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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Aditkd(f): 11:19am On Nov 03, 2020
Sawzer:


I like the fact that I'm hearing this from a female cheesy
Tell us more

My brother, what else is there to say. If you see and know the truth, you stand by it

But the fact and truth is that there are still good men and women out there. And if you take your time to be patient not to be fooled or carried away by the container (packaging) but instead trying to know the epicenter of the very being if that individual you will be glad you took your time to do the needful.
As the saying goes " The eyes is the window of the soul" take note.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Sawzer(m): 11:32am On Nov 03, 2020
Aditkd:


My brother, what else is there to say. If you see and know the truth, you stand by it

But the fact and truth is that there are still good men and women out there. And if you take your time to be patient not to be fooled or carried away by the container (packaging) but instead trying to know the epicenter of the very being if that individual you will be glad you took your time to do the needful.
As the saying goes " The eyes is the window of the soul" take note.
Apt!
Thanks a lot

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luvyaself95(m): 12:21pm On Nov 03, 2020
binary007:
That was how I was in the Bar this weekend watching Arsenal vs Manchester United... The lady serving drinks was just nagging endlessly how her husband wouldn't give her money for her father's burial that man is wicked and his children which also happen to be her children would do the same thing to him.... Plenty swear, trust me! One would have been moved to open a GoFundMe account for her but I wasn't buying any of it at all... If fact I was getting pissed off.

God vindicated me when one of her fellow co-worker told her that is it no just last month that he gave you money for rent? She replied by saying that was before her father died.
Madam , was he the one that killed your father?
Sebi its your father that died!
She earns 15k monthly and she is talking of killing a cow for the party.
I just left the bar for another bar before I start fighting another man's battle.

You see those creature ehhnnn they are wonderful talker and thinker.
imagine you earn 15k per month and still want to kill cow for your papa burial and because your husband can't help he is wicked.
I remember when my grandfather burial my mom didn't have money want to kill cow despite the fact that are siblings and brother want to kill cow but my stepbrother and dad had to contribute money to buy cow for her meanwhile she didn't ask my dad for money...

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:39pm On Nov 03, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women and the effects bad marriages and relationships have on their psyche are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67

Easy Madam. If you read carefully, you'd see where i said there are still some men who err and there are some wives and single mothers who are still good. This is not about making me appear manly in anyway

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:47pm On Nov 03, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
I don't believe these women are naturally toxic as you claim, rather something or someone triggered such toxicity in them. It could be a bad upbringing, especially where a dad maltreats mum, or it could actually be their ex husband's who made them toxic. You mentioned that INFIDELITY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE account for like 80percent of marital break-ups...... a WHOPPING 80percent shocked ? I totally agree with that. Now my question is, if 80 percent of marital break-ups are due to infidelity and domestic violence, taking a look at your immediate environment, have you not seen that husband's are not faithful and most of them beat their wifes? If you are sincere, you will agree with me that a good number of men are the ones who commit infidelity in marriage, same men beat their wife, so men are responsible for such marital break-ups, don't shift blames.

You think domestic violence is perpetrated against women by men alone?

According to international definition, Domestic violence is violence committed by someone in the victim's domestic circle. This includes partners and ex-partners, immediate family members, other relatives and family friends. The term 'domestic violence' is used when there is a close relationship between the offender and the victim

Going by that definition, men can also suffer domestic abuse from their spouses too.



Men are truly the perpetrators and women the victims. Most of the married toxic women became toxic due to sad marital experiences, same with the single mothers, it may not be all, but most of such toxicity were caused by bad experiences. The problem is that these women refuse to drop all their bitter experiences when they enter new relationships, but would there really be a need for them to drop their bitterness, especially since there is every possibility that the next man would come with same baggage? Toxicity is not an innate attribute, it is learned.

As for the Bible passage you mentioned, not all marriages are worth building, especially where a man isn't interested in making it work. In the process of staying to make it work, she may lost her life, health, etc. Stop shifting blames. Thread should also be in family section shocked

Having bad experiences in the past is not and never will be a good excuse to allow someone else who had nothing to do with it to suffer.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:48pm On Nov 03, 2020
Lamanii22:
Skales!!!! Where have you been??

I have seriously been busy.
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 12:48pm On Nov 03, 2020
skales67:


Easy Madam. If you read carefully, you'd see where i said there are still some men who err and there are some wives and single mothers who are still good. This is not about making me appear manly in anyway

You dont need to bother with that girl. I have her locked down, she is my babe. She was just lonely then but I have fixed her now. She is good cheesy

Now, get to the storytelling part bro...I'm eager to read some stories


Cc. Sixfeetbelle

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:50pm On Nov 03, 2020
Priam:


Curious much?

Calm down, that's how he takes his threads - slow and steady. I know he's by the sidelines watching and weighing in people's comments and experiences.

