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Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 4:51am On Aug 17, 2020
I receive a lot of friend requests from ladies on facebook while some just slide into my DM...i get these because of my looks i guess.

But what really gets at me is that about 90% of these babes are so shallow-minded and insecure.

Their inability to strike up a convo is really alarming. All they do is to keep saying "Hi, Good am (sic), Xup, k, etc" and it would remain that way if you do not engage them in any serious talk. Even if you do, they will find it hard to keep the conversation flowing.

Some of the ones who send me these friend request (i am 100% sure) may do it with the intention of me acting like many simps we have in the Nigerian cyberspace by asking them out or throwing unnecessary accolades like, "You are beautiful, i am falling in love with you...blah blah blah" and all that rubbish and when you do not do that, the next thing is to unfriend you straight grin grin

So it has been like almost 3 weeks when i logged into Facebook last and noticed that some of them unfriended me. I usually made this discovery with the use of a desktop app.

I never had any convo with some and the rest, we did but trust them, so boring and shallow!

Below are screenshots of one below.

Babe had nothing interesting to say and she finally removed herself and so i laughed and told her "Bye" cheesy cheesy

I need a lady who will challenge me intellectually but unfortunately, such ladies in Nigeria are just a meagre 2%

If you have nothing to tell me after sending a friend request to me rather than Good morning or hi and repeat it the next time in circles, i ignore you totally no matter how beautiful you look!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 6:17am On Aug 17, 2020
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Stephenomozzy(m): 6:43am On Aug 17, 2020
Lol.... Entitlement mentality breeds easily across different facets of the life of an "AVERAGE" Nigerian girl.

I say "Average". Quote me if you're one.

They feel it's a guy's job to entertain them with "gists" and before you know they start feeling they're doing you a favor by being an audience to your "ranting" (since they scarcely push a convo in any direction) - it's worst amongst the clout chasing types.

According to Eazi "Them think say everything else revolves around their front and back"

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by paulolee(m): 7:00am On Aug 17, 2020
the matter tire me self
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by chiommy123(f): 7:10am On Aug 17, 2020
because someone doesn't want to talk to you she is insecure shm

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by lightangel65i(m): 7:18am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

Shut up pennis man is lame, dosent sound like vagina people,

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 7:22am On Aug 17, 2020
Come here let me challenge you intellectually @Op

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Professorcplus(m): 7:23am On Aug 17, 2020
Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are. It's just the reflection of your inner cycle of friends. Check your self again and look if you truly have the qualities to attract your desire friends. Remember, birds of ssme feather flock together. All I can say is grow up and stop following kids on FB

Modified: I can see some people attacking me. Let me clarify something; This post doesn't justify every sceniero on FB. My post is referring to kids whose parent just brought them new phone and are enticed about the app. What they are after is just adding any person as friend.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by BigJoe19: 7:31am On Aug 17, 2020
chiommy123:
because someone doesn't want to talk to you she is insecure shm
Jeez!!! Are you vagina people so dumb, didn't you read what the OP wrote, he said the girls sent him message first, so what are you saying

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Finnese001: 7:36am On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:
I receive a lot of friend requests from ladies on facebook while some just slide into my DM...i get these because of my looks i guess.

But what really gets at me is that about 90% of these babes are so shallow-minded and insecure.

Their inability to strike up a convo is really alarming. All they do is to keep saying "Hi, Good am, Xup, k, etc" and it would remain that way if you do not engage them in any serious talk. Even if you do, they will find it hard to keep the conversation flowing.

Some of the ones who send me these friend request (i am 100% sure) may do it with the intention of me acting like many simps we have in the Nigerian cyberspace by asking them out or throwing unnecessary accolades like, "You are beautiful, i am falling in love with you...blah blah blah" and all that rubbish and when you do not do that, the next thing is to unfriend you straight grin grin

So it has been like almost 3 weeks when i logged into Facebook last and noticed that some of them unfriended me. I usually made this discovery with the use of a desktop app.

I never had any convo with some and the rest, we did but trust them, so boring and shallow!

Below are screenshots of one below.

Babe had nothing interesting to say and she finally removed herself and so i laughed and told her "Bye" cheesy cheesy

I need a lady who will challenge me intellectually but unfortunately, such ladies in Nigeria are just a meagre 2%

If you have nothing to tell me after sending a friend request to me rather than God morning or hi and repeat it the next time in circles, i ignore you totally no matter how beautiful you look!




You're a real niggarr


No cap

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Finnese001: 7:40am On Aug 17, 2020
lightangel65i:


Shut up pennis man is lame, dosent sound like vagina people,



You dey mind that olodo cheesy

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by LadyTianna(f): 8:07am On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:
I receive a lot of friend requests from ladies on facebook while some just slide into my DM...i get these because of my looks i guess.

But what really gets at me is that about 90% of these babes are so shallow-minded and insecure.

Their inability to strike up a convo is really alarming. All they do is to keep saying "Hi, Good am, Xup, k, etc" and it would remain that way if you do not engage them in any serious talk. Even if you do, they will find it hard to keep the conversation flowing.

Some of the ones who send me these friend request (i am 100% sure) may do it with the intention of me acting like many simps we have in the Nigerian cyberspace by asking them out or throwing unnecessary accolades like, "You are beautiful, i am falling in love with you...blah blah blah" and all that rubbish and when you do not do that, the next thing is to unfriend you straight grin grin

So it has been like almost 3 weeks when i logged into Facebook last and noticed that some of them unfriended me. I usually made this discovery with the use of a desktop app.

