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Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Jodha(f): 11:31pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
odinson1: Yhu didn't even read the post...smh 16 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Queenserah26(f): 11:32pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Well said Nazgul: 1 Like |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by paul100(m): 11:36pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
tobechi74:She is not a hoe.Read before commenting.Her type is rare.Someone that can assist you,pray and fast for you and encourage you and above all,stay with you when you have no job,that is a Wife material. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Nazgul: 11:43pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Jodha:Who does that? The way you girls give out suggestions is so funny, he'll marry her and disappear. The young man is looking for a way to secure the woman, and the only way to do that is by getting her pregnant. Leaving her like that for a journey he has no idea of how long he'll stay is very dangerous. Knowing how horney you ladies can get. So rather than cheat and get pregnant for some random guy wouldn't it be wise for the husband to plant his seed inside her and assume responsibility by supporting her emotionally and financially? Besides, the pregnancy would keep her busy, so there's no need for him to worry about her cheating on him. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by mrblessed(m): 6:58am On Dec 10, 2020 |
People like to create problem for themselves where there is none. I think your cousin is no longer interested in the lady and is courting a ruse, matter how unreasonable to dump her. At least he should be man enough to boldly state his intention, instead of playing hide and seek with her. To treat this lady this way, I think, is very unfair for someone who has stood by you, supported, encouraged, and prayed for you. Come on, the talk of uncertainty of life abroad is complete nonsense, because nobody has the supernatural ability to predict the future. But that doesn't mean we should surrender to the principle of determinism and refuse to plan for the future. There are numerous ways to go about it: engage her and see her people. If it is possible, pay her bride price and let her become your wife legally before traveling. If he fails to marry this lady, the loss is his. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Innobee99(m): 7:05am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Disappointed:What for exactly? |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by oluwole70525: 7:22am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Who finds a good, supportive and loving person and still asks questions? The answer is obvious. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by AFvckingAlpha(m): 1:31pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
The fvck Niggarr!! |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Vixlot: 1:31pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
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Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by skillmyman(m): 1:34pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
your cousin should marry her. what is he waiting for? he is lucky to get someone that believes in him and supports him that much. many men a looking out for such women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by grim33(m): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
It always ends in tears... MGTOW GUYS MGTOW no1concept: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Louisboy22(m): 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
I will advise ur cousin to marry her because those kind of girls are not common in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by GoldHorse(m): 1:37pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Your "cousin" is sounding like an ungrateful individual. To even have the thoughts of forgetting someone like this lady is not only selfish but devilish. na only him go first travel abroad and leave a partner behind? He better state wetin dey hin mind all along. 16 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by blackfase(m): 1:37pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
It's clear the girl loves ur cuz, but does ur cuz truly love her? Cos real love conquers all things, distance or no distance. There brotha, lies a simple response to ur queshon... 7 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by duduade: 1:39pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
They can do court marriage before he leaves na |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by ArticleBeast: 1:39pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
If your cousin leave ghat girl, he will suffer and toil day and night with nothing to show for it. There is a grace upon her life that will torment him if he does her bad. Warn your cousin 3 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by sogud(m): 1:39pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
no1concept: I thought is sumtin serious sef, u allow me waste my mb readin dis......u n ur cousin re ungrateful if he dint marry d girl u pipo re mad sef 5 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Revolva(m): 1:42pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Your cousin go shock..say another man go de bang her soon when he travels out the best thing is to get her pregnant...now and hold her for work if he truly loves her |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by anochuko01(m): 1:42pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Your cousin should cut all ties with you and marry that girl! 5 months of no pay due to pandemic, my so called gf who wouldn't stop talking about how we were gonna raise our children, one day told me to stop calling her "iyawo", say nobody dash me. Let your cousin do sharp court wedding, impregnate the girl and travel. Before pikin reach three months, he must have been capable to taking the wife along. If things never pure by then, let him come back and nack her another pregnancy 6 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
We all know how majority of these arrangements end. Yet, many people here are advising the guy to get her pregnant. She should get pregnant and halt her life for a man who we aren't even sure will stick to her once he gets there? Uhm. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by capricornlady: 1:48pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Nonsense adviser.. It's obvious you didn't read the post. Read again so you see how a woman stood by a man all through, which is obviously a rare thing that can be done consistently by a man for a woman odinson1:[/s] 3 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Lol. He should leave her and travel. I will introduce the girl to another nice guy. He got a job abroad, not that he is going to hustle. He should wife her with court marriage and go there. It will not take time for him to bring her in immediately as she is the spouse. She can apply for jobs there which she will likely get. For abroad, 2 is better than one especially a supportive partner. And if you will not marry her now, do not tell her to wait 4 u. Just break her heart now and be done with it. 8 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by DeOTR: 1:49pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
I traveled to the US for just a year, I had to take my girlfriend along. Your Cousin is irresponsible. I'd advise the lady to dump his sorry ass first. 15 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 1:50pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
no1concept:with 50k kpere, you can do court wedding. Its better your cousin marries his friend than start over with a stranger over there 1 Like |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Ghostmode2two(m): 1:55pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Your cousin don't love the girl. 4 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Wondermumsy(f): 1:56pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
the way your write up take go I sure say na your bro go bleep up las las.good girls are hard to come by this days 8 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Afolashade00(f): 2:01pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Jodha: Smile! This story reminds me of me. Well, we are no more together and the reason is what I dont know till date. Since he relocated, everything changed. I wish her all the best tho, it's quite painful when one does such things and still get disappointed. It is well! 10 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Ifeoluwaposimi: 2:01pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Nazgul: Lol @ she wouldn't be able to cheat cos she would be very busy talking care of their child |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by andyanders: 2:02pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:Exactly. If the cousin should even thought ending up such wonderful lady despite her input, heaven will not forgive him. Op,why can't ur cousin encourage the girl to start applying for job same country and if he gets there, he can equally help her get one and she joins him. 2 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Afolashade00: Someone better will come your way, don't stop being who you are 2 Likes |
Re: Should My Cousin Continue With Her Or End It Mutually Right Now? by Temi231(f): 2:05pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
My own question is what link link did he used to get the job in Scotland from Nigeria? Thank you 2 Likes |
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