Don't expect him to be updating on a daily basis; I won't be surprised if this thread drags on for a year and counting with skales67 dropping updates like once a month grin. I know this from his previous thread.

So relax and take your time, maybe ask him to mention you when he updates.


You've made me smile grin grin grin

I just don't really have time for myself especially with the fact that i run 2 jobs

But i will try updating frequently from now on cool

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:52pm On Nov 03, 2020
franklingud:
Oga discovery! Clap for yourself!

You go soon discover God's wrath and punishment, then you go come nairaland tell us another long epsitle of it all!

Someone said same to me last year and threaten that "God will kill me before this year"... i am still alive. Judge not that you mat not be judged!

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 12:53pm On Nov 03, 2020
skales67:



You've made me smile grin grin grin

I just don't really have time for myself especially with the fact that i run 2 jobs

But i will try updating frequently from now on cool
Two jobs ain't good for your health boy. Dash me one wink
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 12:55pm On Nov 03, 2020
luminouz:


You dont need to bother with that girl. I have her locked down, she is my babe. She was just lonely then but I have fixed her now. She is good cheesy

Now, get to the storytelling part bro...I'm eager to read some stories



grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Luminouz my paddy, you will never cease to make me laugh out loud with your funny replies. cheesy cheesy

I wanted to do some serious updates now but my boss just called via intercom that we are going out. This is one of the challenges i face in updating and it's like that because i prefer making use of my PC when on NL. Using my fingers to type long updates via mobile stresses my fingers
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by teebillz: 12:56pm On Nov 03, 2020
Administration1:
Inasmuch as I would like to buttress your point, but it's necessary I share my story.
I just moved into this area due to work(transfered to cover a colleague who was killed in the line of duty), I started searching for a place to always drink my beer, I stated from a roadside kiosk that serves chilled Heineken to the most happening club in the area.
I noticed a young lady who according to my fellow beer drinkers is a very devout Christian, she comes to buy fufu late at night and something else which I never knew as the kiosk owner already wraps it for her even before she arrives.

We crossed paths , linked up and I happen to visit her, and in the course of discussion I found out that she is a single mum. We finally had sex, by before that she told me the story of her life, how the person who got her pregnant abandoned her bla bla bla. She ran away from him because he was always drinking before coming home.

I decided to keep her as a "sure" sex object, as we never got to date officially, when I am drinking beer at my normal spot, she comes buys her "black nylon bag" thing and goes home, when I go home, with my alcoholic breath, I still make love to her.

One day, I asked her, why she didn't reject nor push me away when I come stoned drunk with alcohol and we still make love, her response was that, it's my life, yet she like the smell, stupid me, I believed.

... I'll update later as I am in a terrific traffic

Terrific traffic? how possible?
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 12:56pm On Nov 03, 2020
skales67:


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Luminouz my paddy, you will never cease to make me laugh out loud with your funny replies. cheesy cheesy

I wanted to do some serious updates now but my boss just called via intercom that we are going out. This is one of the challenges i face in updating and it's like that because i prefer making use of my PC when on NL. Using my fingers to type long updates via mobile stresses my fingers


I understand bro... PC is way better than mobile.

Aiit, we dey wait your update when you dey less busy wink

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 1:00pm On Nov 03, 2020
teebillz:


Terrific traffic? how possible?

Is it your traffic? The traffic was so cool it was terrific naaaa!! wink

What should he say, SMOKING? SMOOCHING? TERRIBLE, YUMMY traffic? grin

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by teebillz: 1:08pm On Nov 03, 2020
luminouz:


Is it your traffic? The traffic was so cool it was terrific naaaa!! wink

What should he say, SMOKING? SMOOCHING? TERRIBLE, YUMMY traffic? grin

E shock me nah.
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Tango123: 1:12pm On Nov 03, 2020
Administration1:
Inasmuch as I would like to buttress your point, but it's necessary I share my story.
I just moved into this area due to work(transfered to cover a colleague who was killed in the line of duty), I started searching for a place to always drink my beer, I stated from a roadside kiosk that serves chilled Heineken to the most happening club in the area.
I noticed a young lady who according to my fellow beer drinkers is a very devout Christian, she comes to buy fufu late at night and something else which I never knew as the kiosk owner already wraps it for her even before she arrives.

We crossed paths , linked up and I happen to visit her, and in the course of discussion I found out that she is a single mum. We finally had sex, by before that she told me the story of her life, how the person who got her pregnant abandoned her bla bla bla. She ran away from him because he was always drinking before coming home.

I decided to keep her as a "sure" sex object, as we never got to date officially, when I am drinking beer at my normal spot, she comes buys her "black nylon bag" thing and goes home, when I go home, with my alcoholic breath, I still make love to her.

