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Re: American Needs Help by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 23, 2011
roymary:
^^^

Omg! Now, thats rude! I support the progress of this Forum and I say No to false Alarm.
[color=teal]oooooooh I'm rude. tongue

lmao. I'm just saying, ease up on the chica. undecided[/color]
Re: American Needs Help by roymary: 12:25am On Feb 23, 2011
^^^

You are my strongest weakness. No girl tells me what to do; but hey, you just did. So, i'm on a mute for now. lipsrsealed
Re: American Needs Help by adconline(m): 12:26am On Feb 23, 2011
OP: Only you know the person very well. As per the money, yes things are tough in Nigeria if he doesnt have a job. Most Nigerians living abroad send more than that  to their loved ones. Yes, it's customary for Nigerians to expect some money from someone who lives overseas.
Re: American Needs Help by roymary: 12:27am On Feb 23, 2011
adconline:
OP: Only you know the person very well. As per the money, yes things are tough in Nigeria if he doesnt have a job. Most Nigerians living abroad send more than that  to their loved ones. Yes, it's customary for Nigerians to expect some money from someone who lives overseas.
OMG!
Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 12:30am On Feb 23, 2011
[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=608521.msg7782666#msg7782666 date=1298416173][color=teal]ok this is GETTING MAD ANNOYING!

@Imari, I really don't see the need to post any scanned pictures or messages on this forum.
You owe nobody on here any explanations much less proof of anything at all. By scanning and posting you
look like you've taken this personally. In that case I'd just ignore them and move on to the mature folks.
They cannot see your IP address and even if they could (which they can't) who would be that jobless to go
out of their way? Females and males ALIKE will hate on you, as some ppl will dislike you just because.
That is a lesson to be learned in real life and has been demonstrated on this site day after day.

Just ignore them and move on, they dont pay your bills hun.

A$s tongue as for the person who posted the *ish about Plat, I hope everything you said in her absence, you had the "balls"
to say while she was here. . .but more than likely you like everything you do, band-wagoned and waited for your cue. . .
"monkey see monkey do!". In your case literally.  tongue[/color][/quote]You are correct and I do, take personal being called a liar on something I know is truth.

I admit to thin skin at times.

I posted the scans to really get rid of that topic of conversation, now any poster who persists in floating that IP addy or Nigerian cybercafe only look more the fool.
Re: American Needs Help by Nobody: 12:36am On Feb 23, 2011
ok my amebo nature will  not make me sleep embarassed  just wise get thee behind me.

@justwise

Lol where you dey?  You mean you did not follow that thread till the end?you fall my hand. She posted alot of invoices/receipts and even those from the international posts over there, i can't remember but i think she posted with some bank stamps as well. some people believed her but stopped believing when inspired and even platinumk's mum opened  her nyash.lol oh my dayz, i just loff this dramaland
Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 12:39am On Feb 23, 2011
adconline:
OP: Only you know the person very well. As per the money, yes things are tough in Nigeria if he doesnt have a job. Most Nigerians living abroad send more than that  to their loved ones. Yes, it's customary for Nigerians to expect some money from someone who lives overseas.
The money is one thing, but if he is having sex, have a girlfriend or wife that I can't take and I don't know how to really know if he is.

My OP was mostly about that, but most here jumped on the money part only.
Re: American Needs Help by googles: 12:48am On Feb 23, 2011
Oh so its not about the money then. . . its about him doing the do yea ?

honestly, don't delude yourself dat a sexually active man will stay 3 straight years without sex. . esp a 9ja man hmmm

maybe he does not have a steady partner/wife/girlfriend but I'm sure you know he's kabashing somewhere somehow undecided
Re: American Needs Help by justwise(m): 12:49am On Feb 23, 2011
jennykadry:
ok my amebo nature will  not make me sleep embarassed  just wise get thee behind me.

@justwise

Lol where you dey?  You mean you did not follow that thread till the end?you fall my hand. She posted alot of invoices/receipts and even those from the international posts over there, i can't remember but i think she posted with some bank stamps as well. some people believed her but stopped believing when inspired and even platinumk's mum opened  her nyash.lol oh my dayz, i just loff this dramaland
God!! yes i saw those documents she posted, i was following that case, at a point i stopped cos the thread was growing at an alarming rate, i never ever knew that she was taking pple for a rid, never knew that her mum stepped in, dam!! can u get the link again?
Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 12:54am On Feb 23, 2011
googles:
Oh so its not about the money then. . . its about him doing the do yea ?

honestly, don't delude yourself dat a sexually active man will stay 3 straight years without sex. . esp a 9ja man hmmm

maybe he does not have a steady partner/wife/girlfriend but I'm sure you know he's kabashing somewhere somehow undecided
"kabashing"

I am sorry but I don't understand a lot of Nigerian words or slang

So, if you could clear that one up I appreciate.

