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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 8:55pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
"A WOMAN'S MOUTH SAYS SOMETHING BUT HER HEART SAYS ANOTHER, WHILE HER HEAD THINKS SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. HER BODY THEN MOVES TO DO SOMETHING ALL 3 ABOVE NEVER PLANNED." - CAPSLOCKED 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Savagethe21st(m): 9:14pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Martinez39s:boss I appreciate your advise but I have a question. If one doesn't move his wife abroad to be with him. He won't be physically present to help bring up his children the proper way. And you know women especially single mothers don't know how to raise children well single handedly 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:26pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Savagethe21st:Good. In that post, I personally advised him to come back home after his training since he said he can still move back to his job on returning. A strong fatherly presence is important for children, I agree. If we prioritise strong, unchallenged masculine authority in home and running marriage the red pill way, is moving permanently to a liberal and gynocentric society a good idea? I don't think so. 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chigomiced: 9:37pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
You pay for the sins of every guy that bleeped her up before you met her. Her father, her ex etc. Because the trauma from her suffering typically overshadows the wisdom from her experiences. Women do not improve with use. They deteriorate. Deep down everybody knows this. 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 9:46pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Martinez39s: Well said! Eveything you said other than the part where you suggests leaving her in Nigeria aligns with my thinking and the reasonable advice I got from folks here. As for going alone, it may not be realistic for me as I plan to move my kids abroad as well to continue their education. I feel she could be useful to take care of my kids by coming along. Honestly, I don't feel threatened neither am I worried by what she might turn out to be eventually. My own priority is to have enough safeguards in place for my own good. We can't because of accidents or plane crashes stop boarding buses or airplanes right? A good chess player anticipates the moves of their opponent before they make them. So when they make them, he just smiles. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:58pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
UppaZakum:No problem, bro. I simply gave my personal advice. In subsequent posts, I also wrote that as long as you have everything planned out well, you can go ahead with your plan. The main thing is that you are safe and secured at the end of day. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 9:59pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Martinez39s: I feel it was ignorance on my part. My instincts have always kicked against letting her know about my finances, I had just not muster the courage to tighten the loose ends. This is partly because I don't like to disturbed at work. Requests to pay for one thing or the other (school fees, groceries, internet services, prepaid etc) get on my nerve. So I'd be like just fucking go in make the payments and explain to me later. There are also times I need her to go to bureau de change. All of those made me give her acesss. Again, i have stopped that now following the advice i got here. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:10pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
@UppaZakum Just to add, do pardon me if my posts addressed rudimentary red pill stuff you already knew. I was also using the posts to teach novices who might be in your situation. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 10:14pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Martinez39s: "Well, you know what's up and the right route to take, but for some reason something is holding you back. Could it be that you don't want to be inadvertently mean and cruel to who you perceive to be a good woman? " You were in the spirit bro when you typed that. This was exactly my situation before i brought it here. You nailed it! Honestly, I'm one kind of person that sometimes allow my extreme level of empathy to get in the way of my decision making. I couldn't believe humans are capable of doing some evils just becuase i don't do it then i start to see every one in that light. It often takes strong resistance or force within to make sure that I don't let that flawed thinking cloud my decision. That's one of the reasons I follow this thread religiously. It brings me back to reality of the facts that humans especially women can be very mean if i let my guards down! 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:22pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
UppaZakum:I thought as much. Well, I used to be like you growing up, but experience and understanding have made me to unapologetically prioritise sound decisions and my well-being at the expense of emphatic/moral feelings or blue-pill mindsets that may sabotage me. Don't get me wrong, I am still a kind fellow, but logic, reasoning and truth must come first. Truth and sound reasoning may be ignored, but the consequences of ignoring them cannot be avoided. Finally, take calm in the fact that it is perfectly normal for red pill execution to demand some level of coldness and indifference from time to time to prevent you from getting fleeced, played and ensure positive/desired female response. What's best for us may not always resonate with our feelings. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 10:14am On Sep 18, 2023 |
