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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by OROSUNBOLB(m): 3:13pm On Dec 09, 2020
I discovered she was dating her supposedly friend's husband !

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by mkpurumma090(f): 3:18pm On Dec 09, 2020
oyalunasamuel:
It’s simple just google it.

don't create heart break for yourself o

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 3:28pm On Dec 09, 2020
NiklauseFred:
Guys share urs.I don't actually have any experiences .

U dey lie
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by KinzyeWriter(m): 3:29pm On Dec 09, 2020
Kondomatic:
I don't check people's phone anyhow, and if at all I'd check.

It will be the gallery and I avoid whatsapp and camera folders. What I don't know cannot hurt me.


I remember one day like that, I came to lag and lodged with babe in one hotel. She asked for my phone later in the night and I willingly gave it to her.


She checked everywhere and found nothing and then gave me her own.

I pressed the power button to lock it, placed it on the table and continued watching the football game I was watching.


I no get that strength.

She later asked for my Facebook password and I also gave it to her. She type different keywords in the inbox search box and found nothing.


Satisfied, she turned to me and asked why I wasn't checking her own.


"Because I trust you" I lied

I just don't want to check, it isn't my thing, secondly she obviously swept everywhere clean before coming since she knew she was going to check mine.


Later gave me her Facebook password via whatsapp.


Days later, she was like "Babe, I know you won't understand my chat with that guy last night so I want to explain.... He's....


I was like which guy?


" The one I chatted with on Facebook last night"

Told her that I haven't checked her Facebook for once and she decided not to tell me about the guy.


I no come this life come stress myself.

I know what I wanted in the ladies that I have been with and I was cool as long as I was getting 'em.


And now that I can get those things without a relationship, I have decided to just be on my own.

I no like stress wey no go bring money.


2021 Resolution. I pray for this kain maturity. Ah swear.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by TheRealestGuy(m): 3:31pm On Dec 09, 2020
Everyone posting what they found.

Now question is, you yourself that did the checking, was your hand clean at the time?

I leave you to ponder over this.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 3:34pm On Dec 09, 2020
abimic:

Do not over work yourself checking a partner's phone, that thing you are looking for, you would find, even for flimsiest excuse. Women cheat, one's partner would not be the first, and who would cheat would cheat and still keep clean records. I have lots of female friends, plenty, and those that want to cheat do that well without been caught. Infact, my married female friend told me how she dated two guys when she was single, she was serious with the two, but did not see a future with one, and as things would go, the one she wanted proposed, and that was it, she moved. Just grow yourself so high that no woman would cheat on you, and when she does and she is caught, she loses and the man would not be thinking of suicide, depression and creating nairaland threads up and down. Back to your scenario, remember i said, grow yourself so high, if your woman cheats, let her go if caught, a cheating woman cannot hide for long if you are a sharp guy, she would be caught even without checking her phone, her attitude would give her off if you take note of things easily.


i like ur mentality, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion, i think a man needs to think to be rich not only because of his wife and kids but himself and other, if you can be motoring ur business against rivar, i think its more important to look after ur wife and kids, ofcourse you have mindset already to become single father if, so u dnt need to worry even if she brings someone pregnancy for you to father.

Oga woman needs so many tins in relationship and not only money alone, believing woman will worship you wen u rich makes you hallucinating sir.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by mkpurumma090(f): 3:38pm On Dec 09, 2020
TheRealestGuy:
Everyone posting what they found.

Now question is, you yourself that did the checking, was your hand clean at the time?

I leave you to ponder over this.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by jornwhite: 3:39pm On Dec 09, 2020
oyalunasamuel:
Mine was a very terrible experience...OK this is how it happened I noticed she had a frequent whatsapp phone call with someone so I asked who the person was and she said that he was just a friend. I checked her message with the guy and everything had been deleted. It was then I suspected a fowl play.
I begged her to tell me the truth so I don’t get to find out myself and she kept denying. Well I took the phone with her consent and retrieved all her deleted WhatsApp messages for a year through the database of the phone and restored the message she could believe this was possible and that I could do it... damn It was one of the most painful memory I hold in my entire life. I found out at some point that she was pregnant for this same guy, who was even a married man with kids and she even took 40k from him to abort the baby. Same time she told me she was pregnant and I was responsible. I found out series of sex chat messages nude exchange with different guys I couldn’t believe my eyes, like this is the girl I was gonna make my wife...

