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Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Titi03(f): 1:28pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
LadyTianna: You don't need a "census" to face reality madam, How many wives in your environment are solely responsible for chores and childcare in their homes? Even those who don't have maids have at least one live-in relative who helps out around the house. Don't be silly. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Their problem |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 1:37pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Titi03: Lady, why are you talking out of point? The person I originally quoted said that most men today want submissive wives who don't bother about pursuing degrees and careers. That men want a woman who will do everything they say, clean, cook, birth kids, basically a home maker. And I said that women need to pursue their degrees and careers so that they can "bring something to the table apart from their vaginas" as most Nigerian men claim. So why are you fixated on number of women using maids? To be very honest, in my current location and the city I lived in before now, housemaids were not common. So calm down with your exaggeration. Wives use maids, yes. But not majority of Nigerian women. How many can even afford it presently? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Unik3030: 3:43pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
larryking540:God bless you my brother |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Unik3030: 3:46pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
LadyTianna:don't get it twisted,that a woman is submissive doesn't mean she doesn't bring things to the table....it's possible,read about alakija interview n u will understand better. Though I am a kinda guy that doesn't really care about societal standings on some issues but I believe people define happiness in different ways n we should always learn to live with our choices irrespective of the consequences 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Unik3030: 3:49pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Titi03:bro u are wrong on this one |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 3:58pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Unik3030: Okay. What I'd like to know are the things men want women to bring to the table tho. Someone here said money, food, shelter and protection. Is that your stance too? 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by HandsomeBlack: 3:59pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Denique:Very apt. |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Unik3030: 4:03pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
LadyTianna:like seriously it all depends on the individuals involved, different strokes for different folks but the basis is that a lady can b of value(any good definition goes well depending on d guy) n at d same time b submissive |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 4:08pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Unik3030: Many guys never give satisfying answers to the question. Apart from money and sex, most guys don't know what they want in a woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by karkinase(m): 4:49pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
larryking540:Smart woman is the code bro...I dont give a damn about ur degree. I've seen it all. Let's be cool together n will good to go. |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by larryking540: 7:56pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Unik3030: I sabi hustle ,I sabi love ,I wouldn't blame any body for anything,all I need is a loving lady ,degree na just paper ,I had seen numerous Ladies who get nothing upstairs way I help pass exam for university and poly and from there I had to make a better choice when considering a woman as a wife , education is the last thing I will use in personalizing a wife , 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by OGWILLS123: 8:17pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Shortyy: Any way see you on Shiloh 2025 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LINTUNE(m): 6:54am On Dec 28, 2020 |
LadyTianna:understand his point, we are talking about gf here not wife, everyone knows that being a housewife alone is enough contribution to.any home, no sensible man would complain about his "house wife" not contributing anything....he was talking about girlfriends, being in a relationship with an average nigerian gal, are u trying to say, as gf, gals are only expected to offer sex.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 7:45am On Dec 28, 2020 |
LINTUNE: I don't know if you people think I'm speaking French. I understand that the duties of a wife and a girlfriend are different. I'm saying since the woman isn't married to you, what exactly do you people want her to bring to the table. That's the question no man here can seem to answer 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Derinofzion(f): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Who told you our mothers that married early lived an happy life,happiness shouldn't be tied to a woman's marital status.All i can observe from this thread are bunch of confused men who dosen't know what they want and also things has changed. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Titi03(f): 9:49am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Derinofzion: LadyTianna: I disagree. Men have always known what they want and have always been able to express it freely up until recent times. We know what they want but we shame them for it, that's why they no longer say it - out of fear of being branded misogynists. We now live in a time where women can freely admit what they want in a man; (provision and resources) while men are no longer allowed to have any standards. They say they don't want fat women - oh that's body shaming! They say they like fair ladies - that's colourism! They say they want a housewife - that's oppression! They say they want a woman who can cook - oh I'm not your maid! See the problem here? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Jennycoolz(f): 9:54am On Dec 28, 2020 |
