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Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Anaerobi(m): 1:06pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gunners160:I been hate Arsenal, but for this point, Arsenal will finish in 4th this coming season. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by elias0071(m): 1:08pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Jfix post=93608207]you better run after your future first |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
stanliwise: If they say it till thy kingdom come, it can stop women not to behave the way God created them, breaking one heart has not to do with gender, a reliable male friend can brake one"s heart, ditto disappointment, does that stop man not to mingle with other friends? Life must continue They want every woman to open legs for them,without single stress, how can it be possible? Even in dream! Life on his own is a competition, its survival of the fittest & elimination of unfitted ,even in relationships. Those unfortunate guys calling themselves Alpha males are unfitted and that's y they are vent their frustration on nairaland. we men we don't need to deceive ourselves we need women if we want a fulfilled life, go for good one among them. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by anonimi: 1:09pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gunners160: www.nairaland.com/attachments/2967307_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188 www.nairaland.com/attachments/4273539_fbimg1472991509128_jpega41416663f46d9694b9293059e01401c 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 1:09pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by TheGoodJoe(m): 1:13pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix you are not a simp. You are just realising your fault and it is easy to fix. Just give simple compliments first. It is not about asking out. Most ladies like harmless compliments. When once you are comfortable with that, move on to harmless discussions. Don't have a goal first. That will put you at ease. Practice this regularly until it becomes part of you. It will naturally come when it comes to a girl you really like. Just talk from your heart then. For now. Start with simple compliments first. Try sales girls a lot. Their jobs are to act nicely and then move on to others. Go rampant, from malls, stores, libraries, cabs etc. Please don't use your pretty or hot. Please don't. Compliment her dress sense, the book she is holding, her cute shoes or even the way she talks. Makes you different from the rest. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
You are not scared you only don't know the reason why you need them. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by jpride(m): 1:15pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Study ur book joor 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 1:17pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
cmecproblem:Telling him to be friends with her first is even the worse. You don't have to be dishonest by hiding your real intention, cuz it might end so badly emotionally, and by doing that you risk losing her to another guy who will make real advances on her. Be confident enough to tell a girl that you want her. If the chemistry is there and she doesn't have a boyfriend, she'll accept, and that's good. If she rejects you good. Nothing to worry about as you will certainly find another girl. What if you decide to be friends first and when the time comes for you to ask her out she declines because she didn't want anything beyond just being friends. Your precious time would have been wasted and you'll be down emotionally. So if you like a girl, don't hesitate to tell her as quickly as possible before it's too late. Carpe diem!! 7 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Longman6(m): 1:17pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Good problem bro. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by LikeAking: 1:18pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Whe you see a girl you like/lust, remove the thoughts of toasting her from your mind and replace it with the thouhts of just knowing her casually. The problem is from your head.Learn to slow thing firts. 1.Just know the babe just on normall level.(No toasting thing in your head) 2.Make the babe and your self comfortable 3Toast the babe subtly/inderictly 4.Progress from their. "Daddy dont rush,I slow walk" Na falz talk am. slow work like a bop daddy. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Lastanza: 1:18pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Nigerians are the highest hypocrites in the whole planet earth. A 23 year old guy going to 24 next month is seeking advice on how to woo a woman and all ya hypocrites are telling him is to study his books, make money, bla bla bla. Do ya all dumbos know that relationship is also part of education and experiences in life? Even those that started fu-cking at age 16, 17 are telling a grown-up man to focus on passing his jamb. So you are so dumb that you were still writing jamb at 23 at this age that people are graduating from university at 21, 22 Nansense! 8 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Dalby(m): 1:20pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Don't worry you will get it right in your next reincarnation!!! 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Anaerobi(m): 1:21pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Okay, try this joke wooing and thank me later. that one u love, once you know u both are close as friends, joknly tell her u are In love with her, and request for immediate response tell her with joke if she won't respond now, let her forget about it. at that point, she won't know what to say because she may say lemme think... nothing to think. maybe after some days, out of joke ask her how about ur proposal. if she is in, she will b honest but if she is not, she will also tell u. all na play play e d take start..... lol |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by jamiudinho(m): 1:21pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
