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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Aboks(m): 11:00am On Aug 17, 2020
Which wan be penis man , vagina man na wa o
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Lazycyndy(f): 11:08am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

It should be blokos people.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Powerfly(f): 11:11am On Aug 17, 2020
How i wish i could screenshot my convos on fb. The kind of men sending me friend request eh.. Jeez.. After accepting, you'll be getting the usual 'hello, hi, have u eaten?,where are you chatting frm? Are you married? I love your pics..can we meet? Are you on whatsapp?.. And that's how how the chat circle continues with 'hello-hi' till i eventually get bored and abandon the chats.. Sometimes going to my inbox is a boring task i just can't deal with..
You ask them abt their zodiac? They go blank... Like most men knows nothing about horoscope & Astrology,.operas,oscars,space travels, world politics and so on.

Some even go to the extent of snapping their irritating dicks, while telling you how prolific & terrific they are on bed. Some will tell me, they heard 'Calabar girls are good in bed'.
If you refuse to exchange contacts or aggree to meet them- they block you with few, throwing random insults.
Seriously OP.. If you wanna be honest, you'll aggree with me that this issue here swings on both genders .

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by jericco1(m): 1:04pm On Aug 17, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:
Come here let me challenge you intellectually @Op

Challenger undecided
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 2:31pm On Aug 17, 2020
jericco1:


Challenger undecided
What’s the matter my dear? cheesy

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 2:32pm On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:


You said you wanted to challenge me first...you are like the bull and i am like the mastiff...you are the one to "charge first" bedore i do the needful!
I don’t wanna engage in E-challenge.
Anyways, you know where to find me.� wink cheesy tongue

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 17, 2020
Lazycyndy:

It should be blokos people.
lol
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Aug 17, 2020
PrinceofAgoAre:
. Now what you do is attack innocent redpillers. Is that the new mission bestowed unto you by the lord our God
theres nothing innocent about redpillers and you know that
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 3:36pm On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
theres nothing innocent about redpillers and you know that
. What's not innocent about not wanting to fall for regular gimmicks of the feminine gender

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:35pm On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:
I receive a lot of friend requests from ladies on facebook while some just slide into my DM...i get these because of my looks i guess.

But what really gets at me is that about 90% of these babes are so shallow-minded and insecure.

Their inability to strike up a convo is really alarming. All they do is to keep saying "Hi, Good am, Xup, k, etc" and it would remain that way if you do not engage them in any serious talk. Even if you do, they will find it hard to keep the conversation flowing.

Some of the ones who send me these friend request (i am 100% sure) may do it with the intention of me acting like many simps we have in the Nigerian cyberspace by asking them out or throwing unnecessary accolades like, "You are beautiful, i am falling in love with you...blah blah blah" and all that rubbish and when you do not do that, the next thing is to unfriend you straight grin grin

So it has been like almost 3 weeks when i logged into Facebook last and noticed that some of them unfriended me. I usually made this discovery with the use of a desktop app.

I never had any convo with some and the rest, we did but trust them, so boring and shallow!

Below are screenshots of one below.

Babe had nothing interesting to say and she finally removed herself and so i laughed and told her "Bye" cheesy cheesy

I need a lady who will challenge me intellectually but unfortunately, such ladies in Nigeria are just a meagre 2%

If you have nothing to tell me after sending a friend request to me rather than God morning or hi and repeat it the next time in circles, i ignore you totally no matter how beautiful you look!


Tbh, your screenshots shows that you're a boring person to converse with. I have guys like you on my Facebook messenger and they greet me every single day accompanied with the popular "Hi". Generally, I get tired of boring people and then lock up. Not come online to create threads to validate my ego like you're doing.

But based on your claim of wanting to be challenged intellectually, I'd say you're as boring as they are. I can't imagine someone saying "Hi" to me, I reply with a "hello" and then fold hands and wait when I want to be "intellectually challenged". If the person doesn't pick up the conversation, I pick it up. That's what differentiates you from the rest of the pack.