One day, I asked her, why she didn't reject nor push me away when I come stoned drunk with alcohol and we still make love, her response was that, it's my life, yet she like the smell, stupid me, I believed.

... I'll update later as I am in a terrific traffic

Mention me when u update pls
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Tango123: 1:17pm On Nov 03, 2020
skales67:


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Luminouz my paddy, you will never cease to make me laugh out loud with your funny replies. cheesy cheesy

I wanted to do some serious updates now but my boss just called via intercom that we are going out. This is one of the challenges i face in updating and it's like that because i prefer making use of my PC when on NL. Using my fingers to type long updates via mobile stresses my fingers

Very understandable bro, and u are working two jobs. Aint easy

Please just mention me when u update. I am a keen reader of ur posts, and i find u liberal and mature.
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 2:05pm On Nov 03, 2020
teebillz:


E shock me nah.
cheesy
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by A305: 4:20pm On Nov 03, 2020
BabaAgba79:


Dear OP, after you have enjoyed their yolks, you now think you are in the right position to pass judgement on these married women and single mothers! I want to tell you that both men and women share the blames. 70% of these break ups come from men. See, I am man. Many of my friends cheat on their wives, they keep late at clubs and beer parlours. Some of my guys today are abroad leaving their lucrative businesses and banking jobs for America and Europe. Some even went to Dubai chasing shadows. Please, these your beautiful wives are humans too! Stop the flimsy excues for men! In fact, a lot of men cannot stand their wives success. Some men just hate the fact that their wives are successful. See, in this 21st century, no woman wants to tolerate the indecent excesses of men! Women have their eyes to see!
white knight spotted here.


May your sword stay sharpeneth than blade.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by omojesu202(m): 6:20pm On Nov 03, 2020
chingle5:


If u like say lazy Nigerian youth 1 million times.... I kuku no that you are referring to the both of us..... Coz u sef did not read anytin grin grin so stop deceiving ursef

if you no fit read this sweet story from beginning to the end, then sorry for you. Wetin u want come read
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by franklingud(m): 9:09pm On Nov 03, 2020
skales67:


Someone said same to me last year and threaten that "God will kill me before this year"... i am still alive. Judge not that you mat not be judged!
Don't laugh yet!!!

Time will tell!!!
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Elliot2(m): 9:53pm On Nov 03, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
I don't believe these women are naturally toxic as you claim, rather something or someone triggered such toxicity in them. It could be a bad upbringing, especially where a dad maltreats mum, or it could actually be their ex husband's who made them toxic. You mentioned that INFIDELITY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE account for like 80percent of marital break-ups...... a WHOPPING 80percent shocked ? I totally agree with that. Now my question is, if 80 percent of marital break-ups are due to infidelity and domestic violence, taking a look at your immediate environment, have you not seen that husband's are not faithful and most of them beat their wifes? If you are sincere, you will agree with me that a good number of men are the ones who commit infidelity in marriage, same men beat their wife, so men are responsible for such marital break-ups, don't shift blames.

Men are truly the perpetrators and women the victims. Most of the married toxic women became toxic due to sad marital experiences, same with the single mothers, it may not be all, but most of such toxicity were caused by bad experiences. The problem is that these women refuse to drop all their bitter experiences when they enter new relationships, but would there really be a need for them to drop their bitterness, especially since there is every possibility that the next man would come with same baggage? Toxicity is not an innate attribute, it is learned. As for the Bible passage you mentioned, not all marriages are worth building, especially where a man isn't interested in making it work. In the process of staying to make it work, she may lost her life, health, etc. Stop shifting blames. Thread should also be in family section shocked
Continue being pained for 600yrs. The knowledge of the nature of women is the greatest knowledge a man could ever learn in his life. For every accusation leveled against man, women are equally or more guilty of.

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by chingle5(m): 2:06am On Nov 04, 2020
omojesu202:


if you no fit read this sweet story from beginning to the end, then sorry for you. Wetin u want come read

Because of u I go read am if I no like am I swear I go...... U angry

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by omojesu202(m): 8:41am On Nov 04, 2020
chingle5:


Because of u I go read am if I no like am I swear I go...... U angry

don't worry, I no say u no go read am. Na you gangan buhari dey talk about. Lol
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by NeeKlaus: 12:07pm On Nov 04, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women and the effects bad marriages and relationships have on their psyche are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67
I went through your profile and all I saw was men-bashing threads or threads placing men on the altar of ridicule and criticism but I am curious; have you attempted removing the "log of wood" in your eye first?

Or you are saying you are the only one entitled to the monopoly of "gender bashing"?

