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I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Rabbi4real: 10:29pm On Sep 14
Good day sir,
pls sir post for me, hide my identity and notify me, av bn suspecting my hubby is sleeping withmy niece of 14 years, so I decide to observe them very well, hubby usually leaves his room y am there ( I sleep in my husband’s room), and he ll lock d door with key so I av no access to open it, but one night I pretended to be deep in sleep, so he left to d room where my niece is sleeping ( d room is very close to my husband room),I listen carefully till wen he released and he went to d toilet to clean his self, I now knocked d door which he rushed to open it.

To cut d story short I....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/14/i-caught-my-husband-sleeping-with-my-niece-of-14years/

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 10:35pm On Sep 14
later some will be advising that you should give them space and respect their privacy,thats rubbish.As a married woman,make sure you monitor your husband very well and check his phones all the time,if he dares put his phone on lock,cause wahala and let him know you don't take rubbish so as to avoid cases like this

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by pman096(m): 10:36pm On Sep 14
All lies angry..just be posting rubbish

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by longetivity(m): 10:42pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
later some will be advising that you should give them space and respect their privacy,thats rubbish.As a married woman,make sure you monitor your husband very and check his phones all the time,if he dares put his phone on lock,cause wahala and let him know you don't take rubbish so as to avoid cases like this
and u want to enjoy ur marriage

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by yuhsa: 10:43pm On Sep 14
wonderful
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 10:43pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
later some will be advising that you should give them space and respect their privacy,thats rubbish.As a married woman,make sure you monitor your husband very and check his phones all the time,if he dares put his phone on lock,cause wahala and let him know you don't take rubbish so as to avoid cases like this
Ah ah! Monitor him for what? So I can't lock my phone again? What if there's nothing to hide? You will just pile up unnecessary suspicions.

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 10:45pm On Sep 14
KidDarkness:

Ah ah! Monitor him for what? So I can't lock my phone again? What if there's nothing to hide? You will just pill up unnecessary suspicions.
why will you lock phone if there's nothing to hide

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 10:46pm On Sep 14
longetivity:
and u want to enjoy ur marriage
and he wants to enjoy his marriage?

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by longetivity(m): 10:49pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
and he wants to enjoy his marriage?
be careful oo, men don't take shit this days

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 10:52pm On Sep 14
longetivity:
be careful oo, men don't take shit this days
its the other way round

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 10:52pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
why will you lock phone if there's nothing to hide

Because of unnecessary pressing especially by kids. I don't have to hide anything to lock my phone when I can just delete. Moreover, what you don't know won't hurt you. Too much prying is not good. Just trust

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by longetivity(m): 10:53pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
its the other way round
okay
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 10:57pm On Sep 14
KidDarkness:

Because of unnecessary pressing especially by kids. I don't have to hide anything to lock my phone when I can just delete. Moreover, what you don't know wonder hurt you. Too much prying is not good. Just trust
Then I must know the password to unlock,let me help him to prevent kids from pressing too,i will want to know everything,leave the hurt for me.This is the manipulative language they use

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by stanliwise(m): 11:02pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
why will you lock phone if there's nothing to hide
If one has nothing to hide he has nothing to fear but but but but but....
There are scenarios I don’t want my partner to see somethings in my phone because she would misinterpret them e.g if my boss is approaching me at work and sending me sweet messages on WhatsApp. While I am trying to deal with it and have vowed not to break, my partner seeing such message would not understand.
I hope you understand
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:06pm On Sep 14
stanliwise:

If one has nothing to hide he has nothing to fear but but but but but....
There are scenarios I don’t want my partner to see somethings in my phone because she would misinterpret them e.g if my boss is approaching me at work and sending me sweet messages on WhatsApp. While I am trying to deal with it and have vowed not to break, my partner seeing such message would not understand.
I hope you understand
your response to the message is very important here,so lets read them together.Why are you men so security conscious about your phones.It can never work with my type,no locking of phones,period
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 11:07pm On Sep 14
[quote author=Zzor post=93933323]Then I must know the password to unlock,let me help him to prevent kids from pressing too,i will want to know everything,leave the hurt for me.This is the manipulative language they use [/quote
Cheating might be the worst thing that can happen in a marriage. If I'm not cheating, then why will you want to know about everything. Yes, should be open with one another but there are some things that are better left alone, maybe better off as a surprise. I'm beginning to think that if you see a text message on your guy's phone from a lady even when it's the lady pushing herself on the guy, you will still question him
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:11pm On Sep 14
[quote author=KidDarkness post=93933586][/quote]i already said his response to such is what is important,so we will read everything together
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by stanliwise(m): 11:12pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
your response to the message is very important here,so lets read them together.Why are you men so security conscious about your phones.It can never work with my type,no locking of phones,period
It is not just men but everyone. The world is a corrupt world, many people are into one thing or another.
On Saturday at the club, a lot of men flocking into the club were married men, it is like that every-time. More so ladies sometimes has what to hide but I feel married men cheat more in Africa than married women.
Although not so when unmarried, but that is one reason why people don’t like their phone to get touched.
Here is an advice, if you’re with your guy, don’t ever disturb him to check his phone, if you need to see something then go ahead and do it when he is not watching. And when you see it keep it yourself.
He didn’t send you to see it. And don’t complain also, just Make your calculations.
That is the bitter reality that I think works.
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:16pm On Sep 14
stanliwise:
It is not just men but everyone. The world is a corrupt world, many people are into one thing or another.
On Saturday at the club, a lot of men flocking into the club were married men, it is like that every-time. More so ladies sometimes has what to hide but I feel married men cheat more in Africa than married women.
Although not so when unmarried, but that is one reason why people don’t like their phone to get touched.
Here is an advice, if you’re with your guy, don’t ever disturb him to check his phone, if you need to see something then go ahead and do it when he is not watching. And when you see it keep it yourself.
He didn’t send you to see it. And don’t complain also, just Make your calculations.
That is the bitter reality that I think works.
advice from the well of redpill ,manipulative advice,i don't take such advice,i don't want to be caught unawares.No locking of phones,period.