So until you tow that part, you're just as "insecure" as they are.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:40pm On Aug 17, 2020
Powerfly:
How i wish i could screenshot my convos on fb. The kind of men sending me friend request eh.. Jeez.. After accepting, you'll be getting the usual 'hello, hi, have u eaten?,where are you chatting frm? Are you married? I love your pics..can we meet? Are you on whatsapp?.. And that's how how the chat circle continues with 'hello-hi' till i eventually get bored and abandon the chats.. Sometimes going to my inbox is a boring task i just can't deal with..
You ask them abt their zodiac? They go blank... Like most men knows nothing about horoscope & Astrology,.operas,oscars,space travels, world politics and so on.

Some even go to the extent of snapping their irritating dicks, while telling you how prolific & terrific they are on bed. Some will tell me, they heard 'Calabar girls are good in bed'.
If you refuse to exchange contacts or aggree to meet them- they block you with few, throwing random insults.
Seriously OP.. If you wanna be honest, you'll aggree with me that this issue here swings on both genders .

At least you asked leading questions. Op isn't doing that and somehow magically expects the conversation to flow. Is it a soliloquy?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Camelot65: 4:49pm On Aug 17, 2020
LMFAO..... And you kept replying her chats??

You'll send some "conversation starters" and they'll still be clueless on what to reply next

Chat more with intellectual people and leave these ones for teenagers/ boring people like themselves
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Deicide: 5:00pm On Aug 17, 2020
@op we are the same, I am tired of carrying conversation....if person no chat e no go dye, no be say them day pay me to chat self grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Powerfly(f): 7:40pm On Aug 17, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


At least you asked leading questions. Op isn't doing that and somehow magically expects the conversation to flow. Is it a soliloquy?


I have few friends per say - who still engage me in frequent intellecual and entertaining conversations.. I always look forward to having chit-chats with them.
And not the hello-hi, how are you, have you eaten kind of people.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 10:46pm On Aug 17, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Tbh, your screenshots shows that you're a boring person to converse with. I have guys like you on my Facebook messenger and they greet me every single day accompanied with the popular "Hi". Generally, I get tired of boring people and then lock up. Not come online to create threads to validate my ego like you're doing.

But based on your claim of wanting to be challenged intellectually, I'd say you're as boring as they are. I can't imagine someone saying "Hi" to me, I reply with a "hello" and then fold hands and wait when I want to be "intellectually challenged". If the person doesn't pick up the conversation, I pick it up. That's what differentiates you from the rest of the pack.

So until you tow that part, you're just as "insecure" as they are.

I am a very good conversationist!

When a lady tries to strike up a convo on any chat app, i deliberately hibernate to know if she is well oiled to strike an interesting convo. So i tend to get into that shell and if you are intelligent with your chats, i quickly come out of that shell and flow with you and it becomes blissful all the way!

A dumb-headed lady is dumb no matter how you try to sound intelligent and interesting to her and that is the spec of 95% of Nigerian ladies today. All they know is Shawarma, Zee-World, Big Brother, Hair extensions, iPhones etc.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 10:51pm On Aug 17, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:

I don’t wanna engage in E-challenge.
Anyways, you know where to find me.� wink cheesy tongue

Where to find you? Like seriously??

Let's start it via the e-channel so it would paint the picture of what it would look like face-to-face smiley smiley
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:57pm On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:


I am a very good conversationist!

When a lady tries to strike up a convo on any chat app, i deliberately hibernate to know if she is well oiled to strike an interesting convo. So i tend to get into that shell and if you are intelligent with your chats, i quickly come out of that shell and flow with you and it becomes blissful all the way!

A dumb-headed lady is dumb no matter how you try to sound intelligent and interesting to her and that is the spec of 95% of Nigerian ladies today. All they know is Shawarma, Zee-World, Big Brother, Hair extensions, iPhones etc.

Take the initiative this time and kick off the conversation when a "Hi" drops and get back to me. We can't agree unanimously that you're a good conversationalist until you do this as well. The idea of waiting for them to continue before you speak @ the bold, is a giveaway sign attributed to an equally boring person. You can take it to the moon.

Don't have the "zeal" to dispute your fallacious statement in the second paragraph.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 11:17pm On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:


Where to find you? Like seriously??