It's gonna get worse. Men already fell off. We lowered the bar in standards. Women's standard never changed 13 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 11:20am On Sep 18, 2023 |
The greatest men of history Always used misfortune to their advantage. For them misfortune doesn’t even exist because they always reframe it to be fortune for them Let’s take the example of Tate He was in jail for 90 days and he still came out of it a better man. even if you see his interviews right now? he is completely unfazed. If anything he is stronger than ever before. he’s more mentally resilient now. Here’s my take on what he did- The day he was put in jail he immediately reframed the misfortune to say that:- “Allah is the best of planners” During his time in jail, he repeatedly said- “Being put in a romanian dungeon with my brother is better than private jets” He reframed the misfortune as the perfect opportunity to revive his relationship with his brother. Now, on house arrest, he’s training everyday, bringing in guests for podcasts, and continuing his conquest. I give the example of Tate because I’m a lifelong student of success. I like to study people and see what they did in order to become who they are. If you’re going through misfortune right now, just reframe it man. There’s always a silver lining. 📖::: Masculinity Brotherhood 15 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 11:21am On Sep 18, 2023 |
#ASKMR: “How to transform one's personality into something like Julius Caeser, Alexander the Great or Napoleon?” Much of transforming one’s personality into the greats comes down to the environment that you live in Julius Caesar Alexander the great or Napoleon did not become who they were in modern times Back in those times it was straight out WAR There was simply no other way. They had to fight They had to conquer or… PERISH In today’s world most men live extremely comfortable lives. Due to which they never bring out the true in a masculine element that has ALL the potential of becoming like these great men we speak of. You need to understand that you have it in your genetics to become those guys. They did not do have aliens genes. Every single one of your ancestors had a WARRIOR GENE. That’s enough of a reason to know that you can do it. and imagine, they did not even have all the tools none of the technology none of the resources none of the role models to become who they were As much as we have today. A very important point: Study the greats & invest in coaches and mentors. Even Alexander the great studied from Aristotle. Napoleon studied all the great battles Most people look up to average losers. Most people look up to the current popular celebrities. A very recent example is how Tom Holland, literally Spider-Man, who so many young guys look up to- Did a scene in a movie where he had to literally take another man’s dick inside him. How the fûck do you think you will become great if that’s the people who you look up to? Learn GAME. 📖::: Masculinity Brotherhood 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 11:22am On Sep 18, 2023 |
🚨 WELCOME TO THE BROTHERHOOD 🚨 Lots of New Members Recently, so it's a good time to remind everyone:- OUR CORE TRAITS: AUTHENTICITY BROTHERHOOD FULFILLMENT OUR CORE PRINCIPLES: - You are the most important person in the Universe: Invest in your Personal Growth. - Women Aren’t the Enemy, WEAK MEN are the Enemy. - It’s always your fault: Self Accountability gives you the POWER to change your situation. Topic-Specific Channels: BEST POSTS- /goathood BEAUTY- /beautyhood Q&A/DMs- /questionhood MEMES: /memezhood This is the place where I share my UNCENSORED, most red pilled views on life, women and masculinity. I could've chosen a paid Brotherhood but I truly wanted to give an Equal Opportunity to every Man who wanted to grow and learn WITHOUT PAYING for it. Q) Want to know more about my views on ALL Topics? Check out the FREE Q&A Bible: https://masculinity.notion.site/The-Q-A-Bible-0cb386685f7741e29436f389d13446f7 PRODUCTS: The Seduction Bible : gum.co/seducewomen The Pleasure Bible: gum.co/orgasmmastery Other Resources: attractwomen.bio Questions? Want to Share a Personal Victory? My DM's are always open. My Telegram ID- @AskMRNow 🥂 🚨 WELCOME TO THE BROTHERHOOD! 🚨 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 12:32pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Smartb0y: You think sorting out genuine desire in women easy? If you are fortunate to meet one that's a bit sensible It still can't be guaranteed Most women are unstable They can't be trusted fully But if by luck you meet a sensible good natured woman That likes you But in the end Putting your trust wey woman dey na very big gamble Which has taken many gullible, unintelligent Men down Even taken some to there grave Caveat emptor(Buyer beware)!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 12:50pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
virginboy1: Pansophist is one dude I greatly respect on this forum His worldview and grasp of things is very prominent 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AyoII(m): 4:21pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
The message is spreading like wild fire.... 8 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 7:18pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
djon78: I sight you boss. Greetings 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 7:18pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
virginboy1: I sight you man. Salute. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 8:00pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
pansophist: My man greetings Bro You no dey naija I suppose connect with you give you better flexing Walahi Anyway anywhere you dey for the world just hint me You never know Flexing or travel fit carry me come that side !! 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 8:21pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
