infogenius:


Yes, you are right with the bolded.
However, a caring guy will ask why you have you eaten for the past three days. That's is care. It is not until he sends her money that makes him care.
That guy is not caring probably an opportunist or looking for a babe to pass time with. Infact he is a regular naija guy. My advice to op is to forget him.

infogenius:


Yes, you are right with the bolded.
However, a caring guy will ask why are you have you not eaten for the past three days? That's is care. It is not until he sends her money that makes him care.
That guy is not caring probably an opportunist or looking for a babe to pass time with. Infact he is a regular naija guy. My advice to op is to forget him.

Bodyodour:
he asked you for 3 days whether you have eaten and you said NO. Any Nigerian guy will cut-off any connection because its now an indirect way of collecting money. Check it nah. Ask most Nigerian girls how she is doing she will tell you she is not fine.Ask her why she will tell you money is her problem .

Mac12:
I met a great dude here

CalliDora1:


My dear. @bolded is my thoughts because he resumed the question this morning again.

Sugar what?.. this person I'm telling you is a MAN as in very mature guy and from all indications he's not a play boy. But why he pulled that stunt at the last minute was what got me upset and worried.

I'm thinking whether to download all he did to him and how I see it or just block him.

I don't want to appear wicked or rude but my interest is no longer there.

Ishilove:

Okay, understood.

Switch to the below when responding to his messages-

aiit
kk
kkk
Cool
Lol
Tenks

Etc. I believe that is diplomatic and polite enough. Hin body go tell am.

pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

Ishilove:
So if you were truly in need of help that is how he would have abandoned you. Please block him. We don't need useless people in our lives

Bodyodour:
you aren't lying. I did that before but she turned me into her ATM. Me just japa!! Help a girl today, she will come with times 3 of another problem.

Ishilove:
So if you were truly in need of help that is how he would have abandoned you. Please block him. We don't need useless people in our lives

You're now a male?

xristos:
How do opposite sex connect here sef on Nairaland..
Amidst d busy schedules except Ure idle..no chat n reply forum, no notification of replies or mentions, dangerous to share phone numbers, no icon/or image...how una dey do am sef??
Is it just by that dumb email notification? Where it can take forever for the person to reply..not even wit a contact detail?

There are thousands of pple here...good, mature, single, smart, rich, etc...just Nairaland readers.

It's a lot of stress before u finally get to know who Ure chatting with...plzzz.. it's discouraging for quality persons to get on with anyone here(except u knew urselves b4)...hence u attract kids..
Gracias

Ishilove:
So if you were truly in need of help that is how he would have abandoned you. Please block him. We don't need useless people in our lives

Chiquitq:
He is not an all weather friend but kindly note that telling someone that you've not eaten more than once also sends wrong signals. Except it is obvious that you are too busy to eat. Forget about this guy, he doesn't mean well at all. If you really lost your job and you were good friends, he might have offered a token to cushion the effect but then again, some girls would turn such nice gesture into an opportunity to take a man for granted and milk him. Just forget about this guy.

Mandela27:
But why cant u ladies stop dramas and attitudes? that thing disgusts me so bad.

That was how I met this girl last month on fb,she opened up to me that she likes me,I didnt want to act desperate for the vjay,so I never asked for her number,she kept giving hints here and there,and on saturday night,she couldnt hold it anymore and she asked me out.still I dont want to jump and accept,I told her to calm down,and she said if she sleeps and wake the next day she would prepare her brain to move on...men,since that sunday morning,she started acting cold,I tried igniting the spark again,but the friendship seemed sour already and I hate that girly drama and attitude.I blocked her this morning.

kkins25:
Help? you now if i tell you to give me urgent 2k just like that, would you? The guy is trying to pave the way for a relationship but a grown ass working lady never chop for good 3 days and most importantly no logical reason was provided.
ishilove: kkins how are you?
kkins: im fine.
ishilove: so whats up how was work?
kkins: fine
ishilove(trying to find another angle to extend the conversation: ok, what did you eat today?
kkins: nothing.
ishilove assumes kkins is not interested in having a conversation and decides to give kkins some time.

one day later
ishilove: kkins, whats up?
kkins: fine.
ishilove: did you sleep well?
kkins: yes.
ishilove: have you eaten?
kkins: No.
ishilove: oh! whats going on?
kkins: Nothing.

ishilove concludes kkins is not interested decides to give up for now and try again letter..

this is what happened and yet according to you, ishilove is not a good friend. fear naija women!!

CalliDora1:



Lol.. Ishi Ishi... Your comments always cracks me up.

I think he asked why on one of those days but I told him nothing and he said don't you have food? I told him I'll be fine. I think that was when he first said "im sorry" and didn't call for four days.

Let me go and buy dangote cement for the blocking. Hahahahaaaa Ishi will not kill me o.

Viking007:
You're now a male?

ricson11:
The person is born again are you sure is not righteousness89 