And who says I'm not happy 3 Likes |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Ikea81: 10:07am On Dec 28, 2020 |
A popular proverb say na old age ashawo dey know the value of pikin |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 11:14am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Titi03: The thing that you don't realise is that the same way there are certain men who enjoy washing their women's undies and making breakfast for them in bed is also the same way there are girls who enjoy pampering their men and taking care of their men like babies. But we're all forced by society to act differently in public. Its just a fraction of Nigerian women who are "feminists". The rest of us have nothing against them saying what they want. And many men still do it Seems you don't know what misogyny means. Its men's hatred for women like the way they do when they slut shame us, age shame us, marriage and barren shame us etc. So what excuse do you have against those ones oh ye defender of men? Modified: titi03 you see that screenshot I attached? It was created by a mature man. What he said is a fact. Where is the energy they usually display when women are raped for no fault of theirs? Why aren't they all clamouring for justice for Don Davis with that same energy? They hate us and its true. They love it when we're hurt. Obviously there'll be some angry women 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Derinofzion(f): 11:58am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Titi03:Men will be shamed for their choice of women because an average nigerian man wants A wife that is submissive to the core like our grandmothers,that obeys her husband orders even if it dosen't favour her. A war wife(a prayerful wife that will blame the devil if their husband sleeps around and abuse her physically,mentally) An independent woman that brings something to the table. A beautiful woman with sense while the man has none. They don't care about the woman's mental health and they don't care if she's happy with her being treated as a second class citizen just because of their selfish intrest. How wont they be shamed when a lot of women are tired of being a slave. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Titi03(f): 12:16pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
LadyTianna: Hmm, you are right on this one.. it's quite disappointing that men aren't fighting for Don Davis the same way women are.. I wish they would channel their energy more on things that matter tbh. I've aggressively and consistently used my relatively large platform on twitter to lend my voice to #JusticeForDonDavis and sadly I've seen more women do the same than men. But back to the topic, I tend to approach things on a level playing field - I do not support what women of this generation have turned feminism into and I don't agree that traditional roles of cooking and cleaning should be classified as "slavery". Every gender has it's own responsibilities - call me a "defender of men" all you want. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 12:24pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Titi03: Like I said in my reply before this one, not all women feel that way. You don't feel that way and neither do I...there are tons of ladies who reason the same way but are in the minority. There's nothing we can do about Nigerian feminism or misogyny tho 2 Likes |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LINTUNE(m): 12:52pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
LadyTianna:since its not expected for her to perform wive duties, let her not feel entitled to her man's money, she should also give him attention, men value attention too, finally same way the man spends on her, she should be able to reciprocate the gesture, more often...her man should be able to confide in her over certain matters, like business, family, politics, she should know how to keep her man company... |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LINTUNE(m): 12:54pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Ikea81:hmm |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by sissoko22(m): 10:12pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Patriarchy001: 2 Likes
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Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Priam: 11:00pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
LadyTianna: Funny enough, it's your fellow women that do these things more to each other than men do. |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by Priam: 11:07pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Derinofzion: When women say they are being treated like a slave, please what do they mean? |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by LadyTianna(f): 6:22am On Dec 29, 2020 |
Priam:The question is, why do it at all? Why the hate? |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by bukatyne(f): 10:19am On Jan 06, 2021 |
tobechi20: How did you judge that? |
Re: Why Women Of Nowadays Are Not Happy (pics) by bukatyne(f): 10:29am On Jan 06, 2021 |
Patriarchy001: MOST Men & women are hard wired for companionship and child bearing. If not that women have sold their birth right and offered milk for free under the guise of freedom, men wouldn't have mouth to create foolish threads. Men need marriage more: that's why it is said when a man makes money, he wants more women. When a woman makes money, she wants no man. When a wife dies, the widower married asap; a widow can stay unmarried. Instead of you to build yourselves and choose whole women, keep dragging your broken selves and complaining when you get broken women like you. 1 Like |
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