I often hear different opinions and perspectives on privacy of a partners phone. But take for a second and imagine I never found out those messages I would have married a wolf thinking it was a sheep.

Well I forgave her after that and wanted us to continue our relationship because[b] I thought it was easier to fix a leaking roof than demolish and entire building all because of a leaking roof.[/b] But I was wrong. She never changed. Well it’s all in the past now.

In retrospect I fear women they hold secrets you can never imagine.



What the correlation between a leaking roof a d a house demolition. so assuming the baby compose/feign naa so you for marry am ... then 1yr after you start disturbing our hears with, these is not my main moniker i open these new bullshit to blah blah
the signs are alway there buh people chose to ignore for various stupid reasons ... later they say marriage is bad.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Laideabdulahi: 3:39pm On Dec 09, 2020
Professorcplus:
Always no that nobody holy forget those innocenti. There's this church girl that always act holy both reality and social media, always posting Bible quote. So she is fund of asking me to on hotspot for her, she sometimes ask me if I have gospel song or video. Me kuku tell her is either Davido or Wizkid. Each time we are watching film together on my phone, she just skip anywhere scene there is nudity. I follow bb9ja here and I asked her about it only to say she hate the show. Well I just respected her holiness and grove on.

But one day, she came as usual for small data. I saw her unlock pin, so she left her phone beside me and left. I can't explain the demon that took over me. I unlock her phone, enter Whatsapp, the screen page hit me off guard sex group and porn video. Just go to galary and screenshot, my brother and sister, what I say made me collapsed.
... Horney maid with houseboy 1. ...10.... downloading... 65%

I dont doubt you.
Same physicalpresentation to me.
But when we got close and talking. i found out she had a guy she kisses and always had hot romance (no sex tho) with.
she broke up later on. cos baba never see honeyland enter.
I took advantage, and she stucked to me. and boom. she cooks for me and take to work, i go there eat (after mylasgidi run around and interviews), the rest is history inside her oga's 24hr lonely office.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by bigcee(m): 3:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
emkz:
Hmm
grin grin
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by NiklauseFred(m): 3:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
Sally97:



Yes and your mother is the most useless of them all


Why are you insulting my mom?

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by 1EmmyKay: 4:00pm On Dec 09, 2020
abimic:

Do not over work yourself checking a partner's phone, that thing you are looking for, you would find, even for flimsiest excuse. Women cheat, one's partner would not be the first, and who would cheat would cheat and still keep clean records. I have lots of female friends, plenty, and those that want to cheat do that well without been caught. Infact, my married female friend told me how she dated two guys when she was single, she was serious with the two, but did not see a future with one, and as things would go, the one she wanted proposed, and that was it, she moved. Just grow yourself so high that no woman would cheat on you, and when she does and she is caught, she loses and the man would not be thinking of suicide, depression and creating nairaland threads up and down. Back to your scenario, remember i said, grow yourself so high, if your woman cheats, let her go if caught, a cheating woman cannot hide for long if you are a sharp guy, she would be caught even without checking her phone, her attitude would give her off if you take note of things easily.
this is true. Merely studying a behavioural attitude of a cheating girl i'd know. Checking her fone is just compounding thinking.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Raychee(f): 4:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
mrdharkchild:


U look good, though

Thanks smiley

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Raychee(f): 4:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
Edusouls:
Noo rather reverse is the case, for checking a woman’s phone

Ha! Are you sure

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 09, 2020
femmoy:



are you for real? please connect me with one trusted guy that can help me do it.

Pls reach me on dami.ojo@yahoo.com
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 09, 2020
picklighthouse:


You hacked his Whatsapp? How is that possible? How does it work?

