yankite:

@ms imari,just wanna add ma own 2 cents advise here.

First of all i think the best way to determine the whole truth is to travel to naija
4get abt what people say abt the image of the naija,come to think abt it if its that
bad the US embassy there would have closed down long ago,good thign you are
already connecting with some of the posters here,plan your trip with one of them
who could help as a tour guide/advisor stay in your hotel room,go out with only your
tour guide and you should be fine.

Forget abt trying to buy him a plane ticket,cuz the American Embassy wouldn't issue
him a visa to start with,those "white american embassy consular mofos" are so hostile
on young black africans,especially a Nigerian.Your best bet is coming down here establishing
a relationship take photographs with each other,and don't even make the mistake of marrying
him straight cuz when you get to the US embassy with him,you may get the shocker of your life
when one of them white mofos start to scrutinize you thinking you were probably paid to set up
the all thign ,just for being african american traveling down for the first time to nigeria and choosing
to marry a nigerian and actually taking him back with you to the states,which rarely happens this days.
But by going atleast once a yr for the next 2yrs you would find out for yourself alot and atlease know
what your own fate is,but like i stated earlier this is just my own 2 cents advise,all the best.

sadboy:
Oyibo abi na imari,Do not take any advice from nairaland, even with advise you will still do what on your mind in our back so what the need. I have see many people brake up with their lover with big fight and later still come back but the people who fight along with them became the enemies . these are peoples opinion from their own look of things and i still believe their are other things you still have not told us, no body knows or very sure of what they are saying.There is always a lies in a relationship, in nigeria our girls do cheat or play one or two lies/crock to their own boyfriend whom they claim they love so much but only to extract money to settle one or two personal need,now imari is your turn, we are learning from you now. will you call this a scam?you are pointing it over and over again that the guy is having sex for 3years, is this the issue? Can you tell us you have not had sex for 3years now?Cheat in a relationship is normal. Get that into your head.There are alot of love-peddlers joint in nigeria where people do had sex, only to clear sexual urge or conscience. probably your boy might be doing this with part of the money you have been sending to me. Mind you to had sex in nigeria cost 30$ above. it varies on classes. If really your boy dont have any money as he claim to you. He cant have any girlfriend in nigeria not to talk of wife, You can confirm from the ladies here. If you can tell us the age of yourself and your boyfriend, maybe it will change the topic so far to another level for a new contribution the past topic so far will be waste.

I might not be supprise if you are even older than the guy with 50 years.


Where i personally do not see scam, he didn't lie to you that he is the younger brother or relative to president of nigeria. He admit no money and jobless and you date him.


Go to abuja you will see all this young girls claiming to love old politicians but only to tell lies and eat their money. Will you call this scam? There are alot to this, when it come to love matters.

Take care,
I dont know much. Am still learning

sadboy:

Oyibo abi na imari,

Do not take any advice from nairaland, even with advise you will still do what on your mind in our back so what the need. I have see many people brake up with their love[/b]r with big fight and later still come back but the [b]people who fight along with them became the enemies .  these are peoples opinion from their own look of things and i still believe their are other things you still have not told us, n[b]o body knows or very sure of what they are saying[/b].

There is always a lies in a relationship, in nigeria our girls do cheat or play one or two lies/crock to their own boyfriend whom they claim they love so much but only to extract money  to settle one or two personal need,

now imari is your turn, we are learning from you now. will you call this a scam?

you are pointing it over and over again that the guy is having sex for 3years, is this the issue?  [/b]Can you tell us  you have not had sex for 3years now?

She didnt say that, , go back and attempt to read it again

[b]Cheat in a relationship is normal. Get that into your head.

There are alot of love-peddlers joint in nigeria where people do had sex, only to clear sexual urge or conscience. probably your boy might be doing this with part of the money you have been sending to me. Mind you to had sex in nigeria cost 30$ above. it varies on classes.

If really your boy dont have any money as he claim to you. He cant have any girlfriend in nigeria not to talk of wife, You can confirm from the ladies here. If you can tell us the age of yourself and your boyfriend, maybe it will change the topic so far to another level for a new contribution the past topic so far will be waste.

I might not be supprise if you are even older than the guy with 50 years.


Where i personally do not see scam, he didn't lie to you that  he is the younger brother or relative to  president of nigeria.  He admit no money and jobless and you date him.


 Go to abuja you will see all this young girls claiming to love old politicians but only to tell lies [/b]and eat their money. Will you call this scam? [b]There are alot to this, when it come to love matters.

Take care,
I dont know much. Am still learning

sadboy:

Oyibo abi na imari,

Do not take any advice from nairaland, even with advise you will still do what on your mind in our back so what the need. I have see many people brake up with their lover with big fight and later still come back but the people who fight along with them became the enemies . these are peoples opinion from their own look of things and i still believe their are other things you still have not told us, no body knows or very sure of what they are saying.

