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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ipobarethieves: 8:14am On Dec 23, 2020
Srallens:
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It obviously shows you're in the same league with the person she lamented about. Know God, The I Am That I Am and know peace. Your trust in ritualism and being fetish will lead you no where. Get Christ and you will get everything good in your life
show us how candle and all dey use in church is a fetish.Wic Church do u worship?? Ask Ur mother if she Neva bath U with herb.Nonsense
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by EmmySparky(m): 8:14am On Dec 23, 2020
hurryup123:
Hahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahah
your coment made my day..lol
abeg drop your aza make I do Xmas 4 you
u want take me catch cruise ba?..
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Jacksea(m): 8:15am On Dec 23, 2020
run for life ����
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by 400billionman: 8:16am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

Oh, the guy who writes rubbish that he works in Mobil and GT bank.

The guy sounds intelligent in his writings but he is a serial liar.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by simeko(m): 8:18am On Dec 23, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals

oga go back and read what she said,.... u no dey sabi read, the soap she is saying is not a normal black soap and why should he wakeup at a particular time of the time to bath with it.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by simeko(m): 8:23am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

my dear fear not. if he is on nairaland he should listen to this,...there is no other problem solver than Jesus, there is no other way u can get to Jesus then through your knees..

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 8:24am On Dec 23, 2020
benji93:

You need sense. Very simple.
It is true whether you like it or not. White garment churches are evil.
If you like listen if you like don't, do you know how many oboni occultic people in rivers state that worship in those white garment churches, some left after seeking powers.
A yahoo+ boy in my street used a teenage boy for ritual in a white garment church, police came for his arrest he settle them for 1 million naira, ran to Dubai, rented an apartment. The parents of that boy are searching for him.
That boy is just 20 yrs with up to 4 BTC in his account, he just started yahoo I year ago.
Go tell this story to any pastor you know or any reasonable person anywhere in Nigeria and see if they won't tell you to run.
that black soap this occultic people usually use in Nigeria is very evil.
I didn't tell you to seek my opinions but the truth remains.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by bigtt76(f): 8:27am On Dec 23, 2020
Leave the relationship and find a hardworking guy if na preek de hungry you. Don't end up being a statistics of domestic violence.




Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:28am On Dec 23, 2020
Zzor:
Are you living with him? Just quit if you ain't comfortable with what he does.
fear God nowAre you not the one preaching God? Are you not the one looking for born a again? Y advising your fellow ladies like that,Assuming the ladies is her wife,you will tell her to divorce her..it is unfair..Op..you don't know the kinds of dream,the man is having,you said no job,do you expect the man to be looking his life just like that?don't you know whatever he dream come to reality?you can't see it physical,but life become so tough.. Talking from experience.. Be a good girlfriend..forget whatever he does,since he's not attacking you,nor affect your spiritual/physical life..Please support him with prayer and fasting to won the battle, assume,if he's your husband, do you abandon him,because he has a problem?pleas stay with him..thanks..
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:31am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
Sister are you for real
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:35am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:



When I met him he's jobless Not that he's jobless ATM.....
. It's obvious you did not go to school...
If I had said he's got a good job when I met him ,. You would still day I stiuck with him because he got a good job...bitter people..
op..the name you just mention his moniker amazed me oo?sorry for quoting you?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Jbleenk: 8:38am On Dec 23, 2020
Sagefromtheeast:



Please tell me about this spiritual bath in the bible, tell me where Jesus had it or conducted it on others. Also tell me the black soap he used.

Will get back to u I’m a bit busy atm
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by benji93: 8:39am On Dec 23, 2020
Man, you must think you are talking to someone uninformed. The first bolded is quite naive and uninformative. There are occultic people everywhere. I can only refer you to the parable of the weed for that one. I am not talking about all white garment Churches. I am talking about CCC. And i am not even remotely suggesting there are fake prophets cos they abound. Again that's not unexpected. All in all stick to your believes and i'll stick to mine. Let every one of us labour for his salvation as he deems fit. May god guide us.
onyechez:

It is true whether you like it or not. White garment churches are evil.
If you like listen if you like don't, do you know how many oboni occultic people in rivers state that worship in those white garment churches, some left after seeking powers.
A yahoo+ boy in my street used a teenage boy for ritual in a white garment church, police came for his arrest he settle them for 1 million naira, ran to Dubai, rented an apartment. The parents of that boy are searching for him.
That boy is just 20 yrs with up to 4 BTC in his account, he just started yahoo I year ago.
Go tell this story to any pastor you know or any reasonable person anywhere in Nigeria and see if they won't tell you to run.
that black soap this occultic people usually use in Nigeria is very evil.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Kalatium(m): 8:42am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
You guys are not compatible. It will be better you leave him.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 23, 2020
benji93:
Man, you must think you are talking to someone uninformed. The first bolded is quite naive and uninformative. There are occultic people everywhere. I can only refer you to the parable of the weed for that one. I am not talking about all white garment Churches. I am talking about CCC. And i am not even remotely suggesting there are fake prophets cos they abound. Again that's not unexpected. All in all stick to your believes and i'll stick to mine. Let every one of us labour for his salvation as he deems fit. May god guide us.
You can believe in what you want to but this is the last thing I will say.
In every religion : they're things that are for the ordinary believers it is external meant for the public consumption.
Some are for the masters which is internal not meant for the public consumption.
For your information I come from a family of bastist church but no longer going to that church.
Peace

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Psoul(m): 8:56am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

After this modified response, are you still in need of advice on what to do?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Realhommie(m): 9:08am On Dec 23, 2020
fijiano202:
sorry to disappoint you ...Am a celestian and we don't use any Black Soap...don't tarnish The church because your Boyfriend Is stepping out beyond your reach .....