Reach me on Pls reach me on dami.ojo@yahoo.com
I will give you their contact
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 4:15pm On Dec 09, 2020
Heroclitus:





I go like sabi them... Wetin be their moniker

Pls reach me on dami.ojo@yahoo.com
Will give you their contact
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 4:16pm On Dec 09, 2020
ShugaFly:



How do I get in touch please

Pls reach me on dami.ojo@yahoo.com

I will give you their contacts
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by SILENTandSMART2: 4:19pm On Dec 09, 2020
Lamanii22:


Ohh woow... Too much


abi nah :’( cry cry cry
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Itzwilliamrex: 4:20pm On Dec 09, 2020
HotPoundedYam:
respect people privacy
Werey
My own na my babe no dey gree me Bleep for night ,sex too dey tire her but if you check her browser history na lesbian sex after work
Squirting lesbian girls
Hot sex after work
She's so addicted to porn that I feel she's addicted to masturbation
So when I go need sex she don already masturbate nothing remain again that's how we'd quarrel till we sleep.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by TheControversy: 4:29pm On Dec 09, 2020
paulolee:
last time I did such, I found out dt she gat anoda serious nigge bt wat saved her was dt the gee was a popular rich guy, i saw alerts of more than 200k n had even promised to rise a new 300k for her to startup her own makeup business...
I jus code like I saw nothing even if it broke me BT i removed feelings n love from d relationship n stated coming up with fresh formats to join chop dt free moni..
she leta broke up with me when she discovered dt am all abt d madt sex n dt free moni which she was always borrowimg me whenever I asked..
I ended up with gains like a selfish bitch in dt relationship n even with better moni in my aza than i started with but my only regret was dt i planned collecting even more than dt 300k for my numerous "ghost projects" but stopped at around 230k b4 she code.....
Ruth ur fada abeegi, even if u try by adding small change 4 my aza...

Paulolee!!!
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by SILENTandSMART2: 4:32pm On Dec 09, 2020
femmoy:



are you for real? please connect me with one trusted guy that can help me do it.


bro nothing like that,


haha, so dem don pay you yaa monthly salary wey you wan dash out abi ?


you wan enter a whole whatsapp like rhe bamboo house wey dey yaa village abi grin grin

omo a fool will remain a fool sha,

scammers self no say december don come,

it is possible but not dat easy as the eleribuu girl dey talk about ham, don't believe dat eleribuu,


if thet tell you something use your brain nah, we're not talking about hacking nairaland nah, grin


so if somebody tell you say he go hack instagram, twitter or Facebook for you you go drop money abi, e be like say you dem don give you promotion ,


for this niger nothing like hacking whatsapp chat, you think nah beans abi, bro use your sense nah, a whole app wey billons of people dey use, shey the eleribuu girl go tell you to drop billons of naira, how much is your own net worth plus your papa own self ? grin


aswear bro, i hate it when somebody is not smart, she go tell you say drop 50k eleribuu you go drop,


truly a fool will remain a fool, grin, I'm juss laughing here ,grin , hahahaha, so you for ask them celebrity dm also grin, mumu everywhere grin

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by onespecial(m): 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
Sally97:



Yes and your mother is the most useless of them all


You are always quick to bring in our Mothers once any guy stings your type.

At least, we are sure our mothers were totally different when they were young ladies compared to young ladies of these days.

Our mothers never had the opportunity of using social media to keep multiple relationships and sex partners.

Our mothers never allowed or pushed guys to take drugs and herbs to last 10hrs on them despite being entanglements outside wedlock.

Our mothers had shame and didn't crave to taste every dick that passes bye.

Our mothers were not influenced and carried away with social media life that makes present young ladies jump from one man to another.

Our mothers are mostly in one relationship, took a soulmate unlike what is obtainable now. Is a soulmate still a modern day word for ladies now ? No.

Our Mothers were and are contented unlike slots we have now.

Don't get me wrong, there are still few ladies who are disciplined and principled but our present ladies can never be related to our mothers in any way.


I can go on and on.

Most of our mothers were married virgins, now to marry a virgin will be like a miracle granted after years of fasting and praying.


