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Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by RedPanthar: 7:26pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
shugabasbn: Continue deceiving yourself. Home kor, abroad ni. Get off my mentions. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by telkevog(m): 7:27pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Ten years is enough time for to have worked hard here and make up for your prodigal life. Maybe you are still into dirty deals. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by dandollaz: 7:27pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:You are the one keeping yourself in bondage.some people sell land to send there son to abroad and they are in jail.You are free pls quitely go home your destiny might be waiting for you over there. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Abdanny2000(m): 7:27pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Why not call them so that they will know you are alive, and stop thinking otherwise |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by UDUJ(m): 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: At the boldfaced, you need to break free from those chains. The past is past. You can never move forward in life if you continue living in the past. Go home. They are your family. Yes you wronged them but they will forgive you. That's the only way you can move forward in life. Get out of this dark place you are now. You are depressed and thinking of suicide. Dude be a man, man up and face your demons head on. Go home and beg for forgiveness and you will see that instant relief. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by EricSmallz(m): 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Remember the Story of the Prodigal Son |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by iamJ(m): 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Chimaokigwe:na dem dem |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Trustedpro: 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Guy they've gone pass that stage... Don't think they are where you left them 10years ago. If you had died they'll still Survive without you. After all people invest millions in business yet it fails. So look at yourself as failed project at the moment. Forgive yourself and move on and Seek forgiveness from your family. Nothing is new under the sun...don't contemplate suicide man! |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by cassyrooy(m): 7:28pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:Confront the fear of them resenting you. Your fears are borne out of superficial indignations, they may be reinforced by the way your family will treat you but they may be wiped clean if they accepts that you're a perfectly flawed man and that you take full blame and responsibilities for your mistakes and you're equally committed to effecting a lifestyle change for the better. Good luck, if you can still afford TFare, go home now, whether you arrive before Christmas, on Christmas Day or anytime before the festive's period runs out. Good luck on your reunification with your family! Ga'a n'udo! |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Neddyogu(m): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Ur family may actually be missing u. Go back to them and ask their forgiveness, who knows they may readily give it. But u'd never know until u try. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by OhiOfIhima: 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: Alaaaye! Brace urself up n go home to meet them if you are capable of doing so.. They will be happy to receive you Walahi. Parents doesn't think the way we do sometimes, though you gonna receive some kind of scolding, it a normal things from parents. From there life begin. Sorry bro, because I know you just want a quick way to make fam happy. Pls, go home n meet them. I can do anything to make my family happy. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Yeyenairaland(m): 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
RedPanthar: You're a calamity Why not shut up if you dont have something meaningful to contribute 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Trogge: 7:29pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:. There is always a second chance. Shit happen make it up to them. Your parents loves you |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by RedPanthar: 7:30pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Yeyenairaland: Break your phone. Cmon get lost |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Komu1048(m): 7:30pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: Hey! A whopping ten years no c no call. I might die if I didn't c my mum for 2years n I'm above 33 |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by shugabasbn: 7:31pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
RedPanthar: O mato ye e. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by iamJ(m): 7:31pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Komu1048:wahala dey Nigeria |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by kellz0(m): 7:31pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:are you still in South Africa? |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Depressed101: 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:my brother how much be that self when you nor fit forgive yourself.... Read this true life story of a billionaire who became broke in one day |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by millionboi2: 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:oga we're in d world is it that u are to travel only on Christmas. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by AFONJACOW(m): 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
It's not your fault and stop blaming yourself for your failure or ur inability to liberate your family from poverty despite high hope and expectations... Pick up your pieces and fix it back... All hope are not lost ... For how longer are you going to continue living like that |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by armadeo(m): 7:32pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Your story doesnt add up at all. Sebastine1994: This doesn't sound like someone who's not in touch with his family. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by kellz0(m): 7:33pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:where are you currently? |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: Don't give up my brother. Thank God you have a second chance at life. Hill |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by timstone(m): 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
[quote author=Sebastine1994 post=97360468]When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much. I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs, Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this. I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.[/quote Give us their number so that we can plead on your behalf |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Emoigho: 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
They will be happier if you die, right? Please don't make things worse for them. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by ikdaddy01(m): 7:35pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
If you feel depressed how do you want them to feel. If you feel like taking your life what do you think they ll think of their son las las. As a father, It's better for me that you are alive and free. I will be depressed learning you are in prison in SA no matter the reason. I will be more depressed to hear you took your own life. I will never forgive me. For failing as a father but I will be happy learning you are free and back to 9ja. I will ne happier to see you back home to start afresh as my son. For my age is fast going. My son wouldn't you rather come home let's make our live with you in it 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by electhnd(m): 7:35pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Oluwapluto:do you know the importance of family did u even read the post or you just commented with the headlines....... shior 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by MondayOsunbor(m): 7:36pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
uruba23: tell them the truth and dammed the consequences you can lies so many times but can only tell true once 1 Like |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by ChngedChnges(m): 7:36pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: My brother if I were you, I'd look for a man of God. Allowing my heart to lead me to the one my spirit will agree with (that's if you're a Christian or an Imam if you'rea Muslim), then pour it all on him. I strongly believe God kept them there for a purpose. |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Cutiekatty: 7:37pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: You think by killing yourself you spare your family the shame or what? Your family will never forgive you if you kill yourself, at first you disappointed them by selling drugs they regretted sending you there, now what do you think will happen when you kill yourself? Your parents will regret and course the day you where given birth to. You are a man to even admit you your screw up shows you have changed and ready to make things better. My brother stop letting your shame define you the truth is that we have all made our own mistake and moved on this is life. Try and work harder to show yourself approved and worthy before your parents again don't give... Good luck |
Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by lightwind(m): 7:38pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
And they didn't know you are in Nigeria already, they maybe thinking you are still in the abroad smh...... Man you know wise o. When you know how home is, when you know how pupsy struggled over this money just to send you Obodo Oyibo, you go do drug's?? Well, may the God you serve put smile in you again |
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