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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 12:32am On Dec 13, 2020
Women are loyal to their biology

Weakness will get you eliminated from a woman’s life faster than just about anything else.

But, women are only loyal to their biological and psychological needs, and as Briffault’s Law so eloquently states, if a male is of no benefit to a female no association with the male takes place .

As many men can attest, you can be with a woman for months or years, give her everything, and at the first sign of weakness, she will leave you you and then wipe your name from her memory banks as if you never existed.

She can feel NO GUILT whatsoever about not answering your calls and texts. For all general purposes you are dead to her.

A woman’s loyalty works like this: For Betas, her loyalty extends only as far as his ability to resource provision, and for Alphas/Sigmas, her loyalty extends beyond reason because she sees him as dominant. Very important difference.

Betas are weak but resourceful in the female mind, and Alphas are strong but may or may not be resourceful. Either way, weakness gets a man eliminated sooner or later. For Betas, it’s once the bigger, better deal comes along.

As pointed out in love in strange places, women will even pursue sexual trysts with thugs and serial killers while Beta males are left to masturbate their sexual desires.
Once again we have both eyewitness and statistical evidence that women are loyal only to their biological and psychological needs.

To the female, weak men don’t deserve loyalty, or even the propagation of their genes into the next generation.
A lady will put a guy in a friend zone and will still not want him to date other women.


Men: Always keep your options open and never give your commitment away easily no matter what. Commitment equals loyalty

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:03am On Dec 13, 2020
Don’t Give Your Loyalty Away Easily

A man that don't give his loyalty away easily is a hard to get man.

Always remember women will seek your loyalty only as a means of extracting what value she sees in you and keeping other women from realizing its potential.

The man that gives his loyalty away easily is a weak man in the female mind.

1. For the uncommitted man, women will be in a constant state of worry because he has many appealing options and she must compete with these other women in order to gain his favor.

Once she has secured that commitment she feels entitled (it will no longer be valued). Your loyalty to her means you have either lost your appeal to other women or she is the best one you can get out of the group.

2. For the committed man: The best thing you can do for a woman who expect loyalty (especially your wife) is to make sure she knows that you are fine on your own without her. I’m not saying replacing her, but just that you can live on your own without anyone’s help.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:08am On Dec 13, 2020
Be independent

Thats why i stressed on self improvement. Until you are totallly independent before you consider marriage. As a bachelor be a balanced man ( be the best version of yourself, learn how to be a good cook, be good with ladies and control your sexual urge) . Be so good that your partner can't use sex, cooking food or other frivolities as a yardstick to control you.

As long as she knows that her actions are merely a comparative advantage in your life, she will stick around and remain loyal. This is because she knows that if she ever screws up, she’s out the door.



As I sit one day and reminisce about my experience with women, and having gone through alot of hotties (and a number of not hot but fuckables) . I’ve come to realize being nice doesn’t help, it makes it worse. In fact, the more jerk-like I am the more women want to stay around until they solve the mystery of what makes me so.

Now that we have seen women are loyal only to themselves, and once a man shows total loyalty to a woman she becomes a liability, we see there’s really no way to be the “nice guy” in a society that doesn’t have strictly enforced laws designed to keep female flightiness and predatory instincts under control.

It is heresy to say this in today’s gynocentric culture, but if women display no loyalty to men then men should display no loyalty to women.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:10am On Dec 13, 2020
Women can fake love to get what they want from men

Those with powers of keen observation and rational analysis notice women are naturally gifted with the innate behavior the philosopher Schopenhauer called dissimulation, that is the tendency to conceal their true thoughts and feelings. —RF

Women love men opportunistically and there is nothing you can do about it.

I just don’t think it’s possible for them to love men the way we love them. Many if not most are adept at faking emotion, and faking love. With experience you can see through each and every female facade.

Women can love what a man represents, his social status, finances, and power, but never the man himself because if he loses those things he ceases to exist in a woman’s eyes.

Without holding something for women to reach upwards to, men cease to exist in the eyes of women. For they will never reach down to lift us up the way we have done for them since time immemorial.

Men built the entire world for women, and our thanks will be repaid with women taking over the levers of control of the world through feminism.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 1:15am On Dec 13, 2020
Now that we have establish that women do not understand loyalty...
Lets go back and discuss Power dynamics.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:03am On Dec 13, 2020
79.) WOMEN AT THEIR WORST

Women are their own enemies. Forget the friendship you see women have they can easily back stab each other.