MrTee28:The thing they wonder me self if u check deep in his heart the main motive is fornication |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Anaerobi(m): 1:23pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
but me, on a serious note, I haven't ask a girl out. it's either we see ourselves dating or she show sign, I will just be friend zoning her. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Emmanuel602(m): 1:25pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Stop masturbation 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Goalnaldo(m): 1:29pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
I gave up on girls after I asked about 9 out and none accepted me. I tried to help their life but them no gree The last one I tried that was three years ago, some things I rehearsed flew out of my head like Neymar when fouled These days I can walk up to almost any girl and start a conversation, not totally confident though but not as afraid as before. My advice; just keep trying and have it at the back of your head that most will reject you. You will grow in confidence. Na people like una go be badder than when una start 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by keaderr: 1:30pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
The solution is for you to have se..x. As bad as it may sound...go and pay for it. You will thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by nasbiafra(m): 1:31pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Start first with the brothels.i was once like you but a nigga got to quench some konji.so i started with the brothels and when i saw how free those olosho are i was amaze and started viewing all girls like that.the brothel help my confidence 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by LikeAking: 1:31pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Fussion1000: If you cant chase girls,you cant chase money. Truth. You need similar technique for both. Thats why the motor park boys are ruling Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by LikeAking: 1:40pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
OP wants to bleep girls,you people are telling him make money,make money.Will He bleep money. This make money girls will rush you dont work as you think and girls chasing us is against the way men are wired. We are the chasers we must do our duty. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by gregyboy(m): 1:41pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Connected1: Lol, i got one rejection today but am planning to beg her for friends with benefit... Lol 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by stanliwise(m): 1:41pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Fussion1000:You have spoken well. Truth of the matter is this when it comes to relationships games men got the juice and they keys. Any man not up to 70 has the capacity to handle any kind of Ladies if willing to. Ladies by societal standards especially Africa are at their prime in the early to late 20’s. After this they face motherhood and old age. But no matter how “Simp” as they call it suffers in the hands of any female. Most men has 40+ years to hover around and Bleep any kind of pussy they see fit. Aside from responsible and self-disciplined men almost all kind of men are also fucking around. Before secondary school I work with Nigeria Breweries and I had chance to go with my boss to bars and club. Men flucks in thousand and hundreds to recycle about same amount of limited girls and hoes in the hotel. Boys are in hundreds looking for the nearest and the dumbest girl in the street to mark their register. In a number of 100 boys and girls. A average youth boy has more than 5 body count and more than 10 sex encounters. Although many female engage in sex but the males have an upper hand in this area. Our society is so supportive of randy nature of men unlike our women. In other word for every 1 “simp” as they call it there are 5 rugged male ready sharp enough to play the games well. I see no reason why the come to bark here. What they want is a world where men will be stepping on women like foot mats. A world of the old where women where seen as sex object. But sorry to break there dream, the era of gender supremacy is coming to an end and men can only settle for gender base role. Meaning some roles are inherently for men e.g Being a home leader and being a father. But for general social settings, kiss gender supremacy a good bye. Gender equality is coming to stay. I respect you and you respect me. At the end of the day we just have bad people, there is nothing like bad boys and bad girls. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by LikeAking: 1:43pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
gregyboy: Its not rejection my friend,just be patient. Nigerian babes are cunning when it comes to dating. Disturb her life like OZO of BBN The Naija dating game has changed,even when she say no,she is jonzing you. Be very close with her first. No need to ask any girl out in this morden world.You action will tell them. |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by IbrahimSkiba(f): 1:44pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Jfix: Gay |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by adenodi002(m): 1:44pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Fussion1000:so 23 nah teenager abi |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by gregyboy(m): 1:46pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
LikeAking: Lol, i nor get dat time make i first taste her honey pot first |
Re: At Age 23 Still Scared Of Asking A Girl Out by Nobody: 1:47pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
nemynely:You hit the nail straight on the head bro, before he will become like one NL monkey that is only good at yarning misogynistic trash about women all day on NL. |
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