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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by CAPSLOCKED: 6:06am On Dec 10, 2020
emmaodet:
Which of the jumokes abeg? Based in lagos?
YUP. SHE'S BASED IN EVERY MAN'S BEDROOM NOW.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by jornwhite: 6:31am On Dec 10, 2020
oyalunasamuel:

I doubt you read to understand




what is there to understand, that you were in love or that you chose to be a fool in love.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by noble87(m): 6:36am On Dec 10, 2020
What a world
oyalunasamuel:
Mine was a very terrible experience...OK this is how it happened I noticed she had a frequent whatsapp phone call with someone so I asked who the person was and she said that he was just a friend. I checked her message with the guy and everything had been deleted. It was then I suspected a fowl play.
I begged her to tell me the truth so I don’t get to find out myself and she kept denying. Well I took the phone with her consent and retrieved all her deleted WhatsApp messages for a year through the database of the phone and restored the message she could believe this was possible and that I could do it... damn It was one of the most painful memory I hold in my entire life. I found out at some point that she was pregnant for this same guy, who was even a married man with kids and she even took 40k from him to abort the baby. Same time she told me she was pregnant and I was responsible. I found out series of sex chat messages nude exchange with different guys I couldn’t believe my eyes, like this is the girl I was gonna make my wife...

I often hear different opinions and perspectives on privacy of a partners phone. But take for a second and imagine I never found out those messages I would have married a wolf thinking it was a sheep.

Well I forgave her after that and wanted us to continue our relationship because I thought it was easier to fix a leaking roof than demolish and entire building all because of a leaking roof. But I was wrong. She never changed. Well it’s all in the past now.

In retrospect I fear women they hold secrets you can never imagine.
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Franklydes(m): 6:40am On Dec 10, 2020
She was chatting her ex boyfriend's friend and told him she was on her way to see him and spend the night but she told me she was going to see her mum.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 6:46am On Dec 10, 2020
BigBrother9ja:

If you don't know something, you should quiet to learn or just ask questions.
Reading someone's WhatsApp, Facebook etc is as easy as picking going through your friends timeline on Facebook...

I am quiet now. Kindly elucidate, I am begging.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Godsown0: 6:48am On Dec 10, 2020
Professorcplus:
Always no that nobody holy forget those innocenti. There's this church girl that always act holy both reality and social media, always posting Bible quote. So she is fund of asking me to on hotspot for her, she sometimes ask me if I have gospel song or video. Me kuku tell her is either Davido or Wizkid. Each time we are watching film together on my phone, she just skip anywhere scene there is nudity. I follow bb9ja here and I asked her about it only to say she hate the show. Well I just respected her holiness and grove on.

But one day, she came as usual for small data. I saw her unlock pin, so she left her phone beside me and left. I can't explain the demon that took over me. I unlock her phone, enter Whatsapp, the screen page hit me off guard sex group and porn video. Just go to galary and screenshot, my brother and sister, what I say made me collapsed.
... Horney maid with houseboy 1. ...10.... downloading... 65%
Bleep! With ur data,,, u don truely suffer grin

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 6:58am On Dec 10, 2020
emmaodet:

Which of the jumokes abeg? Based in lagos?

Noooooo Akure.

I would have posted her pic and her chats with guys , but it is too childish couples that I still want her to succeed maritally

In one of her chats, her friend ex husband was telling her to come and meet him in joint, around 10:30 in the night, when I forced her to call her friend, her friend asked her ,how did she get her ex husband number and what she was doing with it, yet she insisted that it mere chats stuff and not see it as bad idea.

Which good man will accept that from his woman?

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by thatsleepboy1: 8:09am On Dec 10, 2020
JoeEeL:


Jesu. U mean am?

