045:You mean secrete Cult 2 Likes |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by cmecproblem(m): 12:31pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Well..this is a one sided story INNIT. 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by stagger: 12:32pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
No responsible father will allow an extended family to plant fetish-based tribal marks on his kids. The man is even calm sef. If it was me, all of you will have been thoroughly dealt with. Occultic fools! 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by ZaBaene(m): 12:33pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Why do you need access to his children...are they your children? And you want to give them tribal marks? Guy, there's something wrong with y'all. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Righteousness89(m): 12:34pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
From what I understand, the Root Cause of the whole thing was the Moment a So called Prophet says your Mom should Cancel the faces those little kids for whatever! You guys should be Careful all that stuff on the Name of Rituals.. you End up opening and Exposing yourself to all manner of things.. The Kids are his kids anyway! But He should not act that way at all! You all Should Ignore and Table the Matter to God in Prayers! Pray without Ceasing about that Matter! With Prayers in the Name of JESUS, He will bring them back by Himself.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by pek(m): 12:34pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Op, from what you have written, I see why the man doesn't want you or your family around his children. You are a rascal, a low life who has the tendencies to kill. Those children are not yours. Back off. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Nobody: 12:35pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Wise decision. Since your mama mo get sense listening to prophets |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by moneyissweet(m): 12:37pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Did I hear you say cult? You must be a cultist then. Amb1045: 1 Like
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Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by UDUJ(m): 12:37pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
[i][/i] bestmutiu2019: What did you call this man- their FATHER. Listen to that word FATHER. The mother of the kids is now late so the responsibility of taking care of the kids legally belongs to the FATHER. No court will take the kids away from the father unless it is proven that the father is irresponsible, a drug addict with no means of livelihood or any other very incriminating facts. As for wanting to kill another man over his own kids you are not with your right senses. It's not an insult, just go and get your head checked. The only thing you can do is to communicate with the father and make him see reason why he should give access to your family for the kids to be well rounded and not to miss the passing away of the mother that much. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Onnasucs1(m): 12:37pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
you and your mum want to put tribal marks on someone's kids and you expect that he won't take preventive measures against that? If I know him, I'll advice him to keep his kids far away from all of you. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Glaswegian: 12:39pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
bestmutiu2019: Mentioning Allah in your post suggests you are a Muslim. Your mum is possibly one. Visiting a soothsayer - whether prophet or alfa - is not good. If I were in the husband’s shoes, I also wont allow anyone put any mark on my kids for “protection”. And I will keep my kids away from anyone that suggested or attempted that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by lascos912(m): 12:39pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Amb1045:cult? |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by VirginFinder: 12:39pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Dotherightthing: 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Ejanla07: 12:40pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
bestmutiu2019:this guy should be saved from you and your fetish family... Tufiakwa.... Tribal mark in 2020 2 Likes |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by neonly: 12:41pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
MMotimo: U dey vex oooooo |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Newmans: 12:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
To me it doesn't mean much for the fact you kmow the children are alive no problem just keep watching he is there father and can take decision for them, just keep cool and watch the way things are going if otherwise get the police involved don't take law in to your hand Thanks |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Reference(m): 12:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
There is no story here. They are his kids, his seed. Your sister did not impregnate herself so he has every right to direct their affairs as their father until such a time they are adults. An exception is if a competent court finds him an unfit parent for various reasons, then custody battles begin. Your sister was supposed to have seperated from you folks in order to get married so the Holy Books say. Visitations and custody of relations in marraige is at the pleasure of the married couple, and not an obligation. Now if the man in question is being difficult you share the responsibility as well for not promoting better relations while your sister was alive or alternately influencing her not to marry the said 'nasty' man but from your tone, qualifying his character and snapping about his 'money' seems you folks just donot like him.... a mistake a lot of folks make to their loss. Always be at peace with the spouses of your relations. When a man or woman marries their spiritual DNA changes. It is half of yours and half of the new partner. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by lascos912(m): 12:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Carfreak966:don't tell him to get out,i understand is feelings |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by extol1(m): 12:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
