In Africa nothing you're still a child...your parents sees you as an adult in Africa at the age of 30 for male and 25 for females then for female once you're 25 and turn adult you get married because you have no time remaining then for male @30 you have turn to adult no money...your parents will see you as already useless then they start telling to go for night vigil and prayers because something supernatural must be holding you down....but they had you caged since your 18years to 30years


AFRICA IS FACING ALOT OF PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS

doggedfighter:


Life happens to us all sadly
Come and flex me first

I have female friends on the queue. Your activism on the endsars protest deserve you a nice outing. If I don't travel out of Lagos this month end. then December will be us flexing

Ahmad62:
bleep off

failure spotted

ufondunenye:
Today is my birthday guys.

nd ure in abj..make I flex u na

Richdee1:


Just see this early morning idiot roaming round Nairaland.. If say as u talk na so e dey happen, every secondary school student for be baller na.. 10 million at age 20?? In this buhari era?
Everyman with e own kettle

You missed the sarcasm!!

goldtube:
At age 20 you should be completely independent

Did you mean completely dependent?

In Nig. of today all things being equal, you should be in either of 300L,400L or just a fresh grad. In terms of physical acquisition not much is expected of you, infact to own a car at that age means you are from a well to do background.

ethicallyright:

You quoted me yesterday because you didn't like how my honest comment ended. As an inquisitive fellow, I'm eager to know how old you are because you look like a teenager.

imagine, how could you say someone you have never set your eyes on look like teenager you can't even tell...you should rather say he sound like a type.

salvation...seek first the kingdom of God and every other thing shall be added unto you matt 6 vs 33

ebenezer202l:
failure spotted

Ohh I'm not a failure lady...Only yahoo boys can earn that much at that age... Stop thinking with your anus

At 20 who should swallow Red pill

ethicallyright:

You quoted me yesterday because you didn't like how my honest comment ended. As an inquisitive fellow, I'm eager to know how old you are because you look like a teenager.

From her picture, say 17 to 19

I was in 300L/400L at 20, graduated at 23, working at 25

Karleb:


Did you mean completely dependent?

Independent, you should be able to stand on your own, not depending on parents, brothers or uncles

goldtube:


Independent, you should be able to stand on your own, not depending on parents, brothers or uncles

@20? This must be a joke.

As far as Nigeria is concerned, one may not be able to achieve much. But at least you should have gotten your school sat.

gaius01:


Arrrrrrrh


My personal opinion then was,
At the age of 2O, a man who has plans to be a better person in life is to;
1. Be devoted with your religion, you can't exempt God from the equation of life.
2. At 19 i was through with my National diploma in computer with good grades.
3. Have a certificate in computer training.
4. Aiming for the next level, University! ( chasing your goals in life, be determine to make life meaningful)
5. Learn a profession, to add, like tailoring.
6. Read books.
7. Avoid ladies, to focus, I do not say hate them in real terms avoid relationship call love. Being friends with them is quite cool and be wise. And also avoid unnecessary friends.
8. To grow spiritually listen to message to boost your spirit man.
9. Have a nice sense of dress.
1O. Be a man of integrity and value!

My own thoughts then, and I am still following this guide to hit that bigger archivement in life, well the ball is in your court.

I'm 35
Have a good job
Good business
But U are far better than me

tollyboy5:

brotherly you said it all, I wanted to learn c++ to build robotic system then also. When I saw how difficult and no one to put me through I give up.

Bros now I be good programmer and embedded programmer but....
Still on still

E be things!

Brotherly
I lost interest sha later on

Na football make me loose interest
Football I no dey play again

From one interest to another

E be things bro

Okay!

At 20:

1. Own your mind, but allow others feed it with your kinda nutrition
2. Own your religion, not the one you've been told by your clergy and family
3. Own a will, this will power your mind and religion
4. Own a sense of responsibility, begin to believe that this world survives on the POWER OF ONE and you're the ONE. This will drive your actions
5. Own knowledge and skills, these will announce you
6. Own character, this will preserve your now found fame
7. Own relationships, don't be a lone ranger. This will help you in your wildernesses
8. Own honour, this will give you recommendations
9. Own patriotism at all cost, this teaches you deep service
10. Own NOTHING, but start working on owning the 9 THINGS above and GOOD THINGS will chase after you

Thank you!

mattmogan88:
A knee pain

na backpain me get o and am 21

His first ejaculation

Are you normal

sweetrace:
All things being equal, you should be doing your NYSC.

My formula is simple - useful life is divided into 3:
0 - 25years - A man should do all within his means to be legally able to be prepared to earn a living and respect. Go school, learn a trade, start a business, etc.
26 - 50years - A man should be able to use his preparation from the first 25yrs to earn a honest living and prepare for the next

51 -75yrs - one should be able to use his earnings and successes from the previous 25yrs to support himself through this stage, retirement and up to ultimate departure.

- There is no hard and fast rule here. life happens but if one is focused he may still recover even if one stage lasts longer... the most important thing, have a plan.
- Just remember that the last point about dying is the most certain in all... so along the way, always be prepared to meet your maker and if you don't believe in God be prepare to be a very good manure for plants and animals to thrive on.

May God show us mercy and favor!
"May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face and may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars."

ezenwajosh:
In Africa nothing you're still a child...your parents sees you as an adult in Africa at the age of 30 for male and 25 for females then for female once you're 25 and turn adult you get married because you have no time remaining then for male @30 you have turn to adult no money...your parents will see you as already useless then they start telling to go for night vigil and prayers because something supernatural must be holding you down....but they had you caged since your 18years to 30years


AFRICA IS FACING ALOT OF PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS

very true..... Many are in our comfort zone including me.many people are now expecting success without doing anything , taking a risk or leaving ur comfort zone .

Worst is praying and fasting without any action ....

LyfeJennings:


I'm 35
Have a good job
Good business
But U are far better than me

Thank you Sir, I will still add that!

Lilgabby:

Hmmm!
Please pass all this to Wizkid or davido and get a reply first... Then, you come back... I got some things to tell you.

Lol, I have already gotten my answer. But as a matter of facts, am giving this, from my own personal experience. Everybody way is not your way, destiny so much differs!!

thesicilian:
There's no global timeline for achievement. We all have separate destinies and missions in life.

The question shock you too! He should be a professor, president & have $100 trillion.

tollyboy5:

I have female friends on the queue. Your activism on the endsars protest deserve you a nice outing. If I don't travel out of Lagos this month end. then December will be us flexing

okay

Heartbreak,physical strength, the way economy works, and how to gain favor from people. Anything else, an exception.

greymiles:
By 20, you should have your own house, a car starting from 2010 upwards, at least 2 investments, a girlfriend(not compulsory) and at least 10m in your acct
Anything less than this, then you’re a failure already

you forgot to add that he ought to have been an ex Governor or Senator, wereh

Waec, , or 1st degree