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Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Uyi168: 6:23pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
I have this strong feeling that op is also short.. Short ladies, especially those with lime-sized breasts and over reaction be like urhobo man and sardine.. 1 Like
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Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by tonyson010(m): 6:33pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
peterangelo: Tits not even breasts ? He is teasing you. Lucky you. You re overreacting . |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Ayo2004: 7:43pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
That husband na werey oo.... compliment and insult inside one sentence 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by pozehnani(f): 8:47pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
My dear, you're not overreacting. Youre on point. Next time, he'll learn how to bridle his tongue. Hes prolly seen a bigger tits out there and wishes (like he rightly told you) you have it. Don't let him manipulate you. He meant it and out of the abundance of his heart he has spoken. But because he's seen you don't find it funny, he's tryna twist the whole thing on you. To think he's the one with the not so great body but you never complained and he has the guts to bodyshame you. Men are always like that. Just give him the warning of his life never to body -shame you again. Then let it slide. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by DaInferno(m): 8:50pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
peterangelo:only God knows how many times I yab my girl and she laughs it off and says" like your own!" over seriousness no to good for u and ur partner my only problem is your husband being 30m and you 26ft massive couple 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Pancakeey(f): 8:54pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Yes, you’re overreacting. This is someone you swore to spend your life with. You can’t possibly be getting upset over every jab he throws your way. Plus , he already apologized. |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by dingbang(m): 8:58pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
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Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by dingbang(m): 8:58pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Ayo2004:I swear. He no try . I have once dated a girl with udara breast but never for once did I joke like that with her |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Bbbwings: 9:04pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Today is not the day for rubbish. Today is for #endSARS |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by pozehnani(f): 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
DaInferno: Nope. there's a difference between yabbing someone jokingly and "lamenting" the manner and tone of her hubbys statement is one of regret. The "if" there says it all. You too check the statement na "If only they were bigger" its different from "see your small tits". The latter sounds more like a joke while the former has a tone of regrets and Lamentation. He wishes... It's not funny to him. Got that? 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Ayo2004: 9:49pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
dingbang: E sure me say he know Nigerian girls go hate all dose kind thing.....e wan use her car cruise |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Ayo2004: 9:51pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
pozehnani:With the way Nigerian women show their breasts....it's impossible for him not to see one bigger than his wife own 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by pozehnani(f): 10:01pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Ayo2004: Well.. still not enough to start fantasizing about it and lamenting to the wife. Anyways, what does she expect from an underage hubby? 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Ayo2004: 10:08pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
pozehnani: So how did u know he was not joking?how did u know all men are like that?maybe only the men u have met Most women insult each other husbands during gossip(be it jokingly or not)....but it is a crime if d man does it jokingly Your second point on "underage hubby" doesn't even make sense?do u want your husband to be 50 or 60? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Highhhio(m): 10:09pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
peterangelo:your hubby want you to add weight do it for him and stop complaining 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by pozehnani(f): 10:13pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
Ayo2004: Argue with your keypad. I'm done here! 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Ayo2004: 10:19pm On Oct 09, 2020 |
pozehnani: Now,that's what most women say when they have nothing to say U and op are deceiving yourselves 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:16am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Davash222: I'm waiting for the day your wife will say to you: "I wish your preek was longer." Then we will know what your exact reaction will be. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:18am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lightangel65: I wish your preek was longer and fatter. How does this statement sound to you coming from your wife of 2 years? |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:20am On Oct 10, 2020 |
tonyson010: Tits is breast. It's like wifey telling hubby I wish your preek was longer than this. |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by ElValiente(m): 2:23am On Oct 10, 2020 |
You're angry and overreacting because you yourself are not happy with your booby. Let's face the fact. Just smile and move on.two years marriage lol. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:29am On Oct 10, 2020 |
konkonbilo: Why can't you see the underlining meaning behind the man's words? "If only your breasts were bigger" is not a joke. That's the comment of a man wishing for something he can't have with his wife. He wishes it were bigger which means he may likely push for wife to get breast argumentation surgery or look for someone with bigger breasts to fulfill his wishes. Now if he had said something like "see your small breasts like agabalumo" it sounds so much different from his initial comment. This one passes off as a joke and she can yab him back. The way we word things clues in on our innermost desires. That man has seen a lady like his wife with bigger breasts and he wants it. His apology is just a cover-up. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:32am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ElValiente: Is that why hubby will now say he wishes it were bigger? Like she created herself so she should enlarge it? Did he not know it wasn't big before they got married so why make such an expensive joke now? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by ElValiente(m): 2:43am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:if that's the first time. Let it go. I prefer he says it smaller than it's bigger. |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Nobody: 2:48am On Oct 10, 2020 |
then why didnt he marry a big breasted woman if big boobs where his spec some guys go dey create issues for demselves very soon he will start having big breasted ladies as his sidechicks since its obvious dats his spec if next time he critizes ur boobs then tell him to give u money for boobs enlargement surgery simple 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:50am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ElValiente: She can let it go but she should not forget it. Once a man starts wishing, he starts wanting. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Nobody: 2:52am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:d thing dey obvious.her husband love women with big breast.Most times some guys are confused.They will clearly see a woman they are physically attracted to but avoid such a woman and marry a woman they are not physically attracted but may just respect asper maybe she is a good wife material according to what a wife material means to them .E clear say very soon op"s husband will start having big breasted sidechicks by the side to satisfy his sexual hunger |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:53am On Oct 10, 2020 |
lefulefu: You sef see am? Oga wants a big breasted lady but let "marry lady with character" confused him into marrying this lady. Now that marriage love has finished, his eyes haff cleared and he now saw that he should have stuck with physical beauty over intellectual beauty. If the woman wants to joke too, she should tell him she wishes his preek was longer than her ex so we can see how he'll react to it. |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:55am On Oct 10, 2020 |
lefulefu: Gbamsolutely! Side chick with big breast. That's the next step now. Na small small problem dey take change hands. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Nobody: 2:56am On Oct 10, 2020 |
ElValiente:she is not over reacting.Its very understandable when a woman starts getting insecured when her better half is the one doing the bashing even if he claimed its a joke.Maybe if she started adding excess weight and the man starts telling her i might understand that one based on the fact when he meet the woman she wasnt fat.But when he met her she had small boobs so why using that as a point against her.e no make sense.Its like a man who married a woman with flat buttocks then he starts complaining that her ass is too flat.dat one make sense? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Nobody: 2:57am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:most times if u want to know a man"s spec look at the side chick not the wife .Most guys marry women they are not sexually attracted to then have side chicks they find sexually attractive.na very men dey marry women they have a physical attraction for. |
Re: Am I Overreacting To My Husband Criticizing My Body? by Nobody: 3:02am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:character is important no doubt but any man wey tell u say na only character he go live for is deceiving.Even if u marry woman dat is super submissve,obedient and they kneel down before she serve u food and yet u dont find her sexually attractive then u must cheat .the physical things wey ur submissve obedient wife no get u will now be going out to search for other women wey get the thing .i for suggest make op go for breast enlargement surgery since the thing worries her that much |
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