I think the op is still a teenager to want to kill a person over his properties. if you kill him, I hope you know that it is a jail sentence. what you need to do is to pray that your death sister show sign to her husband so that he can agree to what the supposed prophet say |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Patrioticman007(m): 12:44pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
johnkey: Fake prophets abound in this world....................., These evil people will mark innocent babies faces out of vengeance, claiming one devil sent them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by mistijude: 12:44pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
I'm still wondering how a so called prophet of God be suggesting a tribal mark as a form of protection for people.What do these scammers even take God for? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by omobacyprus(m): 12:47pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Go and claim the first son since he's with one street uncle. That's better and would be easier for you guys but as for those twins forget it. Even me would never allow anyone inflict scars of any type on my kids. I'll arrest all of you ni 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by lascos912(m): 12:48pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
boarding school for 2yeas old children? |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by dominique(f): 12:48pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
The children's father is their primary custodian, he should be the one with the kids not your mum. My grouse with him is dumping the little girls in a boarding school, that's bizarre and uncalled for. If you want this man to grant you people supervised visits to those kids, you need to calmly approach him and appeal with him. If he doesn't allow you to take them away, it's within his rights. All these aggressive approach to the matter will only worsen it and your mother will probably never see the kids again. Appeal for supervised visits first. With time if the man sees your mum mean no harm to the kids, he can allow her start taking care of them again with firm promise that she won't mark their faces or take them to any strange clerics. 3 Likes |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by eebraa(m): 12:49pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
I admire your honesty. Your mum wants to give them tribal marks on their face and their father does not approve of it. He's only trying to protect them from this punishment called tribal mark. 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by biggy4joe(m): 12:49pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Did your parents put tribal marks because your grandparents r no moreWish d man can see dis ehn,I wil tell him to be careful with your family coz you guys r fetish and can destroy d future of those kids. Forgot to add that u mind ur bizness 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by frozen70(f): 12:50pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
I think you guys need a respectable man in the family to settle you guys and get reconciled Fighting this issue will be like pouring fuel in a burning fire All of you guys, especially your family must remove pride and reconcile with this man For the fact that he has money, he already have all the strength he would need to take the children away from your family Peace must reign in your family, pls you guys should negotiate for peace for the sake of this children Stop measuring power with him Don't be surprise if he sees you people have humble yourself he may return the children to his inlaw and start planning to resettle himself 1 Like |
Re: Need Your Advice On What To Do About My Late Sister Children by Nobody: 12:51pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Ok. bestmutiu2019, I think I understand what's going on here. I understand the mark that your family wants to place on the children. It isn't tribal mark. It is a mark a lot of Yoruba kids have that helps them stop children's convulsion. I used to know the particular family that does the marks in Ibadan. Anyone who doesn't know better will think it is devilish or demonic or fetish.(that is what foreign religions have done to us) The convulsion is caused by something the Yorubas call eru or fear. Now, you need to understand that first and foremost, the children legally belong to the husband, so he can do as he wishes within the law. Second, the man's reaction may be due to the fact that he's scared that 1. The marks will leave a permanent scar on their faces. This is not the case. The kids won't have tribal marks. 2. The process is fetish and demonic. It isn't. It is medicinal. There's a lot that our ancient knowledge can teach western science today. They steal our knowledge and repackage for us as imported. I used to have an uncle who relocated to the US. My grandparents asked him to do this marks on his little kids before going, he refused, shouting that Jesus doesn't like it. The children began this convulsion in the US. American doctors couldn't help much and the first born was slowly getting deformed in his limbs before the man rushed down to Nigeria to have the marks done. The kids are all grown now, graduates in fact. So, ask your parents to sit the man down and explain properly to him that it isn't fetish and it isn't so that your sister's spirit won't disturb the kids but that it is medicinal, just like we take agbo for iba. Your sister's spirit is resting and not disturbing anyone ok? |
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