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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by pretydiva(f): 6:55am On Sep 17
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

Including your sisters
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:04am On Sep 17
rasheedatt:
am serious ask me productive and serious questions not questions for kids

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:04am On Sep 17
pretydiva:


Including your sisters
GBAMSOLUTELY!! cheesy

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by kingel(m): 7:05am On Sep 17
etrange:


Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain.

We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach.

In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult.

What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance.

To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).
Don't know how you did it but you obfuscated the entire thing. I clearly stated that while Nigerian women on average are dumber(shallow) equality is still paramount. I don't need to start bring up the big 5 traits and how they affect success and relationship. You might obfuscate and connect that to the death of a dying star somewhere in our galaxy. You claim "sexism" lends justification to racism, that's my bone of contention, it's what I don't understand and you went on a long tirade explaining nothing. Congratulations. Take a trip 500yrs to the past in tribal Africa where the man was traditionally seen as the head over a woman, where was racism that that led to or walk up to Europe also patriarchal at that time, Is that what justified the scramble for Africa? Cross to S.A to the Aztecs same thing. I can also connect(read justify) racism and income inequality but it's specious at best I.e the rich would always have better advantage than the poor should I connect it/justify it with racism. I do not deny the disadvantage of the female child in rural and underdeveloped part of Africa, what I don't seem to understand, and I'll repeat again, is how that justifies racism

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by rasheedatt(f): 7:06am On Sep 17
MANNABBQGRILLS:
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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Zabiboy: 7:36am On Sep 17
Missyford31:


1) But U need women in your life.
2) How would you be loved?
3) How would you have children?
4) Who would Satisfy your konji?
5) Who will you marry and have cooked your meals, washed your clothes?
6) Who's breasts would you stare at?
7)Who's bum would you admire?
Or do man have best ass too lol?


You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage angry ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm smiley
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...

GL

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Nobody: 8:01am On Sep 17
Zabiboy:


You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage angry ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm smiley
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...

GL


grin
Children in orphanages are born by women so women are needed for that. As is the man.

We need each other. Women do have value.
Depends on the kinda woman they are.
U will get useless women, lazy, dull, boring women n those women should work on themselves to be better cos only you can work on become the better you.

Lol wen U masturbate cos U dnt need a woman as U say..then wat will U masturbate over? If not a woman then what? A goat? A statue? Lol. Even wen masturbating U need women U see.
Unless is money U fantasize making love to lol.

Yes men can live without a woman but really wat kinda lonely life is that?
Loving yourself can't compare to the love of that special someone.

God created man to be with woman.
If we was created just to breed then we wouldn't have brains or mouths to speak lol.
N I wasn't insulting U sir I was just giving my thoughts on the topic.
Attention dnt matter to me tho.
I just think women are equal to men.
I myself believe wen U marry then your man becomes the boss n I respect my man n all that stuff...that's wat makes him the man but women still have equal value.
We just gotta make ourselves valuable just like any man does.

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Preshieben(f): 8:06am On Sep 17
women aren't dull

they ain't just interested in history.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Regex: 8:10am On Sep 17
Zabiboy:


You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage angry ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm smiley
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...

GL


Her question and your answer proved one thing I keep reading here:

If a man can control his dick, wash his clothes and make his food, he is almost uncontrollable...

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:10am On Sep 17
pretydiva:

Including your sisters
Dullard
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:10am On Sep 17
Preshieben:
women aren't dull
they ain't just interested in history.
Nigerian girls are dull
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Preshieben(f): 8:13am On Sep 17
Ikillbrokehoes:
Nigerian girls are dull
well..not me
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Allauto: 8:38am On Sep 17
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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Allauto: 8:39am On Sep 17
Preshieben:
women aren't dull

they ain't just interested in history.
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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by pretydiva(f): 8:41am On Sep 17
Ikillbrokehoes:
Dullard

You mean your sisters undecided
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 9:04am On Sep 17
etrange:


Fear. Africans fear whatever they don't know or have not experienced. Africans don't give new things a chance and that is why the continent is stagnant. Where I live, gender is the last thing that comes to mind when someone's capabilities are being tabled. This way, the society gets the best out its people instead of limiting its talent source to less than half of the population out of the fear that women will 'out-do' them when given the chance. The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.
is it only in Africa you see such undecided undecided where was "feminism" originated from ..and why was it propagated in such ways? at the end who still pays the bills over there...is it still not the man.... Empowering woman as much as men will just make this women more powerful...they will enjoy new perks and still avoid paying and other things men do

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 9:08am On Sep 17
etrange:


The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.
Men didn't just assume that position of power by luck... they fought for it and won every right to it thereafter. there are reasons women can't attain that much power... one of the many reasons is because they are very emotional being and you can't run a successful society based on emotions...it requires brain

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 9:12am On Sep 17
etrange:


. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.
we are not afraid of giving them power ...but look at what little empowerment to women has cost us ...do you know how many men has lost more than half of their possession because of this little wave of empowerments we gave them...

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by SegFault: 9:13am On Sep 17
seanwilliam:
i disagree with the bolded.. can u list discoveries or inventions by women in the last 100 years and compared to their male counterparts? intelligent is more than being first class student in school bro.. u have nothing to backup the bolded..
Women have made many contributions to the science field but most have been either shunned or relegated because they are women. Except for the likes of Grace Hopper Kathleen Booth, Marie Curie and a host of others. I even remember one that found the basis for something on atomic energy or so, the woman's work was attributed to another person simply because she was a woman and a Jew.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by SegFault: 9:14am On Sep 17
pretydiva:


You mean your sisters undecided
You for add the idiot's mother and grandmother too.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by SegFault: 9:15am On Sep 17
cristy149:
we are not afraid of giving them power ...but look at what little empowerment to women has cost us ...do you know how many men has lost more than half of their possession because of this little wave of empowerments we gave them...
And where is your evidence. Or source.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Juliearth(f): 9:16am On Sep 17
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.



