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How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 3:28pm On Oct 15, 2020
I've been in a relationship with this guy for a while now, everything was going on smoothly and then suddenly he started ignoring me, won't pick my calls, or reply my chats and he's always online... I'm getting tired of it and I just want to move on before I get depressed but it's very hard to.

I've tried getting busy all times, still my mind wanders back to him..

Please I help with moving on before I lose my sanity..
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by dopedealer(m): 3:31pm On Oct 15, 2020
No hussle. You don't need to move . He has already moved you.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by kepstone: 3:38pm On Oct 15, 2020
My dear, you have no choice but to move on. Go to were u are celebrated and not tolerated. You cant be a treasure and be a trash at the same time. Always think of value. The moment your partner stops valuing you, just let go of the relationship. If you have done anything bad, maturity demands that he calls you and talk to you that is love, that is nurturing, that is correction. In a situation were you are been ignored, is a proof that something has gone wrong and since he cant communicate please let him be. i repeat you cant be a treasure and still be a trash. Value YOU and Move on. it hurts when the one we love suddenly decide to change towards us and not communicating to us, your heart will heal with time.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by NaijaBoy213(m): 3:40pm On Oct 15, 2020
Maybe your puss*y is not tight. He's tired.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by frbona: 4:14pm On Oct 15, 2020
NaijaBoy213:
Maybe your puss*y is not tight. He's tired.

Receive Sense

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by stella55(f): 4:17pm On Oct 15, 2020
love should be reciprocate, when you're not getting it move on.
best to move on, delete his pictures and contact in your phone and stop checking his media page. mind you he's not your enemy, maintain your peace and never see him as your enemy. las las you will be fine

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Tladybukky(f): 4:33pm On Oct 15, 2020
Sis, just give him sometime, he might be going through some hard phase that he really wants to keep to himself for awhile.

Its well, keep praying for him

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by mosdii(m): 4:37pm On Oct 15, 2020
"He suddenly ignores me"

meaning: Nigga is very difficult to manipulate despite all my manipulative tendencies.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by N2B2: 4:51pm On Oct 15, 2020
Tladybukky:
Sis, just give him sometime, he might be going through some hard phase that he really wants to keep to himself for awhile.

Its well, keep praying for him

Terrible advice. Can't you see the mental strain it's having on the girl? Is her own wellbeing not of value?

On topic: You have to move on, and that'll take a little time because you seem to have fallen for him already.

You have your own life to live, a confidence to nurture, a career wanting your full attention, and a family that'll need your support soon - so make up your mind to free the guy. There are many others better than him out there, who will treat you right.

My advice: Block him on all fronts and move on. When you've almost escaped, he'll come back, and if you allow him back in, then my condolences in advance.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 4:52pm On Oct 15, 2020
kepstone:
My dear, you have no choice but to move on. Go to were u are celebrated and not tolerated. You cant be a treasure and be a trash at the same time. Always think of value. The moment your partner stops valuing you, just let go of the relationship. If you have done anything bad, maturity demands that he calls you and talk to you that is love, that is nurturing, that is correction. In a situation were you are been ignored, is a proof that something has gone wrong and since he cant communicate please let him be. i repeat you cant be a treasure and still be a trash. Value YOU and Move on. it hurts when the one we love suddenly decide to change towards us and not communicating to us, your heart will heal with time.

Thanks for this....God bless you
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 4:54pm On Oct 15, 2020
[quote author=mosdii post=94972238]"He suddenly ignores me"

meaning: Nigga is very difficult to manipulate despite all my manipulative tendencies.

Manipulation from who please?

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2020
Tladybukky:
Sis, just give him sometime, he might be going through some hard phase that he really wants to keep to himself for awhile.

Its well, keep praying for him

He would have atleast say something instead of ignoring me
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 4:56pm On Oct 15, 2020
N2B2:


Terrible advice. Can't you see the mental strain it's having on the girl? Is her own wellbeing not of value?

On topic: You have to move on, and that'll take a little time because you seem to have fallen for him already.