Let's start it via the e-channel so it would paint the picture of what it would look like face-to-face smiley smiley
Interesting, I like that. BTW, you are a writer? That’s quite interesting. I write a lot as well but majorly movie scripts.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:28pm On Aug 18, 2020
[quote author=Sixfeetbelle post=92937640]

Take the initiative this time and kick off the conversation when a "Hi" drops and get back to me. We can't agree unanimously that you're a good conversationalist until you do this as well. The idea of waiting for them to continue before you speak @ the bold, is a giveaway sign attributed to an equally boring person. You can take it to the moon.

Must i be the one to take the initiative? They are the ones who either sent me a friend request or slid into my DM so they should state their intentions! I am never a boring person and that is what i can take to the moon! I am a multi-personality person and i tend to relate with you in reciprocity of how you first relate with me (i do this more with the opposite sex).

Don't have the "zeal" to dispute your fallacious statement in the second paragraph.


Lol...it ain't about having the "zeal" but lack of pointers to counter the fact in that comment.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:30pm On Aug 18, 2020
[quote author=prince3009 post=92952439][/quote]

I was wrong. You're not boring. You're worse.


You never take suggestions or corrections.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:33pm On Aug 18, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:

Interesting, I like that. BTW, you are a writer? That’s quite interesting. I write a lot as well but majorly movie scripts.

I write but not as an interest but more of where there is something to gain...sort of like for profit.

I once took time to write a movie script which i presented to a Nollywood producer with the intent of starring as the lead role to make a debut into the movie industry. He read the script and told me he wasn't interested but little did i know that he made copies of my script and shot the movie behind my back with a different title. That was way back in 2005 during my university days.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:37pm On Aug 18, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I was wrong. You're not boring. You're worse.


You never take suggestions or corrections.

Here we go again! cheesy

I am conversing with someone (most probably a female) who doesn't know the difference between being boring and being rigid!

I am stoic in nature. This comes to play especially when i know i am 100% right. That's very different from being boring.

Tankio!!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 12:40pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


I write but not as an interest but more of where there is something to gain...sort of like for profit.

I once took time to write a movie script which i presented to a Nollywood producer with the intent of starring as the lead role to make a debut into the movie industry. He read the script and told me he wasn't interested but little did i know that he made copies of my script and shot the movie behind my back with a different title. That was way back in 2005 during my university days.
Wow!!!! That’s bullshit. You didn’t copyright your work?you could have sued him honestly.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:42pm On Aug 18, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:

Wow!!!! That’s bullshit. You didn’t copyright your work?you could have sued him honestly.

I didn't have a lawyer and i was mostly engrossed with school work at the time so i just let it go.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:48pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


Here we go again! cheesy

I am conversing with someone (most probably a female) who doesn't know the difference between being boring and being rigid!

I am stoic in nature. This comes to play especially when i know i am 100% right. That's very different from being boring.

Tankio!!

Did I not just agree with you that you aren't boring? angry

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:52pm On Aug 18, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Did I not just agree with you that you aren't boring? angry

Oops! Sorry...my bad!! shocked shocked

I read the phrases quite fast and didn't spot where you typed that out. wink

My eyes deceived me like what i saw was "I was wrong. You are not just boring. You're worse."

My apologies kiss kiss

Lols
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:59pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


Oops! Sorry...my bad!! shocked shocked

I read the phrases quite fast and didn't spot where you typed that out. wink

My eyes deceived me like what i saw was "I was wrong. You are not just boring. You're worse."

My apologies kiss kiss

Lols

So you won't take my suggestions or what? Next one that says "Hi" take it up from there and see where it will go.

Bear in mind that I hate difficult people who don't take corrections angry
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 1:39pm On Aug 18, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


So you won't take my suggestions or what? Next one that says "Hi" take it up from there and see where it will go.

Bear in mind that I hate difficult people who don't take corrections angry

I already presume where most of them would go!

Lemme break it down for you...
-------------------------------------------------------------------

Her: Hi

Me: Hello (her name from her profile)...how are you doing today?

Her: Fyn n u?

Me: I am doing very well. Glad you asked.

Her: k

Me: So can you tell me a little about yourself?

Her: k. My name is (name on profile). i am schooling

Me: Is that all?

Her: Yap

Me: Don't you have hobbies? You know...like what you enjoy doing?