djon78: If the flexing no involve woman, count me out 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 9:32pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Martinez39s: This was the last post I read last night. Cont'd. No 4 is spot on! Truer words have never been said. I had a conversation recently with a colleague and it went like this: Colleague: informed me of his plans to relocate to Canada next year. Me: Hmm good idea! But you have a good and promising career here. What's driving your relocation move? Colleague: My wife's workplace has a cap for growth. So I want her to be in environment where there are no boundaries for her to grow. Me: Hmm. Thinking on the spot that If he were my brother, I'd have landed him a resounding slap. But again redpill warns against public display of redpill especially in a sensitive environment such as a work place. My redpill instinct kicks in and i had to put my emotions in check and advised him like a brother. "Make sure you think about it very well. Relocation decison can be very costly. Make sure you put yourself first; I know you want the best for your wife but make sure your interests are well protected. Are you going to give up a lucrative career just like that? So I still had to pass my redpill advice to him in a way that doesn't come across as being critical. I tried as much as possible to drop subtle redpill nuggets and wish that he'd be smart enough to decipher them and reevaluate his plans accordingly. Colleague: kept mute. Not even an acknowledgement or a thank you. Eventually, I regretted advising him. I felt really bad. This is a guy that is always wanting to shove his feminism on us. He never shys to tell us that he's a proud feminist. He grew up without a father figure. We've had few conversations in the past where he dishes out bluepill ideologies such as believing all women when they claim rape and yours truly never also fails to dismantle his flawed ideologies with sound logical reasoning without coming across as condescending or in a way that shows I'm Redpilled. Only those with discerning eyes will know I'm red-pilled. I only analyse issues when they come up from a strong logical stand point. It's always a debate between emotions and logic. When I read your no 4, it reminded me of that conversation. Many men like this guy have actually made terrible decisions like this by giving up their lucrative careers in order to futher their wives' interests. And once their wives got what they need, the natural course of hypergamy sets in. In the end, most of these men end up being miserable and start contemplating suicides. While it's not a bad decision to relocate afterall I'm considering same, the motive makes lot of difference. Mine is purely driven by self development, furthering my ambition, acquiring advanced knowledge and positioning myself for the future benefiting my family eventually. I under stand that we men can be very selfless. Omo men should wise up o. Make sure you have critically evaluated the opportunity cost of your selflessness. You'd be shocked to know that a vast majority of relocation moves are initiated by the wives. Be wise and guided. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 9:50pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Martinez39s:I pride myself in having strong analytical skills. It's one area I'm well respected for. Thanks for your kind words. I stumbled on the redpill thread just like play and out of boredoom for the typical threads I visit on Nairaland. Back in the day, I used to explore the jobs/vacancies and career sections of nairaland, later moved to politics but couldn't stand the hateful bickerings. Went to the family section, too boring for my liking. Then I decided to check out the romance section. Voila! Stumbled on this thread. Thank God it was on the first page becuase I never scroll past the first page. Read the first few pages and it resonated with me. I became glued to the thread since them. Eventually decided to register so i can acknowledge the good work by y'all and also chime in when necessary. Respect to all the OGs! 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 10:03pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Martinez39s: Gotcha!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UppaZakum(m): 10:07pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Martinez39s:This is very well said. I will forever hold these nuggets dear to my heart. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 1:00am On Sep 19, 2023 |
"When she gets more attention and care from him, she is likely to give him the sex" Not true...that's why there friend zone, the sister of sex zone A girl can collect all the attention and care in the world from a man and still won't give the man sex. her heart will remain ever cold. That's just how to gold dig a man effectively While a man can get all the sex in the world from a woman and still remain emotionally disconnected from the woman. That's how players are Humbrown23: 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 3:14am On Sep 19, 2023 |
pansophist: Lol you dey learn game again What's flexing again without them!! Anyway just a shout out!! 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 19, 2023 |
pansophist:I knew you were a womanizer My instincts never fails me 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:42am On Sep 19, 2023 |
It's only on redpill thread that you'll see a professional bachelor giving marital advise to a married man God help us ooo 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uptheante(m): 7:47am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Martinez39s:I agree with you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:34am On Sep 19, 2023 |
djon78:Pansophist is a legend. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:35am On Sep 19, 2023 |
pansophist:Legend I hail. 5 Likes |
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