MRbrownJAY:

@nanidee
You will be very surprise to know that many people out there LOVE to lick asss or get there assss licked. Educate yourself before you unknowingly end up with such a man.

and just to name a few:
- I will never CHANGE for a r/ship.
Etc etc etc

I've always been hard ans fuss about this one but it seems to change as I grow. I've always believed that if I a in a relationship with anyone and i do not grow as a person then that relationship is a waste of time.

People dont have to stay forever in our lives but sometimes they come so that we can learn more about ourselves. With some you get affirmations and with some you learn that its time for adjustments.

Either way change is always involved.

Yes, we all evolve and grow as we mature but its a natural process called LIFE and it cannot be compared with changing because someone we are dating demands for it or it's needed in order to fit in that said r/ship.

not to shear my woman with any man

MRbrownJAY:

Yes, we all evolve and grow as we mature but its a natural process called LIFE and it cannot be compared with changing because someone we are dating demands for it or it's needed in order to fit in that said r/ship.

I suppose its great when change is voluntary, not when its forced in order to fit into ones little idiosyncrasies all in the name of "I love you".

I can never cheat in a relationship.

I can't continue in a relationship if i know the guy is with another woman.

i no dey wash 'plate' abeg

i will never make a voilence action with my patner; and i can never sleep with my wifes mother  

i can never shear my woman with any man;;;instead,

^^ awwww, 

SA Lady:

I've always been hard ans fuss about this one but it seems to change as I grow. I've always believed that if I a in a relationship with anyone and i do not grow as a person then that relationship is a waste of time.

People dont have to stay forever in our lives but sometimes they come so that we can learn more about ourselves. With some you get affirmations and with some you learn that its time for adjustments.

Either way change is always involved.

seconded

baby.me:

I can never cheat in a relationship.

I can't continue in a relationship if i know the guy is with another woman.

Same here,  [size=3pt]although i have once cheated [/size]

Ikwikwikwi:

i no dey wash 'plate' abeg

lol, so plate na your own wahala abi?,   you no serious. Ikwikwi like you  

735i will never double date

i'll leave my present girlfriend, whip d other lady that catches my fancy, and make up with girlfriend

So u see ppl, i don't cheat

Just have a good understanding spirit and listening ear, its not hard to say "AM Sorry" this word is hard to say by many couples and even those in relationship but it is "Universal Solvent) that melts/Softens every heart

Omolola1:

I would never slap him
I would never give him a BJ, Its raw!

 i don't cheat
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SA Lady:

I suppose its great when change is voluntary, not when its forced in order to fit into ones little idiosyncrasies all in the name of "I love you".

I have lost one or two guys because of this, I will change what I think I am no longer comfortable with but will not move an inch for what I am happy with, . . . . . .no regrets. There is nothing worse than changing for someone else, what a life that would be!

@smallboy2
Saying I am sorry is just too easy and definitely won't work with me. If someone cheats or disrespect me then their asss is out NO EXPLANATION NEEDED.

Also, many people out there don't even know the meaning, let alone the implications, that such phrase implies.

Adebayok1:

i can never shear my woman with any man;;;instead,

JUO:

not to shear my woman with any man

Duh, shearing your woman alone is an offence itself.

BABE!:

theres are a million and one things I wouldn't do, but one thing I Will Definitely not DO is CHEAT! why? because I strongly believe in the following rules:

1)Love your neighbors as you love yourself, 2)Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, 3)Law of Karma.

I agree with you, but I think the first rule is not too applicable.
Your neighbor here may mean another thing.

On my part, I will never make her know i have done something that she should be ashamed of, like kissing another woman

^^^ I hope you feel the same way about her not telling you when she kiss someone else.
What a dishonest relationship anyway!!!!
I wonder what people base their relationships on these days?!

MRbrownJAY:

^^^ I hope you feel the same way about her not telling you when she kiss someone else.
What a dishonest relationship anyway!!!!
I wonder what people base their relationships on these days?!

You always make sense with your posts, Very rare but glad a few men still reason the way you do,

Wish I knew you cos you are kinda guy I like,

(That's if you are as real as your posts o)

can never say forgive when i no i'm right

bhusayor:

dont mind him joor, y does he want to understand better, at least I'm not in a relationship with him or someone he knows'

always angry, wrinkles go plenty 4 ya face o

Am not suprised Bush-ayo is a bush woman!!

K-money we might need 2 reconsider this woman we are planning 2 get married to

Look at me i went for mizdark, why dont u go for BABE or ethidoime, busayor can only cook and clean and nyash but shes dark skineed and she stays in Lagos!!

I'll never allow myself to be made a fool of! a brotha gots his pride intact

@Liss
Thanks, I am flattered.
As for my posts, they are as real as they can be, that's why they may shock a few out there.

@nanidee
Say sorry when a person is RIGHT?!
pls, care to share with us how this will be beneficial for a couple. People have to be real in relationships rather that living in fantasy land.
A person who expect her partner to say sorry when they are right is not only selfish but also immature and should definitely work on her low self esteem issues.

MRbrownJAY:

@Liss
Thanks, I am flattered.
As for my posts, they are as real as they can be, that's why they may shock a few out there.

Well, actually noticed cos you have been consistent. Keep it up.

johnjoel:

can never say forgive when i no i'm right

The two of you might both think you are right , i.e each person believes I am right, so, who is going to apologise to whom?
Sometimes, the reaction to being 'right' might go over bounds and hurt your partner's feelings, You can apologise for hurting her feelings and still maintain your views, We can agree to disagree, right?

Such situations aren't always this clear cut,

What i will not do is to fight with a lady becos of a MAN.God forbid

I wil never cheat a lady I love so much, i believe there is true love

I would never allow a guy to suck/lick my private part and would never allow a guy to ejaculate in ma mouth

No i won't,inshort i won't do anyfn stupid b4 i get married, i hope he understands

@nanidee
You didn't make much sense to me.
Are you saying that a man should simply say sorry every time there is an argument rather than a woman saying so, when she knows she is wrong. . . . . . just so that SHE can be happy in the union?! What kind of selfish one sided relationship is this. Do you ever think of men's feelings or do you just think that we don't have any?!

I am sorry to say that a person who need to "feel good" all the time and be labelled RIGHT when they are wrong, definitely has low self esteem issues and needs professional help.

Furthermore, life as a couple is about being real, understanding, honest etc, the moment that a person expect you to be fake, dishonest, bias etc that's the beginning of the end of that union.

Ps: if its not about being less than a man to say sorry then shouldn't it be the same thing about women?! Or are you trying to play the weaker sex suddenly? Lol

why won't i wanna lick his balls, i means it makes him go gaga

neway 1 tin i will neva in a r/ship is CHEAT[color=#006600][/color]