***Possible silence for almost 20mins***

Her: reading and making friends

Me: That's nice. So where are you schooling and what discipline?

Her: UNI****

Me: Nice...so what discipline?

Her: I don't understand.

Me: I meant your area of study or the course you are studying in school

***Possible silence for the rest of the day.***

***Following day***

Her: Good pm

Me: Afternoon

Her: kk

Me: You left my question unanswered yesterday

Her: which one

Me: I asked about what you study in school

Her: kk
My sub finished.

Me: Oh...that's unfortunate

Her: yea

Me: But glad you are here now

Her: I hav not done sub.
am using my gf fone to chat

Me: Oops...why not subscribe for yourself?

Her: I don't have money cry cry

Me: Oh...sorry about that

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So SixfeetBelle, your guess is as good as mine about where the convo would likely tilt to after her last response

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by proclinician: 1:46pm On Aug 18, 2020
SIMPs give these ladies so much validation and accolades that they actually think it's like that always.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Aug 18, 2020
lol op any of dem dat send u friend request and dms if u like any of dem even if she no too send u messages but the hi hi messages still talk with her cheesy cheesy.majority of nigerian girls are shy with strangers.she may like what she is seeing in ur pics and dat is wat spurred her or them to send u messages..normal tinzs.If u equally like what u see then connect with hr even if she is sending u monosyllable messages.wit time she will open up as she gets to know u.but if she is starting to feeling entitled and bringing up those mumu typ :De of behaviour then u can just codedly cut off from her.its nothin serious cheesy
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


I already presume where most of them would go!

Lemme break it down for you...
-------------------------------------------------------------------

Her: Hi

Me: Hello (her name from her profile)...how are you doing today?

Her: Fyn n u?

Me: I am doing very well. Glad you asked.

Her: k

Me: So can you tell me a little about yourself?

Her: k. My name is (name on profile). i am schooling

Me: Is that all?

Her: Yap

Me: Don't you have hobbies? You know...like what you enjoy doing?

***Possible silence for almost 20mins***

Her: reading and making friends

Me: That's nice. So where are you schooling and what discipline?

Her: UNI****

Me: Nice...so what discipline?

Her: I don't understand.

Me: I meant your area of study or the course you are studying in school

***Possible silence for the rest of the day.***

***Following day***

Her: Good pm

Me: Afternoon

Her: kk

Me: You left my question unanswered yesterday

Her: which one

Me: I asked about what you study in school

Her: kk
My sub finished.

Me: Oh...that's unfortunate

Her: yea

Me: But glad you are here now

Her: I hav not done sub.
am using my gf fone to chat

Me: Oops...why not subscribe for yourself?

Her: I don't have money cry cry

Me: Oh...sorry about that

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hahahahaha u sabi d jerk..some actually do this grin grin grin

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 1:55pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


I already presume where most of them would go!

Lemme break it down for you...
-------------------------------------------------------------------

Her: Hi

Me: Hello (her name from her profile)...how are you doing today?

Her: Fyn n u?

Me: I am doing very well. Glad you asked.

Her: k

Me: So can you tell me a little about yourself?

Her: k. My name is (name on profile). i am schooling

Me: Is that all?

Her: Yap

Me: Don't you have hobbies? You know...like what you enjoy doing?

***Possible silence for almost 20mins***

Her: reading and making friends

Me: That's nice. So where are you schooling and what discipline?

Her: UNI****

Me: Nice...so what discipline?

Her: I don't understand.

Me: I meant your area of study or the course you are studying in school

***Possible silence for the rest of the day.***

***Following day***

Her: Good pm

Me: Afternoon

Her: kk

Me: You left my question unanswered yesterday

Her: which one

Me: I asked about what you study in school

Her: kk
My sub finished.

Me: Oh...that's unfortunate

Her: yea

Me: But glad you are here now

Her: I hav not done sub.
am using my gf fone to chat

Me: Oops...why not subscribe for yourself?

Her: I don't have money cry cry

Me: Oh...sorry about that

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So SixfeetBelle, your guess is as good as mine about where the convo would likely tilt to after her last response


You make too much assumptions that is bad for your mental wellbeing.

Please untag me from this post. I don't want to be receiving unnecessary mentions because of a mere assumption.

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