Ya
e don tey but I no know the year in particular but no be this year. the guy (her husband) dey jail.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by emmaodet: 8:18am On Dec 10, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


YUP. SHE'S BASED IN EVERY MAN'S BEDROOM NOW.

grin grin

CAPSLOCKED how is family bro?
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Mindgame404(f): 8:19am On Dec 10, 2020
khingTony:
Only insecure people go through their partner's phone

A Wise man once said "She's not your girlfriend is just your turn" and another said "the fact that she's your wife does not mean she loves you "

So if she's not loyal, you can never make her be, and if you sense any sign of cheating, just follow your instinct, accept the harsh reality and move on. Don't check her phone, because you may just end up killing your self.

Peace
so what will you say made you quit.... something like I just felt she is cheating so I japa lol
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by emmaodet: 8:21am On Dec 10, 2020
Fussion1000:


Noooooo Akure.

I would have posted her pic and chats with guys , but it is too childish couples that I still want her to succeed maritally

In one of chats, her friend ex husband was telling her to come and meet him in joint, around 10:30 in the night, when I forced her to call her friend, her friend asked her ,how did she get her ex husband number and what she was you doing with it, yet she insisted that it mere chats stuff and not see it as bad idea.

Which good man will accept that from his woman?

Hmmmmmmmm

Bro, i rest my case
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Fvckhypocrite(f): 8:28am On Dec 10, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:



Lol this one no dey town sha grin

Nah one politician name be dat,

He lie alot, so whenever you drop lamba dem go relate yoy with his name


And also his name is lai which have the same sound with lie so people use dat logic also wink
Hmmm agba
It is well
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 8:47am On Dec 10, 2020
Jennifer89:


how can it be done?

Reach me on

Dami.ojo@yahoo.com

I will drop their contacts for you there.

But make sure your mind and heart can carry what so ever you find
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 8:48am On Dec 10, 2020
success10:


Please pm me...
I wanna snoop on someone

Reach me here dami.ojo@yahoo.com
I will drop their contacts for you there
But make sure your mind and heart can carry what so ever you find
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 10, 2020
lordally:


Please I need help on these...my brother wants to monitor his GF WhatsApp chats

Reach me here dami.ojo@yahoo.com
I will drop their contacts for you there
But make sure your mind and heart can carry what so ever you find
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 8:50am On Dec 10, 2020
BigBrother9ja:

Your guy be mumu be that.
If you like, pay dollars for hacking apps, u go just waste money... WE DONE UPGRADE cheesy

Unrepentant cheat.. Don't worry you will surely fall in love just one day. Mark my words
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by MrHighSea: 8:50am On Dec 10, 2020
abimic:

Do not over work yourself checking a partner's phone, that thing you are looking for, you would find, even for flimsiest excuse. Women cheat, one's partner would not be the first, and who would cheat would cheat and still keep clean records. I have lots of female friends, plenty, and those that want to cheat do that well without been caught. Infact, my married female friend told me how she dated two guys when she was single, she was serious with the two, but did not see a future with one, and as things would go, the one she wanted proposed, and that was it, she moved. Just grow yourself so high that no woman would cheat on you, and when she does and she is caught, she loses and the man would not be thinking of suicide, depression and creating nairaland threads up and down. Back to your scenario, remember i said, grow yourself so high, if your woman cheats, let her go if caught, a cheating woman cannot hide for long if you are a sharp guy, she would be caught even without checking her phone, her attitude would give her off if you take note of things easily.
plenty gbosa to you.

you don't need to check phone.

attitude. simple.

when caught, show her the exit.
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 10, 2020
peppermint7:

How sure are you of the current one now angry

You don't expect me to start another relationship in two weeks..

Besides I don't think I will be ready for that even in five years
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by SILENTandSMART2: 9:01am On Dec 10, 2020
Fvckhypocrite:
Hmmm agba
It is well


smiley smiley smiley
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:06am On Dec 10, 2020
So many things can happen within a space of time
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:08am On Dec 10, 2020
Weedee:
You go just waste your money. Person wey say e go track phone for me. till today I no know weda them follow tiff am with the phone too.
you did not do your research properly
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:10am On Dec 10, 2020
intruder15:


How can one retrieve deleted WhatsApp messages
whatsapp database
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:19am On Dec 10, 2020
picklighthouse:


Please i want to know how to retrieve deleted WhatsApp messages. Never knew it was possible. For a whole year? I have a lot to learn o.
through WhatsApp database

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:25am On Dec 10, 2020
femmoy:



are you for real? please connect me with one trusted guy that can help me do it.
are you in Lagos l
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 9:26am On Dec 10, 2020
Kondomatic:
There will be no room for that because I don't think I will "date" who I will marry.