Because you have had dealings with a few women who are intelliectually weak doesn't mean all women are. Just like you have your interests, every girl has hers and it takes an intelligent man to unlock that about a woman.


Personally, I would be lost if you try discussing sports with me because it is not my niche, but turn the tables around to politics, the economy, etc and you would be dazed positively. Just like you think there are women who are too dull to relate with, there are also women who turn down men because they are dull and women who downplay their Knowledge in their respective relationships so their men won't feel intimidated.


While you go about with this loopsided and lacklustre notion, know that it is a pendulum that swings both ways.

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 9:18am On Sep 17
Eagba:
guys check out this trend, in primary schools, the girl child are always topping most class and giving the guys a run for their efforts. That's to say,in most classes, you find a girl child or two among the top four or five most brilliant kids in the class. but on getting to the university, the number diminish greatly to one in 20 top student in the department.
I think evolution and environment played a big part in choosing their survival pattern from the ways a guy will choose to survive.
men will understand that for them to be relevant, they have to top their class or hustle more to be richer, while a girl will understand that to be relevant, she have to be more beautiful, thereby concentrating more on their hair, make up , fashion, implant etc.
only a few girls try to or actually bends the curve or blend the trajetories well enough and they are forever worshipped.
you are right .tho in my own experience na me top from primary.
.but what you said is a very good fact why women won't and shouldn't attain power as men...if all men and women do is try to look beautiful and attractive for the opposite gender .. tell me ... won't we still be in stone age
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Juliearth(f): 9:19am On Sep 17
kingel:
What of if they aren't interested in things like that. What you like isn't what they like. Yes most, don't even think about think about it, that doesn't mean they don't deserve equality Chief



Thank you. We all have our niche.

PS, we do not want equality. Equality is injustice. what I feel is right is equity. Giving to each according to his needs and uniqueness. If we preach the gospel of equity as against equality, the sad trend of feminism would naturally come to death.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Juliearth(f): 9:20am On Sep 17
Bloooody:

Truth be told we're better than women in everything.
Smartest human is a man
Fastest is a man
Richest is a man
Strongest is a man
Tallest is a man
We beat them in everything.
The average woman isn't smart at all.
Giving them "equality" is wrong.



God did not create a man to be better than a woman and vice-versa. The plan is to coexist and respect one another.

Op, how old are you?
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Juliearth(f): 9:21am On Sep 17
RealEzee:
Omo I got smart ladies in my contact who can converse in almost all topics intelligently, gbam na Naija babes kwa , I wonder where u dey go find the ones way you dey regret? , intelligence knows no nationality, anyone can be silly regardless of nationality tho, hence stop the stereotyping, one thing I know is if you want to Yan silly stuffs babe sef go follow u Yan am too, u lead they follow, hmm na wetin I know b that.

Just be fair with them ladies and not belittle or demean them, ever heard hell knows no fury like a woman? There is reason it doesn't say man tho, the same key you use to unlock their fury can be used to unlock the star in them if only you know what to do kwa.




God bless you
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by bakismith12(m): 9:36am On Sep 17
Just say the kind of girls u date or associate with are dull. I have highly intelligent women around me and if u are not, I always do my part to brush u up.
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Zabiboy: 9:46am On Sep 17
Missyford31:


grin
Children in orphanages are born by women so women are needed for that. As is the man.

We need each other. Women do have value.
Depends on the kinda woman they are.
U will get useless women, lazy, dull, boring women n those women should work on themselves to be better cos only you can work on become the better you.

1) Lol wen U masturbate cos U dnt need a woman as U say..then wat will U masturbate over? If not a woman then what? A goat? A statue? Lol. Even wen masturbating U need women U see.
Unless is money U fantasize making love to lol.

Yes men can live without a woman but really wat kinda lonely life is that?
2) Loving yourself can't compare to the love of that special someone.

3) God created man to be with woman.
If we was created just to breed then we wouldn't have brains or mouths to speak lol.
N I wasn't insulting U sir I was just giving my thoughts on the topic.
Attention dnt matter to me tho.
I just think women are equal to men.
I myself believe wen U marry then your man becomes the boss n I respect my man n all that stuff...that's wat makes him the man but women still have equal value.
4) We just gotta make ourselves valuable just like any man does.

1) i never said i masturbate....re-read that number again
2) False ma'm....no one can love better than yourself
3) grin ...stop twisting the narrative....God created woman to be with/compliment/ as a bonus to man...not the other way round
4) Good girl...now we are on the same path...The big question is "How many are ready to go through the stress needed to become valuable when they can just upgrade only their body and get almost the same result'"? ..
GL

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by blingxx(m): 9:47am On Sep 17
BornSnner9:
I dare y'all to debate with your girls on Facebook likes, Instagram, twitter followers, bbn, grilled catfish and chips, Brazilian hair, restaurant, food, power bank, valentine's day etc and see how interestingly intelligent they are

Sarcasm grin... This is why women are hardly capable of ruling a country
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 9:47am On Sep 17
SegFault:

And where is your evidence. Or source.
go and ask Tiger Woods
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Zabiboy: 9:49am On Sep 17
Regex:


Her question and your answer proved one thing I keep reading here:

If a man can control his dick, wash his clothes and make his food, he is almost uncontrollable...

Exactly man...
Control your konji
Cook your dishes and wash your clothes
Be financially OK
And you are good to go

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