The competition

When a woman receive a compliment from another woman, it has more effect than when it is from a man. To them it is more genuine.

Do women always dress well for guy?
No they also dress to intimidate other women.

Women are always in competition with each other. When they fight verbally she tries to tarnish the other image by calling her a slut.
Or when physically fighting they try to get the other lady naked.

Women form stronger bonds with each other because they are of same gender and face similar problems. They also share secrets with each other , secrets which they can't tell their partner.

Their Friendship is of gossip, sharing secrets and returning favor. If a lady gets a maga and invites her friend to tag along she expects the friend to do thesame if not hell will lose.

As insecure as they can be when the other is progressing than the other, jealousy and envy sets it.


One of the most noticeabe is when an exceptional guys comes into the equation. Women don't keep their mouths shut, they will start telling their friends and all that cares to here that her Boyfriend is a great guy, he is romantic, good in bed even to the extent of describing how his d1ck looks like etc. As innocent as this statement may appear she just rose the beast in her friend(s).

In no distant time you will hear that one of her friends slept with her boyfriend or worst her mind will be poisoned to leave the boyfriend only for one of her friends to marry him.
Women have no loyalty, get that.

Do you know that women show more gender discrimination towards their gender in workplace.

There was a vacancy for a teaching job, i told a lady i know to use this opportunity to do something to get paid. She asked if the principal is male or female once she heard female, she said she doesn’t want.

Women always prefer males as the head because they are easy to manipulate. Once its their fellow woman, their feminine wiles won't work they have to work harder, no mercy.

They say men are misogynist or sexist but they are more misogynistic to each other.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:05am On Dec 13, 2020
Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman

Get a guy angry and he punches you. Get a woman angry and you see a different species.
Women have a terrible way of seeking revenge. She can go to the extent of burning her partner's certificate, cut her husband dick, pour hot water on him, emotionally torture him, etc

Her aim is too make him feel pain while still alive.
Recently women sometimes use false rape accusation or domestic violence to tarnish a man's image.

Men and Women can be terrible
Men are terrible but women are more terrible than men.
Give a woman power and see how she becomes very controlling.

For every character women criticize men of, they are 10 times worst than men.

When it comes to money, Ladies are very stingy but accuse men that don't give them urgent 2k as stingy.
To a woman especially in marriage, her money is her money but your money is our money

I read a story of a woman who was hospitalized after an illness. The husband was going helter skelter looking for money only to overheard his wife telling her junior sister to help her ensure her money was hidden.

The man was filled with rage and felt betrayed.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:25am On Dec 13, 2020
80.)EVOLUTION OF FEMALE PRIORITIES

Its a mans world but a woman’s paradise.

In accordance with women’s sexual strategies, women place an importance upon looks according to their phase of life.

The priorities and importance of characteristics that women will consider prerequisites for intimacy shift as her life’s conditions dictate.

c.14 – 19 years old: Looks are everything.
At this stage many of them belief in love and being romantic.

Women will gladly overlook character flaws or a lack of assets in favor of fucking the physical Alpha while she approaches her own sexual apex.

In Secondary School i have experienced it alot.


20-30 years old:

Looks are still of primary importance, but other factors are beginning to compete in significance as she notices, looks won't put food to the table.

Most are in Higher Institution at this stage and begin to see that its better to go for money.

While she’s still hot enough to command attention, her hypergamic priorities lean more towards the provisioning parental investment potential a man represents.

As she gets closer to 30, she knows she has to play her cards well if she is to cash out of the game while she’s still able to compete with other women.

Ambition, character, assets, humor, personality, etc. begin to be more important in the light of a potential life-time commitment.

Most women are looking forward to marriage at this stage.

30-35 years old: Most single women in this demographic are in varying degrees of denial (aided by social conventions), but on some level of consciousness they realize that they’re past their expiration date and securing a commitment is a progressively more difficult battle with every passing year.

Looks lose precedent in favor of assets and status. She goes for men who are ready for marriage.

Game and personality become more prominent, but the primary focus is catching up to the choices she made (or should’ve made) when she younger.

A Man with a reasonable amount of success and status is her target not a Man with “potential”.

While the physical is still important, she’s more than willing to compromise the physical standards she held at 24 if the Man brings a lot to the table.

35-45 years old: She’s well past her expiration date, hit the Wall and is, graciously or not, accepting the fact that she’s used goods.
Any notion of a list of requisites or priorities are a fond memory now.

