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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Chii59(f): 12:11am On Sep 17
solasoulmusic:
Lol

@ Topic it really depends on your approach and the mood of the woman your speaking too sometimes if you talk to much we women will just prefer to siddon look having a debate is only sweet when you can share your views without being looked down upon for being a woman.

Sis, this post is a front. Op is a chauvinist. That's just it. Regardless of where you stand, you will be blamed. Don't bother trying to explain anything to them.

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 12:11am On Sep 17
kingel:

Racism?? How. Are men and women, races??

Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain.

We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach.

In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult.

What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance.

To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:19am On Sep 17
Bloooody:

Is taking about the government under science?
I deliberately included arts but you're a NIGERIAN WOMAN very dull and unintelligent like the others.

You're mentally slow if you classify things so basic even in this era of modern diversity. Pray tell under what division of yours will you classify "Political science"?
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by 0KNM: 12:25am On Sep 17
LadyGKilaBCrueD of nairaland is an exemption. She takes a lot of crack. It helps her brain function
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by WoundedLamb: 12:30am On Sep 17
etrange:


Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain.

We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach.

In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult.

What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance.

To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).

Ladies and gentlemen, this post answers it all!!!

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Sixfeetbelle: 12:33am On Sep 17
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

You make it sound like knowledge of evolution or types of government or even theology are bands of intelligence marker when we both know that intelligence as a "measure of brilliance" encompasses a whole lot more.

Bring yourself to a girl's fort and watch her thrash you with her own bank of knowledge. How much do you know about the evolution of feminine fashion, the major strides in cloth and hair making or something as "insignificant" as bollywood movie stars, makeup and dance techniques, shades and hues of colours or the types of contour and brow brushes? Or do you think an IQ quiz completion is streamlined towards a particular section?


But I know your type. Once she doesn't know Messi is the greatest football player ever, you declare her dull.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 3:09am On Sep 17
etrange:



To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).
You want to empower women, grin grin grin grin you never see meme...women have always been inferior to men since the days of Adam and Eve and e get reason why... If you mean encourage and support thats 100% sure..but empower...commot eye for am ...
without Men in power this society will crumble
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by cristy149: 3:12am On Sep 17
Sixfeetbelle:


You make it sound like knowledge of evolution or types of government or even theology are bands of intelligence marker when we both know that intelligence as a "measure of brilliance" encompasses a whole lot more.

Bring yourself to a girl's fort and watch her thrash you with her own bank of knowledge. How much do you know about the evolution of feminine fashion, the major strides in cloth and hair making or something as "insignificant" as bollywood movie stars, makeup and dance techniques, shades and hues of colours or the types of contour and brow brushes? Or do you think an IQ quiz completion is streamlined towards a particular section?


But I know your type. Once she doesn't know Messi is the greatest football player ever, you declare her dull.
those are gender based topics... and only few of them cares about it.. I'm sure 85% of Nigerian girls wearing artificial hairs don't know how it's made or what's it's made from

we are talking of general topics like science, politics, animal wildlife,,, they don't know shit

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by etrange: 3:30am On Sep 17
cristy149:
You want to empower women, grin grin grin grin you never see meme...women have always been inferior to men since the days of Adam and Eve and e get reason why... If you mean encourage and support thats 100% sure..but empower...commot eye for am ...
without Men in power this society will crumble

Fear. Africans fear whatever they don't know or have not experienced. Africans don't give new things a chance and that is why the continent is stagnant. Where I live, gender is the last thing that comes to mind when someone's capabilities are being tabled. This way, the society gets the best out its people instead of limiting its talent source to less than half of the population out of the fear that women will 'out-do' them when given the chance. The funny thing is that we've never had a great leader in Nigeria (at least, none comparable to the leaders of Germany and New Zealand) and yet no one sees it as incompetence on the side of men but once a lady becomes the president of Nigeria, every single misstep will lead to an attack on the female gender. While this is terrible, women have been known to do more just to counter the perception that they can't perform and a lot of them end up performing better (in their little positions) when given the chance. If men are really superior by nature, they shouldn't be afraid helping to empower the women. If you entertain such fear, then maybe you aren't really superior but just taking advantage of the biased society.

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Jazzafizzy: 3:31am On Sep 17
Chii59:

I saw evolution there. Is evolution not science, boy?
Be happy is mom if he has any is among stop exchanging comments with a slowpoke

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Missyford31(f): 4:10am On Sep 17
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

I'm sure it's not just women. Male or female everyone's intellect measures differently. And thats in any part of the world.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Missyford31(f): 4:21am On Sep 17
Bloooody:

Truth be told we're better than women in everything.
Smartest human is a man
Fastest is a man
Richest is a man
Strongest is a man
Tallest is a man
We beat them in everything.
The average woman isn't smart at all.
Giving them "equality" is wrong.

But U need women in your life.
How would you be loved?
How would you have children?
Who would Satisfy your konji?
Who will you marry and have cooked your meals, washed your clothes?
Who's breasts would you stare at?
Who's bum would you admire?
Or do man have best ass too lol?