Also, we have cybered, webcam and phone sexed. smiley
Re: American Needs Help by Nobody: 12:58am On Feb 23, 2011
@justwise

It's been deleted i think, but lots of nlders knew about the whole thing,some of us followd the thread to the end lol, oyb,spikedcylinder,mukina,seun e.t.c all got the whole gist. Lol her mum was informed, she read through the thread and told us how bad her pikin is.

Scanning fake docs did not start now, didn't theseeker post some fake docs as well when he had the plat issue or so? Infact i no know who talk true sef
Re: American Needs Help by googles: 1:11am On Feb 23, 2011
Imari:
"kabashing"

I am sorry but I don't understand a lot of Nigerian words or slang

So, if you could clear that one up I appreciate.

Also, we have cybered, webcam and phone sexed. smiley
I'm sure you know he's having loads of s[i]e[/i]x. . .yeah dats it "loads of s[i]e[/i]x"

Hmmm chill, are you saying you 've not kabashed {I'm sure you geddit now} for three years ??  shocked
Re: American Needs Help by adconline(m): 1:23am On Feb 23, 2011
The money is one thing, but if he is having sex, have a girlfriend or wife that I can't take and I don't know how to really know if he is.

My OP was mostly about that, but most here jumped on the money part only.


You know what you  know and hope that he's telling you the truth. You also must  make out time to go and see him or ask him to come and see you.
As per the money, most Naija women would frown at a guy who is receiving financial help from a woman. It's a Nigerian thing that men are supposed to give women money not the other way round. Check the profile of the most forumites who jumped on the money thing, they are overwhelmingly women - it's ingrained in Nigerian mentality that men set the final agenda when relationships are involved. Some women who have got more money than their husbands/boyfriends go to point of secretly financing their relationships by fronting the man as the real financier even though they are real financiers. It's stereotypical in Niaja for most women to admit in public that they give money to their husbands and boyfriends. So don’t be worried
Re: American Needs Help by MrsChima(f): 1:34am On Feb 23, 2011
What the hell is going on in here?!!!  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Hey Mz Dark!  I seen your post, I wasn't devastated at the fact that it could be fake or not.  I don't think playing around with scamming is funny and if she was just joking the poo is not cute that what I was saying.  For her sake, I hope it all serious because if it is not then KAPISH. 

Hey to those who went to work today!
Re: American Needs Help by Nobody: 1:45am On Feb 23, 2011
[color=teal]@Chima sis, I didnt work today but best believe I do have a job! lol
yes some ppl here are jobless indeed! grin grin

@ Roymary, I am not telling you what to do. grin
I just ask that you be a good boy nice! smiley

@ Imari, good for you sis! wink smiley[/color]
Re: American Needs Help by MrsChima(f): 1:47am On Feb 23, 2011
Baby sis, you got the SPECIAL HELLO and the other hello was for the ones who worked. grin
Re: American Needs Help by justwise(m): 8:46am On Feb 23, 2011
jennykadry:
@justwise

It's been deleted i think, but lots of nlders knew about the whole thing,some of us followd the thread to the end lol, oyb,spikedcylinder,mukina,seun e.t.c all got the whole gist. Lol her mum was informed, she read through the thread and told us how bad her pikin is.