She may play the Cougar card ( go for very young guys).

This may seem like she’s back to her primary Looks focus in playing the Cougar, but again, on some level of consciousness she understands that younger Men are doing her the favor by fucking her and in no way expects more than a physical fling.

The hope is still, by some miracle, to lock down an aging divorcee or widower, with at least some amount of appreciable assets.

Status is nice, looks would be icing on the cake if he’s still got them, but provisioning takes priority above even Game or social intelligence.

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Re: The Red Truth by emmaodet: 2:34am On Dec 13, 2020
[quote author=Dpsychologist post=97011326] 79.) WOMEN AT THEIR WORST

Women are their own enemies. Forget the friendship you see women have they can easily back stab each other.

The competition

When a woman receive a compliment from another woman, it has more effect than when it is from a man. To them it is more genuine.

Do women always dress well for guy?
No they also dress to intimidate other women.

Women are always in competition with each other. When they fight verbally she tries to tarnish the other image by calling her a slut.
Or when physically fighting they try to get the other lady naked.

Women form stronger bonds with each other because they are of same gender and face similar problems. They also share secrets with each other , secrets which they can't tell their partner.

Their Friendship is of gossip, sharing secrets and returning favor. If a lady gets a maga and invites her friend to tag along she expects the friend to do thesame if not hell will lose.

As insecure as they can be when the other is progressing than the other, jealousy and envy sets it.


One of the most noticeabe is when an exceptional guys comes into the equation. Women don't keep their mouths shut, they will start telling their friends and all that cares to here that her Boyfriend is a great guy, he is romantic, good in bed even to the extent of describing how his d1ck looks like etc. As innocent as this statement may appear she just rose the beast in her friend(s).

In no distant time you will hear that one of her friends slept with her boyfriend or worst her mind will be poisoned to leave the boyfriend only for one of her friends to marry him.
Women have no loyalty, get that.

Do you know that women show more gender discrimination towards their gender in workplace.

There was a vacancy for a teaching job, i told a lady i know to use this opportunity to do something to get paid. She asked if the principal is male or female once she heard female, she said she doesn’t want.

Women always prefer males as the head because they are easy to manipulate. Once its their fellow woman, their feminine wiles won't work they have to work harder, no mercy.

They say men are misogynist or sexist but they are more misogynistic to each other.
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Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 4:23am On Dec 13, 2020
Dpsychologist, when I thought I've seen it all!! Wow!
This is the Redder Pill indeed! I'm totally impressed!

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Re: The Red Truth by mickelkingz(m): 8:59am On Dec 13, 2020
Dpsychologist:
In marriage


Case 5
The wife f*cked a dude on the day of her wedding while the Husband is busy planning on how to return the canopies, chairs, tables and other rentals.


my experience..
Re: The Red Truth by mickelkingz(m): 2:46pm On Dec 13, 2020
Dpsychologist:

If you are the ex that spend money on her, gave up your career because of her, the only thing you did in r/ship was hugging. You will not be remembered.

A lady once said, " if i date a guy and we didn't have sex i don't count him as my ex."

what about the ex that break her Virginity and spend nothing on her?
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:10pm On Dec 13, 2020
This quote explains it all:

"Never try to impress a woman or she'll always hold you to that standard."-W.C. Fields

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:55pm On Dec 13, 2020
mickelkingz:

my experience..
will you mind sharing it.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:29pm On Dec 13, 2020
81.) MASTERS AND PUPPETS

Actors/actresses are being praised for their acting skills but actually it is the producers and directors that are responsible for making a movie great. A president is seen as the most powerful man in a country, however there are godfathers that are behind the scenes controlling the president.

Just like the way a puppeteer controls his puppets that's how a woman controls a simp.

The masters are those behind the scenes controlling the puppets.

For Every simp laws there is a female behind manipulating a simp to enforce the law.

Have you wondered why women are always favored. You go to look for job but instead a woman is given preference. I once was told that in a particular firm the man recruits only ladies.

Its a man's world but a woman’s paradise

Whether you believe it or not women control men.

Delilah controlled samson and manipulated him to his death.

Cleopatra manipulated Mark Anthony and Julius Caeser to their death. If not for the cunningness of octavius he could have also been a victim.

Norma Jean, also called Marilyn Monroe had many men at her palm in the mid 20th century

While men were busy going to war, studying the earth and trying to make money. Women were busy studying men.

