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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 1:56pm On Aug 18, 2020
lefulefu:
lol op any of dem dat send u friend request and dms if u like any of dem even if she no too send u messages but the hi hi messages still talk with her cheesy cheesy.majority of nigerian girls are shy with strangers.she may like what she is seeing in ur pics and dat is wat spurred her or them to send u messages..normal tinzs.If u equally like what u see then connect with hr even if she is sending u monosyllable messages.wit time she will open up as she gets to know u.but if she is starting to feeling entitled and bringing up those mumu typ :De of behaviour then u can just codedly cut off from her.its nothin serious cheesy

Please tell him for me. I'm tired of advising him to do this same thing.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Aug 18, 2020
Jaqenhghar:
they add you yet they can't keep a convo?
Maybe its because after adding you they realize you are not as interesting as they thought. Maybe its something you do that makes them have a change of heart
there some dat add u with the intention of increasing their facebook pictures likes cheesy
u know the more guys they add the more increased is their likes
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Decryptor(m): 2:00pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


I already presume where most of them would go!

Lemme break it down for you...
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Her: Hi

Me: Hello (her name from her profile)...how are you doing today?

Her: Fyn n u?

Me: I am doing very well. Glad you asked.

Her: k

Me: So can you tell me a little about yourself?

Her: k. My name is (name on profile). i am schooling

Me: Is that all?

Her: Yap

Me: Don't you have hobbies? You know...like what you enjoy doing?

***Possible silence for almost 20mins***

Her: reading and making friends

Me: That's nice. So where are you schooling and what discipline?

Her: UNI****

Me: Nice...so what discipline?

Her: I don't understand.

Me: I meant your area of study or the course you are studying in school

***Possible silence for the rest of the day.***

***Following day***

Her: Good pm

Me: Afternoon

Her: kk

Me: You left my question unanswered yesterday

Her: which one

Me: I asked about what you study in school

Her: kk
My sub finished.

Me: Oh...that's unfortunate

Her: yea

Me: But glad you are here now

Her: I hav not done sub.
am using my gf fone to chat

Me: Oops...why not subscribe for yourself?

Her: I don't have money cry cry

Me: Oh...sorry about that

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So SixfeetBelle, your guess is as good as mine about where the convo would likely tilt to after her last response


Chai!!!!!

OP. U really know them very well. You have even mastered their pattern of chatting. grin grin grin

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Aug 18, 2020
Powerfly:
How i wish i could screenshot my convos on fb. The kind of men sending me friend request eh.. Jeez.. After accepting, you'll be getting the usual 'hello, hi, have u eaten?,where are you chatting frm? Are you married? I love your pics..can we meet? Are you on whatsapp?.. And that's how how the chat circle continues with 'hello-hi' till i eventually get bored and abandon the chats.. Sometimes going to my inbox is a boring task i just can't deal with..
You ask them abt their zodiac? They go blank... Like most men knows nothing about horoscope & Astrology,.operas,oscars,space travels, world politics and so on.

Some even go to the extent of snapping their irritating dicks, while telling you how prolific & terrific they are on bed. Some will tell me, they heard 'Calabar girls are good in bed'.
If you refuse to exchange contacts or aggree to meet them- they block you with few, throwing random insults.
Seriously OP.. If you wanna be honest, you'll aggree with me that this issue here swings on both genders .
those are jobless.no man with something tangible going on in his life will have that time sending dms to random girls on social media.99 percent of the time most of those men are jobless and very idle.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Aug 18, 2020
Powerfly:


Some even go to the extent of snapping their irritating dicks, .
indian guys no doubt
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 2:17pm On Aug 18, 2020
prince3009:


I didn't have a lawyer and i was mostly engrossed with school work at the time so i just let it go.
Oh wow! I know how you must have felt back then. Really painful. Well, he must have finished spending the money he made from that film by now ( if at all he didn’t even run into a loss) but I believe you are doing well now.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sluvist(m): 2:44pm On Aug 18, 2020
In just few weeks i started getting about this 'Vagina people', just recently i come to hear about 'Penis people.' Where are we heading to, in this generation?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Powerfly(f): 9:11am On Aug 19, 2020
lefulefu:
indian guys no doubt
And few useless Nigerian men oo.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 10:12am On Aug 19, 2020
lefulefu:
those are jobless.no man with something tangible going on in his life will have that time sending dms to random girls on social media.99 percent of the time most of those men are jobless and very idle.

Exactly bro
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 10:14am On Aug 19, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:

Oh wow! I know how you must have felt back then. Really painful. Well, he must have finished spending the money he made from that film by now ( if at all he didn’t even run into a loss) but I believe you are doing well now.

Exactly @bolded.

Still pushing on to better things. I believe that when life hands you a lemon, make lemonades out of it. It has been my source of strength
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 10:16am On Aug 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


You make too much assumptions that is bad for your mental wellbeing.

Please untag me from this post. I don't want to be receiving unnecessary mentions because of a mere assumption.

Why are you being so bitter already? shocked

And i was meaning to ask...why the moniker "Sixfeetbelle"...it sounds kinna deathly! undecided

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:03pm On Aug 19, 2020
prince3009:


Why are you being so bitter already? shocked

And i was meaning to ask...why the moniker "Sixfeetbelle"...it sounds kinna deathly! undecided

I sound bitter? For pointing out an error in your ways?

Boy, Am I glad none of those ladies moved the conversations further than a mere greeting.

Are you dead yet? Did my moniker succeed in killing you?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Jack005(m): 12:10pm On Aug 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I sound bitter? For pointing out an error in your ways?

Boy, Am I glad none of those ladies moved the conversations further than a mere greeting.

