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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
acesboy: YourCoffin:Lol.... Bhad guy |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by alexmakaay(m): 3:01pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: You can't beat a child and expect them not to cry. We learn from experience. Just few days ago, we saw how a guy was dumped by her gf who according to him sponsored her edu in school of nursing. These days, no man wants a liability. It's not about being stingy or poor, it's about what is obtainable in the present society. Besides, why couldn't you tell him straight away that you are on fast and save yourself all these long talk and stress?? According to what you wrote, you have not met this man, every communication you guys had was just virtual. My dear, our brother is simply being cautious because you can't tell me you've not eaten for a whole day without reasons and expect me not to be somewhat suspicious of you. He actually came back, yes! So you can stop being unnecessarily stupid and know he is serious with you. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by frankson1(m): 3:01pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: And Nairalnders are supposed to know why he "stopped calling and chatting" You LIE. If you had really wanted to know then we should not be having these conversations in the first place. MADAM, TELL US WHAT REALLY HAPPENED. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by BreconHills(m): 3:02pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Why do Nigerians ask others if they have eaten? It doesn't happen anywhere else in the world! The only reason would be to take the person out for a meal. How it is done as a courtesy beats me! 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Pree55: 3:02pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: how will you feel when you see your close friend in need and you can't help, talkless of a guy. The guy probably felt very bad and shame to call me, his ego was bruised but he can't help it.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mmadu4: 3:03pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
i always tell guys if you want to marry or date let it be a girl who is self-sufficient because a girl will never date you if you are dirt poor and broke. I'm happy men have wise up now 11 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ademoore07(m): 3:03pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969:You can aswell contact the webster dictionary for the connotative and denotative meaning of the word "Man". |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
What point are you driving at? Entitlement mentality kee you there!!! CalliDora1: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Abimbolasam(m): 3:04pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
oil dey your head #wisdom# |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf:Take it easy bro Are you the guy in question? |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf: Did I mention you? Besides I couldn't bring myself to ask you why you did what you did intensionally cos I don't want to be taken for a ride knowing you already have a mindset. So I decided to throw it open to the public to hear what could possibly make a man abscond for no reason and resurface again acting like he didn't know what he did. You didn't need to come and defend yourself here, my dear. I was hoping to come over after garnering enough from the advice here and ask a few questions but you just jumped out to prove what? Oh.. you were arrested? But did you tell me? Nope. Rather you chose to come and say it here? I'm further disappointed. My head is full. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Kokaine(m): 3:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:You've started a topic just to bash men. Until you hear what your fellow girls do, you won't know who made men the way they are. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by frankson1(m): 3:07pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf: Oga, I'd rather prefer you IGNORE. She said that you're mature so act as a matured person and look away. Don't get dragged here even though we don't know you. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by enemyofprogress: 3:07pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
nenyewrites:nenye please stay out of this, I know she is your friend but this is strictly between us, so please stay out of this. I still don’t understand why your friend would bring our issue before the whole world |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by scutches(m): 3:08pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
u wont blame him. He might scared maybe u will end up requesting 4 money and not financially okay. Thats why hes been avoiding d conversation. Not that he does loves u |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by abimic(m): 3:09pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Everybody has one or two they're passing through. Nothing stops you from checking up on him when he wasn't checking up on you, or was it stated anywhere that guy must always initiate been caring. All these nairaland claimed adults behaving like children. So because he asked for three consecutive days if you've eaten, and you gave a no as response, did you ask if he ate too, some girls fail to understand making money respects no gender. That he never chatted you up or called for a while, did you bother ask if all was fine with him those period. All these kiss and tell people sef 11 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by thymm50(m): 3:10pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Fake story to attract fresh magas to your profile. Something told me to check the account that it won't be older than 3 months, and I was right. The pretty profile picture also confirmed my suspicions. The guy in question by the account name michdaf, was created on the 18 of this. month. Also who is the enemyofprogress that replied you on page 2 ? It's like you are using this format on more than one guy abi? Fake story, fake accounts probably being controlled by same person My conclusion; some mumu guys will ask for this gals number bcoz they assume she can fast, and not interested in a guy's money. Also some mumu gals will easily give their number to michdaf, he is just a cool guy that was misunderstood 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Richykaycee(m): 3:11pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