Who says the smartest human is a man?
There's very intelligent women and men in the world... honestly the average man isn't that intelligent either lol.

IQ isn't measured by gender.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Boldone55: 4:28am On Sep 17
Chii59:

For a fee. grin

angry Okay i sent a pm
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:54am On Sep 17
Chii59:

His post as usual is another means of debasing women.
So what if she's not interested in science? There are 1001 topics to talk about.
Silly post, silly op.
Miss ug lee
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:57am On Sep 17
Chii59:
I saw evolution there. Is evolution not science, boy?
Miss ug lee
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Missyford31(f): 4:57am On Sep 17
Bloooody:

Too dull.
I pity your future unfortunate children and husband.
They'll inherit your dull Gene's and probably never amount to anything in life.

How U know this girl isn't smart in other ways. N I don't see why you'd pity her future husband n kids. She may be the sweetest perfect wife n mother.
Her future husband n her may find alot of interesting things to converse about.
Not everyone has the brain of a professor lol. She could be knowledgeable in other subjects n even if she wasn't that doesn't mean she may be dull. Ppl can be funny, entertaining, endearing to others n not have to be Einstein
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:57am On Sep 17
Chii59:
You're a child. A dull one at that. Run home to mama.
Hey miss ug lee
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 4:58am On Sep 17
Chii59:
grin grin grin grin grin It's confirmed, you're a child.
Hey miss ug lee
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:00am On Sep 17
Chii59:

To think I thought you were an enlightened mind.
Maybe the women in your family or social life are dull. I am not dull, neither is Pocohantas, cococandy, Zzor, Dominique and a hot of sharp minds I've met on this platform.
What's worse than an alpha male? A closet chauvinist.
Hey miss ug lee grin
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:01am On Sep 17
Descorts:
remove zzor from that list abeg
That Zzor is super dumb
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:04am On Sep 17
Zzor:
coming from someone that can't function without smoking weed smh
You are too dull, with nothing to offer a man.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:13am On Sep 17
Ekemeze:


SERIOUSLY MAN? Were you expecting the dumbfvck to understand your post?

Have you ever seen a reasonable post/comment from chii59 before?

The wild dog is always pampered by the dumb mods here.
I'm definitely gonna put her in her place, miss ug lee. cheesy
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:16am On Sep 17
Chii59:
For a fee. grin
That's miss ug lee
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:18am On Sep 17
Boldone55:


angry Okay i sent a pm
Miss ug lee don't know anything, don't waste Ur time. grin
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Boldone55: 5:21am On Sep 17
Ikillbrokehoes:
Miss ug lee don't know anything, don't waste Ur time. grin

But she’s pretty and articulate
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 5:23am On Sep 17
Boldone55:


But she’s pretty and articulate
Do you know what is pretty and articulate? don't be a disgrace to men.

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Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by perkcare(m): 5:33am On Sep 17
Change your female friends. There are intelligent women in Nigeria. Even more intelligent than most men�
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Ekemeze: 5:42am On Sep 17
Ikillbrokehoes:
I'm definitely gonna put her in her place, miss ug lee. cheesy
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by zexy2030(m): 5:45am On Sep 17
Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.
You are so dumb to have concluded, You have been meeting your likes...discuss with cyndylove64, she is very intelligent, she is young but have good knowledge almost on any topic, she is an ardent reader.

Now someone like you would chat her up asking for boobs n pussy pics or sex n relationship

So many ladies are sapiosexual but so many guys are like Eric or like kidwaya all they know is sex.

So guy u r attracting what u look like. You are dumb that's why dumb girls flock around you. Birds of same feather flock together.
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Eagba(m): 6:05am On Sep 17
Walexdubia:


Shut up abeg, u are talking as if u fell from heaven, that means u are saying ur Mama isn't strong, smart, intelligent etc....

Even in education aspect women are doing better than the men, check most convocation list and see how women are performing, not that women don't Bleep up, but we shouldn't make it a general thing...

U guys just talk without using ur brain and u talk of someone not being smart...

As I'm talking to you there are at least more than 5 women richer than Dangote in the world. I'm not a short nigga but I can tell u I've seen a lot of bitches taller than me, lol especially Igbo gals Dem too dey tall...
I guess Igbo girls are Iike Greek gods
Re: Am I The Only One Noticing This In Women? by Eagba(m): 6:39am On Sep 17
guys check out this trend, in primary schools, the girl child are always topping most class and giving the guys a run for their efforts. That's to say,in most classes, you find a girl child or two among the top four or five most brilliant kids in the class. but on getting to the university, the number diminish greatly to one in 20 top student in the department.
I think evolution and environment played a big part in choosing their survival pattern from the ways a guy will choose to survive.
men will understand that for them to be relevant, they have to top their class or hustle more to be richer, while a girl will understand that to be relevant, she have to be more beautiful, thereby concentrating more on their hair, make up , fashion, implant etc.
only a few girls try to or actually bends the curve or blend the trajetories well enough and they are forever worshipped.

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