For centuries they perfected the art of Seduction, sophistry and manipulation, while men are only catching up.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:32pm On Dec 13, 2020
Women invented game

The game of dating is amoral. We’re all players in a game. It's either you move or you’re moved. You play the game, or the game plays you. You can’t not play the game. You don’t beat the game by denying the game; death’s the only escape from the game. Until then, play well to live well.

Women invented game /seduction. They had no way to compete, no weapon at their disposal that could make a man do what they wanted—politically, socially, or even in the home.

However, men had one weakness: their insatiable desire for sex.

A woman could always toy with this desire, but once she gave in to sex the man was back in control; and if she withheld sex, he could simply look elsewhere—or exert force.

They had no choice but to submit to this condition.
Then some women (The greatest of them all,Cleopatra) whose hunger for power was too great invented a way of turning the dynamic around, creating a more lasting and effective form of power: seduction.

First they would draw a man in with an alluring appearance, designing their makeup and adornment to fashion the image of a goddess come to life.

The illusions of sex is far greater than sex itself

The long eyelashes, the high heel shoes, the long hair, the lipstick, the fake butt, fake boobs, botox etc are all arsenals for seduction.

By showing only glimpses of flesh, they would tease a man's imagination, stimulating the desire not just for sex but for something greater: the chance to possess a fantasy figure.
Once they had their victims' interest, these women would lure them away from the masculine world of war and politics(isolating the target) and get them to spend time in the feminine world—a world of luxury, spectacle, and pleasure( Cleopatra lured Julius Caesar on a trip down the Nile) .

Man is at his weakest emotionally, woman at her weakest logically.

Men would grow hooked on these refined, sensual pleasures—they would fall in love. Then the women would turn cold and indifferent, confusing their victims. Just when the men wanted more, they found their pleasures withdrawn.

They would be forced into pursuit, trying anything to win back the favors they once had tasted and growing weak and emotional in the process.

Men who had physical and social power— King David, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, —would find themselves becoming the slave of a woman.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:34pm On Dec 13, 2020
Men who are masters

The simps are pawns while women are the masters. There are masters of masters, they are the pimps. They are the kings, they control other men because they are able to control women.

It was only in 17th century came a great change: men grew interested in seduction as a way to overcome a young woman's resistance to sex. Men began to adopt the methods traditionally employed by women.

They learned to dazzle with their appearance to stimulate the imagination. They also added a new, masculine element to the game: seductive language, for they had discovered a woman's weakness for soft words. This was what later morphed to pick up artistry.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:41pm On Dec 13, 2020
mickelkingz:


what about the ex that break her Virginity and spend nothing on her?
It has long being established that virgins easily get Emotionally Attached to their first guy.

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Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 1:37pm On Dec 14, 2020
Sibtygar:
If women are naturally redpill how come they have not overtaken men in some notable Muslim countries? Unlike in some part of American. I have been reading some part of this page but I barely hear stories from such part of the world on this thread.

Women have not "overtaken" men in Muslim countries like the west because most Muslim countries who are theocratic (government by religious leaders) created a system to greatly limit and control women's hypergamy, even to the point of misogyny. Some African societies (not religious-influenced) had extreme rules to limit women's hypergamic drive before westernization, so much that some of them appeared as hate for women but in fact, they were not. Life was nasty, brutish and short, so the men were being careful to put out, the best quality women, for themselves. It still, didn't remove the fact that there were male simps and female hypergamy then, but the larger society controlled it.

Women's hypergamic instincts is the main drive for women to be naturally red-pilled which is further boosted by the guidance of the sisterhood (other women). The west lost it when they failed the biggest shît test from women, FEMINISM.

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Re: The Red Truth by ibkonekt(m): 7:33pm On Dec 14, 2020
a very classic video of female deflection and mental gymnastics


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEz4pvwijK0
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:12pm On Dec 14, 2020
82.) ALPHA GAME AND BETA GAME

Game can be compared with fishing in which the fishing method is the type of game you use.
How do you catch a fish?

The beta nice guy ask the fish and he is told using hook and a bait is the best strategy infact some will tell him just use hook without a bait and he will get them. The beta tries it and gets frustrated.

The beta tries it and wonders whats going on and why its very difficult to catch the fish.
After trying countless times and then catches one. He becomes excited.

Betas enter into r/ship because they have no choice, most ladies don't want them. They secretly admire the Alpha but keep getting Frustrated.