I never had any convo with some and the rest, we did but trust them, so boring and shallow!

Below are screenshots of one below.

Babe had nothing interesting to say and she finally removed herself and so i laughed and told her "Bye" cheesy cheesy

I need a lady who will challenge me intellectually but unfortunately, such ladies in Nigeria are just a meagre 2%

If you have nothing to tell me after sending a friend request to me rather than God morning or hi and repeat it the next time in circles, i ignore you totally no matter how beautiful you look!


Seems you don't know what the word 'insecure' means

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 8:10am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww
. Rozz your presence is needed on the ashewo thread.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 8:12am On Aug 17, 2020
Professorcplus:
Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are. It's just the reflection of your inner cycle of friends. Check your self again and look if you truly have the qualities to attract your desire friends. Remember, birds of ssme feather flock together. All I can say is grow up and stop following kids on FB
pure bullshiit
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:18am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww

Stand in front of a mirror and read what you just typed to yourself aloud and you would see how dumb you not only sound but look cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:20am On Aug 17, 2020
Stephenomozzy:
Lol.... Entitlement mentality breeds easily across different facets of the life of an "AVERAGE" Nigerian girl.

I say "Average". Quote me if you're one.

They feel it's a guy's job to entertain them with "gists" and before you know they start feeling they're doing you a favor by being an audience to your "ranting" (since they scarcely push a convo in any direction) - it's worst amongst the clout chasing types.

According to Eazi "Them think say everything else revolves around their front and back"

I tell you my brother. The simps we have among men today have made them have this "Entitlement mentality"
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:21am On Aug 17, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:
Come here let me challenge you intellectually @Op

I'm game! cool
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:22am On Aug 17, 2020
chiommy123:
because someone doesn't want to talk to you she is insecure shm

Go back and read the article all over again! You are among the type of ladies i talked about

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Modupeoluwa123(f): 8:24am On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:


I'm game! cool

I’m challenged and charged. I’m not much of a talker(with strangers) but I don’t say NO to challenges.
So how do you want it?
Bring it on!!!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:26am On Aug 17, 2020
Professorcplus:
Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are. It's just the reflection of your inner cycle of friends. Check your self again and look if you truly have the qualities to attract your desire friends. Remember, birds of ssme feather flock together. All I can say is grow up and stop following kids on FB

Please go back and read the post "carefully"

The fact that someone slides into my DM and begins to "Hi and Hello" me on a daily basis shallowly without anything constructive to say does not make them my circle of friends yet but it means they are trying to become one and that repulses me!

Learn to read and understand objectively before rushing to give your narrative!

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Jaqenhghar: 8:27am On Aug 17, 2020
they add you yet they can't keep a convo?
Maybe its because after adding you they realize you are not as interesting as they thought. Maybe its something you do that makes them have a change of heart

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by prince3009(m): 8:27am On Aug 17, 2020
Modupeoluwa123:

I’m challenged and charged. I’m not much of a talker(with strangers) but I don’t say NO to challenges.
So how do you want it?
Bring it on!!!

You said you wanted to challenge me first...you are like the bull and i am like the mastiff...you are the one to "charge first" bedore i do the needful!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by thunderfirebubu: 9:06am On Aug 17, 2020
Professorcplus:
Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are. It's just the reflection of your inner cycle of friends. Check your self again and look if you truly have the qualities to attract your desire friends. Remember, birds of ssme feather flock together. All I can say is grow up and stop following kids on FB
oga reason before you type. Even women in their thirties chat this way, a friend of mine who got married last year at the age of 34 can't maintain a conversation on chat and you're talking about kids here.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by jornwhite: 9:19am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
All this penis men feeling fly just because a lady sent them a harmless friend request mtcheww




it ok for gurls to ignore dm & never reply or reply with one word buh when guyz act d same way it becums a sin undecided d penis shuld av been in CAPS, that how you people fail english exams.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by jornwhite: 9:31am On Aug 17, 2020
Professorcplus:
Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are. It's just the reflection of your inner cycle of friends. Check your self again and look if you truly have the qualities to attract your desire friends. Remember, birds of ssme feather flock together. All I can say is grow up and stop following kids on FB



Oga no needs for grammar, facebook is a public platform anyone can search and add you, it as nothing to do with inner cycle or whatever postulation you are driving @. we all have friends on FB we never knew or met. broaden your horizon.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by fuckaholic25(f): 9:45am On Aug 17, 2020
Op, Na true u talk! just follow up, Na to kpensh dem commot nw
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 17, 2020
PrinceofAgoAre:
. Rozz your presence is needed on the ashewo thread.
lol I have left the thread for you people since you don't like my preachings
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 9:46am On Aug 17, 2020
prince3009:


Stand in front of a mirror and read what you just typed to yourself aloud and you would see how dumb you not only sound but look cheesy cheesy
mr poster,you need to take the lead of what you typed first kos it's a very dumb post
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:50am On Aug 17, 2020
I agree to disagree,but you self are secure in bed,better check siggy make we help you with shikini money
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:08am On Aug 17, 2020
Zzor:
lol I have left the thread for you people since you don't like my preachings
. Now what you do is attack innocent redpillers. Is that the new mission bestowed unto you by the lord our God

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 17, 2020
Funny post and chat screenshot grin grin grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Ladies So Insecure? by GeneralPula: 10:49am On Aug 17, 2020
Not only insecure..

Many of them have are suffering from first grade low self esteem..

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