The guy has nothing tn offer as a friend, just a full time scrab. he should have wait for the question to pop up, the he react (i can help or i can't. nobody will force him) friends are beyond that |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
BreconHills:A girl I was trying to ask out then I constantly ask her if she has eaten You know what she said back to me ? She said this guy you will like food O this one you're always asking me if have eaten. Although she said it in a joking way but it i didn't absorb it in a joking way and ever since then I vow never to ask any girl if they have eaten or not If you like eat if you like don't eat that's your own pro That question is an old dating line used in 2010 down to 2015. That line is already outdated. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 3:13pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Throw it open by bringing it here. what happened to your before hasn't taught a lesson. Sometimes I wonder if you are being paid to do this. Ok, so after you have finished tarnishing my image, you will now come and do what. And you know am regular here. I was expecting more from you, but this is childish 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by frankson1(m): 3:16pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bamz: She doesn't need to tell him off. If after all these the guy still thinks of staying with her then something must be seriously wrong. Infact, he will need to go see "his village people". The 'clara' of a woman is so full of pride. She's so pained that the guy didn't ask for her account number but now she's forming 'testing'. Mtcheeww... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
You could have just told him you were fasting and communicate naturally like a normal human. He blanked for four days, did you chat him up to know what's up with him or you're the only one that deserves care. You both blanked each other. The guy does not have anything to offer? What do you have to offer? The guy has his faults we all do and its because we are humans and not commodities. How much more someone you met only whom you don't even know his story. In your next fasting session. pray God provide all your financial needs, make your business flourish and also make keep you busy so you'll stop fasting and stop opening threads about men on nairaland. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Michdaf: 3:17pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
frankson1:My is just so annoying when people misunderstand you |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Joker09(m): 3:18pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: Gbam! Well said. You said it all. |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:18pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
.....Seems like the matter din cast. Girl is a leeche and guy man wasn't bouyant enough. Guy,thanks for the clarification 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nogym(m): 3:19pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
HW don't want to fall into the urgent 2k trap nh |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Michdaf: Dafe can you just shut up! Who was giving you attitude? You stopped calling and got me putting two and two together which prompted me to test you by continually telling you Ive not eaten and now you turn to say I posed hungry?? You better Watch it.! Did I ever ask you for anything for once? Say the truth... I didn't want you here reason I didn't mention you. Just be a man and leave here now!!! |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Mcslize: 3:19pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Friendship is two ways thing. When you noticed he wasn't chatting you up, did you take it by yourself to chat him up? Did you bother to find out if he could have been passing through? Most ladies are guilty of this. They will never check up on guys if they don't check up on them. My verdict: most ladies hardly check up on a guy except they have gotten intimate. But before the intimacy, it is only the guy that usually do the check up all the time which is bad. Friendship is two dimensional. Have you taken time to check up on those on your WhatsApp list to find out what's going on in their lives? Reach out to people from time to time if you discover that they have not been checking up on you. You might not know what they are passing through that period. Reach out to someone and not always have the habit of waiting for someone to check up on you first. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ladycewhy(f): 3:20pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bodyodour:Lol. The way you people talk on this forum one would think you are some super people outside. I know guys here who form big boys with one account and beg with their alternates.na dem dey shout broke girls this and that pass.lol. make I face my front. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by faithfull18(f): 3:20pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
ricson11:So, only righteousness89 is born again in the whole of this forum 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:20pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:....So you were lying against the innocent guy just because he wasn't bouyant at that particular point? Smh. Pocohantas was right after all. You were watering the ground for urgent 2k.lol 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by crackhaus: 3:20pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Na the same thing we dey talk... If you did not want to ask for a favour, why you come dey tell am about your problem of not eating for three straight days without stating the reason? Abi na motivational speech e go give you before to help your belle... What else did you expect him to think if not that you needed money... seriously? The guy was even nice by just ghosting you. If na me and I intend to really piss you off, I will suggest that you should try gathering small small change left inside your purse that will reach 300naira, so you can at least buy indomie and egg make you for see food chop. Highest it's only vex you will vex, and maybe block me if e too pain you... still good riddance 17 Likes 2 Shares |
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