The alpha uses the fail proof method which is using of fishing net. He ends up getting as many fishes as he wants. As such he can choose the best fish and throw away the bad ones.

Alphas have enough that is why they are mostly not faithful or have abundance mentality.

Beta game: Simps and whitenights
A look down history will show you how weak men have simped deeply in the guise of love.

See the way Cleopatra turn mark Anthony, and julius csesar into a pawns.

Men have been simping since from time immemorial.
History keeps on repeating itself because men refuse to learn from history.

The internet as given us opportunity to see for ourselves what it entails. It is now left to us not to repeat those mistakes.

When a simp is broke or without power, his simping has less effect on others.

The problem amplifies when a simp is in power, he usually causes disaster. They crush other guys with simp laws. Simps have ruin great businesses and empires because of women. A look at history has shown how many men died because of women.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:13pm On Dec 14, 2020
Alpha rules

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:17pm On Dec 14, 2020
83.) THE DREADED FRIEND ZONE
The Friend zone is strictly one-sided as it allows her to derive more benefit from the arrangement without you getting anything in return.

The ideal transaction

A woman desires a man’s emotional loyalty ( monopoly of a man's resources ) above all else, whilst as a man, your desires firmly place sexual loyalty (monopoly of her body above all else) this is the exchange of value taking place in a successful “romantic” transaction, your emotional commitment and resources for the use of her body.

The value of your emotional commitment to a woman depends on the worth a woman places upon it. If it is given with difficulty its worth is that of gold, if is given with so much ease its worth is that of sand.

Men and women are ultimately never equal in part due to the differences in our sexual imperatives.

The difference in agenda and how it is pursued by each gender is merely one significant indication of these differences in mating psychology.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:23pm On Dec 14, 2020
The friend zone
This section is aimed mainly at guys who have no clue about women and find themselves a slave to the whims of any attractive female in their lives who throws them some attention, be she the hot girl at work or even his own wife.
These guys are responsible for their problems by not being on top of their game, putting the pussy on a pedestal and letting women take them for a ride.

There are many pretty girls in the world, abundance mentality is a cornerstone in avoiding the friend zone , however it is also paramount in having respect for one’s self and maintaining a healthy sex life (as the late and great Patrice O’Neal would say it: “ showing a bitch you’ve got options“ ) this still applies once you have reached the mating stage that is a relationship or dare I say it, marriage – you can never stop gaming .

The friend zone however is not just a hurdle on the path to getting sex from a woman which magically disappears once sex has been attained.

A woman can friend zone you even after having had sex with you and a more cunning woman may use sex as a way to secure your commitment before withdrawing it later on and simultaneously seeing if they can extract emotional commitment and resources from you without having to keep up their end of the bargain .

Leave the friendzone
If you stay in your comfort Zone you will remain in the friendzone

If you’re in the friend zone then you’re essentially giving away what she values for free without even realising it (or you wouldn’t even be “a friend” to begin with.)

By not making a woman work for what she wants [from you] she will never grow to appreciate what it is you bring to the table, in fact she will come to expect it and she will even go so far as to punish you for any perceived slight or insubordination should she have grown accustomed to your emotional commitment.

If you realise you were being friend zoned get annoyed with the situation and pull the plug by ceasing to provide her with the emotional nourishment she was deriving from you, she will reprimand you for pulling away and will attempt to re-ensnare you.

In such a situation, one has to slowly fade out of her life rather than having an over the top and dramatic altercation.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:26pm On Dec 14, 2020
Friend zone in marriage

Now onto the idea of marriage being a glorified friend zone, beta males in sexless marriages are in effect existing in a form of legally sanctioned friend zone.

A husband who isn’t getting any sex from his wife has been softly friend zoned for his utility but no longer deemed sexually attractive and thus not respected by his wife.

A woman who respects her man, bleeps her man – if she’s constantly withholding sex for any reason other than medical reasons then her withholdment of sex is considered a transgression which violates the nature of your manly desires and thus can be considered an unspoken disrespect of your position within the relationship.

A sexless marriage engages in the same social dynamics as an 18-year-old beta orbiter who picks up the girl of his affections in his car and then drives her around acting on her whims as a glorified taxi driver, buying her gifts to demonstrate his affection.

These behaviours are a vain attempt to try to impress his way into her pants, by giving her everything she wants up-front without asking for anything in return.

