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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by kodix(m): 10:56pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Is not you that suppose to love a man,a man suppose to love while you submit to him so get d gist and don't make that mistake,and he has to have something a least to show you,do put your self in trouble bcs you will regret it. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by hify9935(f): 9:28am On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by manos(m): 3:42pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ojuu4u: I clearly mentioned that the guy in my experience was earning nothing when the cook married him. Infact let me add to it for clarity sake, so that you would be aware, he had no direction at the time, he started with teaching and kept on progressing till he became a professor, all the time being funded by his wife. Also, The OP clearly mentioned that the guy in question has been trying and failing at different ventures which shows that he is not lazy, just that he has met some bad luck in life. We are quick to label people lazy and unproductive just like our president forgetting that in life despite all the hard work, the environment we find ourselves and luck is sometimes a factor. Someone who has not made it in life at 35, can not be labelled a failure except he chooses to give up. I can never call anyone who is still trying new things and pursuing his or her dreams a failure. That guy has not chosen to give up that is why he is not shying away from getting married to her knowing fully well that she is in a better financial state than he is. With her little financial and emotional support he can do better. If he tells himself (what 90% of nairaland is suggesting), that she is not in his league and that he should keep waiting for a breakthrough, it might come, but it might also not come. Tell me, if you were drowning in an a ocean and calling for help and the only person who stretches her hand for help is a lady, would you say that because you are a man, who is supposed to be stonger therefore divinely ordained to save her and hence, you would reject the help and keep swimming indefinitely to your safety? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by ojuu4u(m): 4:19pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
manos: Oga let me tell you reality but may bitter, this life is a race, if you are the middle of the race, you have no time to waste if you want to catch up at the end, the girl in question had tried note than enof for the guy, since tins refused to turn its better to move on, time wait for nobody Mr man |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by manos(m): 5:15pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
ojuu4u: The problem is that you view life as a competition between your peers. But relationship is not a competition, It is a team sport. As long as you are in a relationship you are team player. View it as a relay race instead. you run your lap and pass the baton to your partner, your concern is not if your partner is running as fast as you are while you are running. You focus on your run and do your best while it is your turn. Then pass the baton to your partner and cheer them on to also do their best, the may fall but what matters is that they get up and keep running and moving forward, while you stand by and cheer them on. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by ojuu4u(m): 6:25pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
manos: Dating different from married oga, and on many occasions, women fall victims, if you dnt look bf u leap you shall regret it, wen the hand clock can't reversible again |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Adeplus: 12:25am On Dec 30, 2020 |
jaxxy: You have said it all. You are full of wisdom |
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