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by chingle5(m): 2:00pm On Nov 04, 2020
omojesu202:


don't worry, I no say u no go read am. Na you gangan buhari dey talk about. Lol

Hw u take no.... angry
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by omojesu202(m): 3:58pm On Nov 04, 2020
chingle5:

Hw u take no.... angry
so you forget say I dey use Tecno. you wey sabi scrol down to comments, Chairman LNY
Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 4:39pm On Nov 04, 2020
Cc Tango123, odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20, Priam

Good Afternoon guys...

So like i promised, i said i was going to recount my experiences with some of these women starting from the very first i dated till the last.

For the sake of anonymity, i will tag each woman with code names and give illustrations close to the real scenarios rather than specifics in order to prevent them, their spouses, friends and families to easily decode in case they stumble into this thread and read.

I'll allow you the reader to be the judge between me and these women. Keep your arguments as constructive as possible.

CASE No.1
Date February 2014
Codename: Halle Berry
Age Range: Early 30's

I am giving her the code name Halle Berry because she is just like the African version of Halle Berry the Black American actress of the late 90s and radiant with looks much younger than her age.

I visited a mart that belongs to her elder sister to get some provisions not far from my house. This was a mart i usually visited to buy beverages and other home accessories for personal use. It was on a Saturday.

There she was, looking pale with her last baby of about 9 months straddled across her shoulders. Her elder sister had this look of defiance while she talked to her sister. Her first son and daughter which i could place at 8 and 5 respectively were running around the aisle of the mall.

I bought what brought me there and left. I didn't give anything a thought at that moment until the following weekend when i went back to buy supplies and needed and i noticed this elegant beauty cladded in a tight body fitted gown that accentuated her curves especially her round butt. I am a guy who has a very strong thing for women's behinds when they are big. I don't care about boobies. I sucked enough from my mother during my time as an infant. I like something i can grab while holding my woman close to me in an embrace and "while i am doing the works"

Her skin was glowed and i watched her hips swung from side to side as she moved round the aisle with a pen and notebook in hand taking inventory of wares sold in the mart. I walked up to her and she smiled as she greeted me.

"Did you just get employed here?", i asked.

"Nope. Don't you remember me? I was the one discussing with my sister when you came last week", she said. I was dumbstruck.

I enquired about her elder sister and she told me she wasn't around with a beam of smile that exposed her well set dentition with a single dimple on the left side of her face. I apologized and told her i didn't realize it was the pale looking woman with her 9 months old baby i saw at the time. it was really surprising what a change of environment could do rapidly within a short period.

We started talking and she told me the 3 children were her kids (mind you she was 24 yrs at the time but looking like she was 17 while standing in front of me. I inquired to know why she looked so pale and kind of stressed out and sickly the previous week i saw her and she simply said it was a long story. I told her i would like her to tell me all i need to know and the only way it was possible was to have her number.

At first, she did the initial "shakara" women are known for but i dropped a particular magical phrase i use when trying to get the digits of any woman who is unwilling and get a 95% success rate. She typed her number on my Nokia Lumia phone and i dialed it just to be sure and heard a dial tone at the other end and almost immediately, a phone on the counter started ringing.

Sure that i had gotten the right digits, i paid for the stuff i bought added some chocolates and biscuits which i told her to give her kids. She giggled like a school girl and thanked me. This woman was so pretty that you'd feel like giving her a kiss almost immediately.

I sauntered out of the supermarket smiling to myself.

To be continued...

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by skales67(m): 4:49pm On Nov 04, 2020
younglleo:
grin grin grin dis tori go plenty!
Op be good to pass me one, atleast lemme witness wat u witness!
My man my man
Take five joor and continue

Lol. Funny you cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by Priam: 6:16pm On Nov 04, 2020
skales67:


CASE No.1
Date February 2014
Codename: Halle Berry
Age Range: Early 30's


At first, she did the initial "shakara" women are known for but i dropped a particular magical phrase i use when trying to get the digits of any woman who is unwilling and get a 95% success rate. She typed her number on my Nokia Lumia phone and i dialed it just to be sure and heard a dial tone at the other end and almost immediately, a phone on the counter started ringing.

Sure that i had gotten the right digits, i paid for the stuff i bought added some chocolates and biscuits which i told her to give her kids. She giggled like a school girl and thanked me. This woman was so pretty that you'd feel like giving her a kiss almost immediately.

I sauntered out of the supermarket smiling to myself.

To be continued...






...and so it begins cheesy

Do you mind letting me know about this secret formula that gives you 95% success rate?

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 7:21pm On Nov 04, 2020
Priam:


...and so it begins cheesy

Do you mind letting me know about this secret formula that gives you 95% success rate?

Priam, shut it!!! Don't derail us here cheesy


If you wanna know so bad,then PM him

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Re: My Shocking Discovery After Dating Married Women And Single Mothers! by luminouz(m): 7:21pm On Nov 04, 2020
Story time mudafvckers!!! grin

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