Also your boyfriend is having Bad dreams and you don't know why or Go into fasting and prayers to help him ..
Rather than doing that you are coming online to lament
You think you're talking to 10 year olds, right
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ghettochild(m): 9:19am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
Na police station u fit report that Ooo.
End the relationship..if u are uncomfortable... Dating no b by force
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Fmghewzy(m): 9:22am On Dec 23, 2020
Impregnablefolk:
Can u give me the WHO definition of madness?If not then, be a spectator n stop spreading stupidity. It's not a must 2 comment.

You are a typical example of the mad people am talking about.
You talk bullshit,read what you wrote,does it makes sense to you?

Moreover she appreciated the advice I gave her,I think it is you who doesn't have anything reasonable to say,it is not a must you comment mofo.
Stupid attention seeker.

She asked for advice and I gave her didirin!
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Africanamania: 9:24am On Dec 23, 2020
Cele is outdated, move on,go get a penticostal Christian.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Adesolomon2014(m): 9:39am On Dec 23, 2020
Bola146:
lipsrsealed CCC I don't believe in them, most of their Shepards are asewo and fetish undecided They can use millions to do juju.

Hmm mm, likewise other churches too.
No church especially the ones in nigeria is a saint concerning these things, ask ur pastor who called him to evangelize or have a church of his/her own. Was his calling thru text, email etc
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Adesolomon2014(m): 9:40am On Dec 23, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals

U on point
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by frozen70(f): 9:51am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Only him knows why he is moving from one white church to another chasing an invisible thing

You don't know how far he has been into it and what leads to it

He is comfortable with such lifr and I will advise you start with drawing from his slowly, by the time he knows what you are up to, you are done with him

A guy of his age to be into spiritual life calls for questioning and I don't want you to be the one that will question him

You will get a better person who will be transparent to you
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by wonder233: 9:54am On Dec 23, 2020
Oh please! Stop complaining. If this same guy isn't meeting your financial needs, you won't hesitate to dump him or start sleeping around in his face and let him know how less of a man he is.
How do you think money is made? Stop being a hypocrite and take down this useless post. Everything he does is because of you.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Iorzacalvin(m): 10:05am On Dec 23, 2020
You're just insisting on something very different from what is on ground. Una just like to divert matter for no just cause. The guy in question doesn't use dudu osun soap. And he baths at odd hours specifically in the still hours. It's suspicious in every angle. cool
Kriss216:

Dudu osun doesn't smell nice.
I bathe any time with Dudu osun, the black soap.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 10:06am On Dec 23, 2020
To love is to willingly and totally be willing to change.
When you love someone, "nothing" else matters.
You must accept them first, then, gradually try to change them for better, without force.
Which might also change you too.
Because if such a person dosent change, you end up changing to that person's way.
So, now, its time for you to decide.
He's fetish {fact}
do you love him? {yes/no}
if yes, stay with him, and love him, which means that, you trying to change him is 50/50, you might change him, or he change you.
Know that, that love you give, must change either you, or him.
Or
if you hate the fetish stuff, cut off the relationship, and make it clear to him.
If you hate fetish things so much as you say, dont love him,
he has the tendency to go there again.
Decide once, and apply.
1..Love him, you end up being fetish or he ends up being delivered..
When you choose to love, those re the two possibilites liable to happen, and you must enjoy any one that happens eventually because you know whats obtainable..
Xo to love him means, you will be happy with being a fetish woman or a pentecostal one.
Or
2..End the relationship because you hate or cant stand fetish things or people..
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 23, 2020
What agreement is between light and darkness, if you are what you claim to be?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by zeeprince(m): 10:16am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
well desperate times call for desperate measures I guess, he always dream bad dreams right? Well that might be the bone of contention. Maybe he's trying to get rid of the constant dreams afterall, though as a Muslim I will apply a different strategy to that but we all have our faiths and our beliefs differs ,....saw ur modified comments sha ,not everyone likes washing thier dirty linen in public, next times don't bring it here ,look for an elder or rather still go to his parents if you're familiar with them
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Eclement(m): 10:16am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

Well, you've seen a red flag.., you have to do the needful.

And by the way, your safety is of high importance. I want to assume he's just threatening you, but notwithstanding, you may not want to leave fire on your roof. Can we chat privately?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Eclement(m): 10:18am On Dec 23, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals

Do you even read at all? Or better still, do you read to understand??
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by SeunDobo(m): 10:19am On Dec 23, 2020
scofield114:
i think u are lesbian or a feminist ur always against men

You are right always notice ozzor comment so far
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Oshokalo: 10:26am On Dec 23, 2020
Kingsuave:


Leave the mumu, matter don dey cast for the bobo so she want japa.
After all what the guy must have done for her undecided undecided

I fear who no fear 9ja girls ojere
she stated it.she said he is jobless but his parent is wealthy the only reason she still dey consider the guy
secondly cele no dey use black soap oh,run for ya life

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