Are you dead yet? Did my moniker succeed in killing you?
You are too harsh for a lady.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:49pm On Aug 19, 2020
Jack005:
You are too harsh for a lady.

Was I supposed to be mellow cause I'm a lady or what?



I made a plea, instead of granting it he said I'm bitter and you expect me to respond with a smile?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by chris20000: 1:13pm On Aug 19, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Was I supposed to be mellow cause I'm a lady or what?



I made a plea, instead of granting it he said I'm bitter and you expect me to respond with a smile?

The guy tried, he should have shut you down after your first and second comments.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 1:31pm On Aug 19, 2020
chris20000:


The guy tried, he should have shut you down after your first and second comments.

Okay.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by IMAMofPEACE: 1:36pm On Aug 19, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

It is not about been fly, what OP posted is true.
Most guys can relate to this, ladies do say we keep asking have you eaten? How is your day going and so on?

But when a lady sends you a message first, laugh will almost kill you.

They will keep saying hi, hello, good morning, okay and so on am so forth

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by IMAMofPEACE: 1:39pm On Aug 19, 2020
chiommy123:
because someone doesn't want to talk to you she is insecure shm



Abeggiii, dead this narrative please.


Ladies will always find a way to shift blames, I am not surprised.

Now you have changed the narrative to "because she does not want to chat with him".

Please you all can do better than this

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Liposure: 2:03pm On Aug 19, 2020
Sluvist:
In just few weeks i started getting about this 'Vagina people', just recently i come to hear about 'Penis people.' Where are we heading to, in this generation?
pussy people

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Aug 19, 2020
IMAMofPEACE:


It is not about been fly, what OP posted is true.
Most guys can relate to this, ladies do say we keep asking have you eaten? How is your day going and so on?

But when a lady sends you a message first, laugh will almost kill you.

They will keep saying hi, hello, good morning, okay and so on am so forth
The Op has a problem keeping conversation and nothing more,let him work on himself
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by IMAMofPEACE: 3:39pm On Aug 19, 2020
Zzor:
The Op has a problem keeping conversation and nothing more,let him work on himself


I was on my own drinking my garri and minding my business.

You messaged me and I replied, so because you can't hold a conversation, I should now take hold of the conversation and make it pleasing. Is that what you are trying to say?

And please don't shift the blame to the OP, because we all saw the screenshots he posted.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Greensquard(m): 3:59pm On Aug 19, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

Shutup ur mouth..the guy is cute and they will continue toasting him and nothing u can do about it so let him feel fly..go and kill urself..nija girls with their irritating arrogance and disgusting pride and thats how we will keep fu.c.king u girls and we will feel fly cos we have the looks and money..and no matter how much u complain yal will still come after us and get ur asses fu.c.ked good and dumped until una get sense

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:21am On Aug 21, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I sound bitter? For pointing out an error in your ways?

Boy, Am I glad none of those ladies moved the conversations further than a mere greeting.

Are you dead yet? Did my moniker succeed in killing you?

None? I showed you a screenshot of just 1 out of hundreds of ladies sliding into my DM and you say "None of them went further than a mere greeting"... grin grin

Are you this frustrated? undecided

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:24am On Aug 21, 2020
Zzor:
The Op has a problem keeping conversation and nothing more,let him work on himself

So running around in circles with "Hi's" and "Sup's" are conversations?

I guess you are one of them ladies too!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:25am On Aug 21, 2020
prince3009:


None? I showed you a screenshot of just 1 out of hundreds of ladies sliding into my DM and you say "None of them went further than a mere greeting"... grin grin

Are you this frustrated?

You made your conclusion about Nigerian women based on one screenshot and I'm supposed to accept that you're not egotistical? Insecure?

Nigga, I can't deal with you no more. I already have blokos people calling me names for trying to be helpful.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 12:29am On Aug 21, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


You made your conclusion about Nigerian women based on one screenshot and I'm supposed to accept that you're not egotistical? Insecure?

Nigga, I can't deal with you no more. I already have blokos people calling me names for trying to be helpful.

Ok. Kindly leave my thread then!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:30am On Aug 21, 2020
prince3009:


Ok. Kindly leave my thread then!


Moraf*cka, you mentioned me again this night.

@ the bold, gladly.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by solonubinho(m): 7:06am On Aug 21, 2020
You need someone that will challenge you, yet you cant even stir up an interesting conversation yourself. Smh
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:06am On Aug 21, 2020
solonubinho:
You need someone that will challenge you, yet you cant even stir up an interesting conversation yourself. Smh


Let's welcome solonubinho, a member of the Nigerian Association of SIMPS (NASIMPS) who just came in to join the conversation. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by solonubinho(m): 12:53pm On Aug 21, 2020
prince3009:



Let's welcome solonubinho, a member of the Nigerian Association of SIMPS (NASIMPS) who just came in to join the conversation. cheesy cheesy

Aha, thank you, nice to meet you. I hear you're the new president of the International Association of Insecure Men (IASIM). May your reign be longer than that of Robert Mugabe.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Thogar46: 9:41am On Aug 22, 2020
I do not think that we should judge all the nigerian ladies based ont he few that you have observed because I have seeen a lot of nigerian ladies and I am pretty sure that they are not insecure. I am jsut kidding because I have seen quite a number of insecure nigerain ladies. They barely trust anyone. You could say they only trust their family members.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Tygrathris(m): 1:43pm On Aug 24, 2020
THis reinfds me of a post I saw here where a woman was saying that men no longer chase after them. Maybe that is why some of them are now insecure because why would you want a man to chase you. They should jsut be straighforward with the man. It is liek the chasing is what they need so that they are sure that the man is serious.

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