PETUK:
The other day I wrote that I'm still looking for courage to share my own story,
I'll keep as simple as possible
2017, in a barbing salon a young woman was sharing church flyers Winners Chapel Uyo to be precise, she dropped it on the counter for me because I was covered by the clothe they wrapped when barbing, I insist she wait for me so that she can give with her hands if not i won't take it, she said that she's in a hurry so she dropped it there and I didn't carry as vowed,
A week later I ran into her in my street she told me that she was going to the cyber cafe.
A week later I saw again still on my street in a shop she came to buy something she was putting on a night gown that was when I knew that we stay on the same street,
We started talking she where I was going to I told her I was going to work, she look me from hair to toe, (I dressed shabbily) she ask if I am an engineer, meanwhile I was working in a hotel.
I replied no that that I am a Mortuary Attendant, she shifted from me, and asked the owner of the shop if i was saying the truth, the woman replied that she doesn't know.
After that day I didn't see her again for almost two months, when I ask the shop woman she'll tell me either she just past or she pass immediately I've gone to work.
Finally we met I got her number, the following day she came my house, I have lived in that house for two years plus, I have never encountered rat, immediately this woman enter my house rat from nowhere begin to run 440, I was deeply embarrassed.
I got a rat bible, I kept it in the house for 2 days no rat climb it as soon this woman come brothers, two rats climb the gum and were screaming and screaming, until I removed and killed them.
Then this woman of mine started talking abi nagging how she's never seen rat for more than 10 years, she nags from 7pm till about 12am that she left.
I even blame myself.

PETUK:
Brethrens lo and behold i stumbled on her international passport her British Passport my wife whom I did church wedding in Mount Zion Oron who told me she was born in 1985 was actually born in 1979 to her British Passport, she was born in London so it can't be a mistake, till date I've not let her know my findings, I can't stop these years from falling either.

JasperVII:
Does anyone else feel sorry for this guy?... Like seriously. I'm sorry if this is going to sound harsh but PETUK... You're spineless man. Why would you get married to such person? Abi them cover your eyes? Just look at the amount of insult you've swallowed, what do we call this nonsense?
Why are you even still with her? Grow some balls and take action! You're a man for Bleep's sake!

Junnior:

Take all the pieces of advice from the bosses. However, whatever you do, make sure you're at first not flat broke. You need money to run things, no matter how little. It will make you exude those qualities you seek more easily, especially if you're making the money yourself, and not just collecting money from mummy and daddy.
I am 5 years older than you and I experienced a lot of the things you mentioned at that age. I'm now a bit better than I was then because, for me, I later realized what was at the root of all the problems was that I was too broke. So, I decided to focus on nothing else but fixing my pocket first.

My own 2 kobo.

343tipster:


Bro you're not ready to get hurt but I'm positive you will find your way soon just don't give up

Jokes apart, I'm not good at advising people, especially when it comes to women, I be confirm ..........

Rise and shine king

Haylel:

I don't know about others, but I prefer the idea of practicing more than you know, than knowing more than you practice.

I'm not down for recommending books for you (since some other well meaning guys have done that), I prefer the Showdown aspect.

DO THIS or I'm going to punch you in your face if we ever happen to meet.

From tomorrow, go out and say a simple "Hi" to all the girls - Cool girls, high class girls, hot girls, big girls and what not. (Tip: Don't just stay in your vicinity, go to places they mostly are - bars, restaurant, base and what not)
Just say "Hi" and move on.

I'mma check up on Monday, by then, you should have said at least 100+ "Hi " to girls.

ichidodo:
....Even though I had looks ,I wasn't blessed with the height that would trip them and that was besides the fact that I was so blue pilled that it was horribly lost on me even when opportunities arise( you can't imagine how clueless I had been when sexual propositioned by girls). Fortunately, I had distractions like hobbies and trying to be a geek especially in electronics and computer stuffs...then there was school...after which there was Nysc, livelihood and finally business...In between I was hopelessly Incel until a million years later after coming across redpill

luminouz:


You are too harsh hommie....

