though I don't believe in love, but 3 and 4 is true...as a guy I can't count how many times a lady tells me am not romantic and still yet they are obsess with me... ladies want to hear us say sweet things but me am more logical
like last night I was with this babe that called me complaining that she was having headache, and I asked her have you taken any drugs to cure it, na so babe Change am for me ooo, that I can't even utter the word sorry or best still say something sweet, am like will that stop your headache?

baralatie:

that is where you missed it.
narcissistic situations can pop or creep into a relationship when one partner who is not basically committed but had initially laid tell tale signs convincing the other that he/she is wholly committed.it is a attention illusion been used as a tool.favour can be defined in all kinds of ways to manipulate a very venerable situation

But why? To what end?

Biglittlelois:



But why? To what end?

I don't know why!

some people are just wrong wired mentally!

it is like trying to understand a saddist lecturer with absolute control on who passes or fails

:Oh that's so sad It truly is, I think I'll create a thread on this, I need more insights and perspective on it.

I disagree with number 2

Biglittlelois:
Your number 2 is so true,

I have a friend, she was introduced to a guy by her cousin, they both hit it off the very first time they talked on phone, according to her, seeing his picture made her fall the more, same with him, but there was a clause, this guy said he is a weird and complicated guy, he doesnt call, text or chat, yet he calls and chat with her, she tried to end/stop talking to him several times because of it, he refused, in fact he pushed for them to see several times, she refused cos she doesn't really like the connection thingy, to the extent that the guy became discouraged and didn't want to see her anymore, after much convincing, they finally get to see, the feelings they both had for each other never changed,

All of a sudden things changed, this is a guy that first professed love to her, tells her she has no other choice but to stay with him, always tell her she should hold on to him, he suddenly stopped calling, chating on whatsapp, she was always the one calling and chating up, she said she knew something was wrong, pressed him to talk about it several until he finally did, he said it was work issue, that she isn't his priority right now, but he still loves and respect her, and doesnt want anything to happen to what they have together, yet he refused to change,

She had to take the bull by the horn one day, she asked him if he will like her to move on from him, he didn't reply, she persisted, until he finally said, she is the one getting things wrong, that's when she realised that he really doesnt want a relationship with her, she had to delete his number from her phone and whatsapp, but didn't block him, it's been one week since then, she secretly wants him to reach out cos she really misses him terribly, to the extent that she came crying to my place this evening to tell me all these, and majorly because she doesn't know his number off hand so she can call him or text,

Some guys are low key emotionally manipulative, why collect the number of someone that wants a relationship that'll lead to the altar, then toil with her feelings?

I'm also like this...this attitude is not always intentional

Stacyomolola:


U didn't actually loved her from onset
U only had lust for her and now ya tired of her
Some ladies maybe showing u ¼ of their emotions but immediately u get between her legs, she gets way beyond emotional attachment to u
She start feeling so attached to u
She starts seeing as god
She always wanna be around u
She's falls head over heels
She becomes desperately in love

Block her on all social media, she deserves someone better

You think that is better? Cos some ladies look so messed up after a broken relationship.

tonyson010:



You think that is better? Cos some ladies look so messed up after a broken relationship.

Darl las las she go dey alright
The earlier they breakup, the better for her