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 11:16pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
i already said his response to such is what is important,so we will read everything together
So this is how marriage will be? Let me enjoy single hood small before thinking about it. Not just used to sharing feelings and other stuffs yet

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:19pm On Sep 14
KidDarkness:

So this is how marriage will be? Let me enjoy single hood small before thinking about it. Not just used to sharing feelings and other stuffs yet
Yes,please remain single till you are fully ready
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by stanliwise(m): 11:20pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
advice from the well of redpill ,manipulative advice,i don't take such advice,i don't want to be caught unawares.No locking of phones,period.
God forbid I am not a redpill.
I am purple pill.
Don’t intrude anyone privacy, if you do, it is not their fault if you see something they don’t want you to see.
If you say No then have a good day.
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 11:23pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
Yes,please remain single till you are fully ready
So if he always has to work late at night, will you still keep an eye on him? Or want to hang out with his boys in a club or bar?
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:23pm On Sep 14
stanliwise:
God forbid I am not a redpill.
I am purple pill.
Don’t intrude anyone privacy, if you do, it is not their fault if you see something they don’t want you to see.
If you say No then have a good day.
Theres no privacy in marriage,you two have become one,so no one must be found wanting in anything that can cause damage to the marriage
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by stanliwise(m): 11:25pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
Theres no privacy in marriage,you two have become one,so no one must be found wanting in anything that can cause damage to the marriage
There is no privacy in marriage does not mean your spouse will understand everything. Remember transparency has it price and overhead.
Wise men older than me told me you must find a balance.
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:31pm On Sep 14
KidDarkness:

So if he always has to work late at night, will you still keep an eye on him? Or want to hang out with his boys in a club or bar?
ehn let us all hang out together,there are clubs for married couples,so we will be going to that type of club.You men want to marry and still live your single life while your wives suffers emotionally at home,not all women tolerate that.It takes great commitment from both parties to raise a disciplined and responsible home.If you can't respect me,atleast respect the vows and kids as the case may be.

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Zzor(f): 11:34pm On Sep 14
stanliwise:

There is no privacy in marriage does not mean your spouse will understand everything. Remember transparency has it price and overhead.
Wise men older than me told me you must find a balance.
a wise woman knows when to give her man the needed space after he must have convinced her of his commitment and have shown high level of discipline
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by stanliwise(m): 11:37pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
a wise woman knows when to give her man the needed space after he must have convinced her of his commitment and have shown high level of discipline
ok o

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by KidDarkness(m): 11:43pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
ehn let us all hang out together,there are clubs for married couples,so we will be going to that type of club.You men want to marry and still live your single life while your wives suffers emotionally at home,not all women tolerate that.It takes great commitment from both parties to raise a disciplined and responsible home.If you can't respect me,atleast respect the vows and kids as the case may be.
Well, you are right.............to an extent. I don't want it to seem like you have won this argument which is likely the case. You got me at commitment and respecting the vows

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Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Kobicove(m): 11:45pm On Sep 14
Rabbi4real:
Good day sir,
pls sir post for me, hide my identity and notify me, av bn suspecting my hubby is sleeping withmy niece of 14 years, so I decide to observe them very well, hubby usually leaves his room y am there ( I sleep in my husband’s room), and he ll lock d door with key so I av no access to open it, but one night I pretended to be deep in sleep, so he left to d room where my niece is sleeping ( d room is very close to my husband room),I listen carefully till wen he released and he went to d toilet to clean his self, I now knocked d door which he rushed to open it.

To cut d story short I....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/09/14/i-caught-my-husband-sleeping-with-my-niece-of-14years/

Paste the full story here, I ain't clicking no link undecided
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Womanizer: 11:49pm On Sep 14
Zzor:
later some will be advising that you should give them space and respect their privacy,thats rubbish.As a married woman,make sure you monitor your husband very well and check his phones all the time,if he dares put his phone on lock,cause wahala and let him know you don't take rubbish so as to avoid cases like this

You really need someone to handle you grin
Re: I Have Been Suspecting My Husband, And My Suspicion Was True! by Nobody: 12:01am On Sep 15
Zzor:
later some will be advising that you should give them space and respect their privacy,thats rubbish.As a married woman,make sure you monitor your husband very well and check his phones all the time,if he dares put his phone on lock,cause wahala and let him know you don't take rubbish so as to avoid cases like this
Shut up joor ódé
You type what you can never do
Na hin you still single
Don't worry Shiloh got accommodation for your bag and baggages ópónu angry

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