The difference between a married man and the18-year-old beta orbiter is that he's legally obliged to ensure her feminine imperative is fulfilled perhaps there are even a few children thrown into the chaos which effectively ensures he remain firmly placed in the friend zone.

Allowing her to ruthlessly trap him by enforcing an unhappy sexless marriage is tantamount and equivalent in value exchange to that of the friend zone where the man in question is “just a friend” providing benefits to the arrangement whilst not receiving any [from her] himself.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:29pm On Dec 14, 2020

The Surrogate Boyfriend

Women ruthlessly use men as “surrogate providers” for their desires and lifestyle choices whilst not providing any return on the services he provides, or doing so begrudgingly or sparingly merely as a manipulative effort to keep him content enough to stick around.

Ideally women are gatekeepers of sex and men gatekeepers of commitment.

Woman will give up sex to get commitment and man give up commitment for sex(even though this bargain is unfair to men). However, women play their cards right and ensure they enjoy commitment without sex from a guy, that guy is the surrogate boyfriend.

He is the one paying the bills but is made to wait till marriage while she goes out to get bleeped by an Alpha. She may even be claiming she hate to the surrogate bf but he’s probably fucking another guy behind his back.

If a lady has 2 boyfriends, the guy she demands excess money from is the surrogate boyfriend and is not the one she truly likes.

Alpha bleeps beta bucks.

The Alpha gets the pussy for free while the Beta pays for the pussy.

Nothing is actually free in life. When you get something for free someone is paying for it somewhere.

Alot of times, the main guy( Beta) is actually the side guy while the side guy (Alpha) is actually the main guy to a woman.

The Beta is the one that provides her financial needs while she spends the money on the Alpha.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:32pm On Dec 14, 2020
The "Do me i do you" tactic
The friend zone however is not just a hurdle on the path to getting sex from a woman which magically disappears once sex has been attained.

A woman can friend zone you even after having had sex with you and a more cunning woman may use sex as a way to secure your commitment before withdrawing it later on and simultaneously seeing if they can extract emotional commitment and resources from you without having to keep up their end of the bargain.

If you let her frame win here within the context of a relationship or even marriage, you’re allowing her to drill nails into the coffin of being a chump.

As a man, emotional investment in a woman should only be given to her as positive reinforcement for behaviour that is conducive to your desires and/or the betterment of the relationship.

If she’s fucking you and engaging in desirable feminine behaviours then keep giving her love and emotional nourishment.

However if she’s going to callously cut off sex in an attempt to test the boundaries of the relationship and get you to do what she wants, you in turn need to callously cut off your commitment to her or else you end up encouraging her atrocious behaviour.

This is the only leverage you have (also known as dread game ) and is ultimately why marriage can turn into the headquaters of friend zones.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:38pm On Dec 14, 2020
Some examples

A Sexless marriage

In 2018, New York socialites Quentin Esme Brown (wife) and Peter Cary Peterson (husband) got married in Las Vegas. Guess what? Their marriage is a sexless marriage.

The wife said:

“He has always been my soulmate in every sense of the word and we felt mutually that Vegas was the place to finalize our commitment to partnership. Peter and I are not romantically involved — in fact we are still dating others and will continue to seek love in all forms — we are just each other’s hearts and wish to begin our journey towards evolution, because the more we face reality, the more we can see that there is no right or wrong.”


Simps are something else. I pity such kind of men.

Story: Surrogate bf

I know of a guy that his gf got pregnant for her side guy. She ask the side guy for money to abort but he told her he doesn’t have money and ignored her.

She ask her main boyfriend for money for an imaginary expenses and he gave her. Unknown to him he gave her money to abort pregnancy for another dude. This babe nearly died and was taken to the hospital.

The bf came and visit her without knowing what actually happened. And paid hospital bills thinking it was typhoid.
This same girl after she felt better was still going back to the side guy.

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Re: The Red Truth by BaddieFreak(f): 10:53pm On Dec 14, 2020
Anything redpill is a lie, a scam. grin
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 11:03pm On Dec 14, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Anything redpill is a lie, a scam. grin
grin grin grin grin we hv heard u move aside
Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 5:04am On Dec 15, 2020
aminu114:
grin grin grin grin we hv heard u move aside

Why must you guys always reply any moniker with (f) sign?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:39am On Dec 15, 2020
TheUndercover:


Why must you guys always reply any moniker with (f) sign?
They have orgasms when they see (f). Who knows it might be a male lol

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