Nothing!

tollyboy5:

Lol, in real life I dont bash ladies o! I respect all ladies. I have this believe that life push people to what they became.
If someone like me people use to see as young prof is like this today.
Then the some olosho in the street might have wanted to become a medical doctor at one point of their life

Respect boss

Gbamsolute!

thesicilian:
There's no global timeline for achievement. We all have separate destinies and missions in life.

gaius01:


Arrrrrrrh


My personal opinion then was,
At the age of 2O, a man who has plans to be a better person in life is to;
1. Be devoted with your religion, you can't exempt God from the equation of life.
2. At 19 i was through with my National diploma in computer science with good grades.
3. Have a certificate in computer training.
4. Aiming for the next level, University! ( chasing your goals in life, be determine to make life meaningful)
5. Learn a profession, to add, like tailoring.
6. Read books.
7. Avoid ladies, to focus, I do not say hate them in real terms avoid relationship call love. Being friends with them is quite cool and be wise. And also avoid unnecessary friends.
8. To grow spiritually listen to message to boost your spirit man.
9. Have a nice sense of dress.
1O. Be a man of integrity and value!

My own thoughts then, and I am still following this guide to hit that bigger archivement in life, well the ball is in your court.

Nice point..

Nothing in nigeria

Achievements for a young Nigerian at 20:
1. Not being addicted to drugs
2. Not being addicted to gambling
3. Not being a cultist
4. Building your social network (You need the connections later for jobs and businesses)
5. Must have basic computer knowledge (Excel and Word will do except you want to dabble into programming or graphics design)
6. Have learnt or be willing to learn a trade skill.
7. Understand that saving money in the bank will never make you financially buoyant. Your money needs to keep working for you.

thesicilian:
There's no global timeline for achievement. We all have separate destinies and missions in life.

may God bless u bro for that reply,.everyone background is different,likewise family spirituality also have a long way to go..u can't compare a family that has some spiritual issue with someone that has lesser one..and lastly ...I might have build up an elderly mind at the age of 10 and u re still struggling at the age of 30....so there re some questions that re not meant to be ask on social media..it a personal research.

ezenwajosh:
In Africa nothing you're still a child...your parents sees you as an adult in Africa at the age of 30 for male and 25 for females then for female once you're 25 and turn adult you get married because you have no time remaining then for male @30 you have turn to adult no money...your parents will see you as already useless then they start telling to go for night vigil and prayers because something supernatural must be holding you down....but they had you caged since your 18years to 30years


AFRICA IS FACING ALOT OF PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS

Thumbs up

At 20 you should be in the university.

my brother take am easy.... if you’re 20 in nigerian federal universities..... you’l probably be in 300l...so chill bro

nastyking:
At the the age of 20 what should a young man supposed to have achieved. If you have any advice or life experience to share to the young minds please do.

In school or graduated, learning a trade or pursuing your passion, all is fine. Just make sure you are heading somewhere.

Richdee1:


Just see this early morning idiot roaming round Nairaland.. If say as u talk na so e dey happen, every secondary school student for be baller na.. 10 million at age 20?? In this buhari era?
Everyman with e own kettle

Na sarcasm naa

It's this kinda "achievement" pressure that kids heap on their heads that make them dabble into many vices such as this betting epidemic and internet fraud.

blazepascal:
first thing is to leave ur fathers hauz

At 20?!!! Gimme a break. Would you say this your 20yr old daughter
Stop the pressure on men. They are human too

nastyking:
At the the age of 20 what should a young man supposed to have achieved. If you have any advice or life experience to share to the young minds please do.

puberty and a properly laid out life plan

nastyking:
At the the age of 20 what should a young man supposed to have achieved. If you have any advice or life experience to share to the young minds please do.

a 20 year old guy is still a kid a nigeria, so be one

AuroraB:
At 20?!!! Gimme a break. Would you say this your 20yr old daughter
Stop the pressure on men. They are human too

ok

thesicilian:
There's no global timeline for achievement. We all have separate destinies and missions in life.

the most intelligent comment I have come across
nice one...

nastyking:
At the the age of 20 what should a young man supposed to have achieved. If you have any advice or life experience to share to the young minds please do.

..
Some set of skills.

nastyking:
At the the age of 20 what should a young man supposed to have achieved. If you have any advice or life experience to share to the young minds please do.

..
Some sets of skills.

Farki:


His dad has at least a girlfriend.

Mad o.......I hear sir... at least not a wife

greymiles:
By 20, you should have your own house, a car starting from 2010 upwards, at least 2 investments, a girlfriend(not compulsory) and at least 10m in your acct
Anything less than this, then you’re a failure already

Jesu!!!,10 million,
well,i tap the grace in JESUS name.
i believe

KLand:


In school or graduated, learning a trade or pursuing your passion, all is fine. Just make sure you are heading somewhere.

Your comment is one of the most sensible on this thread.

greymiles:
By 20, you should have your own house, a car starting from 2010 upwards, at least 2 investments, a girlfriend(not compulsory) and at least 10m in your acct
Anything less than this, then you’re a failure already

How old are you?

zionstaar75:
the most sensible comment on this thread

Thanks for the compliment.

thesicilian:
There's no global timeline for achievement. We all have separate destinies and missions in life.

This thread should have been closed after this comment.
This guy settled this problem

If your family does not have money your name is sorry but if your family have money everything you can achieve by the age of 20 for Nigeria life in a stone you go crack rock tire

Devynecheeh:

Nice point..

Thank you Sir!!!

If your family does not have money your name is sorry but if your family have money everything you can achieve by the age of 20 but for Nigeria life na stone you go crack rock tire

You dey mind the riff-raff. If police see am, call am yahoo boy him go pick offence...

Richdee1:


Just see this early morning idiot roaming round Nairaland.. If say as u talk na so e dey happen, every secondary school student for be baller na.. 10 million at age 20?? In this buhari era?
Everyman with e own kettle

At age 20, a man should be focus on his career , his hustle or how he is going to make money in the long run without killing anyone, kidnapping anyone or scamming anyone.
At age 20, be prayerful and remember God because they are just too many village people out there who do not want to see you succeed.
At age 20, breakoff is expected- the woman you are dating today might leave you or you might leave the woman, so do not kill yourself yourself or get yourself depressed if the relationship does not work. Learn from it and move on. Plus if you cant give your mum or any female relative a huge amount of money, then do not the same for a gf.
At age 20, dress well, always wear a deodorant , brush your teeth, cut your hair and keep up with your appearance because first impression do matter
At age 20, start saving money and be financially smart. If you hammer money, do not spend all your money on food, clothes , iphone 12, jewelry, friends , women and so on. You can buy land, or car - buy something tangible that can help you in the long run.
At age 20, if you do not have a job- Think a skill that can fetch you money now or the future. Think outside of the box
At age 20, there is not shame in working for a honest wages but work smart.

With Yahoo or without Yahoo pls be specific..