Scanning fake docs did not start now, didn't theseeker post some fake docs as well when he had the plat issue or so? Infact i no know who talk true sef
Yes i knew about that case and plat got alot of support here, she was the darling many here, well. . . credit to her mum.
Re: American Needs Help by chic2pimp(m): 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2011
justwise:
You mean that was fake? Cos i remember that case.
Hehehehe Where have you been all this while? grin grin grin grin grin.
Re: American Needs Help by justwise(m): 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2011
chic2pimp:
Hehehehe Where have you been all this while? grin grin grin grin grin.
I lost track of that thread.
Re: American Needs Help by Orikinla(m): 5:40pm On Feb 23, 2011
There are very good looking and very well educated young men in Nigeria who are straight and are true Christians who do not fornicate. They are rare, but they are real. So, a Nigerian guy can abstain from sex. I had sex once or twice with only one woman in a long distance relationship in Nigeria. I was very faithful until she could not bear waiting for long to have sex with me. She has her life to live and nobody should be forced to live by your own rules, except in matrimonial vows. Love has a price and it is called SACRIFICE and everyone makes sacrifices in relationships, but one makes more than the other. That is why it is done for love. Love does not demand equal sacrifices. Can any husband pay the price of the burden of the sacrifices of his wife, getting pregnant, bearing it for nine months or more, risking her life in childbirth and nursing the child or children in motherhood. No man can make such a sacrifice. So, the sacrifice of love is by choice and not by force. You either love him or her or leave. The choice is yours. Even if you have chosen to lie, the consequences will end up with you making more sacrifices to win back the trust of the person or those you thought you have fooled. All liars are fools, because when you lie, you are only fooling yourself. Love never dies, no matter the lies we tell in conceit and deceit. We are what we do. For better or for worse. Do the right thing, lest the past will haunt you for life. We are judged by our own deeds sooner or later. Follow your spirit for even when your heart breaks, your spirit will comfort and lift you up again.
Re: American Needs Help by Abekeade08(f): 2:40am On Feb 24, 2011
@Imari: My dear, you have absolutely nothing to prove to the Nlanders that don't believe you. Some people are so jaded on here because, they spend there time here with nothing better to do and try to beat people down. I know your first instinct is to defend yourself when people don't believe you, but why feed the beast on this faceless forum?? Those that believe you have given you good advice, thats all you need. Forget those that don't believe you as they don't add any value to your life, just skip their posts and answer those that are positively trying to enage you. You are still a newbie on this site and i know you will learn.

I wish you all the best and I hope you will meet a wonderful man in the future, who would  genuinely love you and appreciate the beauty you have brought into his life. Have a wonderful evening!
Re: American Needs Help by Tosinville(m): 2:48am On Feb 24, 2011
Roymary,

You stay in downtown chicago, illinois?¿¿ i thought you stay around dopemu/akowonjo area the way you're just mentioning it. But wats wrong i haven't seen any nigerian here living in nigeria before lol o ga o! i don tire for una.
Re: American Needs Help by 190: 2:51am On Feb 24, 2011
[color=deeppink]So you people are still on this case, shocked shocked


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Re: American Needs Help by roymary: 8:12pm On Feb 24, 2011
Tosinville:
Roymary,

You stay in downtown chicago, illinois?¿¿ i thought you stay around dopemu/akowonjo area the way you're just mentioning it. But wats wrong i haven't seen any nigerian here living in nigeria before lol o ga o! i don tire for una.
Lol! Now, you gonna make me laugh. Why would i lie if i wasn't over here? Its no big deal dammit; been doing this for so long! Yes, some of us don't live permanently in Nigeria ; to suit your curiosity , i'll give you my digits if you want.
Re: American Needs Help by Dsense(m): 8:15pm On Feb 24, 2011
OP.
May malicious virus eat you punny till you die . . . .Bloody liar. angry
Re: American Needs Help by roymary: 8:16pm On Feb 24, 2011
^^^^

lol
Re: American Needs Help by kaymoney2(m): 8:22pm On Feb 24, 2011
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=608521.msg7794387#msg7794387 date=1298574954]OP.
May malicious virus eat you punny till you die . . . .Bloody liar. angry[/quote] She should try window defender to freeze those anti viruz it works like magic grin
Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 11:00pm On Feb 24, 2011
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=608521.msg7794387#msg7794387 date=1298574954]OP.
May malicious virus eat you punny till you die . . . .Bloody liar. angry[/quote]So, vicious and mean, pity sad

I was just the other day reading a thread from you about bringing a more civil air to NL.

You must have been drunk or high when you made believe that BS cheesy
Re: American Needs Help by Dsense(m): 11:01pm On Feb 24, 2011
Yes i was high ,then i scarttered broken bottles in your head grin
Re: American Needs Help by kaymoney2(m): 11:11pm On Feb 24, 2011
Imari:
So, vicious and mean, pity sad

I was just the other day reading a thread from you about bringing a more civil air to NL.

You must have been drunk or high when you made believe that BS cheesy
@ Imari He is being warned by health officers to stop eating bread with Cocaine
but he wont stop** So dont be embarrassed at his behaviours many at times
he goes off line and off limit
grin grin grin

Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 11:12pm On Feb 24, 2011
[quote author=D-sense link=topic=608521.msg7795192#msg7795192 date=1298584908]Yes i was high ,then i scarttered broken bottles in your head grin[/quote]Thanks for the confirmation that you are a liar who gets high

Try detox  grin
Re: American Needs Help by Imari(op): 11:16pm On Feb 24, 2011
[quote author=kay-money link=topic=608521.msg7795248#msg7795248 date=1298585470] @ Imari He is being warned by health officers to stop eating bread with Cocaine
but he wont stop** So dont be embarrassed at his behaviours many at times
he goes off line  and off limit
  grin grin grin
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