You know, people make the mistake of thinking that dating will help one to know who they are going to marry better. This rarely works but we keep trying.

When you start dating someone who likes you very much and you like the person a little, you will pay attention to things they say to know the type of partner they want.

You will then pretend to be that person.


If I want to date a woman who is difficult to date, I will plant the seed of friendship first and nurture it well.


Being her friend will help me to find out why she's difficult to get. I will pass if she's in a relationship.

But if she's not in a relationship then I will find out the kinda man she wants and gradually she will start seeing that guy in me.


It usually ends in "How did we get here".
It has high success rate.


That's what people do while dating a person they want to marry. You will hint them your intention unknowingly and they will hide their ugly part until you're married.


I will study whoever I will marry from a distance, as a friend of course.


If she's the right one tor, if she's the wrong one tor.


To say "I no do again" no dey hard me.

People cheated when there was no internet.


Hmmmm WOW!!!! this Is nice. I've learnt something new today. We live to learn everyday. Although people change overtime but this Is a brilliant Idea.....

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Kennyfancy(m): 9:30am On Dec 10, 2020
chibwike:
How much did they charge?
whatsapp or Facebook
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 10, 2020
noisy45:
She was fucking 9 other guys plus me I discovered when I snoop on her Facebook and WhatsApp chat. Come and see how guys were complimenting her pvssy and ass. I nearly died of heart attack

lol 1001 way to die.
guys don see things for this life o.
my own told me she is in church on Tuesday, i use a random number to call her 30 min after. only to be hearing her ringtone and a nigga's voice. ha! e dey pain person no be small.

going into relationship with your heart in this social media era is like suicide.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 10:43am On Dec 10, 2020
IamGreen1:


I understand you since I'm a lady like them I am just entertaining myself with some ladies stupidity and their unhealthy obsession with guys. Trust me when I tell you that as a married lady that I'm it's fun to know that they do behind their phones.

I'm 100% sure your husband Is a well to do guy and a father christmas to the female gender. They are definitely hovering around him like bees because of what they want to "BENEFIT" not that they really likes him or they are Into him like that. Even you yourself Is not an exemption. It's extremely hard, I repeat It's very hard to see a "Nigerian Women/Ladies" hovering around a Male Gender without anything tangible to extract from him. Let your husband have financial Issues which I don't pray for such thing and see how they will disappear and fades away Into thin Air lol. Know this and be free......

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 10:52am On Dec 10, 2020
Nonexistent:
I was dating her, a long distance one, wanted to marry her so I sent a PI behind her back and the result was terrible. I already knew they were all oloshos and had planned to overlook if result was less that 50% bad but the result was 99% bad. I decided on a PI because she liked attention and yet claimed she wasn't seeing any man at all which sounded odd to me.

Abeg no kill me with laughter.......

Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by tiffanyfan(f): 11:03am On Dec 10, 2020
Ojuri20:


Why she quote you? Is there something fishing somewhere?



Nothing is fishing o, she quoted someone on my post and I was like wtf...I don't even know this person. What I know is that all na cruise �
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Sammyimpostor: 12:33pm On Dec 10, 2020
I'm coming back
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Weedee(m): 12:42pm On Dec 10, 2020
I'm a techie myself, but I just had to '''trust''' someone with a job and He didn't disappoint. How long you feel say the money last am? I sure say that same day e don blow am finish na. No big deal bro.
Kennyfancy:
you did not do your research properly

grin grin My Gees, e been pain me o. but e don pass sha.
lordally:


grin grin grin grin. guy laf don kill me for her o hhahaaahaah

peppermint7:

Omoh grin grin

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