No dignity in most modern day ladies until they are used and have no grace remaining in them, then they come to settle for who will share in the consequences and implications of their lifestyle. Only then do most ladies resign to humility and maturity.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Olatlaccon(m): 4:45pm On Dec 09, 2020
DisLifeSha:
No man or woman is straight
I tell you...we all cheaters

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by sammuell(m): 4:56pm On Dec 09, 2020
Sally97:



Yes and your mother is the most useless of them all
Yr comment is very disgusting

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by NwaforIgbo: 5:03pm On Dec 09, 2020
My own be say... I was just lead on.....
I was there thinking I was the one without knowing that I was just deceiving myself....

The gal ad a date somewher in her former residence..

I suspected her when she started visiting the place every weekend and come back on sunday...

At some point she stylishly saved my name in such a way that it would not raise an eye brow. Then she usually switch off her pjone when she's goes there.. I started suspecting her sha.. Checked her call log and found out that she has been calling the dude who she told me was her ex (even though she wouldn't call her ex)...

We broke up months ago though, but just recently, she gave me her phone to help me set up her gmail for her, and I discovered that the dude was the one that gave her the phone.. How do I know, I saw his google account on the phone. I didn't even bother myself telling her, I just noded and said to myself "so I was right all along.."....

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nancy1986: 5:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
Life is vanity
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by chibwike(m): 5:21pm On Dec 09, 2020
Poshriel:



exactly what i found out two weeks ago when i had some tech guy help me monitor his phone.. his whatsapp chats were practically dropping on my own phone. i saw terrible things

pls guys and babes try to monitor your spouses phones.. these days it could be done remotely even without being inthe same location.

the guys are here on nairaland, they are the best in the biz. you can save your self that late hour regrets like i did
How much did they charge?
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by femmoy(m): 5:29pm On Dec 09, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:



bro nothing like that,


haha, so dem don pay you yaa monthly salary wey you wan dash out abi ?


you wan enter a whole whatsapp like rhe bamboo house wey dey yaa village abi grin grin

omo a fool will remain a fool sha,

scammers self no say december don come,

it is possible but not dat easy as the eleribuu girl dey talk about ham, don't believe dat eleribuu,


if thet tell you something use your brain nah, we're not talking about hacking nairaland nah, grin


so if somebody tell you say he go hack instagram, twitter or Facebook for you you go drop money abi, e be like say you dem don give you promotion ,


for this niger nothing like hacking whatsapp chat, you think nah beans abi, bro use your sense nah, a whole app wey billons of people dey use, shey the eleribuu girl go tell you to drop billons of naira, how much is your own net worth plus your papa own self ? grin


aswear bro, i hate it when somebody is not smart, she go tell you say drop 50k eleribuu you go drop,


truly a fool will remain a fool, grin, I'm juss laughing here ,grin , hahahaha, so you for ask them celebrity dm also grin, mumu everywhere grin


your Papa and Mama na dem be oloribu, foolish he-goat.

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Hassanmaye(m): 5:34pm On Dec 09, 2020
paulolee:
last time I did such, I found out dt she gat anoda serious nigge bt wat saved her was dt the gee was a popular rich guy, i saw alerts of more than 200k n had even promised to rise a new 300k for her to startup her own makeup business...
I jus code like I saw nothing even if it broke me BT i removed feelings n love from d relationship n stated coming up with fresh formats to join chop dt free moni..
she leta broke up with me when she discovered dt am all abt d madt sex n dt free moni which she was always borrowimg me whenever I asked..
I ended up with gains like a selfish bitch in dt relationship n even with better moni in my aza than i started with but my only regret was dt i planned collecting even more than dt 300k for my numerous "ghost projects" but stopped at around 230k b4 she code.....
Ruth ur fada abeegi, even if u try by adding small change 4 my aza...
Real alpha G welcome to the club guy

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Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 09, 2020
chibwike:
How much did they charge?

6500
If you need their contact get me on
Dami.ojo@yahoo.com
Re: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Hassanmaye(m): 5:36pm On Dec 09, 2020
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
Only pussy ass niggarr check a ladies phone
Fuckkk and move on
Hahha haha wicked boy grin

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