Most guys if they narrate their own simping experience,it's worse than his.

The best thing is,he is now free.

JasperVII:

Damn. Sorry about that. PETUK I apologise for that. I will edit.

Dapcity007:


Ok
Will do that now

PETUK:
Oh I forgot to add that the first week into the relationship i won bet9ja 105k and gave her 40k, but today if I asked her for 500 na after series of abuses before she gives.

PETUK:
I sold my shares just to invest in the scam called marriage, to those questioning why I'm still there, a child is involved, though if I died today the boy will live on, I'm just looking for opportunities, if i make some money i'll be relocating to either Rivers or Lagos

PETUK:
I sold my shares just to invest in the scam called marriage, to those questioning why I'm still there, a child is involved, though if I died today the boy will live on, I'm just looking for opportunities, if i make some money i'll be relocating to either Rivers or Lagos

Martinez39s:
How do you know the boy is yours? Have you done a DNA test?

PETUK:

Yes he is

Martinez39s:
Did you do a DNA test? Yes or no?

Jaqenhghar:

All because if woman. Women are really living rent free in your head. Try reading stuff that will really build you up. Women cant resist successful men. If you are successful they wont be such a mystery to you

ObinnaValentine:
some niggas be begging a girl to do #silhouettechallenge#..hanty screenshot dia chat and posted it on whatsapp.. like wadafaq is wrong with some guys..literally begging her..saying she's got banging body and stuffs like that...I felt like crying. this na girl wey no fit stand properly in my presence..we from same kindred tho..but she dreads me..I felt like crying...omg!!!���

real4real2021:

Am glad I come across this, wish I did earlier but at least now is better than later.

Your story encourages me too keep on going,
thanks for your response.
I will like to know some of the practical steps you took when you start

ichidodo:
Started what?...

SOZINN:
Most of you just be telling that PETUK guy to leave the relationship
Do you think it's that easy
This guy is going through an abusive marriage and it's hard to leave an abusive mare
I've been reading a lot lately
Just pray that you don't find yourself in that kind of situation tomorrow
Stop saying you will do this or that

SOZINN:
I see some guys here saying that when they get married the girl will do this or that
You will not tolerate this one
You will not tolerate that one
Bro marry first
Don't get me wrong ooo
I like the "I no go lick woman nyash mentality"
Every thing you have been learning here is about the NATURE of women
We are these is how they are
All women are like this
Somebody is telling me that he wants to go to the ocean and select something that is not a fish
That woman you are looking for
Na you go create am
Even my guy that travelled to the village and married a 17 year old girl
It was only a matter of time
She came to the city
She adapted, made new friends
Came back one day and started acting like a totally different person
When you marry a woman
You marry her with her bullshit
And I hope you can take it cos if you can't then there's a problem
You don't get to wake up one day and say you're tired
Well you know by now that
Stupid reasons like
Having kids
Building a family
Finding true happiness.
Should not make you get married
You will never find a woman that will do you 100% (you know what I mean)
Marriage no be heaven
Peace

SOZINN:
I see some guys here saying that when they get married the girl will do this or that
You will not tolerate this one
You will not tolerate that one
Bro marry first
Don't get me wrong ooo
I like the "I no go lick woman nyash mentality"
Every thing you have been learning here is about the NATURE of women
We are these is how they are
All women are like this
Somebody is telling me that he wants to go to the ocean and select something that is not a fish
That woman you are looking for
Na you go create am
Even my guy that travelled to the village and married a 17 year old girl
It was only a matter of time
She came to the city
She adapted, made new friends
Came back one day and started acting like a totally different person
When you marry a woman
You marry her with her bullshit
And I hope you can take it cos if you can't then there's a problem
You don't get to wake up one day and say you're tired
Well you know by now that
Stupid reasons like
Having kids
Building a family
Finding true happiness.
Should not make you get married
You will never find a woman that will do you 100% (you know what I mean)
Marriage no be heaven
Peace