There is always a lies in a relationship, in nigeria our girls do cheat or play one or two lies/crock to their own boyfriend whom they claim they love so much but only to extract money to settle one or two personal need,

now imari is your turn, we are learning from you now. will you call this a scam?

you are pointing it over and over again that the guy is having sex for 3years, is this the issue? Can you tell us you have not had sex for 3years now?

Cheat in a relationship is normal. Get that into your head.

There are alot of love-peddlers joint in nigeria where people do had sex, only to clear sexual urge or conscience. probably your boy might be doing this with part of the money you have been sending to me. Mind you to had sex in nigeria cost 30$ above. it varies on classes.

If really your boy dont have any money as he claim to you. He cant have any girlfriend in nigeria not to talk of wife, You can confirm from the ladies here. If you can tell us the age of yourself and your boyfriend, maybe it will change the topic so far to another level for a new contribution the past topic so far will be waste.

I might not be supprise if you are even older than the guy with 50 years.


Where i personally do not see scam, he didn't lie to you that he is the younger brother or relative to president of nigeria. He admit no money and jobless and you date him.


Go to abuja you will see all this young girls claiming to love old politicians but only to tell lies and eat their money. Will you call this scam? There are alot to this, when it come to love matters.

Take care,
I dont know much. Am still learning

sorrytoo:

Where ever u r learning from go get your money back , SHAME!!!

justwise:

Your ranting is full of nonsense, you really don't know anything and u are not learning.

sadboy:


If really your boy dont have any money as he claim to you. He cant have any girlfriend in nigeria not to talk of wife, You can confirm from the ladies here. If you can tell us the age of yourself and your boyfriend, maybe it will change the topic so far to another level for a new contribution the past topic so far will be waste.

sorrytoo:

Where ever u r learning from go get your money back , SHAME!!!

Pls don't frustrate this guy coz even his username shows he's not smiling at the kind of replies he's seeing on this thread.

sadboy:

@just wise, you are one big fool. noneses? Imira has a problem for dating a nigeria man over the internet for 3years.

She must be an old fat , u know

Anyway let know her age. We are learning from her.

justwise:

Your English language teacher cheated u, i will lead the campaign to get your school fees back.

justwise:

Your English language teacher cheated u, i will lead the campaign to get your school fees back.

sadboy:

@just wise, you are one big fool. noneses? Imira has a problem for dating a nigeria man over the internet for 3years.

She must be an old fat , u know

Anyway let know her age. We are learning from her.

~AbaMade~:

i heard every d!/ck and harry can get a wifey in nigeria. . .
even security man who earns less than 10'000N a month, get wife and 3 children.
no bureaucracy. u can pick any lady in the street and call her "my wife". . . .

if i were u imari, i would not bother much abt him, no matter how deep u r in love. forget abt him and get a man u can see and touch . . .face to face.
dont trust this kinda long-distance relationships ( especially when money is involved )

sadboy:

I find it hard communicating with u guys on nl with my advance english. And u guys are not following.

You are a marciless person.

Tosinville:

Jennykadry,

Fine lady, how're you, dear? it being a while.

jennykadry:

Fine dear, how is you doing?

Please don't waste your time with this poster, she is posting from a cybercafe in Nigeria her IP shows naija, it's a nigerian IP

jennykadry:

dont mind justwise, he is very marciless

Mr, Cork:

Imari.  madam i swaaaaar to allllah I love you. Can you give me $7000, in cash?

Tosinville:

^^marciless? lol

silly boys!

ALICIA22:


[size=17pt] 100% GBAM GBAM GBAM  [/size]

sit your happy backside down. You STEAL PICTURES! I'd rather make up stories than steal/save images of other broads. 

lmao@ Shy-one & Chima being all "devastated" @ their 'maybe' fellow American's deception. I dont think Imari is faking one bit.

and a special LOL to the IT who said Americans should be able to know if another is American or not based on their English, LMAO! Smart one. 

As for you[b] Imar[/b]i, like Chima said, just be smart about it and take time to analyze it all. You are not onbligated to go to Nigeria
nor are you to send this grown man money. The two of you need a REAL chit chat. 'Feel him out' and follow your gut instincts.

chic2pimp:

So Her IP address says she is in Nigeria. 419 jati jati

You better leave that cyber cafe before amadioha strikes you.

jennykadry:

Yep she is in Nigeria. Her IP is clearly saying so

It's a good thing some peeps got the drift and have decided to keep their advises for sensible threads, a pity some dullards have refused to graduate from being dumb to wise

I also remember one poster that came on here and told us how she's been having it with her sister's husbands and so on, if only peeps knew who she was , they wouldn't have wasted their time

MzD@rkSkin:

*skip*

@ Chic, and you are a moderator right?