You have your own life to live, a confidence to nurture, a career wanting your full attention, and a family that'll need your support soon - so make up your mind to free the guy. There are many others better than him out there, who will treat you treat you right.

My advice: Block him on all fronts and move on. When you've almost escaped, he'll come back, and if you allow him back in, then my condolences in advance.

Will do...thank you so much for this, means a lot to me...God bless you

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 15, 2020
Just suck and fck the next available deek that comes your way. Tada! you've moved on grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by BigDawsNet: 5:05pm On Oct 15, 2020
Justmye26:
I've been in a relationship with this guy for a while now, everything was going on smoothly and then suddenly he started ignoring me, won't pick my calls, or reply my chats and he's always online... I'm getting tired of it and I just want to move on before I get depressed but it's very hard to.

I've tried getting busy all times, still my mind wanders back to him..

Please I help with moving on before I lose my sanity..

Got few questions
1. Do you let him know that you love him truly and care much about him

2. Are you really making it easy for him in the relationship

3. Since the start of your relationship.. Has the guy been clear to you.. I mean did you notice he was committed into the relationship

4.have you had sex? Just asking

5.do you want him back or you want to forget him?

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 5:32pm On Oct 15, 2020
BigDawsNet:


Got few questions
1. Do you let him know that you love him truly and care much about him

2. Are you really making it easy for him in the relationship

3. Since the start of your relationship.. Has the guy been clear to you.. I mean did you notice he was committed into the relationship

4.have you had sex? Just asking

5.do you want him back or you want to forget him?

1..yes, always

2..yes, atleast I believe so...

3.. wouldn't have fallen deeply for him if the commitment wasn't there

4..hmmm

5..don't want him back, wouldn't want emotional stress or anything that would tamper with my sanity ever again...

Just need help moving on

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by tillaman(m): 5:33pm On Oct 15, 2020
Very simple, with your legs!!
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by BigDawsNet: 5:55pm On Oct 15, 2020
Justmye26:


1..yes, always

2..yes, atleast I believe so...

3.. wouldn't have fallen deeply for him if the commitment wasn't there

4..hmmm

5..don't want him back, wouldn't want emotional stress or anything that would tamper with my sanity ever again...

Just need help moving on

Okay..

I sense your number 2 wasn't sharp enough
Did you notice he was complaining on a paeticular thing when you guys are together alone physically?.. ... tho I'm not blaming you I understand we can't give it all... I believe if the issue dint rise up because of sex deny or sex related... Then probably maybe he wasn't receiving enough intimacy from you..

Well I guess he doesn't want to be drained so he left the relationship without a goodbye...

So all you need to do is send him a full text telling him you have decided to move on so he doesn't believe you are still pending somewhere...

Next is to focus on you work or whatever you do to keep you busy and make more friends both male and females... Just don't be alone
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Justmye26: 6:15pm On Oct 15, 2020
BigDawsNet:


Okay..

I sense your number 2 wasn't sharp enough
Did you notice he was complaining on a paeticular thing when you guys are together alone physically?.. ... tho I'm not blaming you I understand we can't give it all... I believe if the issue dint rise up because of sex deny or sex related... Then probably maybe he wasn't receiving enough intimacy from you..

Well I guess he doesn't want to be drained so he left the relationship without a goodbye...

So all you need to do is send him a full text telling him you have decided to move on so he doesn't believe you are still pending somewhere...

Next is to focus on you work or whatever you do to keep you busy and make more friends both male and females... Just don't be alone
I did everything humanly possible to make sure all is well, and even tho I work, I make sure I create time for him and there was no serious complain from him, aside for him saying he's scared I would break his heart cos he believes I'm beautiful and beautiful girls tend to break guys heart easily and he can't let that happen.

Always give him assurance that it's not gonna happen and I have never make him feel scared so I don't know what went wrong...
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by BigDawsNet: 6:26pm On Oct 15, 2020
Justmye26:

I did everything humanly possible to make sure all is well, and even tho I work, I make sure I create time for him and there was no serious complain from him, aside for him saying he's scared I would break his heart cos he believes I'm beautiful and beautiful girls tend to break guys heart easily and he can't let that happen.

Always give him assurance that it's not gonna happen and I have never make him feel scared so I don't know what went wrong...


That's definitely Pistanthrophobia! a phobia of getting hurt by someone in a romantic relationship...

With what you said... He was only scared and can't imagine receiving a text oneday you done with him...

I don't know him tho and you either
But I believe the guy really loves you.. I guess you just need to let him know.. You need to tell him its normal to be scared and you ain't going nowhere... if hes fully awear of that and you tell him that... He will forever be committed to you...

Obviously his not a player.. He's just someone thats scared to get hurt that's all... Don't blame him if he stop talking... He wasn't tired of you or cheating... He's just scared..

Do you stay in the same State or city?

Can you give him another shot?
Its simple... Just Leave a full voice note of reassurance message that's all... And things will get back to normal...
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by oluwabukola87028: 6:31pm On Oct 15, 2020
No hussle. You don't need to move . He has already moved you.
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by luscioustrish(f): 6:42pm On Oct 15, 2020
Not so easy to move on but I'd suggest you ignore him too, infact block him everywhere cry
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Stacyomolola(f): 6:53pm On Oct 15, 2020
Darl pack and go joor
Why would u allow a guy mean so much that u are already close to depression
If he stays, fine
If not bae, go out, drink, get drunk have fun flirt and maybe do the unexpected but with protection o

Bae u mean so much to your future husby
Don't let any anthill of a guy bring u down
I don't know u but sending out much kiss and love to u

If I were u
I had block him both physically and social medially wink wink

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Rapsodee(m): 7:15pm On Oct 15, 2020
That's not too nice of him, he should have told you why he moved on and not without notice.

You don't need to beg him or even contact him anymore, it will only weaken you the more....


you need to build confidence against him...abusing him may not be convenient for you but do it alone and think of everything not pleasant about him and decide that you are done. Then move on, block him on all your social media that can spark his remembrance.

Good luck

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Crownstar01: 7:38pm On Oct 15, 2020
Justmye26:
I've been in a relationship with this guy for a while now, everything was going on smoothly and then suddenly he started ignoring me, won't pick my calls, or reply my chats and he's always online... I'm getting tired of it and I just want to move on before I get depressed but it's very hard to.

I've tried getting busy all times, still my mind wanders back to him..

Please I help with moving on before I lose my sanity..
Girl, you've got to start moving. You've got to force yourself to move on, even if initially at first you don't feel like moving on. Your emotions, your state, follows your physical motion. Because remember the other rule of state. That resistance is going to weigh on you at first.
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by muller101(m): 7:40pm On Oct 15, 2020
Someone has pointed him to the right direction.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by baralatie(m): 7:50pm On Oct 15, 2020
Tladybukky:
Sis, just give him sometime, he might be going through some hard phase that he really wants to keep to himself for awhile.

Its well, keep praying for him
wwwwwhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaattttttttttttt?

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by baralatie(m): 7:52pm On Oct 15, 2020
he ignored you!

then you too ignore him permanently!

you don't have the luxury to condone emotional manipulation games!

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Nobody: 7:57pm On Oct 15, 2020
That's not nice of him. Start ignoring him too and act like he doesn't exist henceforth.

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Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by kalufelix(m): 8:01pm On Oct 15, 2020
Man-no-dey-talk-everything-wen-e-see...he-might-have-decided-to-ignore-rather-than-to-hurt-you
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by SavageMaster: 8:24pm On Oct 15, 2020
Re: How Do I Move From A Relationship Where He Suddenly Ignores Me by Tladybukky(f): 8:57pm On Oct 15, 2020
Sis, call his attention to it, you can leave him a message and watch. He will surely come truly with whatever he is going through and communicate with you again.

cheers

Justmye26:


He would have atleast say something instead of ignoring me

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